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This Week
Children and Youth Religious Exploration
Next Week
Annual Meeting Summary
Special Meeting June 16
CYRE Registration
CYRE Summer Schedule
Independent Living for Young Adults
Office Closing
Constellation Concert
Share Your Garden
Pledge Payment Update
Pastoral Care
Congregational Survey
Monthly Special Collections
Summer Day of Mindfulness Retreat
Booster Cards
Joseph Priestley District News
Links to Explore
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Sunday Service
Single service held at 10:30 a.m.

Church Office Hours:

Monday - Friday:

9:00 to 4:00

 

Saturday:  

Closed

 

Sunday:

10:15 to 12:15

Contact Us:

First Unitarian Church of Wilmington

 

730 Halstead Rd

Wilmington, DE 19803

 

Telephone:
302-478-2384

Fax:
302-478-2622

 
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Upcoming Events
May 27
Office closed for Memorial Day Holiday

June 2
2 p.m.
Constellation: Dulcimer, Guitar & Vocal Concert

June 8
9 a.m. - 3 p.m.
Summer Day of Mindfulness Retreat
Brunner Chapel

June 16
Noon
Special Meeting of the Congregation
Sanctuary
     
 
E-News - Worship and Events  
 Friday, May 24, 2013 
 
Sunday Sermons:  Copies can be found in the rack in Parish Hall (on the back wall) or on the website at www.firstuuwilm.org

Click below to view our

       May Quest Newsletter 

This Week, May 26, 2013  

 

This Sunday - Worship 10:30 a.m.

May 26: Rev. Dr. Joshua Snyder. "No Greater Love." Memorial Day is about remembering the men and women of the military who died in service to their country. Self-sacrifice is not an act we talk about most of the time, but for one day out of the year we remember those who did it. 
  

This Sunday - Adult Forum  

9:30 a.m. - 10:15 a.m. in Room 25

May 26: Adult Forum continues the 12-session series on Making the New Testament by Professor Bart Ehrman. The history of the epistles and gospels that did and did not make it into today's bible will be covered. Facilitator: Jim Davis

Children & Youth Religious Exploration 

 

To find out what interesting and inspiring things our children and youth are up to, please click here for CYRE News and Notes!     

Next Week, June 2, 2013    

 

 

Next Sunday's Service - 10:30 a.m.       

June 2: Rev. Michelle Collins. "Sacred Playfulness." What are some of the ways that play shows up in your life? Infusing our lives with play is more than just fun. Today we'll explore ways that play is both sacred and transformative.

Next Sunday - Adult Forum  

9:30 a.m. - 10:15 a.m. in Room 25

June 2:  Jim Davis facilitates a discussion of some aspect of the PBS series Religion and Ethics Newsweekly which explores world events from the perspective of a variety of world religions, as well as the current tribulations and triumphs within communities of faith.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Summary of Annual Meeting & Next Steps

At the Annual Meeting* on Sunday, May 19, the congregation took the following actions:

  • Elected Leslie Dickerson, Doyle Dobbins, and Ostin Warren to three-year terms on the Board of Trustees, and Suzanne Perry for an additional term of two years. Remaining on the board are Maggie Duffy, Drew Hansen, Dave Harrell, Jeff Lott, and Pat McGee.
  • Elected Richard Flanagan and Chuck Miller to two-year terms on the Nominating Committee, and June Peterson to a one-year term. Other members of the Nominating Committee are Cindy Cohen, Barbara Lenahan, and Steve Marek.
  • Debated the proposed operating budget for 2013-14.
  • Amended the proposed budget to require the Executive Team (ET)-with the participation of at least two lay members-to conduct a study of the church's staffing and to present a staffing plan. This study will be reviewed by the board and presented to the congregation at the 2014 Annual Meeting or earlier.
  • Defeated the proposed budget for 2013-14.
  • Defeated a motion from the floor to use income from the Capital Campaign Building Fund of up to $35,000 to supplement the operating budget-and, within six months, to present a plan for the long-term use of the campaign fund, which is currently valued at about $1 million.
  • Passed a motion from the floor asking the ET to return within four weeks a revised budget proposal that considers the congregational comments voiced at the Annual Meeting, and which contains "a statement that gives the congregation the information it needs to support the proposed budget."
  • Reconsidered and passed as a separate motion the previous amendment requiring a staffing study. (With the defeat of the amended budget, the amendment had also been defeated.)
  • Approved the 2013-14 Capital Expense Budget, which did not project any capital expenditures.

At the Board of Trustees meeting on May 20, Jeff Lott was elected president of the board; Suzanne Perry, vice president; and Pat McGee, recording secretary. Steve Cohen was reappointed as treasurer, which is a non-board officer. It was decided that a congregational meeting would be held at noon on Sunday, June 16, to consider the revised budget proposal prepared by the ET. This budget, after being reviewed by the board, will be published on the website by Wednesday, June 5, and will also be available in the church office.  

 

The ET will proceed with the formation of a team  -including two lay members - to do the staffing study and create a staffing plan. The board will proceed with a separate (but naturally parallel) strategic planning process to create a vision for the future of the church that includes the steps we must take to get there.  

 

* Note: This summary does not constitute the official minutes of the Annual Meeting, which will be published after they are approved by the board at its next meeting.


Special Meeting  
of the Congregation

 

First Unitarian Church of Wilmington

Sunday, June 16, 2013
at Noon in the Sanctuary


Vote on a revised 2013-14 church budget

(available on our website and in the church office
on Wednesday, June 5)

 

At the Annual Meeting, the congregation did not pass the proposed budget for the fiscal year beginning July 1. It asked that a revised budget be submitted within four weeks. The Board of Trustees has called a special congregational meeting to consider this revised budget, which will be published no later than June 5.
 
This will be the only item on the agenda. All voting members are urged to attend. Please click here for the Voting List

Children & Youth Religious Exploration

Registration & Volunteer Recruitment

How great would it be to have all current children registered and all teaching teams and other important volunteer jobs filled for next year by the time Catherine returns from sabbatical? What a gift we could give to her!  

 

Please think about how you would like to help and click here to register your children and/or volunteer to help with CYRE programming.

 

CYRE Summer Schedule
May 26 - September 1

Children who are 4 years old through entering 6th Grade meet in the Youth Center starting at 10:15 a.m. for games, crafts, and play time. Childcare is available for Newborns through 3 years old in Room 7. There will be no Time for All Ages as part of the service during the church's summer schedule. Children who will not stay with their families during the service (always an option) should go directly to the Youth Center to check in.

 

Please pick up children by 11:45 a.m. Visiting families are welcome! 

 

  Independent Living for Young Adults

It's graduation season! But, what would it be like to graduate from high school without a family to celebrate your accomplishment? That's what happens to students aging out of foster care. However, you can help a deserving student celebrate. The Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) program is throwing a pizza party for 30 graduates. Each will receive a backpack filled with practical things they can use and a gift card so they can buy something they want or need.

 

It's important to recognize the accomplishment these students have achieved because with little to no stability, support or resources, many never make it to graduation. This year the number of graduates we have is almost double last year. We really need your support.

 

Won't you help let a student know it matters to someone that they have graduated? Who knows... your support may influence them to continue their education. See how you can help by visiting the ILYA table after Sunday's service or contacting Barbara Perry at 302-475-7929 or perryba@hotmail.com.

 

Office Closed
The church office will be closed
Monday, May 27, 2013
for the Memorial Day Holiday

Constellation:

Dulcimer, Guitar and Vocal Concert
Constellation

Constellation, an exciting musical duo, will present a concert here at First U on Sunday, June 2 at 2 p.m. Eric Thomas and Helen Wolfson use the hammered dulcimer, guitar and vocals to perform a wide variety of music in their concerts. Topical songs, catchy instrumental pieces, cover songs and ballads!

 

Don't miss this exciting concert! Tickets at the door are $10, or pay what you can. For more information, see Scott Ward.


 Share Your Garden With Us

The season of branches and blooms has arrived, and many of us have gardens blazing with color. As in the past, we are hoping that our members and friends will share their gardens with us for display at Sunday services. You may clip and construct your own arrangement, then bring it in on Sunday morning. Or contact Suzie Cornell at suzcornell@verizon.net; (610) 925-0510 and she will arrange a time to stop by and collect flowers from your garden. We look forward to many glorious displays in our sanctuary!

 

Pledge Payment update

This is  the time of year to wrap up your pledge payments for the current church year, fiscal year 2012­-2013. Please send in your final payments before June 30. If you need  to know how much you owe, you can contact either Brandi or Marina in the church office by email: marina@firstuuwilm.org or brandi@firstuuwilm.org or by phone: (302) 478-­2384.

 

New from Pastoral Care!

There are now purple request cards in the pew racks. This is an easy way to let us know if we can be of service or support. If you are not sure how we can help, fill out a card and someone will contact you. Also, please check out our brochure on the Welcome Table for more information.

 

Did you take our survey?

How well is our church fulfilling its mission of being a beloved  community that nourishes minds and spirits, fights injustice, and transforms the world through loving action? We would love your help in finding out! Please click here to take our congregational survey. Eighty people have responded so far - be sure your voice is heard too!

 

In addition, we would like parents and guardians to take a short survey to help us learn about your children's experiences at church.  Please click here. And for youth who would like to take the survey themselves, follow this link to a short survey for them.

 

All survey participants will receive a secret code for a thank you prize that can be redeemed at church. 

 

Thank you for sharing your experiences with First Unitarian! Your input helps plan the future work of the church.   

 

Call for Monthly Special Collections

Our new fiscal year begins July 1, and it's not too early to think about what charities and church related social action projects you would like to nominate for one of our monthly special collections. Each month, on the 2nd Sunday, we give our offering to organizations, both in our church and in the outside community.

 

Is there a group that holds a special place in your heart? Send your nomination to marina@firstuuwilm.org with your name, charity contact info, and a brief summary of the work they do by May 31, 2013. The Executive Team will evaluate the nominees and will contact you to let you know if your submission has been approved.

 

The following Special Collections are "pre-approved" and included as part of the budget: Emmanuel Dining Room, Grants for Growth, Independent Living for Young Adults and the Faith Center.

  Summer Day of Mindfulness Retreat

On Saturday, June 8, 2013 the First U's Open Heart Zen Sangha will celebrate summer with a wonderful day of meditation practices. A delicious vegetarian potluck lunch will be served. All are welcome regardless of experience. The retreat will be held in the Brunner Chapel from 9-3 and costs $25 (Cash or check made payable to First Unitarian Church of Wilmington). If you plan to attend, please contact Ben Fleury-Steiner by cell phone 302-379-6918 or email openheartzen@gmail.com.


generic gift card image Looking for teacher gifts or graduation presents?

Booster Cards help fund the operations of the church. What are Booster Cards? The church buys gift cards from a variety of merchants at a discount, then we sell them to you at face value. The profit goes directly to our operating budget. You support the church when you shop for things you need, but at no additional cost to you.

 

In difficult times you may find you can't pledge as much as you used to. Booster Cards can help solve that problem for you!

Each year, we earn about $5,000 in profit selling booster cards, but we have the potential to earn so  much more if more members used them for their everyday purchases. Did you know that if you bought just one $100 grocery gift card each week for a year, you could increase your financial support to the church by $260! If 100 families did this, we would have $26,000 in additional church income. You are buying groceries anyway, why not use Booster Cards to support the church at the same time?

 

We have many merchants to choose from, including Aeropostale, Barnes and Noble, Target and iTunes. Please stop by the table at coffee hour, or come by the church office during the week and buy Booster Cards!

 
Joseph Priestley District News


Joseph Priestley District  

will become part of a unified region

At a meeting held on May 17 and 18, 2013, at the UU Fellowship of Centre County, in State College, PA, with four District Boards (St. Lawrence, Joseph Priestley, Metro NY and Ohio-Meadville), along with each of their respective Executive Directors and CERG (Central East Regional Group) staff, consensus was reached to move toward forming a unified region. More information will be forthcoming. 

 

 

2013 UUA General Assembly Orientation/Briefing

For Prospective GA Attendees and Interested Parties

 

Saturday, June 1, 2013

At the Unitarian Universalist Church of Delaware County
145 W Rose Tree Rd, Media, PA 19063

 

4 - 6 p.m.

GA Preview, Orientation, Q&A  

(Snacks will be available outside of the sanctuary)

GA Orientation Leader:  

Natalia (Natty) Averett (UUA Trustee)

 

Please RSVP by email to: nataliaaverett@aol.com if you plan to attend, and include the name of your congregation.
Directions: click here
 Church Phone: (610) 566-4853

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Webinar: Click here 

 

7 - 9:30 p.m. EDT:  

GA Preview, Orientation, Q&A  

 

GA Orientation Leader:  

Natalia (Natty) Averett (UUA Trustee)

and Susan Goekler,  

Chair of the UUA Commission on Social Witness

 

WEBINAR: No reservation required.  

For more information: nataliaaverett@aol.com

 

GA Orientation Outline

Learn what goes on at the General Assembly

Plenary Sessions, Workshops, Worship, and Entertainment      

  • General Assembly theme of "Covenant"
  • A special focus this year on environmental justice work
  • partnerships with organizations in Kentucky and Appalachia
  • The Commission on Social Witness (CSW) GA workshops on the current Study Action Issue, Reproductive Justice
  • Actions of Immediate Witness - philosophy and process
  • Programs for Youth, Young Adults, People of Color

  
Doing Your Association's Business

  • The election of a new UUA Moderator
  • Vote on the Statement of Conscience on Immigration as a Moral Issue
  • Selection of Actions of Immediate Witness - philosophy and process
  • Vote on UUA Bylaws amendments concerning elections, appointments, committees
  • Vote to accept new regions, merged districts
  • Vote to replace existing Non-discrimination section of "Article II. Principles and Purposes" with new language under the title "Inclusion"


How to get the most out of GA 

  •   Responsibilities of Delegates
  •   Special events not to be missed
  •   Survival Tactics
  •   Accessibility Resources

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Thank you to all our volunteers!

 

Sunday's Volunteers:  

OFFICE: 
Kathi Weiss
GREETERS: 
 
Burley & Helga Melton and Beth & Ruth Fleury-Steiner

USHERS:      

Lew & Mary Collat and David Weiss     

FIRST U LIBRARY:              

Open Sunday mornings, 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.

DRE SUBSTITUTE:

Laurie Farnese  

WELCOME TABLE:

Sandy Shipman 

BOOSTER CARDS:

Bill Hardham 

UU SERVICE COMMITTEE COFFEE:

Steve Marek

AV TEAM:

Jon Claney 

BOOK CORNER:

Sylvia Tarzanian 

SOCIAL ACTION: 

Independent Living for Young Adults backpacks      

 
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