The idea of embracing Shabbat came to me in a most unexpected way. I moved to where I presently live almost four years ago. When I moved there, I decided that I wanted a fresh start, a new beginning. I had been involved in a serious, nearly fatal auto accident. This caused me to think about just how fortunate I am, and was the beginning of my spiritual journey, and a big part of that journey became my commitment to remembering my gratitude and good fortune. It was also the beginning of my embracing of Shabbat.
I remembered having attended family celebrations at Beth Emet in times past, for the occasional bar or bat mitzvah. At our recent Chanukah concert, I reminisced with my son, Erik - who had brought my granddaughters, Grace and Madelyn for the festivities - about attending other celebrations in the past, and what wonderful times those had been: a chance to celebrate with family and friends. It was natural, then, as I began my search for a community and synagogue to join, that I find Beth Emet again.
When I started coming to Beth Emet again, I didn't know anyone. I came alone - and that quickly changed! Everyone has been so pleasant and kind, warm and welcoming to me. I made friends and began to feel comfortable. Now, I am here at Beth Emet on a regular basis, celebrating with my community, learning and attending worship services.
Being able to embrace Shabbat with my chosen community means a lot to me. I have Friday evening services as well as Saturday morning Kahalniks. In either service, I am always embraced with friendship and kindness, and I know that I am an integral part of this synagogue.
Every week, I look forward to my preparations for Shabbat. They are a way to refresh my week. It gives me an opportunity to reflect on the week past, and a time to think about the week ahead. It is also a time to share these celebrations and reflections with friends and community, here at Beth Emet.
This is how I embrace Shabbat.
JACKIE BERMAN has been a member of Beth Emet for the last three and a half years. She has two sons, three granddaughters and will soon welcome twin grandsons into the world! A retired Special Education teacher, she spends much of her time taking classes at Beth Emet and volunteering in a community literacy program as well as at Beth Emet's Soup Kitchen. She is a past member of the Board of Family Resource Center on Disabilities (FRCD).
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