Your BaZi Chinese Astrology chart is based on your birth date and it tells the tale of your love life. Here are options you will discover about yourself when you have a reading:

1.      Best scenario is that you have ONE spouse and that you have a loving and easy relationship. Maybe your spouse loves you more than you love them and this okay. If a person's spouse is located in their HOUSE or SPOUSE palace that means they like having their significant other literally in their house. If their spouse is located in their CAREER palace they might work together. Either way, one spouse element of good quality is most desirable.

2.      If your spouse element is on top in the HEAVENLY STEMS it means that everyone in the outside world sees you both together. This is your partner and everyone knows you are a couple.

3.      If the spouse element is a HIDDEN QI, it will be more difficult to be in a relationship and you will have to work harder to get them and keep them. Or, you can be married but most of your friends and co-workers have never met your significant other and some people might not think you are even married. For some people, this type of relationship works well.

4.      Multiple spouses show up as MULTIPLE SPOUSE ELEMENTS. It is Direct Wealth for a man and Direct Officer for a woman. You are more likely to be married a few times depending on how many there are in your chart. Does this mean you are absolutely going to have multiple marriages? It's possible, but remember that free will always comes into play. *Note: multiple spouses can also show up in a Luck Pillar, so even if you have one in your chart you could remarry during a specific cycle.

5.      MISSING a SPOUSE in a chart can be upsetting to those looking for love. If your spouse element is not in your chart and you only have boyfriends or girlfriends, this means you are better in those types of relationships. The minute you get married and make that commitment the element changes and since this is something missing in your chart you will have to work harder to keep it. Most times these folks confide that enjoy being a boyfriend or girlfriend and it works better for them.

6.      LUCK PILLARS can be where the magic shows up. If you are missing a spouse element and truly want to get married you may find that special someone during one of your luck cycles. This means that the element representing the spouse shows up during a ten-year period (different for everyone.) It can show up in a specific year as well. Those are the times to keep your heart open because love can be found.

7.      FEMALE LIFE SONG is a classical combination that shows up in three Jia Zi combinations and it can show up in your chart (applies to ladies only.) If it does, do not fear. We are living in modern times. What it tells a Chinese matchmaker is that this lady is likely to have a solitary life. She has a strike against her as not being suitable marriage material, so not the first choice to marry your eligible son off to. Today it plays little or no significance other than saying you might have to work harder at keeping your relationship healthy and happy. BTW Jennifer Aniston has the Ding/Si or Fire/Snake Ladies Song combination and she is working on her second marriage!