Unitarian Universalist Church of TampaApril 2014

Rev. Dr. Doak Mansfield, Interim Minister  

Erin Powers, DRE 

In This Issue
Wondering While Wandering
Desk of the President
R.E. flections
Betty Lee Service Award
Candidates for BOT
Congregrational Meeting
Settled Minister Search
Share the Plate
Circles in the Woods CUUPS
The Good Book
mUUsic
Game Night
Technology Improvements
Social Activities
Concerts
HOPE
Calling all Hymnals
Wine Country Holiday
Jerusalem, Petra, Dead Sea
Cruise with UUs
Friendship Dinners
Trunk Sale Fund Raiser
Denomination Affairs
UU Choral Festival
Florida District Assembly
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Wondering While Wandering . . .  
Expectations are the curse/blessing of life. It is very human to be undone by our expectations of another, situations, or community. We really want this or that to happen. We really want this or that response. Many times we are disappointed and our own build-up, our expectations, become the source of our hurt. Our pain becomes a process of complicity between our wants and reality's unpredictable nature.

What do you expect for our church and what do you expect from it? The answers are informed, shaped by how much you participate and how deep and wide we together can make our "beloved community". Involvement, creativity, boldness, and loving cooperation will make the future we want. Complaining so as to complain, posturing so as to be noticed, undermining for ego's sake, and sabotaging will not. Thank goodness I have not found those destructive elements at UUCT.

Time, talent, and treasure are the ingredients each us can offer and that are vital. Together the strength and significance we create from those gifts can make possible UUCT fulfilling its potential, our needs, and needs of those who come our way! And let us always learn, remember but not be limited by the memories, and with hope (and hard work) imagine and claim the possible.

The blessing and power of congregational polity (governance) is that the local church, fellowship, congregation directs, selects and calls their ministers, and supports the life of the community. We take seriously the priesthood and prophet-hood of all. 

The ordained (aka: professional, dedicated, trained) Unitarian Universalist minister's challenge is to offer a "salvation story" authentic to each minister that seeks to serve a congregation, always mindful that all are joined in freedom and respect to consider with relentless openness the great and small issues of life.

We do not accept what is inherited because it is tradition or some power says so. We wonder and examine, consider and test, struggle and doubt, to discern working truths for living, coping, and understanding.

We have rich religious, scientific, social, psychological, philosophical traditions to consider, mine, contend with, and learn from. But as a creedless faith it is our task to craft a meaningful faith from whatever sources we feel are honest and helpful. The ideas and ideals we derive should be able to inform our living, contribute to the health and quality of life of the whole community, and work for justice and peace.

Lets not expect truth and absolutes handed down from Heaven, or from "The Great and Powerful Oz", from power politics, or from some other wondrous external source; but embrace with heart and mind the discernment process that is our way as thoughtful, caring, engaged people, and faithful people.  If love guides us we will be good and manifest fully our worth, and as we become our significance will be enlarged and, most of all, relevant and of value.

Let us live in love guided by our needs, efforts, contributions, and always our creativity. If we do our expectations may just be realized.

Together ~ Doak
The Reverend Dr. Doak M. Mansfield, Interim Minister
Desk of the President
There will be much talk going on about the kickoff of our Ministerial Search.  We will be electing the Search Committee on April 6th and then they will be off learning about each other and their new tasks.  They will then begin to ask us, the members, who we are and what we value.  I don't know yet which vehicles they will use, but there will be surveys, meetings, and conversations.  Lots of conversations.

Whoever we elect will be working very, very hard to meet all the deadlines and to do all the investigation and consultation necessary to choose a new minister for us.  They will need a lot of our help, you know, the positive kind of help.  They will get some of the other kind of help, too, but they don't need that quite as much.  So what can you do while you are waiting for them . . . ? 

Look at the Morris Bridge entrance as you come in.  This is what happens when a small group of people decide to dedicate some time to improve their Church.  A Chalice Circle group has adopted part of the front entrance and have spent hours cutting, trimming, raking, bagging, hauling, and sweating.  And the result is something that makes us all proud.

While we are waiting for the new minister I ask that you or your committee/group/team/ adopt some part of the campus and do what these people did.  Give some time and some energy in making this a more pleasant and presentable place.

When prospective ministers visit the campus during pre-candidating let's give them the best possible view of us.  Clean windows, touched up paint, trimmed plants, readable signs, repaired furniture, and so forth send a positive message of ownership by the congregation.

Whatcha gonna do?
 
Bill
UUCT
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Easter Traditions 
How Does a UU Family Celebrate Easter? 
Being and/or becoming a Unitarian Universalist family can be very liberating.  However, when major religious/secular holidays come around, there is often the question.  How does a UU family celebrate?  The short answer is, any way you want!  But, in our search for truth and meaning, we long for more.  What aspects are important to you?  Are there any aspects that bring up painful memories?  Or maybe you have never observed this particular holiday.   There is no one right answer, but there is great opportunity to create a meaningful tradition for your family.  I invite you to explore each holiday with your family and decide together what is important.  Easter is coming up soon.  This is a great time to explore the idea of rebirth and second chances.  It's a time of renewal.  If you do the egg and bunny routine, explore why eggs are symbolic and why we dye them.  Does your family know about Ostara?   What does your family know about the life and death of Jesus?  All of these things are important for understanding our interconnected web and practicing compassion for each other.  This Easter I invite you to explore the holiday deeper and make a personal connection for your family.  We will explore some of these aspects of Easter and Ostara in our Religious Exploration classes leading up to our Easter Sunday Flower Communion.  It's an annual tradition in our church and many other UU churches.  Afterwards we will have our annual Easter Egg Hunt and potluck.  I hope to see you there!

Erin Powers, DRE for Children & Youth 

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Board to accept nominations for the Betty Lee Service Award
The Betty Lee distinguished service award acknowledges a member of UUCT for "high standards of diligence and dedication" to the well-being of our church.  The Board of Trustees is currently accepting nominations from members of our congregation for this annual award.

Please submit your nomination by Thursday, April 10, 2014, to president@uutampa.org with the reasons you believe this individual should receive the Betty Lee Award.  The final candidate will be presented with the Betty Lee Award at our annual congregational meeting on Sunday, May 4, 2014.

Past Betty Lee Service Award winners:
1982 Harry Albertson
1983 Joyce Glauser
1991 Patricia McCracken
1992 Joyce Formica
1993 Hazel Peterson
1994 Gene Pizzo
1995 Jay Palmer
2005 Kathy Albury
2007 Ed Benedict
2008 Judy Lehman
2009 Pat Benedict
2010 Ara Rogers
2011 Bill Blymiller
2012 Joan Lund
2013 Tempie Taudte and Fran Davin

Note:  While a member may continue to be well-deserving, please don't nominate a previous recipient or a Board of Trustees member.  Thanks!

Board of Trustees Candidates Announced   The Nominating/Leadership Development Committee is pleased to announce that six (6) members of our Church have agreed to stand for election to the Board of Trustees (BOT) at the Annual Congregational Meeting on Sunday, May 4, 2014.  The candidates are (in alphabetical order): Randy Gainforth, Earl Harvey, Kim McDonald, Stan Morey, Mary Satterwhite, and David Stickell.  These six candidates are running for the three (3) BOT positions, whose term of office ends on August 31, 2014.  Subsequently, the three candidates that are elected will start their terms on September 1, 2014.
A biographical sketch of each of the candidates follows:

Randall Gainforth
I joined UUCT in February 2010.  I had retired from Hillsborough County employment about two years before, after working there for over 30 years.  I had lost many of my significant social connections and  opportunities to help out and make a social contribution.  I found that UUCT is a place where I have found those connections and opportunities again.  Here I have found the people with whom I want to surround myself and my family and there are always many things that need to be done.
The reasons I am interested in serving on the BOT:  I want to represent the interests of the congregation.  I want to hear what members care about and what they think should be done.  I want to have a general knowledge of what all the committees are involved in as well as all the interests groups as well.  I am interested in participating in the growth of the Church Council as a governing group in conjunction with the BOT.  And I am interested in the human relations required to participate in a democracy.
The most pressing need of UUCT is stability and reflection during a long transition to the new settled minister.  Another need is the growth of leadership to match the growth in membership and the growth of the programs that UUCT offers.  And UUCT has an ongoing need to facilitate a sense of belonging and contribution for all of its members and friends.  For me that is the central purpose of this church.
I am asked to share my weaknesses in a group setting.  Who says UU's don't have confession?  My primary weakness is my social involvement and sense of contribution in all the other social systems in my life.  I will list a few:  I am married for 31 years with a 15 year old daughter.  I coach her league softball team.  I am a Tai Chi instructor and teach and attend 4-5 classes a week.  I am a board member of the Florida Adlerian Society for 20 years.  This a psychology group of like-minded people and we have monthly meetings and put on a conference every March.  I have a private practice for mental health counseling in Temple Terrace that I have been building for the past six years.  In my spare moments, I try to have a personal life where I like to be outside, walk, bicycle, kayak, and golf.  
I hope this is a helpful biographical sketch and you will consider having me represent you on the Board of Trustees.

Earl Harvey
My wife Ann and I joined the UU of Detroit in June of 1959. All three of our children attended and graduated from their R.E. program.
My first committee participation at First UU was on the Building and Grounds committee. Subsequently I served as Chairman of Building and Grounds.
In the mid-1970's, I was elected to the Board of Trustees of First UU and served two terms, which was for 6 years. I was elected Vice President of the Board in 1980 and the following year was elected President of the Board of Trustees. I served an additional one-year term as Immediate Past President.
Since joining UUCT, I have served on the Finance Committee, Planning Committee and Buildings and Grounds. Was asked to serve on the Construction Committee for the Multi-Purpose Building project and saw that project though to successful completion.
With my past experience in two UU congregations in leadership positions, I feel that I am prepared to contribute positively if elected to the UUCT Board.

Kim McDonald
In the summer of 2012, one of my few friends moved to Tennessee, and I realized that my circle of support was shrinking.  Being self-employed, I didn't have a workplace in which to develop new relationships.  Since arriving in the Tampa area in 1998, I had often thought about trying out the Unitarian Universalist Church.  I had briefly attended a UU church in Kalamazoo, MI, and I knew that the lack of a creed and emphasis on principles was a fit for me, but until August of 2012, I didn't really feel compelled to take the first step of trying it out.  From my first visit, I knew I had discovered a community of like-minded souls where I could be me. Within a few weeks I enlisted in UU 101 to find out more about the Unitarian Universalist Church, and I became a member in November, 2012.
Soon after I started attending UUCT, I began taking part in various activities, as I wanted to meet the people in my new community.  After I became a member, I further enriched my experience by joining committees.  I am currently involved with the Membership and Social Activity Committees, and I serve as the Friendship Dinner Coordinator for the latter. I am also on the Interim Minister Transitional Team, a Worship Associate, and the member of a Chalice Circle.  UUCT has become an important part of my life, and I would like to give back to the community that has given so much to me by serving on the board.  I believe that the experience as a board member would help me to meet more people and develop deeper relationships, while I give my energy and experience to aid in the leadership of the church.
Although I have not had the experience of sitting on a board previously, I have been involved in civic organizations where I have held the positions of secretary and treasurer. Since 2005, I have been the owner, administrator, and a clinician, for two successful mental health assessment businesses, one of which is still my source of employment.  In the past, I have worked in banking and graphic design, although the advances in technology have made so many changes in those fields that my knowledge is dated. In addition to the design of a monthly magazine, I was also editor, and those skills have served me well in many areas of my life.
If given the opportunity, I think my curiosity and questioning attitude would be an asset to the Board of Trustees.  I am fond of doing research to further my knowledge and understanding, and I have an analytical mind. Until I understand a situation, I am sometimes reticent to speak out, but at UUCT, I have found that everyone is willing to help me learn what I don't know about the church.  I understand that serving the church by being on the board is a commitment of my time and energy, and I did not take that commitment lightly when I agreed to accept the nomination.  As I learn more about the church, I would also be willing to serve as a Board Officer.
UUCT is in an exciting period of time as we move from an interim minister to a settled minister.  This is a time of discovering more about us as a group and where we wish to be headed, so that we can make a good match with a new minister.  Although the search committee will have the burden of finding the right minister, I think the board must be part of the process that helps the congregation identify its goals and mission, perhaps with some challenges or different ideas to consider. If growth is a goal, the board also needs to find ways to increase our budget while using the funds wisely, and it must also determine what to do if we outgrow our facility. Although it is important that members assist in the financial support of our organization, other avenues should be investigated to aid in meeting our budget needs.
If not elected, I will continue to work on various committees to serve my UUCT community. I am interested in worship, leadership, adult religious education, and social activities.  I am also open to leading a Chalice Circle.

Stan Morey
My name is Stan Morey, and I am married to Gery Morey for 50 years.  We have been members of the UU Church for approximately 10 years.
I have a BS in Biology/Chemistry from the University of Tampa, Graduate studies in Medical Allied Sciences from Shands Medical at the University of Florida, and a Ph.D. from the California Institute of Technology.
I have taught HS Science until I was offered a job at the Department of Natural Resources.  In this position I supervised 44 scientists in the Nuclear Power Plant study of the Crystal River Power Plant.  Because of the politics involved pertaining to this study I resigned my position.
Because I was friends with Art Pepin and August Busch I embarked on an entrepreneurial venture called Naturite, Inc.
This entity operated a Health Club known as Stan's Gym, managed seminars, and trained elite athletes.  This entity was in operation for 30 years.
I then entered the garbage business called Waste Aid Services, and served as the District Environmental and Safety Manager.  This business was purchased by BFI the second largest garbage business in the world.
I then took a position as Superintendent of Public Works for the City of Temple Terrace where I managed Garbage, Garage, inventory and Streets.
During these years I was Florida Amateur Athletic Chair for the weigh sports, was a member of its America Committee.  I was also Vice-President of the World Physique Federation, and chair of its medical committee.
I promoted Physique competitions ranging from local titles to the Mr. and Ms. Universe.
I have authored 9 books, and ghosted several others.
I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma and was at stage IV. A stem cell implant saved my life.
I am retired, and believe I can be a functional member of the Board of Trustees.

Mary Satterwhite
I first visited our UU church on Mother's Day, 2012 and knew from the moment I stepped inside that I was "home".  I realized immediately that I had found a place where I "belonged" in a group of open-minded and ethical individuals.  I lobbied Rev. Sara for membership, wrote my own Credo, and finally joined the church in late August or early September of 2012.  
We do have some important issues facing us in the next few years -growing our church financially through membership, donations, and fundraising, making our budget stretch to meet our needs in the future, tending to our aging infrastructure, and locating a new settled minister.  We can accomplish these tasks, as they have been accomplished in the past, if we all work together as a team.  
Because I believe in being involved in our community of fellow members, I became interested in serving you very early in my membership.  First, by working in the kitchen and then gradually adding duties as opportunities arose, the latest being joining the Worship Associates and the Stewardship Committee.  Being on the Board is another opportunity to serve.
I worked for the City of Temple Terrace in the library for 37 years - the last 29 years as the Assistant Director and the last 7 of those as the Director.  While I was the Assistant Director I was tasked with developing the annual budget and keeping track of expenditures throughout the year which I found I enjoyed, although not without its frustrations.  As the Director I had to develop my organization skills to a higher degree which I did as I am a hard working individual, not afraid of "getting my hands dirty" for the good of the organization. I also oversaw a staff of 20 disparate individuals, many of whom had strong personalities and differing opinions on almost any topic and it was my job to "manage" these individuals and motivate (encourage) them to work well together for the good of the library and themselves.  
When I had to retire early on disability because of a fatal and debilitating illness, I joined the Taoist Tai Chi Society where I spent 8 months learning to stand and walk again.  My leadership talents came again to the forefront once I started set leading as others in the class gradually started looking to me for leadership.  
After I retired I joined the Friends of the Temple Terrace Public Library Board and the Library Board.  Within a year after joining the Friends, I became the Treasurer, a position I held until I rotated off the Board after 3 years.  I also developed and administered their budget in line with the library's and worked to supply the library with funding for those items not included in the City budget.
With my strong emphasis on budgeting, I necessarily feel it is vital to our church to provide us with financial support in order to meet our goals.  When the opening arose in the Stewardship Committee, I jumped right in as I believe in our church and its mission in our community - in its Principles and goals.
Although my health is an issue, I am addressing my problems with all my determination to continue on despite the hardships.  I am not lacking in courage to undertake difficult challenges in my life - whether they be my health or my commitments.

David Stickell
In June of 2010 I moved to Tampa to be closer to my only child, a daughter who lives on the Hillsborough River, near 56th Street. I had been to UUCT a few times over the years, while visiting my daughter.
It is my belief that the trustees are central figures in the life of the Church. I felt honored to be asked to run. I have been quite interested to notice the similarities and differences between the UUCT and the UUFCC in Pennsylvania, where I was a member for about 50 years. If I became a trustee I would have the duty and the responsibility to help steer the UUCT effectively in the direction its members want to go.
Since I am so new to the UUCT I am not confident that my assessment of the most pressing issues facing us is valid, although I feel I am being enlightened as a member of the Interim Ministry Transition Team. My current thoughts are:
Dealing with issues related to being a pastoral vs. program church. It seems to me that what's most urgent is that the members be clear about the significance of any choices made.
Electing a search committee willing to do the crucial, difficult work involved in knowing who we are and what we want and identifying and attracting the leadership we need. Attracting the leadership we need will involve a careful analysis of the possible need to raise more for the minister's financial package.
I do not feel as though I have a very clear view of my strengths and weaknesses as a member of a group such as the BOT. As is so often true, one of my strengths is also one of my weaknesses. I am a fairly good listener and a thoughtful responder, but not very quick. Many experience me as frustratingly slow and deliberate. I think I'm a good team member, but not a leader. If the team has agreed on one or more goals, I will do my best to contribute to meeting them. Even if they are not my personal top choices. A major weakness is in original thinking, but I believe I'm fairly good at recognizing good ideas from others and occasionally can suggest improvements. One potential problem is my lack of a driver's license. This does not appear to be a problem at UUCT because of the number of members who have given me rides and offered to do so. I have some formal training as a mediator and some limited experience in district court, mostly with a partner.
My involvement with Unitarians and then with U-U's has been almost exclusively with the UUFCC (Unitarian-Universalist Fellowship of Centre County, PA.I joined in 1958 while a grad student and public school teacher. During my 50 years there (minus 5 years out of town) I served as president, on two search committees, ministerial relations committee, building committee, RE committee, adviser to the Student Religious Liberals, canvasser, taught About Your Sexuality, and was a facilitator for a Small Group Ministry group (here it's called Chalice Circle). When I joined, the group was small and we had no minister and the services were not recorded. When we started recording them on audio cassettes, I volunteered to do the recording and maintain a library of the tapes. After fifteen or so years another member who was a self-employed recording engineer took over and bought professional equipment, including wireless microphones and earphones for those who had difficulty hearing.
At UUTC I have served with Beverly Bethune on the collect and count team, with Mary Satterwhite on the Social Activities Committee, and am currently serving on the Interim Transition Team, and being trained to become a Worship Associate. I joined the Wednesday night Chalice Circle as soon as it was formed.

(This article is submitted by the Nominating/Leadership Development Committee, whose members are Diane Gainforth, Russell Kirby, Russell Patterson, and Ed Benedict.) 
Congregational Meeting
May 4, 2013 at 12:30 our annual Congregational Meeting will be held in the Sanctuary of the Large Dome. 

In addition to the presentation of the Betty McClure Lee Distinguished Service Award, we will elect three new Board of Trustee members who will take office on September 1, 2013.   

So mark your calendars for the meeting and watch for the BOT candidates with their biographies prior to the meeting.
Important Dates for our Settled Minister Search

Congregational Conversation                 March 23, 2014
(a discussion of the tasks, timelines, and needed talent for the Search Committee)

 Deadline for Applications                        March 30, 2014
 (nominations are possible from the floor with some restrictions)

Search Committee Election                     April 6, 2014
 
Ministerial Settlement Representative      April 13, 2014  (sermon, congregational conversation, meeting with Board, meeting with Search Committee)
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"Share the Plate" with Local Charities
The Board of Trustees and the Community Action Council would like to welcome all to share the gift of our generous congregation with several local charities. We continue celebrating this gift on the first Sunday of every month. This month it is April 6.   All monetary donations, and checks made out to UUCT  with the charity's name in the memo line of the check, obtained during our offertory for that day will be donated in full to a spotlight local charity of the month.  All pledges to UUCT should be written out and identified as such on the memo line.  The charity will be chosen by the Community Action Council and will reflect the values and principles that we as UUs hold dear.  Information on the charity will be made available in various locations (Order of Service, pamphlets in the entry way, the Domelight and the Yahoo group) prior to the first Sunday of the month.  Please join us in this new and exciting way to help our local groups to do some good!
Our spotlight charity in this pilot period will be the MacDonald Training Center. The MacDonald Training Center was founded in 1953 and provides educational and vocational services to people with intellectual disabilities in the Tampa area. Their mission statement, "To empower people with disabilities to lead the lives they choose", embodies our first two principles, the inherent worth and dignity of every person, and justice, equity and compassion in human relations.
You are all encouraged to volunteer your time to these charities as well. Visit them on the web at www.macdonaldcenter.org or phone (813) 870-1300 for volunteer opportunities.
-John Powers- Board of Trustee Liaison of Community Action Council  
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Circles in the Woods CUUPS
Circles in the Woods CUUPS sponsors a monthly Full Moon Celebration on Saturdays closest to the full moon.  

Join us on April 12th when the attendees of our Wicca 101 class will lead us in our Full Moon celebration with the focus to heal the Earth.  

All Circles in the Woods CUUPS activities are open to the public and held at UUCT. The only cost is a love donation. Families with children are welcome.  No pets please. Plan to stay to socialize afterwards.  Bring a dish to share. All are welcome who come in perfect love and perfect trust.  

For more information about Circles in the Woods CUUPS, e-mail cuups@uutampa.org.
Good Book Column
Hello Readers:  Here are our new contributions.

Carol Partington:  I recently read this nonfiction book by Conor Grennan, Little Princes.
It was subtitled "One Man's Promise to Bring Home the Lost Children of Nepal". It was an enchanting story that captured my heart.  Conor volunteered in an orphanage in wartorn Nepal, called Little Princes Children's Home. After some time there he discovered that the children were not really orphans. Their families had paid for them to be taken by a man who promised a better life for them. Then he had warehoused them in homes that could barely feed them.  After his initial time volunteering in the home, Conor kept coming back.   He became deeply connected to the children and committed to reuniting them with their families against all odds.  The book was published in 2010.

Mary Satterwhite:  The Wave, by Sonali Deraniyagala.  This is an engrossing account of Somali Deraniyagala's experience when the Sri Lanka tsunami wiped out her entire family on December 26, 2004. She lost her husband, her two children, and both her parents in the surge. Following the event, she went into a deep depression with frequent thoughts of suicide, a condition she lived in several years before she finally took up her life again. This book is beautifully written, filled with anguish yet beauty. Over the course of the book she relives her life with her family, detailing the richness of her childhood in Sri Lanka and her love of her husband and her children. It is so well written that one can almost feel the turmoil of the waves as they tossed and tumbled her before they spit her out, alone, on the sand. It is definitely worth the read.

Peggy and Jack McNair:  We are reading the Mistmantle Chronicles by M. I. McAllister. It's a wonderful series of books for young readers, about the adventures of animals living on the island of Mistmantle. It is not a religious book, but it has spiritual themes of good and evil, faith, hatred, courage, etc. I'm glad we found it!

Peggy Mansfield:  The Bride Quartet Series-Happy Ever After is a series by number one best selling romance author, Nora Roberts. Though the four books have been out for some time, they are light-hearted, fun, and very predictable if you have not read them. Involved are four childhood best friends who grew up to plan and stage weddings. Early background reveals the friends spending hours during their childhood staging the perfect wedding. From their animals that were dressed for various parts to the exchange of parts by the girls it seems their playtime events evolved into their eventual business. The planner, the baker, the photographer, and the floral designer had each perfected their role in the wedding industry and then find themselves taking their own walk down the aisle.  Hardly a thought provoking read but each book is a fun look into the personalities, expertise, and relationships of the four friends.  Caution! Guys may or may not enjoy this series.

Thanks to our contributors.  Summer is coming up, so it's a perfect time to hear from our readers about some good  light reading that we can take on our vacations.   I look forward to hearing from you.

Editor, Carol Baker

UUCT mUUsic Group
Meets 7:30pm Mondays
 
Behold our muse. Not sure how musical you are? Afraid you'll be embarrassed?
Come to mUUsic Group sessions anonymously if you like. Your secret will be safe with us.  So, please join us in the Small Dome. We're there every Monday at 7:30 PM.

In the spirit of old-time hootenannys and good-time jam sessions, this is an informal gathering of musicians, vocalists, and just plain music lovers who want to make or listen to mUUsic. Sing, play an instrument, drum, or bang on an upside-down waste basket. Get creative. It's all good.

Besides having fun and making friends,  the mUUsic Group's goal is to develop a sufficient repertoire of folk, blues, rock, traditional, spiritual, and other songs so that we can:

a) Provide the "mUUsic" when the choir has a Sunday off
b) Perform onstage at UUCT's periodic Blues & Barbecue and other events.

Everyone is welcome, regardless of ability or experience. So come one, come all, and let the good times roll!
- Terry Lanning, terryjlanning@gmail.com, (813) 679-3013.
TEEN & ADULT GAME NIGHT - Fri., April 11, 6:30-9pm 
If you haven't been to Game Night recently, come on out - it's a lot of fun.  Make new friends or hang out with old ones.  We meet in the main room in Multi-Purpose Bldg., 6:30-9:00'ish.
 
Do you play mah jongg or would you like to?  If interested, please contact Diana Stevens ttlassie@gmail.com or Jeannette Manning manningjea@yahoo.com.  We'll need 4 people to play, so please let us know if you are interested.
 
Mexican Train dominoes is a perennial favorite.  We also have Uno, Rook, Skip-Bo and Scrabble sets, as well as cards and whatever YOU want to bring. Great snacks are provided.
 
FOR YOUR CALENDAR - we will not hold Game Night during the summer months (May, June and July) and will restart in August.
 
If any questions, contact Jeannette Manning, 813-857-0468, manningjea@yahoo.com.   
State of the Art Audiovisual Display Coming Soon
UUCT members and visitors will see some changes at the front of the sanctuary soon. The Worship and Technology Committees teamed up to form a Task Force that will prepare a proposal and complete a proof of concept for A/V digital television screens for the sanctuary.

With the detailed proposal we will specify large, wall-mounted, high-definition screens, one on each side at the front of the sanctuary behind the stage. The size of the screens was carefully determined by distance and mathematical formula so that printed materials and other graphics will be legible from the farthest points of the sanctuary.

 

Each Sunday, this custom-designed state-of-the-art system will display our Order of Service, hymns and other songs, stories read to our children, speakers' visuals, and other service elements as necessary.  The new system will help UUCT be a green congregation by cutting back on the use of paper for the Order of Service and reducing the need to replace or increase the number of hymnals. It will also make elements of Sunday services easier to see, especially for the visually impaired and people sitting in the back rows or in the balcony.  

 

The new audiovisual display will be integrated with the sanctuary's multichannel sound system, allowing for projection of audiovisual presentations, movies, and even live TV.

 

How can we afford this?  We can move forward because a generous donation from past members Bev and Sandy Rogers established a UUCT Stagecraft Fund. In gifting the money, they stipulated that it was to be used for theatrical-type enhancements. This new high-definition system fits their criteria perfectly.

 

Exciting times at UUCT!  If you have questions, or concerns, contact our Worship Chair, Diane Gainforth or Mary Francis, the task force leader for this project.

 

And note, a big thank you to Richard Rogers, who donated a new Netgear wireless router that will greatly improve our current connectivity and will be needed with our new video display.
Social Activities A reminder that if you want to have sponsor an activity and would like assistance in scheduling or getting the information about your program in the bulletin or Domelight, please email Mary Satterwhite at marysatterwhite@gmail.com
CONCERTS IN THE UU DOME
Gloria Holloway,  Concert Chair
gshello@tampbay.rr.com  or  813-837-6572 
 
WHAT:  FROM THE HILLS TO THE HOLLERS
(A double-bill concert)
WHO:   STILL ON THE HILL AND  MOONSHINE HOLLER   
DATE:   Thursday March 27, 2014
TIME:    7:30 p.m.
COST:   $12 advance.  $15 door.
(Purchase tickets in advance at the church website http://uutampa.org/concerts/ via check/credit card; check/cash only at the door)

ABOUT THE CONCERT
This will be a lively double bill concert featuring husband/wife duo  STILL ON THE HILL (Donna & Kelly)  AND  husband/wife duo MOONSHINE HOLLER (Paula & Bill).     We can expect multiple instruments, great harmonies PLUS  dancing, i.e.  flat-footin' courtesy of Paula.   


ABOUT STILL ON THE HILL:   The Ozarkian duo of Kelly Mulhollan and Donna Stjerna tour steadily and have many adoring fans.  Both Kelly and Donna are accomplished songwriters and play a plethora of acoustic instruments including acoustic guitar, banjo, fiddle, mandolin, and harmonica. Their repertoire is primarily their own original, roots-based compositions (a genre hybrid they term "folkgrass") interspersed with their own arrangements of traditional songs.  www.stillonthehill.com

Per Julie Kohler, Bluegrass Now:    "These musicians have grafted the wild climbing vines of bluegrass, folk, classical and mountain music onto the hardiest of Ozark rootstock...   It's magic, and there's simply not enough magic in the world today."

ABOUT MOON
SHINE HOLLER:    Paula Bradley and Bill Dillof  (Moonshine Holler)  are  described as a two-person music festival capturing the essence of American southern roots music. They are always crowd pleasers with their spine-tingling vocal harmonies, Appalachian ballads, blues and breakdowns - all the while juggling a variety of instruments such as fiddle, banjo, guitar, Hawaiian guitar, harmonica and ukulele - plus, let's not forget Paula's flatfoot dancing.
Per Rayna Belbert,Rounder Records recording artist:   "Paula & Bill are two of the most versatile and knowledgeable old-time musicians I know. They can pull off so many facets of the tradition with such ease. They're great players, great singers, and know how to have fun!"  http://www.reverbnation.com/moonshineholler
 
Double the pleasure.   Double the fun.    From the Hills to the Hollers -  YESSIREE!  
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HOPE Happenings
Hillsborough Organization for Progress and Equality
By Judy Lane
 
Do the following statements surprise or concern you?
  • Over the past five years, 5,000 children ages 5 - 10 have been arrested in Florida.
  • Families with incomes 50% below the area medium income of $28,200 have only 78 affordable rental units per 100 renters. 
  • In Hillsborough county over 50,000 people leave prison or jail. 92% of these who find employment within the first 360 days do not re-offend.
Join me and other fellow UUs to assure that we will meet or exceed our UUCT turnout goal of 99, toward the overall goal of 1,350, at this year's HOPE Nehemiah Action.

HOPE NEHEMIAH ACTION
Tuesday April 8, 2014
Mt. Calvary Seventh Day Adventist Church
4902 N. 40th Street, Tampa, FL 33610
Sign-In & Music: 6:30 p.m.
Agenda: 7:00 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

It's easy, just show up.  Show our community leaders and politicians that we know the issues, and that we care.  This is an opportunity for us to live our values of justice, democracy and community in a very concrete way.  Please see the HOPE bulletin board for more information or contact me at 831-901-9157 or judylane2003@earthlink.net.

Let's work together for "HOPE for Justice" in Hillsborough County! 
CALLING ALL WANDERING HYMNALS! 
UUCT is short of Singing the Living Tradition hymnals and we are finding ourselves without enough of them for Sunday services. It is believed some of them may be taking a vacation away from UUCT. If you have borrowed a hymnal or hymnals for whatever reason, and it/they reside in your abode, car, office etc. PLEASE return to the Church shelf. No questions asked, you will be APPRECIATED: amnesty granted.

Side note: Hymnals are available for purchase ($28.00 per book) at our UUA Bookstore.  
WINE COUNTRY HOLIDAY
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of North Bay             
"You generously share your beautiful community, your welcoming homes, your expertise and, especially, your warmth.  We will remember this trip always." 
            Ann McCracken, Cincinnati, OH.

The UU's of Napa, California proudly announce the ninth season of our Wine Country Excursions. Again, we offer several options for an inside look at one of America's most beautiful areas, internationally known for fine wines, gourmet dining and spectacular vistas. 

There is much to see and do in the Napa and Sonoma valleys, e.g. wine tasting at renowned and boutique wineries; visits to art galleries and museums; exploring the natural beauty of our hills and valleys on miles of hiking and bike trails or by car on our highways and back country roads. Napa is an hour from San Francisco by car or ferry.

We offer two choices:  Both start with comfortable lodging in members' homes with full breakfast (up to 3 nights).  You can choose a 2-day "Wine Country Excursion," (a guided, personalized tour conducted by one of our members--some with wine industry experience) or lodging and self-guided touring. If desired, we provide guidance, maps, etc.   UU ministers will be personally guided by our minister, Rev. Bonnie Dlott.

The program runs from April through October.  Our fees are well below market rate for comparable services and all proceeds go to our small fellowship.  For complete details contact:  Iris Barrie at 707.363.7552 or barrie001@comcast.net

                       We look forward to sharing our lovely "home" with you! 
Jerusalem, Petra, Dead Sea 
October 24 to November 6, 2014 
Join Rev. Wayne Walder, as we take a Mindful Journey to the Holy Land -- "a cauldron of ancient myths and real historical events that have indelibly marked the fate of humankind."  From the ancient sites of Amman, Jordan, to a magical candlelight walk through the Siq of Petra, to the therapeutic waters of the Dead Sea, and on to explore Jerusalem in depth - a city that captivates the imagination of billions of people and is home to a mosaic of cultures and beliefs - this will be a journey filled with memorable moments and awesome experiences.  Email beverlz@me.com  for details.
Come Cruise with Us
Hello to neighboring UUs  from the UU congregation in Venice.

We have 38 in our group booked for the Douro Valley Cruise in Portugal this summer. And excitement is so high, we're planning the extraordinarily stunning trip (below) for next year. It will be a fundraiser for the Unitarian Universalist Congregation  of Venice, on a brand new deluxe cruise ship, and we hope that UUs from surrounding congregations will join us for these 10 days. That would make a great trip even greater.

To reserve please contact:  Vantage travel at 1-800-322-6677.  In order to be listed with our UU group, make sure you mention our group number G648400.                                      

Or visit www.vantagetravel.com, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.. Take your pick of the best cabins, maximize savings, and sail from just $169 a day!  $500 holds your reservation til spring 2015.  Details at travel@uucov.org.
FRIENDSHIP DINNERS     
 
Friendship Dinners have a new twist! The group that was hosted by Karin and Terry Lanning in March has decided to do a dinner circle. Each month one member of that circle group will host the dinner, so the same group gets together once a month until all members have hosted a dinner. At that point, they can discontinue the group or start over.  Ann and Earl Harvey are hosting that circle dinner in April, and there is an opening for two more participants to join that group. A sign up sheet will be posted on the bulletin board.

Friendship dinners or circle dinners are a great way to get to know some of your fellow UUs.  If you would like  to host a regular friendship dinner, or start a circle dinner, or would just like more information, please contact Kim McDonald at 813-380-2628 or email kim9mcdonald@gmail.com.

Trunk Sale Fund Raiser

TEASER:  Got junk or, for some of us, personal treasures?  And who doesn't?  Want to get rid of it?  Even make a couple of bucks for yourself, AND help your church community raise some money?  Then  come out to the church on  Saturday, April 26th for the big Spring Trunk Sale.

HOW IT WILL WORK:   For a $15.00 parking fee, you can rent a designated parking space in the church's parking lot.  If you want a cleaner selling venue than your trunk, you can rent an 8 foot long table for $20.00. Then, you sell your stuff (junk or treasures) just like at a garage sale, and give 10% (or more, your choice) of what you make off your stuff to the church.  If you want to get a good spot you may pre-arrange your parking space or table by paying your fees early to Judy Lehman, jr.lehman@verizon.net or Pat Benedict, ptbenedict@gmail.com.

ALSO AVAILABLE FOR SALE:  Snacks and drinks at a reasonable prices.

ANTICIPATED OUTCOME:  Our community, and perhaps some passing guests, will have an opportunity to buy each other's stuff, swap some good stories, and enjoy each other's company while we make a couple of bucks for the church.  Hope to see you there.

NOTE:  What you do not sell, or what you buy, leaves the church's grounds with you.   We need to keep our parking lot and large dome balcony clean.
Report on Denomination Affairs 
by Dottie Mann

I didn't know what that title meant when I agreed to lead it, so let me say I provide liaison with organizations beyond our own UU, principally the West Central Cluster, made up of 11 UU congregations from St. Pete to Lakeland to Brooksville.  I attend board meetings, learn what our fellow congregations are planning and doing, and bring the information back home.  Thanks to Rev. Doak's enthusiastic support, we had the most attendees at a Five Workshop Saturday recently in St. Pete, bringing home what we learned about generosity, calling a minister, enhancing music programs, creating quality worship and growth.

On March 27, a Renewal Service featuring UUA Moderator Jim Key was held at St Pete Church, with Rev. Doak participating.

A memorial and candlelight vigil service will take place at St Pete Church on Palm Sunday evening, April 13, for the victims of the Dozier School in Marianna, Florida.  Pierre Williams of the host church is leading a petition drive to re-open the criminal investigation. ( A web site at www.boysschooljustice.org provides information and a petition to sign.)

On May 3 we will host the Cluster Annual Meeting, which includes a luncheon.  I am eagerly awaiting some volunteers to help with this event, my first at my new UU home.  Please help out; contact me at doromom@gmail.com or 813-985-2342.  Thanks in advance.

 
8th Annual Florida District UU Choral Festival

APRIL 26 & 27
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Vero Beach

The Florida Choral Festival will be held concurrently with the Florida District Annual Assembly in Vero Beach, Florida.

Festival Registration Forms, Directions, Music List and Lodging Information links can be found at http://www.uufvb.org/choral.html
SAVE THE DATE
Join UUs from all over Florida on April 25-26 at the UU Fellowship of Vero Beach (a magnificent facility) for the "triple crown" of UU events in this state:  1) the Annual Florida District Assembly , 2) the Annual Florida District Choral Festival, and 3) the first ever Annual Meeting of UU Justice Florida with all UU congregations invited!  UU Justice Florida will hold a 60-minute workshop Saturday April 26 to show what we have accomplished and can accomplish together. Come register your choices for our Core Issues and our Board of Directors. All recommendations and nominations will be considered.
Contact Kindra Muntz, 941-497-1764, kindra@uujusticefl.org for further details.
The Courage to Join
 Living in modern times has turned us into watchers, placing a sliver of distance between us and everything we meet.  It is this watching that disheartens our days, that take the color out of the earth and makes the songs of time sound flat.

The Native American view on this is healing.  With respect for all aspects of Creation, we are asked to honor whatever we see -- rock, rain, fence, or stranger -- as a member of our family. 

By honoring all things as living, the courage to join with the Universe becomes a manner of being that can happen even while sitting still.   In knowing the world this way, there is no such thing as metaphor.  The wind is not like God's voice.  The wind is God's voice.  Memories are not images of loved ones returning to us.  They are the spirits of loved ones visiting us.

It takes courage to remove the sliver of distance we carry around our necks, but the reward is a world alive and not dead.  Such courage lets the juices of the world flow.

Source:  The Book of Awakening  
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A Month of Sundays at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa
Services begin at 11 a.m. 

April 6   Blessing the Animals  "This will be a first for me but I'm putting my thinking cap on and letting my heart dance to find some thoughts and words to recognize our animal friends", Doak says, Please bring your pet to share in our adventure. It should prove fun. Choir performs.

April 13   The Reverend Dr. Marni Harmony is our quest speaker. She will share thoughts on the UU Ministry.  Reverend Mansfield will serve as service leader.

April 20   The Flower Communion  Erin Powers, Religious Exploration Director, and Reverend Mansfield will lead this nearly century UU old all-church (intergenerational) welcoming of spring and celebration of community service. Please bring flowers or blooming foliage to contribute to our celebration.

April 27   Leaves: Love 'em or Lose 'em  Circles in the Wood CUUPS.  Come and celebrate all the various kinds of love for Mother Earth and each other, that will encourage our wild wood to become greener and greener.  

Conversations With The Board:  Members of the Board of Trustees will be present for conversation after church on the last Sunday of each month from 12:15 to 12:45 p.m. The purpose of these conversations will be to open communication and share ideas. Come with questions and ideas, but always with an open mind.  
"If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be."
~ Maya Angelou

Contact Info
UU Church of Tampa

email: info@uutampa.org

11400 Morris Bridge Road, Tampa, FL 33637
813-988-8188