January 16, 2014
15 Shevat 5774
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PARSHAT Yitro.
SHABBAT SHALOM
Youth and Family Activities
Learning Opportunities

Parshat Yitro

Rabbi Zalman Posner

 

If it can be said that the 
Torah has a climax, it would surely be in this week's Torah portion -- the Giving of the Torah at Sinai, the Ten Commandments. Here is a code everyone subscribes to, possibly without even reading it. "Thou shalt not kill," and "Thou shalt not steal" are for many people all the Ten Commandments, all of morality in fact. I have heard self-styled skeptics question the Divinity of the Torah, and readily affirm G-d's authorship and their personal acceptance of the Ten Commandments.

 

We aren't apt to worship graven images; we will honor father and mother; we will make earnest if occasionally imperfect attempts not to take His Name in vain; we will concede the wisdom and necessity of the Thou-shalt-nots.

 

However, an otherwise universally acceptable standard carries an unsuspected challenge -- "On the seventh day you shall not do any work." Not much leeway there; "any work" seems quite explicit. This Fourth Commandment, especially the quoted part, is either literally unknown (some think the entire commandment reads, "Remember the Shabbat day to keep it holy"!) or casually ignored.

Can there be the Ten Commandments without the Shabbat? Can there be a Shabbat without our refraining from all work, as the Torah so clearly demands? Has the Shabbat become indistinguishable from weekdays because of economic hardship, or through indifference? Have electricity and thermostatic heating and refrigerators and gas stoves made a workless Shabbat more difficult or more easy? Is a day of respite from weekday activities, a day for the mind and spirit, really out of date?

These questions are part of the great re-examination American Jewry faces. The personal decision about Torah and Jewish living cannot long be evaded. If we don't ask ourselves questions, history will.

Rabbi Zalman Posner is a veteran rabbi, serving in the field of rabbinics since 1949. He is rabbi emeritus of Congregation Sherith Israel of Nashville, Tennessee, and co-director of Chabad-Lubavitch of Nashville. 

 

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May Their Memories Be For a Blessing 

1/16/2014 (15 Shevat)         

Dr. David Eisman

1/17/2014 (16 Shevat)         

Sheila Cohen

Harry Doneson

1/18/2014 (17 Shevat)        

Sam Isaacs

Alvin Nusbaum

1/19/2014 (18 Shevat)         

Dr. Richard Reinherz

1/21/2014 (20 Shevat)         

Albert (Sam) Sklar

1/25/2014 (24 Shevat)         

Betty Crone

1/27/2014 (26 Shevat)         Joseph Langnas

1/28/2014 (27 Shevat)        

Isaac Faxstein

 

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SHABBAT SHALOM!
Shabbat Yitro
Friday, January 17th
6 p.m. Kabbalat Shabbat/Maariv, Chapel
Saturday, January 18th
9 a.m. Services, Sanctuary
10 a.m. Supervised Youth Activities, Room 3 for ages 12 and under.
Kiddush Lunch is sponsored by Paula and Lou Glazier in honor of the birthdays of their grandsons, Benji and Kobi Schmeltz.  Happy 10th Birthday Benji!  Happy 5th Birthday Kobi!
 
SHABBAT SHIUR FUTURE DATES: 1/25, 2/22, 3/29, 5/10, 6/21. SHABBAT SHIURIM ARE IN THE CHAPEL AFTER THE CONCLUSION OF LUNCH AND PRIOR TO MINHA.
*Kiddush Lunch is available through the generosity of weekly sponsors.  Please e-mail or call the synagogue office if you would like to sponsor a kiddush lunch.  You may also make a donation to the synagogue specifically for the Kiddush Lunch Fund by clicking here.
 
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CONDOLENCES memorial candle
To Richard and Lois Wonboy on the death this past week of Richard's father, Louis Wonboy.  Lou Wonboy was a life-long member of B'nai Israel.  He will be missed by all of us.  May his memory always be a blessing.
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Sunday, January 19th United we Walk
20th United We Walk/United We Remember Celebration
West Bloomfield High School
Events begin at 3 p.m. with the walk, and conclude at 5:30 with a community dinner.  Guest Speaker:  Carolyn Gifford. Click here to view flyer and complete program information
Upcoming Youth and Family Activities
FAMILY CAMP 2014 MARCH 21st-23rd
Registration available first week in January.  Priority Registration for BI and TKA members and $100.00 off if form and payment are received by January 24th.  First come, first served. 
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Family Night at Minyan, last Sunday of the month.  
Bring your family to help make minyan at 5 p.m. and enjoy pizza dinner in the social hall following services.  MARK YOUR CALENDAR:  1/26, 2/23, 3/9 (we will assemble Mishloach Manot for BI seniors), 4/27, 6/1
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Upcoming Shabbat Youth Activities 

SHABBAT CHILDREN'S WORKSHOP DATES for youth ages 7-12. 30 minutes of tefilla and parsha fun. 

11-11:45 a.m., ROOM 9
JANUARY 25TH,  FEBRUARY 1ST, MARCH 1ST,  APRIL 5th, MAY 3 (10:30 A.M.)   JUNE 7 YOUTH SHABBAT
SHABBAT TEEN ACTIVITIES hot cocoa2

D'VAR TORAH COCOA CAFE for ages 13-17, 

11:00-11:45 a.m., Social Hall 

Listen to the D'var Torah in the main sanctuary, then give your take over cocoa and cider.  Kiddush lunch following, with Spirited singing and Birkat Hamazon led by teens.

e-mail teens@bnaiisraelwb.org for more information.

FUTURE DATES:
JANUARY 25TH, FEBRUARY 1ST, MARCH 1ST, APRIL 5TH, MAY 3RD
 
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SHABBAT ACTIVITIES FOR CHILDREN AGES 3-5 
11 a.m. January 25th, Room 3 
Sing Shabbat Songs, hear Shabbat Stories, have special Shabbat treats with Robin Pappas, director of Hillel Day School Early Childhood Center, and Barbara Dworin, teacher, Hillel Day School Early Childhood Center.  
To stay current on all youth and family activities, contact Ilana Glazier to join the B'nai Israel Families Facebook Group.
Upcoming TKA/BI Joint Opportunities
TKA Sisterhood Event 
TKA DIA event
DIA:  The Woman with a Thousand Faces
Wednesday, January 22, 2014, 7 p.m. at TKA
Join DIA volunteer Boyd Chapin for a look at women in art, the meaning behind the images of these women as sign in the DIA's 
collection. There is no charge for this event.  all are welcome. Click here for event flyer
 
 
SOUTH OAKLAND SHELTER  SOS logo
HOUSING OF GUESTS AT TKA/BI, 
MARCH 23-30, 2014
TKA will once again be housing guests for one week from South Oakland Shelter.  There are many ways to get involved and help. Everyone's help is needed!  Chuck Seigerman and Steve Dines are the BI point people for this. Click here to sign up online or e-mail Steve or Chuck with any questions.
Learning Opportunities  
Adult Education
Developing Your Character Through Mussar
Monday evening, January 20th 7-8:30 p.m.. TKA/BI Room 2
Tuesday January 28th (6:30-8 p.m.)
Monday, February 3rd, 7-8:30 p.m., TKA/BI Room 2
Join Rabbi Robbins and explore Mussar, the ancient Jewish practice of self-examination and character development through the prism of Biblical exemplars and rabbinic texts.  Delve into traits such as humility, patience and gratitude. 
$36.00 for the series/$18.00 for individual session.  
 
Sunday Morning, January 26th
10 a.m., following minyan breakfast, Chapel
Learning Session with Rabbi Jason Rubenstein: "The Past that Lives On:  Memory as Redemption in an Age of Forgetting"  All are welcome.  There is no charge to attend.
Rabbi Rubenstein is Dean of Students, Yeshivat Hadar. click here for a bio on Rabbi Rubenstein and more information on Mechon Hadar
 
"Reflections on the Siddur," with Dr. Mitch Parker
Saturdays, 11-11:45 a.m.
January 25     February 8 and 22     March 8 and 22    
April 12 and 26    May 10 and 24    June 7 and 21
Mitch will focus on Ashrei, Aleinu, the Kaddish, Adon Olam, Yigdal, Hallel and Birkat Hamazon. 
Class meets in the lower level, Room 9.

Are you interested in learning to chant haftarah, read Torah or lead services?  
Please 
 to let us know your interest. Classes/one-on-one tutoring opportunities will be formed based on interest generated. 
Do you or your post-adult children have a special Haftarah or Torah reading that you have previously read or would like to read again? 
Please e-mail the synagogue to be included in scheduling.

Lunch and Learn Series 
with Hillel Buechler, Ramah Fellow lunch and learn
First Tuesday of every month
Next session:  12:15 p.m., February 5th
Meet at Barnes and Noble on Orchard Lake Road Bring your own lunch.  There is no charge to attend.   Future Dates: March 5th, April 9th.  Please e-mail Hillel Buechler if you plan to attend.

Shabbat Shiur Series
Shabbat Afternoons, last Saturday of the month following lunch and prior to minha. Shiur (class) will meet in the chapel.  All our welcome.  There is no charge to attend.
Future Dates: January 25th (Hillel Buechler, Ramah Fellow -- "Keva and Kavvanah: How Important is Intentionality in Prayer?"), February 22nd. Click here for schedule and list of presenters.
Mazel Tov 
Happy Birthday!

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JANUARY BIRTHDAYS 

18  Udi Kapen

18  Benjamin Schmeltz

21  Gail Beale

21  Susan Feber

23  David Hundiak

25  Itzhak Elrom

26  Lois Wonboy

28  Amnon Reiter

29  David Chudnow

31  Robin Pappas

 

JANUARY ANNIVERSARIES

Jewish Wedding

 

15 Marvin & Edith Kozlowski

18 Ofer & Julie Ohana

23 Mark and Elaine Segal

If your birthday or anniversary information is not listed, please email the synagogue so we can update our records.