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DCF Works to Prevent Domestic Violence Through Statewide Awareness EventsFeatured Article
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Months
Prevent Domestic Violence Through Statewide Awareness
National Domestic Violence Victim Resources
Palm Beach County Coalition for Children
Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
Understanding Domestic Violence.
Spouse/Partner Abuse Info
Domestic Violence and disabilities
Where is the line between love and control?
Love is Respect...
 
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Domestic Violence Awareness - October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Help spread awareness of this issue using your iPhone or iPod Touch by downloading the Domestic Violence Awareness App, available from the iTunes App Store



This application simulates for parents the abuse that many teens endure in their dating relationships. For just a few minutes, application users will receive text messages, emails and phone calls from a 'boyfriend' or 'girlfriend' that mimic the actual communications abused teens receive - in many cases, all day and night. Videos on such topics as privacy invasion, deleting a partner's friends on social networks and unauthorized access to a boyfriend or girlfriend's social networks teach parents about the destructive behaviors in digitally abusive relationships.



TEEN DATING ABUSE







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Everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship. You can help make that happen by raising awareness about the issue, saying something about abuse when you see it and organizing your friends to make a difference. Here are some easy ways to get started: Read more: 

 








Dating Basics

Relationships exist on a spectrum, from healthy to unhealthy to abusive -- and everywhere in between. It can be hard to determine where your relationship falls, especially if you haven't dated a lot. Explore this section to learn the basics of dating, healthy relationships and drawing the line before abuse starts. Read more: 




Is This Abuse?

Dating abuse is a pattern of destructive behaviors used to exert power and control over a dating partner. While we define dating violence as a pattern, that doesn't mean the first instance of abuse is not dating violence. It just recognizes that dating violence usually involves a series of abusive behaviors over a course of time. Warning Signs of Abuse Read more: 




Texting and Sexting

Next to talking one-on-one, texting is currently one of the most instant forms of communication. While texting might be the perfect platform to say a quick "hi," there are some things to watch out for in a textual relationship with your partner.

 

Texting Too Much

If your partner texts too much, it's not only irritating, but unnecessary. Keeping in touch with your significant other throughout the day can be thoughtful, but constant contact is probably over-doing it. Consider talking to your partner about giving you a little bit of space. Remember, if they're using texting messaging to monitor everywhere you go, that is a warning sign of abuse.  Read more: 











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Newsletter
October  2012
 

October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month

 

 Which is a time to honor victims and raise awareness about the devastating impact of domestic violence. On average, 24 people per minute are victims of rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner in the United States. Over the course of a year, that equals more than 12 million women and men.[1] Violence, abuse, and trauma touches the lives of people of all ages, leaving a devastating impact on women, men, and children of every background and circumstance. Since National DVAM began in 1981, awareness activities have focused on three main themes

 

  Read More: 


DCF Works to Prevent Domestic Violence Through Statewide Awareness Events

TALLAHASSEE-The Department of Children and Families, the Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence and our partners across the state are recognizing October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month with events across Florida.

 

DCF's Office on Domestic Violence Programs works to ensure the safety of victims of domestic violence through our primary partner, the Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence, whose core mission embraces addressing the needs of victims and families in crisis.

 

CLICK FOR FULL LIST OF EVENTS:


 

National Domestic Violence Victim Resources

 

Each year the National Domestic Violence Hotline receives more than 23,500 calls per month from victims, survivors, friends and family members, law enforcement personnel, domestic violence advocates and the general public. Caring and well-trained crisis intervention advocates provide help with safety planning assistance, referrals to local programs, and access to interpreters that speak over 170 different languages. The Hotline also provides a wide range of easy to download resources including brochures, palm cards, flyers, power & control wheels and domestic violence awareness campaign signs. To access the National Domestic Violence Hotline resource materials, click here.  

 

  1.  National Domestic Violence Hotline - 1-800-799-7233; TTY 1-800-787-3224
  2.  National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline - 1-866-331-9474; TTY 1-866-331-8453; text "loveis" to 77054; live chat at www.loveisrespect.org 
  3. National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN) - 1-800-656-4673; secure, online private chat:  https://ohl.rainn.org/online  

 

Palm Beach County Coalition for Children
 
October Meeting
Please join us at our October Meeting!
 
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
9am - 11am
Topic: Domestic Violence
 
Meetings are held at:
Boys Town South Florida (Conference Room)
3111 South Dixie Hwy., Suite 200
West Palm Beach, FL 33405
 
 
Arrive by 9am for a chance
to win a door prize!
 
 
Do not forget to wear purple on October 17th in honor of Domestic Violence Awareness.
Please wear purple, as the first step towards real change is awareness

Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence

Local Center Services



 

If you need immediate help, see the list of counties/cities listed below to locate the certified domestic violence center nearest you. By calling local 24/7 hotline number or the toll-free statewide hotline, 1-800-500-1119, you will be given information about domestic violence, safety planning, resources and referrals as well as emotional support.

All of Florida's certified domestic violence centers provide personal advocacy, shelter, safety planning, legal advocacy, children's programs and information and referrals. All services are confidential.

 

Search by county or city click HERE  

 

Understanding Domestic Violence

What is Domestic Violence
 

It is a pattern of controlling behaviors - violence or threats of violence - that one person uses to establish power over an intimate partner in order to control that partner's actions and activities. Domestic violence is not a disagreement, a marital spat, or an anger management problem. Domestic violence is abusive, disrespectful, and hurtful behaviors that one intimate partner chooses to use against the other partner.

You may be experiencing domestic violence if your partner is doing any of these or other unwanted behaviors:

  • Hurting you physically - slapping, hair pulling, strangling, hitting, kicking, grabbing, excessively squeezing or shaking, twisting your arms, burning you, or intentionally injuring you in any way
  • Using your children against you
  • Calling you names and hurting you emotionally
  • Harming your pets
  • Acting with extreme jealousy and possessiveness
  • Isolating you from family and friends
  • Threatening to commit suicide or to kill you
  • Controlling your money
  • Withholding medical help
  • Stalking you
  • Demanding sex or unwanted sex practices
  • Hiding assistive devices
  • Minimizing the destructive behavior
  • Threatening to "out" you if you are Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual or transgendered
  • Controlling you with "that certain look in his eyes" or certain gestures

 

 

SPOUSE/PARTNER ABUSE INFORMATION
SPOUSE/PARTNER ABUSE INFORMATION 

Spouse or partner abuse is  

commonly termed "domestic violence". While it is a crime that is perpetrated by both genders, it is a crime whose victims are primarily women and often children. It is a crime that annually leaves 3 to 4 million women in the United States battered by their husbands or partners. It is a crime committed every 15 seconds, according to some estimates, with a woman and possibly her children, being victimized, most often in the one place where they should feel safe...the home.

 

The battering of spouses and partners is also a public health problem in American society. It has, for far too long, gone unnoticed, been tolerated, or been given attention sporadically. Just as it took many years for the public recognition of child abuse and neglect to emerge, the recognition of spouse/partner abuse has also been a long time coming. Mounting statistics tell the severity of the problem but not what can be done to prevent it.

Today numerous organizations are working to raise public awareness about spouse/ partner violence and yet, there is still much to be done to educate society toward prevention of this most devastating form of abuse.

 

The National Council on Child Abuse and Family Violence has prepared this information as a part of its commitment to help educate the public toward the prevention of domestic violence on spouses and partners.

 

The following information about domestic violence toward spouses and partners includes: Read more: 


 

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND DISABILITIES
 
WHY IT MATTERS



Women with developmental disabilities have among the highest rates of physical, sexual and emotional violence 
perpetrated by intimate partners and family members.1 Disabled individuals are at greater risk of severe physical 
and sexual violence than non-disabled persons, and many disabled victims of violence experience multiple 
assaults.2,3 Domestic abuse victims with disabilities are often more dependent on their caretakers than victims 
without disabilities, and face many barriers to reporting abuse and seeking services.4 Victims who do report abuse 
or seek services often do not find adequate help, since many programs that serve domestic violence victims are 
not equipped or trained to offer proper care to disabled victims. 

 

Did you Know:  

- Women with disabilities had a 40% greater risk of 
  violence than women without disabilities. 

- Women with disabilities are at particular risk for 
  severe violence.

- The most common perpetrators of violence against 
  women with disabilities are their male partners. 

 

- Studies estimate that 80% of disabled women 
  have been sexually assaulted. 

- Women with disabilities are three times more likely 
  to be sexually assaulted than women without 
  disabilities. 

 

- One study showed that 47% of sexually abused 
   women with disabilities reported assaults on more 
   than ten occasions.

- Approximately 48% of substantiated cases of abuse        
  involve elder adults who are not physically able to care for  
  themselves. 

- Disabled children are more than twice as likely as 
  children without disabilities to be physically 
  abused, and almost twice as likely to be sexually 
  abused. 

 

· Virtually all women with disabilities who were 
  sexually assaulted also reported social, emotional, 
  and behavioral harm 

BARRIERS TO SEEKING SERVICES: 

- People with disabilities often lack accessible 
  services due to limited resources, lack of 
  transportation (especially in rural communities), or 
  structural limitations of service facilities. 

- Some disabled victims lack the skills or abilities 
  necessary to act independently to seek help. 
  Many disabled victims lack knowledge about 
  services. Public information and awareness 
  education are generally not distributed in Braille, 
  large print, or audio tape and do not define domestic 
  violence in ways that people with disabilities can 
  relate to. 

- Disabled victims of violence are heavily dependent 
  on their abusive primary caretakers and run the risk 
  of losing their caretaker if they report abuse. 
  Victims may experience an increased risk of being 
  institutionalized or losing their basic decision-making 
  rights if they are viewed as unable to take care of 
  themselves without the help of their abuser. 

- Disabled victims may be at greater risk for losing 
  child custody if they are viewed as being unable to 
  care for children independently from an abusive
  primary caretaker


For more information or to get help, please contact: 
The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE
or 
The National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE
 
 The Public Policy Office of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) is a national leader in the effort to create and influence Federal legislation that positively affects the lives of domestic violence victims and children. We work closely with advocates at the local, state and national level to identify the issues facing domestic violence victims, their children and the people who serve them and to develop a legislative agenda to address these issues. NCADV welcomes you to join us in our effort to end domestic violence.
 
 
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Stopping the war

Every bruise you gave me
Has become

a battle shield 

Every scar you gave me
Has regenerated

Stronger skin

You can't touch me now

Every bone broken by you

Has healed

Every tear shed for you

Has long since dried

You can't reach me now

I'm peaceful
I've stopped the war
You can't hurt me

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