Often we think of letting go as a permanent severing of a person, place or thing. If a relationship isn't working we leave, if a job isn't satisfying we quit or stop producing. While disconnection is a viable and often used option, there are other ways to let go without 'leaving'.  

• Letting go can mean giving up attachment to a certain outcome or behavior
• Letting go can mean learning to see what opportunity is being presented to us and for us in this situation
• Letting go can mean releasing the emotional charge that is caused.  
• Letting go can mean setting new and tolerable boundaries  

, maybe you can't or don't want to sever a relationship or situation, but you do want out of your pain. It doesn't have to be your only choice and you don't have to feel stuck.  

You can choose powerfully to stay and get a new kind of experience - one that builds a new muscle within. This is done first with the decision to stay and grow. Then begin to look within to see what in you needs to have a shift to co-exist with your situation. Ask questions like, 'how can I become better at this', or 'what do I need to do the have this become a better experience?'  

Taking charge of your situation and developing yourself from within , will surely make a difference. Expect to see things from a different perspective now and maybe create complete resolution.  

This is only one of the many aspects of the Art Of Letting Go, albeit a very empowering and effective one. Look for more in the future.  

Enthusiastically,

Fran