I owe an apology to the hundreds of staff and volunteers of our community's
many social service agencies who work tirelessly
to help individuals and/or families in need.
I also need to thank the many compassionate individuals who quickly
came to the plate to help a family in need.
Apology/Explanation
In my last newsletter, I shared the story of two amazing young men who, for the past two or more years, have cared for their sick mom who recently passed away. One is an "A" student at Beaufort High School, the other a full time student at the Technical College of the Lowcountry who also works 50 hours a week to support his younger brother and mother. Somehow he managed to get her to doctors' appointments and treatments and ensured she was comfortable as she fought a deadly disease.
I was so moved when I read the story, I quickly cut and pasted from a website, and in so doing, seem to have misrepresented a number of public and not-for-profit social service agencies not the least of which is the United Way, The Human Resources Alliance, COSY (The Collaborative Organization of Services for Youth), the Salvation Army, the Franciscan Center and Help of Beaufort.
In what I cut and pasted, there was a sentence that read. "I have contacted The Beaufort Gazette, WTOC news, United Way, Salvation Army, Help of Beaufort, and the Franciscan Center, only to be turned away by every one of them."
What I failed to understand and say was that none of the agencies had the capacity to help with funding a funeral which was, at the time, the young men's sole mission because the clock was ticking and the funeral home was looking for payment.
What should have been added was that "while they were not able to help with my immediate need, each of the organizations I contacted invited me back and offered whatever help they might be able to provide."
So to those I may have led to believe the agencies were not responsive, please accept my apology.
Thanks
Ginger Wareham, the owner of Picklejuice Productions, created a web site asking for donations to help with the funeral as well as contributions of items the young men will need to set up their home now that their mother is gone.
There was an overwhelming response. The young men raised in excess of what they needed for the funeral and household goods flowed into the office building I share with Ginger and others.
Furthermore, the co-owner of a professional counseling service, a retired military man, came forward to mentor the young men and Fred Leyda, Beaufort County's Human Services Coordinator, met with us and set forth a program, including a checklist of issues the men may need to address. In so doing, he outlined the many agencies that could help the young men with various legal, financial and counseling needs they may have.
Thank you Beaufort and friends beyond! You are absolutely the best.
What's next?
I had the good fortune to meet this exemplar young men and to hook them up with help through those of you who donated and the agencies that are offering a helping hand.
I believe the young men have extended their fundraising goal for help to get themselves settled into a new life.
If you have not already donated, and would like to do so, I am sure they would appreciate your help.