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This Week
Children and Youth Religious Exploration
Next Week
2013-14 Budget
Annual Meeting
Togs & Treasures
CYRE Registration
Pastoral Care
Independent Living for Young Adults
Pet Lovers!
Congregational Survey
Thank you!
Monthly Special Collections
Summer Day of Mindfulness Retreat
Booster Cards
Joseph Priestley District News
UUA News
Links to Explore
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Single service held at 10:30 a.m.

Church Office Hours:

Monday - Friday:

9:00 to 4:00

 

Saturday:  

Closed

 

Sunday:

10:15 to 12:15

Contact Us:

First Unitarian Church of Wilmington

 

730 Halstead Rd

Wilmington, DE 19803

 

Telephone:
302-478-2384

Fax:
302-478-2622

 
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Upcoming Events
May 18
7:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m.
Togs & Treasures Sale

May 19
Noon
Annual Meeting
Sanctuary

May 27
Office closed for Memorial Day Holiday

June 2
2 p.m.
Constellation: Dulcimer, Guitar & Vocal Concert

June 8
9 a.m. - 3 p.m.
Summer Day of Mindfulness Retreat
Brunner Chapel
     
 
E-News - Worship and Events  
 Friday, May 17, 2013 
 
Sunday Sermons:  Copies can be found in the rack in Parish Hall (on the back wall) or on the website at www.firstuuwilm.org

Click below to view our

       May Quest Newsletter 

This Week, May 19, 2013  

 

This Sunday - Worship 10:30 a.m.

May 19: Rev. Dr. Joshua Snyder. "Walking Together." The great historian Conrad Wright said that Unitarian Universalism means "walking together" through the grand spiritual journey of life. On this morning of our Annual Meeting, let us reflect together on the role of the church in our lives and as a source for good in our community. 
  

This Sunday - Adult Forum  

9:30 a.m. - 10:15 a.m. in Room 25

May 19: Adult Forum continues the 12-session series on Making the New Testament by Professor Bart Ehrman. The history of the epistles and gospels that did and did not make it into today's bible will be covered. Facilitator: Jim Davis


Children & Youth Religious Exploration 

 

To find out what interesting and inspiring things our children and youth are up to, please click here for CYRE News and Notes!     

Next Week, May 26, 2013    

 

 

Next Sunday's Service - 10:30 a.m.       

May 26: Rev. Dr. Joshua Snyder. "No Greater Love." Memorial Day is about remembering the men and women of the military who died in service to their country. Self-sacrifice is not an act we talk about most of the time, but for one day out of the year we remember those who did it.

Next Sunday - Adult Forum  

9:30 a.m. - 10:15 a.m. in Room 25

May 26:  Adult Forum continues the 12-session series on Making the New Testament by Professor Bart Ehrman. The history of the epistles and gospels that did and did not make it into today's bible will be covered. Facilitator: Jim Davis

 

Vote on the 2013-14 Budget on Sunday

As you know from the meeting held April 14, as well as articles from our Stewardship Team on the progress of our annual pledge drive, our projected pledge income is less than we had hoped for. Our pledge goal was $560,000 and our projection for pledges for next year is $502,500. (As of April 29, 2013) This is about $60,000 short of our pledge goal, and $40,000 less than the pledge commitments we have on file for the current fiscal year.

 

Such a significant shortfall requires difficult decisions. The Executive Team has crafted a budget which impacts staff and program budgets, but which allows us to maintain effective church operations during FY 13/14, as we develop our long range strategic plan and craft a staffing plan designed to support the goals of that plan.

 

Some major changes include:

  1. Our Honorary Minister of Music position has been changed from a full time position to three-quarter time.
  2. The church's contribution to employees' retirement plans has been reduced. All staff participants in the pension plan will receive contributions of 5% of their earnings beginning July 1, 2013. Currently ministers receive 10%, and lay staff receives 8%.
  3. All employees who participate in our health insurance plan will receive premium coverage only for the UUA Health Plan High Deductible Plan (80% for the employee, and 50% for dependents). If employees wish to remain on the UUA Health Plan Standard PPO, they will need to pay for the additional premium cost above the rate for the High Deductible plan. Currently, employees may choose which plan to use, and receive the percentage of premium coverage (80% employee, 50% dependents) for either. 
  4. Professional expenses have been significantly reduced, overall cut by $8,500 over our approved budget in May 2012.
  5. Program budgets have also been reduced. Our largest program budgets, Music and Children's Religious Exploration, have been reduced to 70% of their budgets from the approved budget in May 2012
  6. Additional cuts have been made across many areas of the budget.

This is a difficult budget year and difficult choices need to be made. Thank you to the members of the congregation who attended our Budget Reconciliation meeting on May 5. We appreciated everyone's thoughts and ideas. Please attend the Annual Meeting on May 19, right after church, to vote on the budget for next fiscal year.

 

Annual Meeting  
of the Congregation

First Unitarian Church of Wilmington

Sunday, May 19, 2013 at Noon in the Sanctuary

 

Vote on our 2013-14 church budget

(available on our website and in the church office) 

 
Read the 2012-13 Annual Report here. 
 

Vote on our Nominees for   

Board of Trustees and Nominating Committee   

(Please click here to read biographies)

 

Vote on First U Delegates to General Assembly   

 

Please click here for the Voting List

 

Childcare is available!

Please feel free to bring a lunch  

for your child to eat in the Youth Center.

Remember, we are a NUT FREE facility.

 

Shop Togs & Treasures tomorrow!  

Ready, set, SHOP! May 18 is Sale Day! Come prepared to shop for some real bargains from 87:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. It's a great way to spend a Saturday morning!   

   

Today is the last day for donations. We welcome gently used clothing; jewelry; household items; and indoor and outdoor plants, cuttings and seeds. Donations will be accepted today in the Parish Hall. No shoes, books, computers or exercise equipment.  

 

Volunteers are always welcome!

Children & Youth Religious Exploration

Registration & Volunteer Recruitment

How great would it be to have all current children registered and all teaching teams and other important volunteer jobs filled for next year by the time Catherine returns from sabbatical? What a gift we could give to her!  

 

Please think about how you would like to help and click here to register your children and/or volunteer to help with CYRE programming.

 

New from Pastoral Care!

There are now purple request cards in the pew racks. This is an easy way to let us know if we can be of service or support. If you are not sure how we can help, fill out a card and someone will contact you. Also, please check out our brochure on the Welcome Table for more information.

 

  Independent Living for Young Adults

High school graduation - many of us take for granted that our children and grandchildren will all have one and then move on to the next stage - often, college. But for youth in foster care graduation isn't common and frequently is nothing short of astounding. With little to no stability, support or resources, many never make it. But this year, in New Castle County, 30 youth will graduate (up from 18 last year and 12 the year before), including two college grads! They have shown incredible determination and fortitude and we need your help to recognize and celebrate their accomplishments.  

 

ILYA is once again sponsoring a pizza party for these youth - who age out of foster care at 18 - to celebrate their graduations. We also give each a backpack filled with items to set up his or her own place or take off to college. A gift card is included for the grad to buy a need or a treat.  

 

We are delighted that so many are reaching the important educational goal of graduation but the increase in numbers means that we need extra help from our church members. Please, contact Barbara Perry at perryba@hotmail.com or (302) 475-7929 or stop by the ILYA table on Sunday morning to offer to shop, stuff backpacks, or donate money for the gifts or pizza party. It's a great way to show these brave young people who have no supportive family that there are people who care about them as they transition to the next phase of their lives.

 

Please, consider what that would mean to one of your family members if they were trying to make it on his or her own and give what you can (time, money, effort) to make this a joyful celebration for these deserving young people.

 

Pet Lovers!

It's not too late! You can add a picture of your favorite pet to the Pet Lover's Art Show in the Upstairs Gallery.

 

The show will be up all summer, so please drop off a picture of your favorite pet, framed, or unframed in the church office. Don't forget to put your name, and the name of your pet with the picture. See Scott Ward for more details.

 

Did you take our survey?

How well is our church fulfilling its mission of being a beloved  community that nourishes minds and spirits, fights injustice, and transforms the world through loving action? We would love your help in finding out! Please click here to take our congregational survey. Seventy-two people have responded so far - be sure your voice is heard too!

 

In addition, we would like parents and guardians to take a short survey to help us learn about your children's experiences at church.  Please click here. And for youth who would like to take the survey themselves, follow this link to a short survey for them.

 

All survey participants will receive a secret code for a thank you prize that can be redeemed at church. 

 

Thank you for sharing your experiences with First Unitarian! Your input helps plan the future work of the church.   

 

Thank you for your generosity!
We received $590.75 for the May 12, 2013 special collection for A Center for Relational Living and their Second Chances Program, which helps, formerly incarcerated people to reenter society and avoid recidivism. Thank you for your generosity!
Call for Monthly Special Collections

Our new fiscal year begins July 1, and it's not too early to think about what charities and church related social action projects you would like to nominate for one of our monthly special collections. Each month, on the 2nd Sunday, we give our offering to organizations, both in our church and in the outside community.

 

Is there a group that holds a special place in your heart? Send your nomination to marina@firstuuwilm.org with your name, charity contact info, and a brief summary of the work they do by May 31, 2013. The Executive Team will evaluate the nominees and will contact you to let you know if your submission has been approved.

 

The following Special Collections are "pre-approved" and included as part of the budget: Emmanuel Dining Room, Grants for Growth, Independent Living for Young Adults and the Faith Center.

  Summer Day of Mindfulness Retreat

On Saturday, June 8, 2013 the First U's Open Heart Zen Sangha will celebrate summer with a wonderful day of meditation practices. A delicious vegetarian potluck lunch will be served. All are welcome regardless of experience. The retreat will be held in the Brunner Chapel from 9-3 and costs $25 (Cash or check made payable to First Unitarian Church of Wilmington). If you plan to attend, please contact Ben Fleury-Steiner by cell phone 302-379-6918 or email openheartzen@gmail.com.


generic gift card image Did you buy your Booster Cards this week?

Booster Cards help fund the operations of the church. What are Booster Cards? The church buys gift cards from a variety of merchants at a discount, then we sell them to you at face value. The profit goes directly to our operating budget. You support the church when you shop for things you need, but at no additional cost to you.

In difficult times you may find you can't pledge as much as you used to. Booster Cards can help solve that problem for you!

 

Each year, we earn about $5,000 in profit selling booster cards, but we have the potential to earn so much more if more members used them for their everyday purchases. Did you know that if you bought just one $100 grocery gift card each week for a year, you could increase your financial support to the church by $260! If 100 families did this, we would have $26,000 in additional church income. You are buying groceries anyway, why not use Booster Cards to support the church at the same time?

 

We have many merchants to choose from, including Acme, Rite Aid and iTunes. Please stop by the table at coffee hour, or come by the church office during the week and buy Booster Cards!

 Joseph Priestley District News


2013 UUA General Assembly Orientation/Briefing

For Prospective GA Attendees and Interested Parties

 

Saturday, June 1, 2013

At the Unitarian Universalist Church of Delaware County
145 W Rose Tree Rd, Media, PA 19063

 

4 - 6 p.m.

GA Preview, Orientation, Q&A  

(Snacks will be available outside of the sanctuary)

GA Orientation Leader:  

Natalia (Natty) Averett (UUA Trustee)

 

Please RSVP by email to: nataliaaverett@aol.com if you plan to attend, and include the name of your congregation.
Directions: click here
 Church Phone: (610) 566-4853

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Webinar: Click here 

 

7 - 9:30 p.m. EDT:  

GA Preview, Orientation, Q&A  

 

GA Orientation Leader:  

Natalia (Natty) Averett (UUA Trustee)

and Susan Goekler,  

Chair of the UUA Commission on Social Witness

 

WEBINAR: No reservation required.  

For more information: nataliaaverett@aol.com

 

GA Orientation Outline

Learn what goes on at the General Assembly

Plenary Sessions, Workshops, Worship, and Entertainment      

  • General Assembly theme of "Covenant"
  • A special focus this year on environmental justice work
  • partnerships with organizations in Kentucky and Appalachia
  • The Commission on Social Witness (CSW) GA workshops on the current Study Action Issue, Reproductive Justice
  • Actions of Immediate Witness - philosophy and process
  • Programs for Youth, Young Adults, People of Color

  
Doing Your Association's Business

  • The election of a new UUA Moderator
  • Vote on the Statement of Conscience on Immigration as a Moral Issue
  • Selection of Actions of Immediate Witness - philosophy and process
  • Vote on UUA Bylaws amendments concerning elections, appointments, committees
  • Vote to accept new regions, merged districts
  • Vote to replace existing Non-discrimination section of "Article II. Principles and Purposes" with new language under the title "Inclusion"


How to get the most out of GA 

  •   Responsibilities of Delegates
  •   Special events not to be missed
  •   Survival Tactics
  •   Accessibility Resources

Unitarian Universalist Association News


General Assembly 2013: Register now! 

Be sure to register early for General Assembly (GA) 2013 and prepare to represent First U Wilmington with your beribboned name tag. We will gather in Louisville, KY, to examine and renew our covenant to our faith, one another, our congregations, and the larger world. Program and worship information is available. Please contact Marina if you would like to be a delegate for First U.  

 

Those unable to attend GA in person are still invited to participate in GA business. As an off-site delegate, you can use your telephone and internet-ready computer to debate and vote in plenary business sessions from your home, office, or congregation. Find more information here.

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Thank you to all our volunteers!

 

Sunday's Volunteers:  

OFFICE: 
Rita McWhorter
GREETERS: 
 
Erich Kuehn, Dale Stratton, Barbara Perry, Dee Burdash

USHERS:      

Janet Hall, Alan Knight, Bill & Joan Flack    

FIRST U LIBRARY:              

Open Sunday mornings, 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.

DRE SUBSTITUTE:

Jen Hann-Deschaine 

WELCOME TABLE:

Linda Sanders 

HOSPITALITY:

Board of Trustees 

BOOSTER CARDS:

Barbara Perry   

UU SERVICE COMMITTEE COFFEE:

Steve Marek

AV TEAM:

Jon Claney 

CHILDREN & YOUTH RELIGIOUS EXPLORATION:

Suzanne Shahan 

BOOK CORNER:

Lisa Jacobs 

SOCIAL ACTION: 

Independent Living for Young Adults backpacks      

ANNUAL MEETING:

Board of Trustees 

 
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