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"Being the Flow of God's Great Good" is the theme that Fancy has explored during her talks this winter.  During this time, we will explore what it means to "BE the flow" -- not to "be IN the flow," mind you, but to "BE the flow."  There is a big difference!   Each time we will focus on one of the Seven Spiritual Practices that, when done together and consistently, open us up to being and experiencing God's Great Good.  
 
We have all been taught that forgiveness is an imperative spiritual practice.  And, it is.  This Sunday, however, we are called to take a higher look at the idea of forgiveness as we choose to live AS God. 

Sunday Service
February 7th, 9:30 am
Fancy Ruff-Wagner
The Three Tiers of Forgiveness Plus
 
Board Meeting
February 7th, after service
Fancy's Home
Contact the Board to be placed on the agenda
 
Second Saturday Community Coffeehouse
Saturday, February 13th, 6:00 - 9:30
Headliner:  Oscar Butler
Opening:  Cassette
MC:  Bill Moffatt
Sponsor:  New Mexico Music Awards

Sunday Service
February 14th, 9:30 am
Robert Spiegel
All You Need is Love

 
Music Ministry - Second Saturday Community CoffeeHouse
SSCCH
Saturday, February 13th, 6:00 - 9:30
Headliner:  Oscar Butler
Opener:  Cassette
MC:  Bill Moffatt
Sponsor:  The New Mexico Music Awards
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Join us for this great night of music and fun!


Come on down for coffee or tea, treats, and a wholesome family night in a listening room environment where new and seasoned performers can offer up their songs and stories to an attentive, all-ages audience. The House opens at 6 pm, music begins at 6:30.
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FREE! Love Offerings will be accepted.


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Support Anne-Marie!
Anne-Marie Lax  is a singer/songwriter from New Mexico.  She is a regular speaker at Unity Spiritual Center East Mountains and has been a featured performer at Second Saturday Community CoffeeHouse. Her first album
Dancing in the Light is due to be released in the next few months. It was produced and partially co-written by the phenomenally talented Katie Gill, recorded, engineered and mixed by John Wall at Wall of Sound Studios, and will be mastered by Jason Blum of Sigil Media. This collection of 12 positive and inspirational  songs, covering
 genres from rock, blues, jazz and pop take you on a spiritual journey from the ridiculous to the sublime.  It features the talents of a multitude of amazing musicians including Jazz guitarist Michael Anthony and piano virtuoso Susan Clark. It's almost complete, with only  a couple more tracks to record, then mixing, mastering, album artwork and printing, as well as advertising. Anne-Marie has funded most of the project for items such as recording and paying the musicians, out of her own pocket, but NOW, with the project so near to completion, SHE NEEDS YOUR HELP!  Your contributions will go for finishing these last few tasks, as well as promotional items such as music videos and website design.
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Inspiration from Unity
Cooking Lessons From a Dog
By Greg Barrette

Have you ever tried to simultaneously cook six pots on a stovetop in anticipation of a large holiday banquet? The challenge is to catch each one before it boils over. You find yourself moving your attention from one pot, to the other, to the next, until you are back stirring the first one. It's not a very efficient way to cook!

More than 30 years ago, I accepted a position at a church that reminded me of that image. The past four ministers had been driven out during a span of 11 months. I had arrived there on the third anniversary of its founding. I guess I just had never lived on a beach and wanted to try it out.
And, being young, I felt invincible.
Not so fast.
Soon after I had arrived, I was presented with several problems that I had never heard of before-in or out of ministerial school-or since. I was "stirring all of the pots" and saw the beach across the road from my lodgings as the perfect place to figure out each and every one.
My intellect was on overdrive as I furiously scribbled down my tangled thoughts about these many problems. Then three dogs showed up and started kicking sand onto my carefully staged beach towel/workspace. When I tried to shoo them away, the leader grabbed my reef shoe and took off with it down the beach.
The second dog took it from him and passed it along to the third. They were playing a game of doggie keep-away! Just as I caught up with one, the next one would grab it and run away and splash out into the water, or race down the beach, all the while shooting me looks of superiority and playfulness. I was offended and outraged. Being a powerful, important human, I had things to do, pots to stir, and problems to solve!
After a while, I began to laugh at my predicament and even enjoy it. Here was a problem I wasn't equipped to solve! The more we played, the more we all got into it!
I began to feel like I was one of them. The thought occurred to me, What if I really let go and became a dog? And so I looked up into the skies, threw back my head, and started howling!
All three dogs stopped dead in their tracks and stared. They didn't know what to do! One by one, they all started howling in harmony with me. It felt liberating in light of all of my current troubles. My reef shoe lay dropped and forgotten in the sand as we out-howled each other, until I found myself fully absorbed in being a dog, singing my part in a choir of howls!
After a long time passed, I remembered why I had gone to the beach. The sun was getting low in the sky. It wasn't that I was going to be late for anything, but fun's fun and work's work, and I simply must be getting back to my problem-solving and pot-stirring!
I picked up my shoe and walked back to the beach towel, ignoring the playful nips and yaps of my three new friends. When I sat down and pulled out my pen and paper, one of them grabbed the other shoe and, this time, swam out to the deepest water. I picked up the first one for safekeeping and took out after him. I will always remember the look of disappointment that dog gave me when I finally got my shoe back. It was as if he was saying with utter disgust, "You don't even have enough good sense to be a dog!"
I wish I could say I grasped the lesson that had just been handed to me by the universe, but I didn't. I unsuccessfully tried to solve each and every one of those problems for months, using my intellect. They got worse, for all my effort. It took much too long for me to finally reflect back on that day at the beach and see the light.
The hidden lesson was this: The way to deal with six pots boiling over on a stovetop is not to stir each one in turn. The answer is to turn down the heat!
That was what playing with the dogs was about. That is what they were teaching me-to open up to that playful, intuitive part of myself that could rise above the problem into the space of the solution.
Who sent those four-legged angels to me? Their arrival surely was no accident, even if it took me forever to receive the gift that they had brought me.
And so I began to focus on times of meditation, quieting my mind through nature and exercise, going on spiritual retreats, being an adventurer in my own life. These were effective ways of turning down the heat. I learned to do this the hard way, but eventually, I made sure I spent sufficient time nurturing the part of me that dwells above the pot-stirring intellect and thinks it can figure it all out. Things worked out a lot better once I did. Many of the pots (problems) were still there, but I wasn't heating them up as much with my worried mind. 
I remember reading that Mother Teresa used to require her volunteers in Calcutta to do two things. One was to meditate and pray for an hour each day. The other was to play games for a second hour.
Turning down the burners will allow us to take care of what is ours to do, with grace and ease and poise. Then we can lift up into the guiding, intuitive mind that really knows the answers.
Greg Barrette 
was born and raised in Unity. He serves on the board of trustees of the International New Thought Alliance and serves as senior minister at Unity Northwest Church in Des Plaines, Illinois. 
A Course in Miracles
Our Movie Screening of A Chorus in Miracles went very well.  After the movie there was a discussion about starting A Course In Miracles Study Group.  If you are interested in this, please email Fancy at admin@unityemtns.org.  No details have been decided and we are going to use email to set a date and time that works for all.

This is still on the To-Do list.  In the meantime, check out A Chorus in Miracles, The Musical Experience where you can get the text with music (paid item) or the Workbook with music (free item).

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ESSENTRICS
Essentrics is a unique program that rapidly changes the shape of your body through simultaneous stretching and strengthening exercises.  This workout develops strong and flexible muscles with immediate changes to your posture.  ESSENTRICS is even smarter than that - it goes beyond changing just the look of your body; it also cares about how you feel in your body.  With a combination of dynamic and fluid movements, ESSENTRICS improves circulation, promotes rehabilitation, and unlocks tight muscles.  If you want to feel energized, positive, and healthy, then ESSENTRICS is for you.  Meets at the church M/W/F from 5:30 - 6:30.  Contact Kimberly Woodring for more information (or call 575-749-0025). 

Massage Services for Members:
Licensed massage therapist Kara Skeberdis is offering massage sessions at her studio in Cedar Crest.  Hour and half hour sessions are $40/$25 for church members and friends, and $50/$30 for the general public. Please call Kara to schedule your session at 443-745-0406, or email her at shiatsu.Kara@gmail.com.  Kara has over 25 years of experience and specializes in relaxation, deep tissue and acupressure techniques.

Interfaith Social Action Opportunity @ Woods End Church
3rd Friday of each month 3:00 pm - 6:00ish
Help distribute food to the hungry in our community.  For more info, contact Eugene  (or call 286-4981).

UU Dinner & Movie Night @ Church
Third Tuesday of each month
Potluck at 6:00pm, movie at 7:00pm.
Prayer


Upray
Silent Unity
Please add the following people to your prayer/meditation practice:
(updated weekly)
  • USCEM  
  • Bud C. (healing)
  • Charles' mom (healing)
  • Anne B. (peace & comfort)
  • Deborah F. (healing & peace)
  • Anne-Marie (perfect employment)
  • Jeannette P. (healing)
  • Nathan B. (healing)
  • Tyler (guidance)
  • Anthony S. (healing)
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uPray
uPray, a free prayer app from Silent Unity, is now available.  uPray is available for Apple iOS 7.0 or later and Android 2.3.3 (Gingerbread) or later.  With the app you can submit a prayer request to Silent Unity, listen to the month's meditation and the Prayer for Protection, and read affirmations across a
broad list of topics.
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"Silent Unity. How may we pray with you?"
Do you have a prayer request? There are several ways to contact Silent Unity, the 24/7-prayer ministry:
Call
1-800-NOW-PRAY (669-7729)
International:  
01-816-969-2000
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Silent Unity, 1901 NW Blue Parkway, Unity Village, MO 64065-0001
 Or use our online prayer request form.



Support Your Spiritual Center

Community Rewards
Impact Shopping
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Smith's Community Rewards
Smith's Community Rewards makes fundraising for USCEM easy...simply by using your Smith's Rewards Card at any Smith's!  There is no cost to enroll, and enrollment will not affect your fuel points or coupon discounts.

You must have a registered Smith's Rewards Card to participate.  If you do not, you can apply for one at Customer Service.  If you don't know your number because you use your phone number at the register, you can call 800-576-4377 and select option 4.

You must link your card to USCEM online.  If you have an online account already, go to the website below, sign in, and click on your name to go to your account.  Scroll down and edit the Community Rewards section.  Enter our NPO number or our name and select us from list and click on "Enroll".

If you don't have an online account, you must click "Register" in the upper right corner on the website.  Sign up for a Smith's Rewards Account by entering your email address, creating a password.  Enter your zip code in the "Your location", then by selecting your favorite store, and agreeing to the terms and conditions.  A message to check your email inbox will appear, Check your email account, you must click on the link within the body of the email.  Click on "Sign in" located in the upper right corner and use your email address and password to proceed to the next step.  Click on your name to go to your Account.  In Account Summary click on "Edit" Rewards Card and input your Smith's rewards card number. Confirm your information. Scroll down and edit the Community Rewards section.  Enter our NPO number or our name and select us from list and click on "Enroll".


 Our NPO number:
24564
Let Your Online Shopping Support Us
Whether you shop at Amazon, Walmart.com, Itunes, or many other online retailers, your purchases can help support USCEM.

Always start on the USCEM Shopping Site.  From there you go to your favorite retailer and a percentage of your purchases will be sent to us later - at no extra cost to you.  The average amount paid to us is a little more than 5% of your purchases.

NEW INFO:  
The Reminder App is being discontinued as of July 1st.  Please UNINSTALL it if you have it (contact Fancy if you need help with this).  If you don't uninstall it, you may end up supporting other causes such as sports teams, etc.  We are looking at other ways to automate this system.

Bookmark this URL and always start here.  Then go shopping.


In 2014 we earned $96.49 through Impact Shopping.  Let's beat it in 2016!

We didn't earn anything in 2015 - probably because people weren't starting at the shopping page.  Please do this - it costs you nothing extra and is an easy habit to adopt.



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The Law of Giving and Receiving
By Ernest Holmes  
 
Everything in Nature moves in circles. What goes out must come back. Unless the seed is sown it cannot bear fruit. There must be a planting time for every harvest. Who gives all receives all. Who refuses to give, limits the possibility of the greater good returning to him.
 
Love and you will be loved. Extend joy and you will become more joyful. The ancient Talmud says, "God will doubly guide the already guided" and Jesus, the greatest of the great, said, "Give, and it shall be given unto 
you; good measure,
pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again."  (Luke 6:38)
 
We do not give because God needs the gift but because the giving increases, broadens and deepens the life of the giver. Nor shall we give from the standpoint of duty. The universe refuses to bargain with us. It already has given us everything it has. But it
also has provided that the gift of life can be received in its fullness only as it flows through us to the fullness of others.
 
How wonderful is this exact balance which God and nature keep; how perfect is the law of God and how glorious the opportunity to join with the infinite Giver in the givingness of the self to the joy of life!





Thanks for Reading!
Have a great week!

In love and gratitude,

Fancy Ruff-Wagner
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