Dichos y Dichos
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It's been said that sometimes the most brilliant ideas are often the simplest.  Over the next three weeks I will be discussing three simple questions you must ask yourself.  Use this formula the next time you feel stuck - whether you are trying to change your career, your company or your personal life - I promise you it will work!

 

First question you need to ask yourself is:  What is the outcome I want?  Too often people get stuck in the moment of a situation they don't like.  They unwittingly wind up playing the helpless victim and victims can't innovate because they are focused on the problem - not solutions.   You will hear them talk  about their situation and how things aren't fair, who has wronged them and they look for encouragement or excuses to feel better about their status quo.  While this might make them feel good, being energized by problems is a recipe for inaction!

 

Asking the question, "What is the outcome I want?"  forces the mind to focus on the final destination, not the current bumps in the road. The brilliance of this question is that it immediately puts you in the "creator" mindset!  And, once successful people envision the destination, they move quickly to the second question, which I will discuss in the next newsletter.


Gracias, 

John A. Flores, MBA - Author 

Weekly "Dicho con Café" 

"No sabemos lo que vale el agua hasta que se seca el pozo"
 
The author's translation is:
"We don't know the value of water 
until the well runs dry"
 

 

What this means is that we don't appreciate something until we don't have it any more.  This can apply to many things in life including family, when that special person is no longer around and we wish we had visited or had one more conversation with them, or friends who for one reason or another didn't keep in touch.  This is also true of many other things in life that we no longer have.  Og Mandino once said that "Your greatest joys will one day be your greatest sorrows and your greatest sorrows at one time were your greatest joys!"  In other words, learn to appreciate what you have and let other know that you appreciate whatever they have to offer even if it's just friendship.

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More About John A. Flores

 

As a youth living on a farm outside of Madera, California,

Mr. Flores didn't have the luxury of having high-school friends living nearby, so he could toss a baseball or football around with someone his age.  His sole playmate was his sister, who was a year-and-a-half younger.  While there are girls who can toss a baseball or football, his sister wasn't a natural athlete, so practicing with her didn't help him very much in developing his skills, as he had to stand close to her to catch her erratic throws or step back so that he could launch a baseball or long football pass which she never caught!  Nonetheless, Mr. Flores went out for football in high school, and he made the football team as a quarterback!  He also became his school's handball champion even though he could only use the handball courts during school hours, since he lived on a farm miles outside of town, and work was the rule of life after school ended for the day, as well as on the weekends.  He went on to Fresno State where he made the college team as a quarterback, and was a backup to a very talented person that the new coach brought along with him from Illinois.  It was a fun experience and he enjoyed seeing some of his teammates going on to play professional football, and Mr. Flores has remained a sports enthusiast over the years and enjoys the three major sports of football, basketball and baseball, which he watches when he has an opportunity.
Dichos Seminars/Presentations  
 
When he's not writing books, Mr. Flores makes presentations to local, regional and national groups, using dichos to motivate his audiences. You can contact him for speaking engagements at (559) 456-0128 or you can click here to email him personally!

Thank you...
 
I hope that in the coming weeks and months you continue to enjoy this very rich part of our culture which not only has humor, but also provides sound advice as it has to many generation before you.
 
Gracias,
John A. Flores, MBA 
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