In many households, self-centered teen behavior, a "Me, me, me, me!" attitude, is very much a reality. Does your teen seem too wrapped up in self? Watch a short video about this.

When parenting a teen who seems to be more self-focused than he or she should be, tune in to what the real void is they are trying to fill. Acknowledge their natural abilities, value their uniqueness, highlight their spiritual gifts, and reinforce their spiritual identity-who they are in Christ.

Model to your teen the importance of putting others in the limelight rather than seeking attention for themselves. And focus on their character, more than their accomplishments. Above all, pray. These are tough years for your teen as they are trying to find their place in this world, trusting that God will finish the good work He began in your child (Phil. 1:6).

Don't forget I'm here to help, and I am a quick email away. I love serving you and your family through prayer. I'm trusting these lessons are helpful in your parenting endeavors.
Our ministry cares deeply for you and your family, and we love serving you!

Your Parenting Partner,
Emily Felgenhauer
Director of Youth Ministries

News + Events
SIFAT Mission Trip 2016
Only 2 Spots Left
Mark your calendar for July 17-23, 2016 and join us at SIFAT. This is open to all in grades 7-12. The cost is $350. Learn more. Sign up.
VBS June 27-July 1
Save the date for Cave Quest Vacation Bible School at Hyde Park United Methodist. VBS will be held June 27-July 1. Want to serve on the Cave Quest exploration team? Adults sign-up here and youth sign-up here. Help us inspire kids to follow Jesus, the light of the world!
Sundays
Sunday Morning
We believe that the best way to create "sticky faith" is by having youth involved in congregational worship and serving in church. We encourage both of these for our students. If not attending worship, students can serve in various ways during the hour they are on campus. If you would like to get your student plugged into serving around campus with Children's Ministries, Open Arms, the Tech Team, ushering or greeting, please contact Emily.
Merge, 6-8 p.m.
Messy Night 
We are trying again minus the tropical storm! Bring $5 for dinne rand join us for "Hogwarts Battle for the House Cup."

We will be splitting our youth into 4 teams and compete playing different obstacle courses, water Quidditch and water balloon tosses. It's going to be a gross, icky night that will build memories amongst our youth. Students are encouraged to wear clothing they can get very dirty or even throw away at the end of the night. Parents, please pick up your students with plenty of towels in the car. We will provide free pizza, soda, and chips for those that come this Sunday. It will be a great opportunity to invite your friends and tell them about Merge!

Wednesdays
Middle School Bible Study, 6:30 p.m.
Join us for Bible study tonight in the Magnolia Building. Hang out with friends and gain a deeper understanding of God.
Serving Opportunities
  • Tech Team - contact Nick
  • Children's Ministries - contact Meagan
  • Hospitality - contact Gwen 
  • Open Arms - sign up here 
  • 2nd Saturday Team - contact Drema 
Important Dates
June 
Tuesday: VBS Training, 5:45 p.m., Harnish Activities Center
19: Father's Day - No Merge Programming
20: Warren Willis Camp
23: VBS Decoration, 9 a.m.-noon
27-July1: VBS, 8:30 a.m.-12:15 p.m. 
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