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Perspectives Counseling Centers Newsletter

January 2013

In This Issue
Our Groups & Workshops
* HEART of Marriage Seminar
* HEART of a Family
* Parenting the Self-Destructive Teen
* Codependency Workshop
* Self-Esteem For Girls
* Stop Procrastinating!
Groups & Workshops

 

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 CHILDREN 

 

Social Skills
Hands on learning as they practice valuable social skills needed to function in society. 
 
Anger

Focuses on ways to decrease anger outbursts and manage emotions effectively.  

  

Anxiety
Teach important skills to help children cope with their anxiety.  

 

TEENS 

 

Teen EDGE

For teens who struggle with depression, anxiety and self-destructive behaviors.

 

Cutting EDGE

Helping teens overcome the urge for self-injurious behavior.

 

Social Skills

Hands on learning as they practice valuable social skills needed to function in society

  

Self-Esteem

Focusing on increasing all aspects of self-esteem for girls presented in a fun "girl empowerment" workshop.

 

Anger

Teen anger management program to learn about anger styles, ways to decrease anger outbursts and manage  emotions effectively.

 

 

ADULTS

 

Parenting the Self- Destructive Teen

Learn the truth about self-destructive behavior; learn how to help your teen.

 

The Young Women's EDGE

For young adult females who struggle with self-destructive behaviors. 

 

Breaking Free from

Co-Dependency

Learn to assertively communicate wants, needs, thoughts & feelings; skillfully manage conflict.

 

The HEART of Marriage

Have a stronger, healthier, more satisfying & fulfilling marriage.

 

The HEART of a Family

Learn how to work through conflict in the family.  Find solutions for complicated family dynamics.   

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It that seems no sooner do we get the decorations up, they need to come back down again...unless of course, we procrastinate.  Cherrie Scott, MA, LLP, LPC has just the remedy to get rid of that nasty habit once and for all!  See her helpful article below. 

 

Perspectives will be sharing the details of the Spring Open House very soon!  Be assured that it will definitely be on a timely, informative topic.  Stay tuned!

 

Leah Ethier, MA, LPC is preparing the Young Women's EDGE group.  Kim Birmingham, LMSW is preparing her workshop Stress Busters:  Helping Kids Conquer Anxiety.  See below for some more great learning opportunities for you or for your referrals. 

 

Our weekly groups are up and running for children and teens.  Call us to get additional information or to register for the next session!  

 

 Perspectives Counseling Centers

The HEART of Marriage
 Get the Skills to Improve Any Marriage
 
with Les Morrison, MA, LPC
Director of Marriage & Family Services
 
Friday, February 8, 2013, 7 pm - 9 pm
snacks included!
&
Saturday, February 9, 2013, 9 am - 4 pm
continental breakfast included!
 
Only $150 per couple!
Over 8 hours of professional therapy for the cost of
1 hour of couples therapy! 
 
This seminar will help you & your spouse to:
 
~  Restore the priority of marriage
~ Learn to value & accept each other
~ Identify core wounds and become allies in healing & growth
~ Discover the rewards of a persistent pursuit of intimacy
(All within the framework of a Biblical world view)   

 

MARK YOUR CALENDAR!

 

Please Call to Reserve Your Seat
by January 25, 2013
 Space is Limited!

 

248.244.8644
 
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The HEART of a Family 
a companion seminar to the HEART of Marriage 
 
Learn how to work through conflict 
within your family.  

 

with Beth Atwell, MA, LPC
 
Saturday, February 23, 2013
10:00 am - 2:00 pm

 

Just $89 per person/$129 per couple
lunch included!
 
Topics include:
 
Working through complicated family dynamics
~  Techniques for resolving conflicts
~  Learning positive ways to communicate
~ Establishing healthy coping skills as a family

 

 
MARK YOUR CALENDAR!
 
You MUST Call to Reserve your Spot
Space is Limited!
 
 248.244.8644
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The Parenting E.D.G.E.
Parenting the Self-Destructive Teen
 
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
7:30 - 9:00 pm
   
with Leslie Johnsen, MA, LLP
Clinical Director & Director of Adolescent Services

 

Learn:

  

~  The truth about self-injurious behavior

~  Common mistakes parents make

~  How to help your teen 

 

 Just $30 per person or $50 per couple

  

 

MARK YOUR CALENDAR!

 

You MUST Call to Reserve Your Spot with Payment
Space is Limited!

 

248.244.8644
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Breaking Free from Codependency
Setting Limits of Responsibility

 

For Adults 18 years & Over

 

with Elaine Booth, LMSW
 
Friday, March 15, 2013,  7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
 Snacks included!

 

Saturday, March 16, 2013, 9:00 am - 4:00 pm
Continental Breakfast included!

 

~ Learn to  say "No" without guilt

~ Assertively communicate wants, needs, thoughts & feelings

~ Skillfully manage conflict

~ Responsibly rebel against depressed, anxious and other troubling thoughts and feelings  

 

Just $149 for over 8 hours of

Professional Skill Building Tools

 

 

MARK YOUR CALENDAR!!!
 
You must call to reserve your seat! 
Space is limited!!
 
248.244.8644 
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Self-Esteem 
Just for Girls
 
Spend the day learning strategies to build confidence & challenge the negative influences on your self-esteem

 

For Girls 12 to 18 years old
  
with Mary Johnson-Palazzolo, LMSW

 
Saturday, March 23, 2013
10:00 am - 3:00 pm
 Lunch included!

 

Just $75 per person
 
Topics include:
 
Challenging Negative Thinking
~  Creating Healthier Relationships
~  Building a Better Body Image
~ Recognizing the Media's Influence
~ Goal Setting for Future Growth 

 

 
MARK YOUR CALENDAR!
 
You MUST Call to Reserve your Spot
Space is Limited!
 
 248.244.8644
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Stop Procrastinating Today!   by Cherrie Scott, MA, LLP, LPC

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I hope the title of this article has caught your attention!! What a great time of the year to tackle procrastination. Here is a bold idea to consider: the way to stop procrastinating starts with the choice to stop procrastinating.   It is that simple ~ there is nothing complicated about this concept.

 

Test it for yourself.  Think of some specific task you have been procrastinating.   It should be something that would only take you 5 minutes to complete. Then do it today.  Check it off your list.  Isn't that empowering?? 

 

Tomorrow, do the same thing; choose a 5-minute task and do it.  The next day, do the same.  Now you are picking up momentum!  After committing to one week, congratulate yourself for breaking the habit of procrastination!

 

If the habit of procrastination has stopped you from getting what you want, then clearly using this strategy can start you on a new path in 2013.  The costs to you for having procrastinated in the past have been huge.  Imagine yourself as a person who now has a vision and goes for it. 

 

Why not start a list of things you would like to accomplish?  You could start a "today list", then a "this week list", then a "this month list" and then a "this year list".  Have fun with it.  The success of completing small tasks can be very contagious.

 

What is also helpful is to become aware of your procrastination style.  Your procrastination style is the key to continuing on your new journey of not procrastinating.  Linda Sapadin, a psychologist, has identified 4 types of procrastination styles. 

 

Are you the dreamer type?  They have big goals but seldom have specific plans. 

 

Are you the worry type?  They tend to focus on the worst case scenario and talk more about problems than wanting to solve them.  

 

Are you the defiant type?  They often resist taking on new tasks or say they will and don't follow through. 

 

Are you the over-do-it type?  They have difficulty delegating tasks and/or setting priorities, resulting in more work than needed. 

 

Lastly, we have the perfectionist type.  They are so fearful of making a mistake or not doing it well enough, they put off the tasks indefinitely. 

 

Now that you have become educated regarding the procrastination styles, you can observe your own behavior.  There is not any harsh judgment about you.  Just observe and record the facts.  Change can happen when we know what to change.  

 

You are now ready to declare your new path by making intention statements.  After formulating a variety of new declarative statements, post them in an obvious place that you will be sure to see. Sticky notes work well and can be updated and added to periodically.  

 

You are ready to take action!  Remember, success breeds success.  The more you work this plan the more you will want to accomplish!

 

Now that you are committed to stop procrastinating, you may realize that you have been putting off making an appointment to work on some issues that have been bothering you.  Trained mental health professionals at 

Perspectives Counseling Centers 

are ready to help! 

 

248 - 244 - 8644

Thank you for your continued trust and confidence!
Sincerely,

 

 Perspectives Counseling Centers