null

Today's Stimuli

September 16, 2013

DOING THE WORK

GUIDANCE, HEALING
AND DIRECTION
  
     
This week we will be working on personal growth, healing and evolution.  


  null
             
  
CALLING IN
THE GOOD
   

Using a sheet of lined paper, complete each of the following statements 3 times (a total of 9 statements daily) calling in the healing, direction and guidance you desire to experience.

 

Dear God:

 

Today, I ask for and open myself for you to heal me of _____________

 

Today, I ask for and open myself for you to teach me how

 

Today, I ask for and open myself to be more _______________


null  

  

In the spiritual perspective a boundary is a demonstration of self-respect and respect for others. A boundary is a structure, expectation, request or system put in place to define, prescribe, limit or exclude behavior, people, experiences, and or internal or external intrusions. A boundary makes and keeps us aware of how far we can go and how much we can do with and for an individual. It also makes us aware of what we can expect from and for another.
_______________________________

The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves. We need to be able to tell other people when they are acting in ways that are not acceptable to us. A first step is starting to know that we have a right to protect and defend ourselves. We have not only the right but the duty to take responsibility for how we allow others to treat us.

________________________

 

It is impossible to have a healthy relationship with someone who has no boundaries, with someone who cannot communicate directly and honestly. Learning how to set boundaries is a necessary step in learning to be a friend to ourselves. It is our responsibility to take care of ourselves - to protect ourselves when it is necessary.
______________________________

A process to establish and/or maintain boundaries:

 

1. Inform others that the boundary exists and inform them when they have violated it.

2. Identify the properties of your boundaries (what are the definitions and parameters).

3. Create a consistent means of broadcasting the presence of the boundaries.

4. Instruct others as to how the boundary operates.

5. Remain aware of the process/action required to maintain the boundaries.

6. Inform others of the consequences of violating a boundary.

7. Warn others when they have or are about to violate the lines of a boundary.

8. Immediately activate the consequences when a boundary has been violated.

9. Be willing to forgive when a boundary is innocently or unknowingly violated.

10. Be willing to surrender the relationship for repeated violations of the boundaries.

11. Determine through practical experience whether or not the boundaries serve the intention for which they have been established.

 

Inner Visions Institute 

More information on
Spiritual Principles
 
null        
CHOOSING AN ABUNDANT LIFE    
   

Dear God,  

 

I know that You are the abundance that fills the earth. You are in the chirp of the many birds that awaken me each morning and the aroma of the fresh ripe fruits that fills the air. I find You in the constant flow of unconditional love that continues to bring forth more in life for us to choose from.  

 

I acknowledge that unconditional love surrounds me and opens me up to the abundance before me. I am able to see and choose from the multitude of options in creating the life that I desire. Life is about making choices that result in the desires of my heart. I choose only those words, actions and deeds that fill and grow my heart for I know that here is where You reside.

 

I am grateful to know and understand that life is on my side. I am thankful that LOVE resides within me and that I choose from this place the abundant and prosperous life that is rightfully mine. It is in the consciousness of gratitude that I receive my full and blessed life.  

 

I let it be and so it is!  

 

Reverend Rhonda Jones

null  

 
     

I easily set boundaries with my

friends and acquaintances.

 

 

I recognize my personal boundaries and  honor the boundaries of others.

 

 

I create and maintain boundaries that protect and support me.

 

 

My time is valuable and I give myself permission to say no to activities that

take up treasured moments that I

 can use to care for myself.

 

 

I open myself to new opportunities,

stretch beyond my old boundaries

and grow into my magnificent self.

 

 

I am confident and strong as I set

clear boundaries for my life.

 

 

I am clear and respectful when

setting boundaries with others.

 

 

  


null

                               

BOUNDARIES are mental, emotional, or physical constructs that define or limit the area in which one is willing to be present.  The space or area in which one works, loves, or desires to be.

 

A lesson from Ken Kizer coach and member of the Inner Visions Institute faculty:

 
"When you don't have boundaries in your life, people will inject themselves into places in your life where you do not want them, and where they have no business being.  Boundaries are like drawing a line in the sand and saying, 'Beyond here I will not go and you cannot come.' The key is to be very clear and very committed to what you are willing to do if the line is crossed."

  

____________________________________

 

A lack of boundaries will not only make your life uncomfortable, it helps other people in making their lives uncomfortable.

 

Where there are no boundaries the same bad decision has an opportunity to be repeated.

 

It is on [us] to draw the line in the sand.

 

__________________________________

 

BOUNDARIES allow me to take care of myself.

 

BOUNDARIES enable others to take care of themselves.

 

BOUNDARIES create the freedom of choice.

 

To give, share, or support need not mean taking care of.

 

I can say no and still give love and support.

 

BOUNDARIES keep me in my divine, right space

 
 
  
 
Adapted from One Day My Soul Just Opened Up  
by
Iyanla Vanzant 
null         
  
    
Iyanla Helps a Family Break Free From Emotional Prison - Iyanla: Fix My Life - Oprah Winfrey Network
Iyanla Helps a Family Break Free From Emotional Prison
    

Iyanla Fix My Life  on  OWN
Saturdays 9/8c

 
   

  

Oct. 25 to 27, 2013 - Wonder Woman Weekend

  

If you are wanting, struggling, trying to find a deeper, more meaningful purpose in life. If you are waiting for life to become the wondrous adventure you always dreamed it could be...The Wonder Woman Weekend is for you!  For more information click here. 

 

 

 

    

 

 Something for the Men  

 

 Doctors Say Walk This Way  

 

null 

Want to spend more time with a physician than you get from a rushed office visit? Walk with a Doc may be the answer.
  

The nationwide program features free 30-45 minute walks in parks and malls, led by doctor volunteers who chat with participants about health, fitness or life in general. More than 70% of the walkers are 50 or older.

 

 

IV Applications     
       
Inner Visions Institute
Silver Spring, Maryland 20907