October 3, 2013
 29 Tishrei 5774
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In This Issue
Tikkun Olam and Sisterhood
Youth and Family Activities
Learning Opportunities


Rabbi Melissa Crespy


Striking me, on this year's reading of Parashat No·ah, were the two following verses: God caused a wind to blow across the earth, and the waters subsided (Genesis 8:1), and But the dove could not find a resting place for its foot (v'lo matz'ah ha-yonah manoah), and returned to him to the ark, for there was water over all the earth (Genesis 8:9). On the first verse, the Etz Hayim Humash comments: "As the waters symbolize chaos and the undoing of Creation, so the movement of the wind forecasts the return of order." (p. 45) And of course we know that a few verses later, the dove sent out for a third time does not return. The dove has found a resting place on earth, and order has begun its return.


Each year, it seems to me, as we broaden our life experience, we see things in the Torah that had not touched us beforehand. This year, the juxtaposition of the chaos of the Flood, and the order that begins as the waters subside, struck me particularly because there is a good deal of chaos in my life at the moment - and the "ordered" moments in my life are to be treasured. As I thought about the dove in the verse, and the moments that bring me peace, I couldn't help but think of the Shabbat zemer, "Yom Shabbaton". In this special song sung at the Shabbat table, the refrain takes its wording right from our verse 9 above and says: "The day of rest should not be forgotten, its memory is like a satisfying aroma. On it the dove found rest (yonah matz'ah vo manoah), and on it shall rest exhausted ones."


The people Israel is often symbolized by the dove (see Song of Songs 2:14), and the dove in the No·ah story found rest on the "seventh day". Though the seventh day in the No·ah narrative may not be Shabbat - the seventh day of our week - the composer of the zemer intimates that the people Israel (the dove) have always found rest on Shabbat. The zemer is a catchy one - filled with rhyming verses, love for Shabbat, and remembrances of God's covenant with No·ah and with us. It's no wonder that it is a popular Shabbat table song. 


But the deeper meaning of the zemer and its allusions touched me profoundly this year, because it speaks of a weary people, a people in chaos - the Israelite nation as a whole, and the individuals who make it up - and it teaches us that there is an antidote to this chaos - if only for a weekly 25-hour period. The order, the lack of pressure, the peace, and the inner calm which many of us seek is to be found in God's special gift to us - Shabbat. When we make the effort to prepare for it, when we set it aside as a day when we stop "wrestling with the world" - as Rabbi A. J. Heschel tells us - and instead "care for the seed of eternity planted in the soul" (The Sabbath, p. 13), we can find a haven from the chaos of the world. 


Shabbat at its greatest can be sublime; for me - and I suspect for many of us busy, harried people - it is essential for restoring a sense of balance, a sense of order and a sense of peace.

Shabbat Shalom.



These words of Torah were taken from The JTS Torah Commentary archive: 
May Their Memories Be For a Blessing 

October Yahrtzeits

10/3/2013 (29 Tishrei)

Milt Fishman

10/4/2013 (30 Tishrei)

Isaac Knoppow

Anna Murray

10/5/2013 (1 Heshvan)

Alfred Benkoff, 

Aaron Soverinsky

10/6/2013 (2 Heshvan)

Sam Thomas Balkin

Edith Rosenberg

10/7/2013 (3 Heshvan)

Renee Rochlin

10/8/2013 (4 Heshvan)

George Kohn

10/9/2013 (5 Heshvan)

Harry Handler

10/10/2013 (6 Heshvan)

Marilyn Breitman

10/11/2013 (7 Heshvan)

Martha Faxstein

10/14/2013 (10 Heshvan)

Morris Lantor

10/15/2013 (11 Heshvan)

Jerome Lipowica

Arthur Aaron Lovinger

10/16/2013 (12 Heshvan)

Kayla Kapen

Philip Dines

Joseph Irving FriedmanGertrude Nusholtz

10/21/2013 (17 Heshvan)

Manny Chudnow

10/23/2013 (19 Heshvan)

David Harris

10/24/2013 (20 Heshvan)

Naomi Lillian Markowitz

Irving A. Rubin

Martin Segal

10/25/2013 (21 Heshvan)

Nathan Weiner

10/26/2013 (22 Heshvan)

Serena Weiss

10/28/2013 (24 Heshvan)

Mary Katz

Robert Braverman

Alvin Jacobson

10/29/2013 (25 Heshvan)

Fara Caplan Baer

10/31/2013 (27 Heshvan)

Mrs. Linda Kozlowski

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The Kapen Family: 
Unveiling for Dr. Sheldon Kapen will take place 
11 a.m., Sunday October 6th at Clover Hill Park Cemetery.



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Shabbat Noach
Friday, October 4thShabbat Table
6 p.m. Minha/Kabbalat Shabbat/Maariv, Chapel
Saturday, October 5th
9 a.m. Services, CHAPEL.
10 a.m., Youth Room for ages 12 and under.
11 a.m. "Reflections on the Siddur" with Dr. Mitch Parker, Lower level.  All are welcome.
Next Shabbat, October 12th,  we will celebrate the bar mitzvah of Sammy Saperstein, son of Susan Knoppow and David Saperstein, and brother of Miriam and Josh.  Sammy is also the grandson of Sharon and Jerry Knoppow and Lynda and Dr. Stanley Saperstein.  Mazel Tov!
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To our good friend Rabbi Eric Yanoff who will be awarded the "Guardian of Israel Award" at the Greater Philadelphia District ZOA Gala Dinner on October 9th in Philadelphia.

Tikkun Olam
          Repair the World  
One of the outcomes of the September 16th meeting of our Sisterhood was members stepping up to chair additional committees and volunteer opportunities for our synagogue.  those opportunities will be listed here.  Additional ideas and volunteers are always welcome.  Contact Betsy Wolf, 248-207-0408.

Prepare and serve dinner to families staying at Ronald McDonald House while their children receive treatment and care at Children's Hospital.  This is a family friendly activity. Please e-mail Davida (DeDe) Robinson if you wish to participate in this mitzvah.  Available dates:  
     October 13, November 10th, December 8th.

Tools to Teach Your Students to Love Learning
For new and Veteran Volunteers
Friday, October 4th, 10 a.m.-noon
West Bloomfield Public Library Meeting Room
Light breakfast/no charge.  Space is limited. Contact Linda Foster or call 248-642-2656
Sponsored by the Jewish Community Relations Council, Detroit Jewish Colation for Literacy, Repair the World and Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit
MITZVAH DAY 2013:  December 25th
B'nai Israel Sisterhood is blooming with ideas to make our synagogue and community even better!  Please join us at our next meeting: 
We will continue planning events and elect officers.

BOOK CLUB NIGHT at the Book Fair.
Monday, November 11th, 7:30 p.m.
West Bloomfield JCC
B'nai Israel Sisterhood plans to attend this event, when author Elizabeth L. Silver will discuss her book:  The Execution of Noa P. Singleton.
Click here for registration form or contact the Book Fair office for more information:  248-432-5442.
Upcoming Youth and Family Activities
Upcoming Shabbat Youth Activities 

Supervised Youth Activities,  Room 3, lower level 

       provided for ages 12 and under

Shabbat mornings, 10-11:45 a.m. 

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2013-14 Grades 9-12 are eligible.

Registration begins September 23rd.

Questions?  Contact Danielle S. Longo longo@jfmd.org or call 




USY Summer Programs

USY Summer Programs Registration is now open.  9-12 Graders eligible.

Programs include USY on Wheels, Mitzvah Missions, Israel Adventures, Italy/Israel Pilgrimage, Israel/Poland Seminar, Eastern Europe/Israel Pilgrimage.  

Visit www.usy.org/escape/apply for more information and to download an application.

Upcoming Community Events
and TKA/BI Joint Opportunities

An Evening or Conversation and Song with Peter Yarrow (of Peter, Paul and Mary)
Sunday, October 6th, Temple Kol Ami
Doors open 6p.m., Show begins 7 p.m.
Tickets:  $36.00 ($20.00 ages 13 and under)
$100.00 tickets include exclusive Meet and Greet with Peter Yarrow 5:30-6:30 and reserved seating. Buy tickets online: http://miipl.kintera.org/PeterYarrow or call Robin: 248-851-0463. Sponsored by the Michigan Interfaith Power and Light and Temple Kol Ami in support of Sustainability and Faith.
Learning Opportunities   
Adult Education
"Reflections on the Siddur," with Dr. Mitch Parker
Saturdays, 11-11:45 a.m.
October 5, 19      November 9, 23     December 7, 14
Mitch will focus on Ashrei, Aleinu, the Kaddish, Adon Olam, Yigdal, Hallel and Birkat Hamazon. 
Class meets in the lower level, Room 9.

Additional Adult Education Information to be announced in October.  Please check this space for future learning opportunities.

Caring Community Information

Refuah Sh'leimah/Wishing a Speedy Recovery.  THE MISHEBEIRACH LIST IS BEING RESET.  PLEASE E-MAIL NAMES YOU WISH TO BE ON THE LIST BY FRIDAY, OCTOBER 4TH.  Please e-mail Michael Golob or call the synagogue: 248-432-2729 to add a name to our communal mishebeirach list. 

Congregant looking for a ride to services 
West Bloomfield congregant is looking for a ride to morning or evening minyan and/or Shabbat services.  Please contact Rabbi Robbins at (610) 574-5179 or  rabbi@bnaiisraelwb.org. Thank you.
Mazel Tov 
Happy Birthday!

Birthday Cake

October Birthdays

  4 Ilene Miles

  4 Emilie Weingarden

  5 Beth Avadenka     

11 Jonah Wolf                                                          

12 Naomi Reiter

15 Erin Graub

16 C. Michael Graub

16 Roxane Newhouse

16 Jordan Weiss

17 Lenny Jacobson

18 Steve Kaufman

19 Kenneth Brown

19 Ruth Kozlowski                                                             

20 Adam Marcotte

21 Annie Jacobson

23 Jerome Beale

23 Carrie Roth

24 Steven Dines

25 Ruby Robinson

26 Stacy Gittleman

28 Edith Wolok

29 Libby Beider

29 Adina Robbins

30 Philip Epstein

31 Benjamin Chudnow

31 Yael Duer

Jewish Wedding

October Anniversaries

10 Michael & Marybeth Rosen                     

13 Howard & Karen Rosenberg             

14 Arnie & Cheryl Berlin             

18 Jordan & Inez Stevenson                                    

22 Warren & Sandy Lada

29 Ehud & Debi Kapen

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