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Community Connections
Winter 2015 

     
In This Issue
How Do Families Become Homeless?
Ending Homelessness One Family at a Time
Tree of Life Food Pantry ... A Saving Grace for Those in Need
February Food Drive. Solimine Funeral Homes Sponsors Food Drive for The Tree of Life Food Pantry!
FAQ: "What is the Purpose of a Funeral?"
     
How Do Families Become Homeless?

The National Coalition for the Homeless identifies four main causes of homelessness:

Poverty
Low income single mothers with children are most at risk of becoming homeless because financially they have limited access to savings, assets, and credit.  Illness, domestic violence, loss of a job, or another crisis can create a situation where they are forced to choose between paying rent or caring for their family.  

Eroding Work Opportunities
Housing is out of reach for many. In Massachusetts, a person working full time at minimum wage cannot afford a one- or two-bedroom apartment at market rents.  In addition, the lack of appropriate education limits a parent's ability to find a living wage job. Furthermore, a family's need for childcare and dependable transportation adds more barriers to maintaining a job or obtaining higher education to qualify for a higher paying job.

Decline in Public Assistance
The lack of housing subsidies, freezes on certain subsidies, as well as many years of minimal support of the Massachusetts housing budget, have left low-income families with fewer options. Reductions in funding for education and training have also meant fewer options to increase earning power.

Shortage of Affordable Housing
The widening gap between the demand for affordable housing units and the supply of affordable housing has created a housing crisis. The shortage of affordable housing has resulted in rents that absorb a disproportionately high share of income, leaving many only an illness, accident or paycheck away from becoming homeless.
The Citizens for Adequate Housing believes that the way to help the homeless is to not only provide a place to stay-but to also address these four root causes of homelessness.



citizens for Adequate Housing
Ending Homelessness ... One Family at a Time

The Citizens for Adequate Housing provides a dignified, nurturing, and supportive environment that empowers each family to reach its social and economic potential. 

In 1983 Mary Jane Lee worked with St. John's Church in Peabody and a group of local residents to address the growing problem of family homelessness.  They incorporated Citizens for Adequate Housing and two years later opened their first shelter, the Inn Between in Peabody.

At that time Mary Jane Lee said, "Homeless people should not be forced to live on the streets, in cars or in motels. It shouldn't happen. There's no justifiable reason for someone to be without a place to live; it's a basic right."

Helping families Since then, the mission of the Citizens for Adequate Housing has been to "support families with dignity and respect, as they live in either our emergency shelter, the Inn Between; or in our sober living transitional housing shelter, the Inn Transition; or in one of our affordable housing apartments offered through our Inn Homes (formerly called the Communities Land Trust)."

Inn Between
An emergency program for homeless families, the Inn Between is a lovely Victorian home which houses six families at a time, and includes one fully handicapped-accessible room. In this program the CAH also maintains a "community room," available for homeless families in the community who are ineligible for shelter assistance from the state.

Inn Transition
The Inn Transition program provides a six-month sober-living transitional housing program to eight families at a time (with one handicap accessible unit). As one of only two transitional housing programs in the state permitting homeless families to remain together when a parent is in recovery from alcohol and substance abuse, Inn Transition serves families from the North Shore and Greater Boston areas. The program offers several support programs and services to help residents in their recovery and self-sufficiency.

Inn Homes
The CAH Inn Homes Program purchases, renovates and maintains affordable rental housing throughout the city of Peabody.  They currently have 16 units in five multi-family homes throughout Peabody which are rented to low-income families.

Those in need must meet eligibility requirements and complete an application.  Further information may be obtained by calling 978-531-9775.  You can also visit the CAH website or Facebook page. 

The Citizens for Adequate Housing is a blend of nurture, professional case management, programs and services, empathy, and even a little "tough love," resulting in a program respected by their professional peers and business partners and beloved by those they have served.

Corey Jackson, President of CAH, explains, "I've been
Corey Jackson, President of Citizens for Adequate Housing
Corey Jackson, President of Citizens for Adequate Housing
here for just a year and a half ... but I have prior experience with this organization, having served on the Board just after graduating from college.  As president it is my vision to push forward on new projects and to explore more permanent ways to solve homelessness.  I'm looking at a more long-term model that helps to ensure success for families who struggle with minimum wage jobs, balancing the cost of rent, food, and other expenses."

Corey has a history of experience in community service - first as a six-year-old at his dad's side.  His father served on the first CAH Board of Directors and was instrumental in the founding of the organization.

"This was a real eye-opener for me.  The early Citizens for Adequate Housing met in our living room when I was a youngster and throughout my teenage years.  It taught me about public and community service.  After college I really became interested in community development activities.  I have an intense interest in the arts, so five years ago I started working with Arts After Hours in Lynn."

"During my time with CAH, I've seen an amazing wealth of community support.  There was an abundance of gifts for both children and adults donated for the families in our programs over the holidays," Corey said.

Each November a Gala Fundraiser is held with several business sponsors, including Solimine Funeral Homes.  Last year's event raised over $115,000 for the Citizens for Adequate Housing.

Corey explained his plans to initiate a "cause marketing" program with local businesses.  "The Solimine Family, through the Solimine Development Corporation has kick-started this fundraising program with their pledge to donate $1,000 for every one of the homes sold in their 112 housing development on the Lynn/Peabody line.  We have already received $3,000 for the first three homes built and sold!"

He described how a business might participate:  "A company can take part in this program by offering to donate X if a customer purchases Y.  We can be very creative in cause marketing.  Businesses are invited to call me at 978-531-9775 to discuss how they can help."

     

Tree of Life Food Pantry: Food Items
A Saving Grace for Those in Need  


Located in the basement of St. Mary's Chapel at 8 South Common Street, the Tree of Life Food Pantry distributes bread and pastries as well as groceries on Wednesdays from 10 am to noon. 

Formerly one of two food pantries in Lynn, St. Mary's Tree of Life merged with Sacred Heart's Food Pantry which has recently closed.
 
Registering to make use of the Tree of Life Food Pantry is easy.  Call 781-598-4907 to register and be ready to present a photo ID, proof of address and income, and family size.  You can also contact the Tree of Life Food Pantry by email .

"Volunteers to work the food pantry are always needed," said Mary Jane Solimine, a long-time volunteer who is the wife of David Solimine, Sr., founder of  Solimine Funeral Homes.  "I enjoy my volunteer work at The Tree of Life Food Pantry,"  Mary Jane said.  "It is very fulfilling to be able to help families in Lynn who are so grateful for the assistance they receive in their time of need," she added.

If you are interested in becoming a volunteer, please call St. Mary's Tree of Life Food Pantry at 781-598-4907.

     
Empty Food Pantry Shelves The Holidays are Over ... The Food Pantry Needs Restocking!
Help Us during Our February Food Drive.

While residents and neighbors are very generous with their donations prior to and during the Holiday Season, when February arrives, the shelves begin to look a bit bare.  The Tree of Life Food Pantry serves those in need year round and can use your help!

Solimine Funeral Homes is sponsoring a food drive during the month of February.  Collection bins will be at both Solimine Funeral Home locations:  426 Broadway (Route 129) and 67 Ocean Street (Route 1A), both in Lynn.  
Most needed include:

Canned Tomato products
Boxed Rice/Rice-a-Roni
Canned Meats, Tuna 
Canned Pasta or Chili
Pasta/Pasta Sauces
Peanut Butter/Jelly/Jam
Canned Fruit
Canned Soup
Baked Beans
Cake/Muffin/Cookie/Bread Mixes
Breakfast Cereal

Canned or Bottled Juice

Also needed:  
Shampoo/Conditioner, Toothpaste/Toothbrushes, Shaving Products, Deodorant/Soaps, Toilet Paper/Paper Towels, and Disposable Diapers.

The Food Pantry can only accept unexpired items in their original packaging, labeled, unopened and not compromised in any way.  They cannot accept homemade goods, dietary supplements, including vitamins, medicines or over-the-counter drugs, or any item containing or suggesting that it contains alcohol.

Help us to fill the shelves of the Tree of Life Food Pantry.
The food collection will continue through February.  If you have questions, please call Kim Anderson Hogan at Solimine Funeral Homes at 781-595-1492 or email her directly. 


     
Frequently Asked Questions

"What is the Purpose of a Funeral?"

 

Researchers have found burial grounds of Neanderthal man dating to 60,000 BC with animal antlers on the body and flower fragments next to the corpse indicating some type of  ritual.  With no great intellect, the Neanderthal man buried their dead with ritual and ceremony.

 

 

Funeral rites are as old as the human race itself.  Every culture and
civilization has attended to the proper care of their dead. The most ancient and universal funeral monuments were simple and natural, consisting of a mound of earth, or a heap of stones, raised over the ashes or body of the deceased.  Some primitive people exposed corpses in the open, in trees or on platforms.
Human cultures that have been studied have three common threads for death and the disposition of their dead:

1) Some type of ceremony, funeral rite, or ritual
2) A sacred place for the dead
3) Memorials for the dead

Times have changed and traditions have changed, but the reasons for a funeral are as important as they were in the beginning of the ritual itself. The funeral helps confirm the reality and finality of death and initiates the grieving process.  It serves as a central gathering place for family and friends to give emotional support to one another and to express their thoughts and feelings.  The funeral allows people to remember and honor their loved one in a special way and provides an opportunity for the community to pay its respects to the deceased.

Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D.CT explains what he terms the "Hierarchy of the Purpose of Funerals" this way:

Funerals have been with us since the beginning of human history because they help us move from life before death to life after death.

Reality
Funerals help us begin to acknowledge the reality that someone in our life has died.
Recall
Funerals encourage us to remember the person who died and to share our unique memories with others.
Support
Funerals bring together people who care about each other in an atmosphere of love and support.
Expression
Funerals allow us to express our inner thoughts and feelings about the life and the death.
Meaning
Funerals mark the significance of the life that was lived.  They also help us find meaning and purpose in our continued living, even in the face of loss.
Transcendence
Ultimately, funerals help us embrace the wonder of life and death.

Joel Solimine explained, "A funeral is a tribute to the one who has died and today families are encouraged to personalize the ceremony in whatever ways honor their loved one the best.  The funeral is a way for healing to begin."

Sources:  The Funeral Source, Cincinnati OH  www.thefuneralsource.org/history
The Hierarchy of the Purpose of Funerals, © Batesville Casket Company, http://www.meaningfulfunerals.com
  

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