January 2015

A Surprise Reward

The life of a mental health therapist can be challenging.  It is emotionally demanding at times and always rewarding. After a client "graduates" the therapist rarely hears about the long-term impact of their time together.

Deborah has counseled hundreds of people over the years. 
She's sat with children and adults who have endured domestic abuse, sexual assault, violent crime and many other traumatic events.  Over a number of weeks, clients learn the skills they need to overcome the trauma they've endured.  The process helps them to find the internal strength they'll use to lead an empowered life.

Such was the case with Carol when she came to Corbett Trauma Center for counseling.  Even before Carol admitted to being physically and verbally abused by her husband, Deborah could see the bruises on her arms and legs and knew something was terribly wrong. When Carol asked Deborah "What can I do to make him stop?", Deborah knew Carol was in as much emotional as physical pain.

Deborah immediately worked with Carol to help her understand that she was a victim and not responsible for the abuse she was experiencing.  During several weeks of counseling, Carol found her strength and her voice.  Near the end of her therapy, she let Deborah know that she was planning to get out of the abusive relationship and start a new life in another city.

A year passed and Deborah decided to take some time to visit an old friend in Jacksonville.  They were enjoying the weekend and thought it would be fun to visit some local shops.  Deborah was browsing the merchandise in a small candle store when someone slid up beside her and whispered, "You saved my life."

Deborah turned and saw Carol smile slightly as she turned and quickly walked away.  Deborah's first impulse was to try to talk with Carol, but her professional instincts kicked in and she knew Carol wanted to retain anonymity.

The life of a mental health therapist can be challenging, but every now and then they are able to catch a glimpse of a life changed and a heart healed. Donors help make the work of the Crisis Center possible.  Thank you for being part of a team that delivers  help, hope and healing when people need it most!