"Life begins at retirement."  -Author Unknown

 

   


Retired--Next Phase 

Retirement - the Best Phase of your life!   

 

 Ed and Gail
       Ed Topar and Gail Cassidy


December 1, 2015
         
Issue #5, Volume 10       

 
The Holiday Season is here--the hustle and bustle, the good, the bad, the stress, the strain; and we'll make it through once again! How different is it now for you, at this point in your life, compared to when you were starting out in your career and with your young family? Most retirees would probably say that it is much easier now.

The point is that the realities of life related to the shortage of time and money impacted choices we made when we were starting our adult lives. Some of those choices, knowing what we know now, we would make differently. 20/20 hindsight would be wonderful to have.

This month we again asked retirees what they would like to have changed in their pasts and the responses fell into two categories: "time" and "money."

Work/career decisions were frequently made from a practical viewpoint when we were starting our careers and our families. And those decisions could have had an impact on earning and/or career opportunities--more on that next year.

The sand in our hourglasses moves more freely with each passing day/month/year; so, let's pursue more positive thoughts. Let's take a look at an innovative, upbeat way to evaluate your life to this point and then read a bit about "Mr. Positive" himself, Dick Van Dyke. Read on...... 
 
Happy December,
Ed and Gail

HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU ALL!! 
MERRY CHRISTMAS 
   
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A CREATIVE WAY TO REVIEW YOUR LIFE

A beautiful 90-year old lady, Judy Harten Anderson, who taught yoga for over 40 years in Costa Mesa and Nevada City, California, and was originally from Westfield, sent this list to her friend who passed it on to us. Treat yourself to the time it takes to respond to these eight topics! The second eight will be in our January newsletter. Enjoy!


Finding Fire With Anthony DeMello by John Callanan
(Different types of meditation, fantasy prayer and styles of reflection are described to help the reader to unlock their potential, get their lives into focus and deal with pain and failure. Like the work of de Mello himself, John Callanan's book gives those who search, those who think and those who suffer some food for thought.)
 
- Things I have loved in life...things I've tasted, looked at, smelled, heard, touched
 
- Experiences I have cherished
 
- Ideas that have brought me a feeling of freedom
 
- Beliefs I have outgrown
 
- Convictions I have lived by
 
- Things I have lived for
 
- Insights I have gained in the school of life
 
- Insights into a higher power, the world, human nature, love, religion, prayer
 

May 2016 be your best year yet!!
 
Thought for the Month

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 Santa Claus has the right idea.
Visit people only once a year!
- Victor Borge


  QUOTE OF THE MONTH Article Headline
  
   


Dick Van Dyke's new book, Keep Moving 



Dick Van Dyke, co-star of "The Dick Van Dyke Show" and "Mary Poppins," is on the cusp of his 90th birthday. In his new book,
Keep Moving, Van Dyke believes staying active is key to staying alive, and he practices what he preaches.

His typical day begins at 6 a.m., with a cup of coffee and a trip to the gym for a light workout that includes the treadmill and weights. Even at home in Malibu, Van Dyke says, "I can't sit still." He trots around the house, he says, "Edith Bunker-style." And he still performs with his quartet Dick Van Dyke and the Vantastix.

He says there are three keys to a long life: "You need something to do, someone to love, and something to hope for. I had all of those-and more." The two-time widower attributes his good health and cheer to his third wife whom he married in 2012.

On feeling young, Van Dyke says, "I am a child in search of his inner adult." On staying sharp, "I learn something new every day, like lines from Shakespeare. The language is beautiful and the writing is full of truth: 'Love is not love when it is mingled with regards that stand aloof from the entire point.'"

On love: "You are never too old for romance. A candlelight dinner, a slow dance, a stroll under the stars-these are as potent and magical at eight-five as they were at twenty-five."

The secret to a good night's sleep: "Forgiveness is the best sleeping pill."

Van Dyke's 90th birthday is in December. To commemorate, he says, "I'm going to Disneyland, to my homeland. Some friends and I will have dinner and maybe go on some rides," a fitting celebration for a man who finishes every day with a big bowl of vanilla ice cream with chocolate sauce. A spoonful of sugar really does help the medicine go down, he says. "It's very, very true."

Adapted from "Life Lesson from Van Dyke" by Nora Krug, Washington Post.
 


CAN YOU NAME THE YEAR?
          
CAN YOU NAME THE YEAR?

- Average cost of a gallon of gas, $.25
- JFK elected president by defeating Richard Nixon
- U.S. enters the Vietnam conflict
- U.S. U-2 spy plane shot down by surface-to-air missile over Russia
- The Berlin Wall is constructed dividing the city into East and West Berlin
- Cassius Clay (Muhammad Ali) wins his first professional fight
- Chubby Checker starts new dance craze with his recording of "The Twist"
- Aluminum cans are introduced for the first time
- Xerox introduces the first commercial copier
- Alfred Hitchcocks's "Psycho" premieres on movie screens


SEE ANSWER IN NEXT BLOCK

A BIT OF HUMOR
FATHERS AND SONS:

A man learns from his aging an dying father that he will receive all of the old man's wealth which is in excess of $50M.

He realizes
that, being single and without a mate, he has no one to share this good fortune with. So he finds his way to a singles bar where he sees the most beautiful woman he has ever seen.
He approaches her and says, "Although you don't know me, and although I may not be the most handsome man here, I want you to know that within the next few weeks, I will inherit $50M from my sickly father." 

She agrees to go home with him that night.


Three days later she became his step mother.


 

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The answer to "Can You Name the Year" is 1960

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Gail Cassidy, gail@coachability.com; (908) 654-5216
http://www.Retired-NextPhase.com

Ed Topar, edtopar@gmail.com 

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