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GEORGE MARGRAVE NEWSLETTER
NUMBER 16 VOLUME XIX, May 13, 2015
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USING GIFTS FOR DOWN PAYMENTS

Written by Blanche Evans 

   

In order to get into the housing market, many homebuyers are accepting gifts from family or friends in order to meet down payment requirements by lenders. In fact, as of 2012, one in five Baby Boomers has either gifted, loaned or co-signed a loan to help children or grandchildren buy their first home.

 

But along with other borrowing restrictions following the housing bust in 2008, lenders cracked down on down payment gifts, too. No longer can a homebuyer "pass the hat" to relatives and friends in order to come up with enough cash to put down on a home, whether it's a 3% minimum required for an FHA government-guaranteed loan or 20% required for a large conventional Fannie Mae or Freddie Mac-bound loan.

 

Because gifts are a gray area, lenders are requiring more documentation for down payment monies. For example, a parent may provide a few thousand dollars to an adult child to use as a down payment -- but is the money a gift or a loan? Lenders may require borrowers and gift-givers to provide a certified downpayment gift letter or to sign a affidavit.

Such affidavits must include:

 

*The amount of the gift, accompanied by a corresponding cashier's check

*The name and address of the gift-giver and relationship the gift-giver has to the homebuyer

*The purpose of the gift -- to be used only as a down payment on the subject property, complete with the property's address

*A statement confirming that the gift is not a loan, and does not need to be repaid

*Signatures of the borrower and the gift-giver

 

Because lenders require a paper trail, allowing parents to simply transfer money into the borrower's account to mix with the borrower's funds is discouraged. First, a large deposit raises the borrower's income and alters the bank statements, possibly allowing a borrower to qualify for a home that in reality is too expensive.

 

Banks also limit the size of gifts in relationship to the total down payment. For example, some loan programs require the borrower to contribute at least 3% to 5% of the down payment if the down payment is less than 20%, while other programs allow the entire down payment to be supplied by a gift.

 

If you're planning to use a gift as part or all of your down payment, ask your lender how to meet the appropriate requirements.
  
Bible Verse of the Week
And call upon me in the day of trouble;
I will deliver you, and you shall glorify me.
Psalm 50:15
  

Weathering the Storms in Your Life

 

Many years ago, I heard a story that was both amusing and amazing regarding a tornado. The person sharing the story was also the person involved in the event. She resided in an area where tornados are a fairly common occurrence. One day, while standing on her porch, she saw a tornado coming directly at her property.

 

She stood on the porch and yelled at the tornado to go away and not come onto her property. To her amazement, the storm made an abrupt right turn and moved completely away without disturbing a leaf on her trees.

 

The storms of nature and the storms in our lives are inevitable. We expect that there will be elements of nature over which we have no control. If we are prepared for elements presenting themselves in our daily lives and our lifetimes (some of which we may control), we can weather the storms.

 

Some of our personal storms are preventable because we create them through our thoughts and actions. Some of them occur in the absence of our input or control.

 

For those that are preventable, it is important that we assess how and to what extent we create these events. Often we can minimize the damage of the storms or in many cases eliminate the storms altogether.

 

But how do we do so?

  • Get a reading on how stormy or calm your life might be.
  • Determine what conditions are causing the adversities.
  • Get a barometric reading on where the storms of your life most frequently occur.
  • Create an evacuation plan outlining how you will protect yourself from creating storms by eliminating self-defeating thinking and acts.
  • Be prepared to weather the storms of your creation and take responsibility for creating them.
  • Do damage control with those who have been impacted by the tornados spawned by your hurricanes.
  • Remove yourself emotionally from the area when you are exposed to the tornados spawned from the storms created by others.
  • Create an alert plan that will warn you when the conditions are right for the creation of your own personal storm.
  • Evacuate the thinking that leads to self-created storms.
  • Strive to create calmer conditions in your life.
  • Enjoy the sunshine and good conditions in your life.

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Self-Discipline = Motivation = Success

by David H. Sandler

Self-discipline is simply self-direction toward a particular goal. And the fact is, self-discipline directed toward a goal we are genuinely motivated to achieve is not especially difficult to achieve, if we recognize in advance that struggle is necessary for any worthwhile goal. Where motivation is genuine but self-discipline nevertheless seems to falter, the reason is probably not lack of willpower or nerve, or any other terms we use to punish ourselves and sustain self-hate. Instead, the chances are strong that self-sabotage is taking place.

 

If discipline fails but we are convinced that the desire to achieve our goal is genuine, we will be wise to ask whether we may not be unwittingly subverting our aims and desires. We need to explore honestly and courageously what specific thoughts or patterns of behavior may be undermining motivation and discipline and, above all, ask why this seems to be occurring.

 

Self-discipline and motivation can only come from within. They can be aided by support from others, but they must be supported above all by self-knowledge and the desire to achieve our goals. 

  
Personal Note

For the weekend we went to Chattanooga to help Don and Mary celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary.  It was a nice affair.  We had to do a little pre-planning though.  Because, did I mention we have a new member of our family?  A doggy named Lucy.  It changes the life style somewhat.  I think it will be good though. 

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