Unitarian Universalist Church of TampaJuly 2014

Rev. Dr. Doak Mansfield, Interim Minister  

Erin Powers, DRE 

In This Issue
Wondering While Wandering
Desk of the President
R.E.flections
Spotlight on Search
Finance Update
Save the Date
Announcements
Betty McCluer Lee Remembered
Circles in the Woods CUUPS
Come Skype with Us
A.R.E.
The Good Book
Summer Fun
Need Help
Friendship Dinners
Game Night
Honoring Earth
mUUsic
The Surface and the Deep
   

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Wondering While Wandering . . .  
Identity is an interesting notion, understanding. For a person it can signify self-understanding as well as self-awareness of one's personality, qualities, talents, skills and sense of place in the larger life in which they participate.  Identity is tested often on occasions: uncertainties about abilities, worth, and place. Several elements are in play here: unexpected situations, overwhelming events, changes planned or forced, uncertain consequences, and misunderstandings. Change that we have no control over is the meanest.

Our coping can best come through an honest and courageous search for understandings (moral inventory) and reaching out to others for their perspectives, when hard questions of self are asked bravely and intensely, and self-appreciation is honored. If self-trust is affirmed, openness to change is real, and acceptance of worth as well as willingness to grow is expressed, a process begins. Next comes a sincere conversation with another friend or two or a professional. Through this process we may find some resolution to times of uncertainties and doubts. It is a dynamic that can offer help: our internal pondering, self-inventory and checking out with others their sense of things and their response to our quandaries.

For a Unitarian Universalist congregation faith community --  a spiritual community like ours, informed by freedom and guided by honest engagement with meanings and ethics dedicated to honoring the interdependence of life and living justice - - articulating an easily shared, understood, and promoted identity can be a challenge. An identity that serves as a resource for being and becoming, for activities and programs, and that offers an envisioning loyalty, is so very important.
 
It matters that we answer who we are, how we are, and why we are as a community. How these queries are answered become devotional and directional.  They will guide our support and inspire our appreciation of the value of our congregation and the forms we craft for our future.

Our Ministerial Search Committee is working diligently and creatively to discern from each of us our perspectives on who we are, how we are, and why we are as they prepare a packet, profile, presentation for prospective ministers. There will be several occasions for your input through a well designed survey, conversations, and group activities. 

You will call your next settled minister early in 2015. She or he will be in place in late summer. Please give thoughtful, creative support to the work the Search Committee is undertaking. It matters. A vital, active, inspired UU Church of Tampa matters and you have the opportunity to find the best person available to invite and install to lead in a collaborative ministry that honors the potential and possibilities. Oh, he or she will just be a human being with some good specialized training and wisdom-offered experiences but then that identifies most of us. 
It will be as it needs to be. It will be better if all participate and care.
"May Love Guide Us."

Together ~ Doak
The Reverend Dr. Doak M. Mansfield, Interim Minister
Desk of the President
Well, it's hot.  We knew it was coming, global warming or not, summer was going to be here. While we are all resting inside under the air conditioners life goes on at the Church.  The vines grow, the carpet gets another stain, another problem occurs with the pump, well, you get the idea.  Life continues for us - but at a slower and more deliberate pace.  You can't work hard for a long time in Florida - you can do one or the other, but not both.

But planning, ah, there's another story.  We can do planning inside, with the air conditioner.  Even at Starbucks or McD's.  And planning goes on - activities around the minister search, trials of new worship activities, new Chalice Circles, work parties for the viny, leafy, green growth that is all around the campus, and planning for the Stewardship Drive.

Bill, I can hear you say, isn't it a little early to start talking about the Stewardship Drive?

Nope, not for the people who are planning it.  And not for you or me, either. Money is hard for us to talk about, but listen . . . the calling of a new minister is going to take money.  These ministers don't want to work for free and things keep going up in price for them, too.  If we can't afford to pay what the UU ministers expect we will not be able to compete for the minister we want.

Start thinking now about how you can work around another few dollars on your pledge.  Money, according to some source, is a problem; the love of it is the root of all evil.  Well, I think evil has lots of roots and I think that some uses of money are anti-evil.  Maybe supporting your Church is one of those uses.

Rev Mansfield answered a question about why we should give money to the church when there are people who are in need in the world.  He said, "Because you are worth it."  You have to keep yourself supported before you can help others.  This Church is the spot we have chosen to come to for our own well being.  Support it.
 
Bill
UUCT
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REflections    
Fall Religious Exploration Teams 
I will be structuring RE in a new way this fall.  I am assembling teams targeted to specific RE needs.  This ensures we have volunteers that are excited and committed!  By joining a RE Team you will be committing to 1-2 Sundays a month, sometimes less.   I'm looking to assemble large teams this year so that our volunteers can still fully participate in church life while working with our children and youth.  Please consider what you can offer to our children and youth.  I welcome your ideas and participation!

 Our teams will be as follows, Social Justice, Children's Chapel, Spirit Play (preK-1st), 2nd - 4th grade class, and 5th-6th grade class.  

Our Social Justice Team needs volunteers with an interest in social justice.  We will lead a social justice activity once a month in RE.  Ideas for projects welcome!  Ideally each member of our team will lead a project with support from the group.  The monthly commitment depends on the number of volunteers on our team. 
Our Children's Chapel Team needs volunteers with an interest or experience in worship.  You will assist me in planning and leading Children's Chapel.  Children's Chapel is offered once a month.  The monthly commitment depends on the number of volunteers on our team.

Our Spirit Play Team needs volunteers that can lead and/or assist classes (1-2 Sundays a month), set up baskets, help find materials and prepare classroom (on your own time).   Montessori background not required to lead or assist!   This team could also use someone who can assist with classroom organization and set up.  This can be done on your own time.

The 2nd-4th grade Team needs volunteers to lead and assist Sunday Religious Exploration classes using a curriculum called Spirit of Adventure.  It is a fun way of exploring Unitarian Universalist identity for active children.  The monthly commitment is 1-2 Sundays a month, dependent upon the number of team members. 

Our 5th-6th Grade Team needs volunteers to lead and assist Sunday Religious Exploration classes using a curriculum called Traditions with a Wink.  This curriculum teaches a deeper understanding of Unitarian Universalism at a time when our soon-to-be teens are just beginning to shape their own ideas of faith.  The monthly commitment is 1-2 Sundays a month, dependent upon the number of team members. 

There are sign-ups on the RE Bulletin Board and you can also email me or find me at church to commit to a team.  Our coming RE year is going to be an exciting one!  Please join us in the fun!

Erin Powers, DRE for Children & Youth 

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Spotlight on Search
This summer, the primary focus of the Ministerial Search Committee (MSC) and the congregation is a set of activities and events grouped under the category of Survey.   The purpose of these activities is to define what we are looking for in a minister and to provide potential candidates with a profile of who we are as a congregation.   The MSC wants to thank the Planning Committee for volunteering to work with us and the BOT to accomplish this work in a short amount of time.   UUCT member participation in the survey activities will begin in August.  You will get more information on the details of these activities as soon as possible.

The congregational survey offers all members of the congregation the chance to express their needs and wishes for the congregation's future ministry.  Quantitative analysis of survey data can give a factual basis to support or correct vague impressions of the congregation's make-up or direction.  The MSC is acutely aware that the seven of us will be making important decisions for the entire congregation.  We want to be confident that we know each member well enough to do this.  We need to hear from everyone as part of the survey process.  

We have also started a set of activities grouped under the category of Packet.  The purpose of these activities is to create something that presents our congregation to ministers seeking a position.  The MSC is maintaining a list of things to include and has started collecting and requesting items.  Don't be surprised if someone asks you to share your knowledge, talents or testimonials. We are working with Joe Adles on creating scripted video clips too.  Mary Francis is the lead on these efforts and would welcome offers to assist.  She is personally working on the design of a Web version of the packet.   There will also be a print copy and both will be shared with the congregation once we get to the point of having something worth looking at!

Comments, questions and conversations are welcome in person anytime, at Conversations with the Board, or by email to search@uuct.org .

Elise Richardson, Joan Lund, Ara Rogers, Marta Pearson, Ed Benedict, Earl Harvey, Mary Francis
Summer Plans
This is the time of year the finance committee takes a closer look at church budget to see if we need to make adjustments in spending.  You can help this process by reviewing your financial commitment to UUCT; and also by, when planning your summer vacation spending, setting aside the sum you had pledged and mailing it to church.  Attendance at church is usually lower during the summer, making it critical that each of us maintain our financial commitment to UUCT, so that we can continue to keep the bills paid.  If you are not sure what you have contributed to date and would like a printout of a statement, to help you see if you are on track, stop by the office on a Sunday morning or call me at home. Joyce Formica pledge secretary (988-1907).
Save the Date  
When:     Sunday, September 21, 2014 (following the service)  Who:       Our congregation
Where:    Large dome sanctuary.
What:      Beyond Categorical Thinking workshop.
Details:   Please plan on attending this vital workshop that will help our congregation prepare for the search of our next settled minister.  More details in next month's Domelight.
Announcements 
 
The UU Humanists of Tampa group will be taking the summer off  after 10 years.  Plans to restart in the fall are under consideration.
Please no food for the migrant basket over the summer.  Workers are up north during our summers.  We will start again in the fall.
Betty McCluer Lee Remembered
It was long overdue!  Betty McCluer Lee is now remembered with a stone in our Memorial Garden.  One afternoon some of us were working in the garden area and someone mentioned that there was no stone for Betty Lee.  One person said "I would contribute toward that!"  Another replied, "Me too".  And so it began.  As it turned out, Betty's family agreed and sent a check to cover the costs.  So no need to take up that collection.  However, take some time to visit the garden, reflect on the precious time we share, and enjoy the memories.

 
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Circles in the Woods CUUPS
Circles in the Woods CUUPS sponsors a monthly Full Moon Celebration on the Saturday closest to the full moon.  

At July 12 Full Moon 7:30pm, welcome the Coven of the Quill, Sword and Chalice- for the first time ever in our dome!  Be there or be square!

All Circles in the Woods CUUPS activities are open to the public and held at UUCT. The only cost is a love donation. Families with children are welcome.  No pets please. Plan to stay to socialize afterwards.  Bring a dish to share. All are welcome who come in perfect love and perfect trust.  

For more information about Circles in the Woods CUUPS, e-mail cuups@uutampa.org.
COME SKYPE WITH US! 
The Partner Church Committee invites everyone to join in our next Skype call to Romania!  We will meet in the sanctuary at 9:15am, Sunday July 13 for a video conference call via Skype with our Hungarian partner church.  Come and join the discussion or just sit back and enjoy the visit.   
Adult R.E.
This month, learning and study are more attractive for me because of some writings by Joseph Goldstein, specifically those found in his book One Dharma: The Emerging Western Buddhism.  I thank Grantford Wilson for letting me know about the book, which I immediately latched onto at the nearby University of South Florida campus library.  We'll begin talking and deciding about an Adult RE course in 2014 based on what we can gather together with Grant and study in connection with this Goldstein book.  Here's an early passage that seemed especially helpful to me:
 
"The essence of One Dharma is wisdom.  The perfection of wisdom is the light that illuminates our lives, revealing both the causes and the end of suffering.  Through mindful attention in the moment, we see the impermanent nature of phenomena and understand the happiness of nongrasping.   And through nongrasping, we experience for ourselves the innate wakefulness of the wisdom mind." - Joseph Goldstein (2002, p. 14)  This is good to learn in 2014!
 
In this time of very worrisome war in Afghanistan and, yet again, in Iraq and Syria, it is very important, I feel, to continually seek to learn how we can act in the world to do more of what needs to be done.
 
I'm grateful for gatherings of us in small groups in twos or threes and other, larger gatherings of us in Adult RE to discuss what we see going on at GA now.
 
 ---  Jeff Austin
Chair of Adult Religious Education at the UU Church of Tampa
Good Book Column
Carolyn Hines:  Wild, From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail  by Cheryl Strayed. This is the true story of a young woman who hiked alone the 1100 mile Pacific Coast Trail. She thought she had lost everything in her life and decides to hike this trail to help put her life back together. A fascinating book!

Also, if you haven't read any of Patrick Taylor, MD's books, start with An Irish Country Doctor. I've read several of them and enjoyed them all.

Harriet Blymiller:  China Run by David Ball.  China Run is a page-turner about a group of American would-be parents who are in China to adopt babies. The parents are staying in a hotel with their new babies, waiting for final paperwork, when the authorities tell them there has been a mistake and they have to return the babies they've already bonded with and take others.  Some of the parents go on the run with their babies in spite of China's police-state governance.

I was interested in this novel since it's about international adoption and Asia (I'm definitely on a coincidental Asian novel kick). China Run is a compelling,
adventurous read, with lots of well-researched information about modern China. It's also based on a true incident, but I couldn't find anything about that on the Internet.  In the final analysis, the novel raises a lot of questions about China's government, corruption, policing tactics, and various "centrisms."  Read it, and then we can discuss its ethical stance!

Carol Baker:  Here is another great read from an excellent storyteller, Khaled Hosseini.  You may know that name from two previous books of his, The Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns.  I recently read his And the  Mountains Echoed, published in 2013.  The story starts in Afghanistan but weaves through Paris, to a Greek island of Tinos to the west coast of the United States through many generations of a family.  There is a wonderful bond between 3 year old Pari and her 10 year old brother, Abdullah who is more a "mother" to Pari than a brother, but they are tragically separated in a land that seems cruel and harsh, but is homeland to so many struggling people. A best pick from goodreads.com.

See you next month.  We're looking for some summertime reading, some of those guilty pleasures.  Just e-mail me with suggestions.  Thanks to our July contributors.

Happy reading!
Editor, Carol Baker
Summer Social Activities
Anyone interested in staying cool this summer?  Perhaps a trip to the Aquarium?  Tampa Museum of Art?  Tampa Museum of History?  Dali Museum?  A movie?  Godzilla?  Email me at marysatterwhite@gmail.com. I will put you all together for those who may be interested.  Mary Satterwhite
Need Help in the A/V Room
We have screens in our sanctuary now!  And now we are learning how to make the best use of them.  The screens will display our Order of Service, hymns and other songs, stories read to our children, speakers' visuals, and other service elements.
 
We need volunteers! Our plan is to have two volunteers every Sunday and the ability to rotate people to reduce the frequency needed. We also need content providers, folks who know or are willing to learn Powerpoint and can create what is put on our screens.  We will train you so don't be shy!
 
Exciting times at UUCT!  If you are interested, or even might be interested, contact our Worship Chair, Diane Gainforth at worship@uutampa.org.
FRIENDSHIP DINNERS     
 
Friendship Dinners have a new twist! The group that was hosted by Karin and Terry Lanning in March has decided to do a dinner circle. Each month one member of that circle group will host the dinner, so the same group gets together once a month until all members have hosted a dinner. At that point, they can discontinue the group or start over.  

Friendship dinners or circle dinners are a great way to get to know some of your fellow UUs.  If you would like  to host a regular friendship dinner, or start a circle dinner, or would just like more information, please contact Kim McDonald at 813-380-2628 or email kim9mcdonald@gmail.com.
TEEN & ADULT GAME NIGHT -  taking a break 
Our every-second-Friday Teen and Adult Game Night is taking a summer vacation and will start up again in August.

We plan to branch out to games not usually seen at Game Night, so make a list of what you'd like to play and send it to Jeannette Manning at manningjea@yahoo.com or tel. 813-857-0468.  Have a great summer!
Honoring Earth
On April 20th, the Sunday service focused on sending love to our Mother Earth.  The globe that was part of that service now hangs out in the meditation meadow. 
 
UUCT mUUsic Group
Meets 7:30pm Mondays
 
Behold our muse. Not sure how musical you are? Afraid you'll be embarrassed?
Come to mUUsic Group sessions anonymously if you like. Your secret will be safe with us.  So, please join us in the Small Dome. We're there every Monday at 7:30 PM.

In the spirit of old-time hootenannys and good-time jam sessions, this is an informal gathering of musicians, vocalists, and just plain music lovers who want to make or listen to mUUsic. Sing, play an instrument, drum, or bang on an upside-down waste basket. Get creative. It's all good.

Everyone is welcome, regardless of ability or experience. So come one, come all, and let the good times roll!
The Surface and the Deep
When our days are turbulent and troubled, our challenge is to remember that the wave is not the sea.  Though it pounds us, the pounding will pass.  Thought it tosses us about , the tossing will pass, if we don't fight it. 

Often our fear misleads us to stay in close to the shore, when the safest place is in the deep, if we can get there.  Any swimmer knows:  stay too close to the shore and you will be battered by the surf and undertow.  We must swim out past the breakers if we are to know the hammock of the deep.  Stay on land or make it to the deep.  It is the in-between that kills.

A Month of Sundays at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa
Services begin at 11 a.m. 
 
July 6  "Religious Freedom in America"  Guest speaker, Dr. Roy Kaplan
Dr. H. Roy Kaplan was an associate professor in the Department of Africana Studies at the University of South Florida until his retirement.   He was the Executive Director of the National Conference of  Christians and Jews for Tampa Bay and served as an advisor to President Clinton's race relations task force. He has received many local and national honors for his multicultural work in schools and in 1998 was named National Hero of Education by the U.S Department of Education.  He has worked with Americans United for Separation of Church and State and is the author of many books on the theme of equality and multiculturalism, many of which are available through Amazon.  His latest book is Understanding Conflict and Change in a Multicultural World.  Dr. Kaplan has appeared on the following television shows: Phil Donahue Show, The Today Show, Sunday Today, CBS TV Morning Show, CBS Evening News, NBC Nightly News, Good Morning America, Canada AM, CBN 700 Club,  and Prime Time Live.

July 13  "A Job Description for God"  The Reverend Doak Mansfield                           
Some considerations of the qualities expected for the ultimate reality of life with regard to past notions and present needs.

July 20  "Spirituality for Skeptics" The Reverend Doak Mansfield                           
"Lots of ideas abound about being spiritual without being religious. I'll share some thoughts and feelings on that and offer some of my thoughts about the essentials of spirituality." ~ Doak.

July 27  "Why are We?" The Reverend Doak Mansfield  
Some ideas about the purpose or our mission as a freedom informed spiritual/religious community. Are we to just hold one another's hand, or just listen to every notion, idea we can think of, or complain and judge, or what? 

Conversations with the Board:  Members of the Board of Trustees will be present for conversation after church on the last Sunday of each month from 12:15 to 12:45 p.m. The purpose of these conversations will be to open communication and share ideas. Come with questions and ideas, but always with an open mind. 
 

Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labor in freedom. ~ Albert Einstein

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