October 31, 2013
 27 Cheshvan 5774
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PARSHAT TOLDOT
Tikkun Olam and Sisterhood
SHABBAT SHALOM
Youth and Family Activities
Learning Opportunities

PARSHAT TOLDOT

 Dr. Eliezer Diamond

 

This week's Torah portion contains an ambiguity that is rarely noted, and yet it is crucial to how we understand the contest between Rebecca and Isaac. When Rebecca experiences the as yet unborn children struggling, indeed almost crushing each other, she goes "to seek God"-whatever that may mean. She is told that two nations will emerge from her womb, two nations that will contend with each other and, the divine response concludes, "ve-ravya'avodza'ir."

This last phrase is normally translated as, "The elder son shall serve the younger." Indeed, Nahum Sarna suggests that this episode is crucial to legitimating Jacob's claim to the birthright. Although deception was employed to win the prize, Jacob's entitlement to the patrimony had already been foreordained by God.

However, another reading is possible. As Sarna notes, the answer to Rebecca is oracular in form and content. The Bible scholar Yair Zakovich has pointed out that there are a number of oracles in Tanakh. Think, for example, of Balaam's prophecies concerning the "end of days." Oracles are frequently ambiguous; again, the opacity of Balaam's final speech supplies us with a perfect example. Scholars have generally concluded that many of the Delphic oracles were equivocal, although that view has been challenged recently by Hugh Bowden.

It is against this background that I suggest we read Rebecca's oracle as inherently ambiguous. Let's return to the phrase "ve-ravya'avodza'ir." Were the word et to precede za'ir, it would indicate that za'ir is the object of the phrase. Et is in fact absent, opening up the possibility of identifying subject and object conversely. As a result, the verse would read "ve-rav (and the elder,) ya'avodza'ir (the younger shall serve)." Which, then, was the true meaning of the oracle? Perhaps it had no definite connotation; the "true" meaning was to be determined by human initiative.

If this reading is correct, we must ask what the point of the oracle was if it was not a straightforward proclamation of things to come. Perhaps the ambiguity of the oracle is exactly what was necessary because it was intended precisely to apprise Rebecca of the importance of her actions. The oracle indicated that there was no fated outcome to the struggle between Jacob and Esau. God may have intended the eventual outcome, but it could come about only through the volitional acts of human beings.

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May Their Memories Be For a Blessing 

October Yahrtzeits

10/31/2013 (27 Heshvan)

Linda Kozlowski

NOVEMBER YAHRTZEITS

11/1/2013 (28 Heshvan)

Ethel Berman
11/2/2013 (29 Heshvan)
Harry Golob
11/3/2013 (30 Heshvan)
Pearl Klein
11/4/2013 (1 Kislev)
Beatrice Leaderman
11/6/2013 (3 Kislev)
Randy Kohn
Rayetta Soverinsky
11/7/2013 (4 Kislev)
Frank Herman Basch
11/10/2013 (7 Kislev)
Jean Chitkin
Dr. William Klein
11/11/2013 (8 Kislev)
Dr. Sheldon Kapen
11/14/2013 (11 Kislev)
Yosef Duer
Jacob Garnick
Dr. Harold Margolis
Harold Joseph Samuels
Frank Skolnik
11/15/2013 (12 Kislev)
Hyman M. Beale
11/16/2013 (13 Kislev)
Howard Lazarus
11/17/2013 (14 Kislev)
Irwin Lewis
11/18/2013 (15 Kislev)
Shirley Lauterstein Taub
11/19/2013 (16 Kislev)
Helen Funk
11/20/2013 (17 Kislev)
Maurice Schlussel
11/21/2013 (18 Kislev)
Ruth Finkelstein
11/22/2013 (19 Kislev)
Robert Friedman
Albert W. Handler
Libbie Schlussel
11/24/2013 (21 Kislev)
Sara Burbank
11/27/2013 (24 Kislev)
Megan Lewis Graub
11/29/2013 (26 Kislev)
Dr. David Benjamin Levy
11/30/2013 (27 Kislev)

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Friday, November 1st
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Saturday, November 2nd
 9 a.m. Services, Sanctuary
10 a.m., Youth Room for ages 12 and under.
Kiddush Lunch today is sponsored by Alissa Citron and Jeffrey Lupovitch in honor of Ezra Lupovitch's birthday.  Happy Birthday Ezra!
SHABBAT SHIUR FUTURE DATES
11/29, 12/28, 1/25, 2/22, 3/29, 5/10, 6/21. 
 
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NEXT SHABBAT:
MUSICAL SHABBAT WITH LEE EPSTEIN
NOVEMBER 8TH AND 9TH. musical notes
SHABBAT DINNER AND SPECIAL PROGRAMMING FRIDAY NIGHT AND SATURDAY MORNING.  All are welcome. Click here for event flyer.
 
MAZEL TOV
To Karen Gordon for receiving the Pillar of Excellence Award from the Michigan Jewish Sports Hall of Fame.
  
Upcoming Youth and Family Activities
Upcoming Shabbat Youth Activities 

Today:

Supervised Youth Activities,  Room 3, lower level 

Shabbat mornings, 10-11:45 a.m. for ages 12 and under

SHABBAT CHILDREN'S WORKSHOP DATES for youth ages 7-12.  Join our special, talented educators for 30 minutes of tefilla and parsha fun. 11-11:30, ROOM 9

NOVEMBER 9TH with Hillel Buechler, Ramah Fellow and Lee Epstein, guest artist and educator
DECEMBER 14TH with Rabbi Berger
JANUARY 11TH with Michael Wolf
JANUARY 25TH with Hillel Buechler
FEBRUARY 1ST with Rabbi Robbins
MARCH 1ST with Rabbi Berger
APRIL 5th with Michael Wolf
MAY 3 (10:30 A.M.) with Hillel Buechler
JUNE 7 YOUTH SHABBAT
To stay current on all youth and family activities, contact Ilana Glazier to join the B'nai Israel Families Facebook Group.

 

SHABBAT TEEN ACTIVITIES  hot cocoa2

D'VAR TORAH COCOA CAFE, for ages 13-17,11:00-11:45 a.m., Social Hall

Listen to the D'var Torah in the main sanctuary, then give your take over cocoa and cider.  Kiddush lunch following, with Spirited singing and Birkat Hamazon led by teens. e-mail teens@bnaiisraelwb.org for more information.

DATES:  
NOVEMBER 9TH, DECEMBER 14TH, JANUARY 11TH, JANUARY 25TH, FEBRUARY 1ST, MARCH 1ST, APRIL 5TH, MAY 3RD
 
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SHABBAT ACTIVITIES FOR CHILDREN AGES 3-5 COMING SOON!
 

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American Idol B'nai Israel Synagogue Style
Talent Show featuring B'nai Israel Youth Ages 3-18
Saturday, December 14th
6:45 p.m. Havdalah, 7 p.m. Show
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TEEN MISSION 2014TEEN MISSION 2014

JULY 1-AUGUST 1

2013-14 Grades 9-12 are eligible.

Registration begins September 23rd.

Questions?  Contact Danielle S. Longo longo@jfmd.org or call 

248-203-1467

 

USY Summer Programs

USY Summer Programs Registration is now open.  9-12 Graders eligible.

Programs include USY on Wheels, Mitzvah Missions, Israel Adventures, Italy/Israel Pilgrimage, Israel/Poland Seminar, Eastern Europe/Israel Pilgrimage.  

Visit www.usy.org/escape/apply for more information and to download an application.

Learning Opportunities   
Adult Education
"Reflections on the Siddur," with Dr. Mitch Parker
Saturdays, 11-11:45 a.m.
November 9, 23     December 7, 14
Mitch will focus on Ashrei, Aleinu, the Kaddish, Adon Olam, Yigdal, Hallel and Birkat Hamazon. 
Class meets in the lower level, Room 9.

Shabbat Shiur Series
Shabbat Afternoons, last Saturday of the month following lunch and prior to minha.  Shiur (class) will meet in the chapel.  All our welcome.  There is no charge to attend.
Future Dates:  November 30, December 28, January 25th, February 22nd.  Guest teachers include Joel Goldstein, Rabbi Norman Roman, Hillel Buechler, Jeff Lasday (Alliance for Jewish Education), Steve Freedman, and Michael Wolf.
Mazel Tov 
Happy Birthday!

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October Birthdays 

31 Benjamin Chudnow

31 Yael Duer

 

 

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS

 2 Ezra Lupovitch
 4 Amy Robbins
 5 Debra Singer
11 Nathan Gittleman
13 Lorne Newhouse
14 Joshua Jacobson
19 Gail Kaye
19 Martin Kurland
19 Shelli Orzach
20 Robert Kimmel
21 Adele Band
22 Belmont Kershenbaum
26 Jerry Knoppow
26 Kayla Pappas

Jewish Wedding

October Anniversaries                          

29 Ehud & Debi Kapen 

NOVEMBER ANNIVERSARIES

 7  Brian & Roxane Newhouse
14 Dave Hundiak & Fran Stark-Hundiak
20 Larry & Elyn Charlupski
26 Miles & Debra Singer
30 Michael & Betsy Wolf
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November 5th,  December 4th, January 7th
 
DIVAS ON THE BIMAH
MONDAY, NOVEMBER 4TH
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Enjoy an evening of popular Broadway, Israeli and Jewish Music.  There is a charge for this event. Click here for event flyer and further details.

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