Are you a kindergartner ?
I work with some of the most amazing people. Some with double Masters degrees and some who are already financially successful. When I first became a coach I wondered why someone so accomplished would need me. Then one of my first millionaire clients said to me, Fran, all you need to do is get me where I want to go and when you do that, you are a being a great coach. That's when I realized that even though some of us are in what I call 'graduate school' in much of our life, most of us are in kindergarten in other areas. For instance, I might work with people who make loads of money but don't know how to communicate effectively. Or some who know their trade like the back of their hand but don't know how to run a business. I get those who have no clue how to be in an intimate relationship but talented in every other way. We all have an area or two like this. Often we beat ourselves up because we feel like failures when things aren't going well - when all we need to do is get a better perspective. Once we separate the areas where we are in graduate school from where we are in kindergarten, we can isolate our situation and be better prepared to work on it. We can actually stop focusing so much on what we already do well and put energy into where we need development. Where are you in kindergarten ? Don't make it wrong, it's just a muscle you haven't' developed yet and now could be the right time to start paying attention to it! Consider making a two column list of where you are already highly developed on one column and where you want to build yourself on the other. Then start playing with the new side of the list and have fun with it and watch you grow! Happy studying ! Enthusiastically, Fran What the heck is Half & Half coaching? Click Here to find out! Did you enjoy this message? Please 'LIKE' me on Facebook and post your comments there.
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