There has never been a time where work/life balance has been more challenging in aviation.  Whether in the cockpit, cabin, on the ramp, or in the shop, the pull on our mental and physical resources from every direction can make us feel hopeless. Between work schedules, social events, kids school and sports activities; keeping up the home, yard, in-laws, siblings, church.... the list of legitimate things in line for your time seems endless. 

Start with a simple premise. Your time is finite but what you can do is limitless. Try budgeting time for your spiritual life first, next for spouse, family and yourself, then work; finally prioritize all that remains. Once you've set your priorities, stick to them.  If you do the things you have to do first and those you need to do next, leaving things you'd might like to get done for last, you'll find less pressure daily.  Always remember, some things might not make the cut at all. 

Three Stooges on Saturday morning or getting the oil changed?  Always tend the priorities first!  Like doing the maintenance on vehicles rather than wishing you had.  Actions have consequences.  The TV will still be there when the chores are done.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't budget yourself some personal time. On the contrary, you are near the top of the list. Remember- "spouse, family, and yourself". Whether it's dinner out with someone special, a round of golf, bowling with your buddies, cycling through the countryside, or just reading the paper on the patio, you need time to unwind or you'll be of little value to anyone.

Take a few minutes and write down your priorities. Get them in order. Make a plan to sidestep those things that don't fit into your priority plan. Follow your plan and stick to it. Your family will love you for it, your boss will appreciate it, and most importantly, some sanity may start creeping into your everyday life at the airport.