How are you doing in this moment? Today? This week?
So many adults are walking around in pain, trying to
'cover it up', acting as if they are 'fine' and trying to maintain a false persona. They seem able to manage to a certain extent on the outside, but are often crying on the inside. Many cover up their sadness with anger because anger can give one a false sense of empowerment. Even though the 'rush' (adrenaline) is temporary, it feels better than being shut down which happens also.
Many people seem to be functioning on the outside at their jobs, social circles etc, but while in session with me, admit their chronic sense of low self esteem, shame, low motivation and other symptoms.
One of the most common reasons people are in pain is the wounds they still carry from their childhood as a result of verbal abuse. Verbal abuse
is anything that is said to another individual with the intention
of causing harm. In fact, (this is not talked about much), the energy
behind one's words is often as damaging as the words themselves. A mother who is jealous of her daughter doesn't have to say
a lot to cause emotional/ energetic damage. By directing hostile, negative thoughts (energy) to her child the child internalizes these transmissions of energy as negative imprints.
There is a profound connection between the negative energy coming from the mother (or father) and the feelings of shame and a sense that she is 'defective' that the child increasingly feels. She increasingly feels that there is something profoundly wrong with her or her mother wouldn't be angry.
This is a natural reaction. Children internalize everything around them, especially the vibes and words transmitted or said to them by their parents who are Gods in their eyes.
Early childhood verbal abuse is one of the most common causes of the chronic low self esteem and depression.
Don Miguel Ruiz in The Four Agreements, talks about how
strong the power of the word is. "It can be used to heal or to harm.
" It can be used like a poison that the person who hears the words takes and accepts as truth even when it isn't, especially with children because of the close instinctive relationship between parents and children.The bottom line is negative imprints settle and remain on the cellular level until they are dissolved energetically
Parents words leave imprints on their children that stay with them the rest of their lives if they are not dealt with effectively. In my work as a healer/therapist the fastest, most effective way to eliminate sub-conscious wounds is by identifying them and then clearing them energetically.
The Pechet Healing Technique does exactly this. I specialize in working with the 'below the surface' (unconscious) issues and energetically dissolve the imprints in the cellular memory.
Positive affirmations are a good tool to use to reinforce positive thoughts after
the imprints are cleared.
Everyone deserves to be spoken in ways that are loving and respectful. You can finally heal the past, break your pattern, and start to attract people who treat you in more loving ways. ARE YOU READY TO:
- Have a healthy self esteem?
- Feel good, comfortable, and at peace in your own skin?
- Have a deeper level of intimacy with yourself and others?
- Attract healthier relationships?
- Come to a place of genuine, inner peace with those who wounded you emotionally or otherwise?
If you are ready for a profound, permanent, inner change, call me now
to schedule your free 15 minute consultation or session(s) and be free finally.
Warm regards always,
Ellie Pechet, M.Ed.