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Greetings! The 1960 JukeBox (below) is playing as I write--nostalgic, to say the least--memories of graduations, beach time, summer romances, the Beach Boys, and lazy summer days. No matter what our ages and/or positions in life, summer always seems to be a time to relax as we gear up for the back-to-school/work/responsibilities in the months to come. May this summer season bring you fond memories, new resolve, and a restored spirit to conquer the world in your own individual ways. Happy June, Ed (edtopar@gmail.com) and Gail (gail@coachability.com)
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David Goldstein
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In last month's issue, this photo of David Goldstein should have appeared. This is a picture of an overcrowded box car where he and 50 other POW's from World War had been packed in the process of being transferring to another camp, when the train stopped, the door opened, and the German soldiers walked away. The war was over!
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NORMAN AND CAROL GRECO
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NORM GRECO
There is no doubt that our pasts influence our lives, but they don't have to determine our future. Norman Greco, commonly known in childhood and by close friends as "Nunzie," took the lemons from his childhood and made lemonade for his adult years.
Recently a customer came into Jersey Mike's, Norm's store in town, and introduced himself. His name was also Nunzie which he explained means, "Messenger." Norm's philosophy is "There is always a message." He has spent his life learning from others and then becoming the messenger so others can learn from him.
From living in a third floor, cold-water flat above the candy store on Broad Street in the lovely town of Westfield as a child, Norm now lives in a beautiful, spacious home which he can appreciate more than most because of his past.
Born into an Italian family, where money and love were scarce and where acceptance could have been a challenge, Norm rose above the fray. He became an entrepreneur at the age of 9, selling the Elizabeth Daily Journal and the Newark Evening News for a nickel to commuters at the train station every day, and now he owns numerous businesses and buildings and is very happily married to the sweetest gal in the world.
An incident at the train station at the tender age of 10 changed Norm's life for forever. When he tried to sell a newspaper to a woman alighting from the train, she turned to him and said, "I'd never buy a paper from a dirty little (ethnic slur)." This single statement became a motivating factor in Norm's life. To him, money became the way to erase the slur.
By making friends with the local drug store owners, Norm, at age 15, learned how to make $40 in a weekend by purchasing a product for $1, dividing it into three products, selling each for $1. At the same age, a local realtor took a liking to him and had him clean his offices, which he did daily for 35 years--and now Norm owns the building! This man had faith in Norm, and Norm didn't let him down.
School and studying were secondary in Norm's life; survival was primary. Using his natural gifts--his sonorous voice, his great sense of humor, his lively personality, and his compassion for others--Norm became a successful business man. His slogan when he ran and won class presidency at Roosevelt Junior High was and still is "Vote for Nunzy, for he's full of Funzy!"
Early in his life, Norm learned that the secret of success was learning from those he admired and utilizing their skills, talents, and knowledge. He recognized the value they offered, especially during the time of his extensive volunteer activities in town. He put people with special expertise on committees or learned from them directly. As a result, each benefited from one other, and Norm increased his own knowledge, which was his ultimate goal.
Norman is a self-taught man who acknowledges those from whom he has learned. In particular, he singled out his Uncle Johnny who bought him his first bike, who took him places, who bought him his first baseball glove, and most important of all, who believed in him. Having someone believe in you can make a huge difference in your life, as Norm so clearly recognizes.
Retirement is merely a word in Norm's vocabulary. If retirement is defined as "giving up work, calling it quits, packing it in," then, to Norm, it is a phase of life in which he will never participate. Although his legs have slowed him down a bit, his energy level matches men forty years his junior. He still takes chances as if he were 21 years old. In spite a difficult childhood, severe health problems in the 80's, troubled relationships in his past, Norman is now at a place where he can finally gracefully accept the mantel of Success, Happiness, and, to top it off, Wealth! If only that lady commuter could see him now!!
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YOUR LEGACY RECORDED
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Father's Day is not that far away. Here is the perfect gift!! The greatest gift you can leave your family, your children, and your grandchildren!!
Let us record and write your Legacy now.
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BOOK REVIEW
THE MAGIC OF BELIEVING, Claude Bristol
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THE MAGIC OF BELIEVING, Claude Bristol
Daydreaming doesn't have the power to release the latent forces within us that will bring us the $1,000,000 or the mansion. When we employ our imaginations properly, we will see ourselves doing a thing and we go ahead and do it. It's the doing the thing you have pictured to yourself that brings it into actual existence. In this connection, think about the use of a magnifying glass. When properly focused, it will gather light from the sun and concentrate it, so that the heat will burn a hole in the object. It must be held steady before heat power is developed. So it is with the holding of the image or the mental picture in our minds. Dr. Emile Coue declared that imagination was a much stronger force than will-power; when the two are in conflict, he said, the imagination always wins.Wishful thinking in itself is without effect simply because the power factor is missing. Whatever we fix our thoughts upon or steadily focus our imaginations upon, that is what we attract.Once the soil is prepared and the tiny seeds are placed in it, it is but a short time when they put forth roots and sprouts begin to appear. The moment they start upward through the soil in search of light, sunshine, and moisture, obstacles mean nothing to them. They will push aside small stones or bits of wood, and if they can't do that, they'll extend themselves and grow around them. They are determined to emerge from the ground. Plant the right kind of seed and habitually feed it with strong affirmative thoughts always directed toward the same end, and it will grow into a mighty force, finding ways and means of overcoming all obstacles. Next month we'll learn about how everything we have in our modern world is the result of desire.
Read more book summaries on our website.
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VISUALIZE YOUR PASSION
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Scott Dinsmore from "Live Your Legend"(www.LiveYourLegend. net) has compiled a list of questions to help you find your passion. Answer them each month for the next three months, and you will have a much clearer picture of your passion at whatever age you are.
1. What makes you happiest in your life? What excites you? 2. What do you do that makes you feel invincible? 3. What do people thank you for? 4. What are you ridiculously good at? What are your precious gifts? 5. Who do you look up to? Who are your mentors? Who inspired you? Why? 6. When was the last time you massively over-developed on something? What was it and why did you work so hard? 7. When was the last time you were in a state of flow, in the zone and totally lost track of time? What were you doing? 8. Image you won $158 million in the lottery. It's now three months later. How will you spend tomorrow? 9. What would you do if you knew you could not fail? 10. If you could have or do anything, what would it be?
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LOOKING BACKHeadline
| The 1960 JukeBox
Note: you can choose any of 21 songs, just like old times!
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CAN YOU NAME THE YEAR? |
- Cost of a gallon of gas was $.44
- Dow Jones industrial average was 858
- Jimmy Hoffa disappears
- Motorola gains patent for first mobile phone
- Bic introduces the first disposable razor
- Average cost of a new home was $39,300
- Bill Gates and Paul Allen develop the first personal computer
- Bruce Springsteen releases the iconic "Born To Run" album
- "Saturday Night Live" debuts on NBC
- No. 1 film of the year is "Jaws"
SCROLL DOWN FOR ANSWER
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QUOTE OF THE MONTHArticle Headline |
There's one thing I always wanted to do before I quit... retire! - Groucho Marx
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TAKE A BREAK AND LAUGH ABOUT IT.....
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A WELL PLANNED LIFE ?????
Two 60 year old women met for the first time since high school.One asked the other, "You were always so organized in school; have you lived a well-planned life?"The other replied, "I certainly did. My first marriage was to a millionaire. My second marriage was to an actor. My third was to a preacher, and my fourth was to an undertaker."Her friend said, "What does you marriages have to do with a well planned life?"She replied...."One for the money. Two for the show. Three to get ready, and four to go !" Enjoy!
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CAN YOU NAME THE YEAR?????? ANSWER: 1975
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