The First Church in Belmont

THE UNITARIAN  October 14, 2014

In This Issue
Reflections from Rev. David Bryce
Music Notes from Alfa Radford
Upcoming Events
Women's Retreat
Calendar 

Next Issue: October 21

Deadline: 3pm October 16

 

Wednesday, October 15

12:00pm BelUnitAlliance. UH.

7:30pm  Women's Group. Lib.

7:30pm   Youth Cte. CR.

Thursday, October 16

6:45pm   Nova Choir. Sanct.

7:30pm   Sci&Spirituality. CR.

7:30pm   SGM. Library.

8:00pm   Knitting Circle. cl4.

Friday, October 17

4:00pm   SGM. Library.

7:30pm   Coffeehouse. PH.

Sunday, October 19

9:25am   Sr. Choir. Parish Hall.

12:30pm COA. Library.

12:30pm Dignity/Indignity of

              Aging. cl5.

4:00pm   Men's Group. Library.

6/7pm    YAC/YG. Parlor/UH.

Monday, October 20

6:30pm   Jr; 7 Chancel/Youth.

8:00pm   Meditation. Lib.

Tuesday, October 21

7:30pm   Program Counc. Parlor.

7:30pm   SGM. Library.

Wednesday, October 22

7:30pm   FCBook Group. Lib.

 

Looking Ahead

October 24: YG Overnight

October 25: Circle Dinners

 

Link to church calendar 

This Sunday 
Music: October 19, 2014

Organ Prelude: Improvisations on Siyahamba  -So. African Song

Alfa Joy Radford, organ

Offertory: Every Day! -written & arranged by guest musicians     

Gospel Band: 

Berklee College of Music Guests:

Dokun Oke, guitar (Nigeria)

Chuks Okpu, contra bass (Nigeria)

Angelina Mbulo, voice (Mozambique)

Wambura Mitaru, voice (Kenya)

First Churchers:

Roger Brown, drums

Richard Curzi, piano 

9:00 & 11:00 Postlude:

Gospel Band

11:00 Sr. Choir: Gloria from Missa Kenya

-Paul Basler (contemporary)

  
The flowers this Sunday are given by Kristin Phillips in loving memory of her father, Nelson E. Phillips.
  
Ushers: Members of the New Connections Ministry
  
Welcome & Announcements:
Peter Guthrie and Tom Neel

 

To All Women of First Church

Our 2015 retreat will take place in beautiful Essex, MA, from March 13 to 15. All women from the church are welcome. If you've been thinking about joining us, now is the time to act-we have only a few spaces left. The October 10 deadline for registration has been extended just for you. See the display at coffee hour or speak to Lillian Anderson (fcbadultprograms@gmail.com) for more information.

 

Social Action Corner

ACTION IS OUR PRAYER

Grow Clinic! Grow Clinic!  

About 10% of Grow Clinic children are homeless and live in shelters. Remember to pick up a Grow Clinic shopping list next time you're at church.

FOOD: ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT MEDICINES

 

Yes, First Church!  Making Steady Progress!

     Sold as of October 8: 33 tickets. HOORAY! We are past half way! Thank you!

     Goal for this year: 60 tickets. To beat last year's record by two and rededicate our energies as we celebrate our pride in 30 years of benefit shows!!

     Still need to sell: 27 tickets. We can do it! We CAN do it! We WILL do it!

     Hold it! Huh? What's this all about? Coffeehouse Season Ticket sales! The world's easiest and most efficient shop-at-home charitable giving, with great music to boot! Support ten deserving charities and receive just over half-price admission for two! Bring your checkbook or cash to the coffee hour or this Friday's October 17 Coffeehouse or send your check for $99 made out to First Church in Belmont, memo line marked Coffeehouse, to First Church in Belmont, P. O. Box 113, Belmont 02478. Join your friends in the First Church family to help achieve this important social action goal! Many thanks! (Click here or go to www.uubelmont.org for more information.)

P.S. We've just been re-reading the thank you letters from last year's beneficiaries, and we are so moved by their gratitude. It makes us really want to be sure we make our goal ... or even exceed it! Our Coffeehouse support makes a truly meaningful difference! Together, let's just see how far we can go!

 

 

Fortuna!

You can come out and sing Orff's thrilling Carmina Burana, set to Medieval love songs, with Mary Beekman in the Belmont Open Sings reading taking place this Sunday, Oct 19, at 7:30pm right here in the Parish Hall of First Church! 2 pianos and 14 percussion instruments will accompany. Tickets are $10.   

 

 

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5 Things To Know This Week
  • Youth Group Fundraisers
  • Belmont Unitarian Alliance Lunch & Program, October 15
  • Second Friday Coffeehouse, October 17 
  • First Church Book Group, October 22
  • Circle Dinners, October 25
Sunday, October 19
When Running Away Is Winning
Rev. David M. Bryce

  

9:00 & 11:00 Church Service                           

Childcare for infants and young children

(For weather-related Service and Children RE class cancellations, please check 617.484.1054 x250.)   

 

The Islamic year 1436 begins around October 25. It marks the occasion when Muhammad secretly left Mecca for Medina to accept the leadership of that city. This brought him to safety and also established the Islamic state. It is also an example of the idea that sometimes it is better to "run" and seek safety than to stand on principle.    

      

** Next Sunday, October 26 **

Rev. David M. Bryce preaching, A Time of Memory

 

Sermons in text and audio format can be found at uubelmont.org/sermons
Reflections from Rev. David Bryce, Senior MinisterRev. David Bryce

How Can You Leave Without Eating?

   This morning I was watching a movie made in India in 1973 (A River Called Titash) which raised up the issue of radical hospitality. The setting of the fictional story is Bengal in the 1930's.

     In the movie, a man goes to visit his daughter and becomes embroiled in an argument with his host-his daughter's father-in-law. The visitor stands up and says, "I am leaving this house and will never come back." The host father-in-law says, "How can you leave without eating?"; then he turns to his house staff and says "Get a stick and hold him here!"

     The point of the vignette is that hospitality requires that the guest be fed. I do not know enough about Bengali culture to state whether this event is "real" (that a host would be insulted by even an angry guest leaving without eating) or is a comic statement about hospitality taken to the absurd. But the point made is a serious one. Radical hospitality is important, and is very important in a religious community.

     Every person who enters our doors should feel warmth and welcome. I do not suggest that we go to the point of holding people against their will, of course; but everyone who comes here should feel the love and embrace of community.

     In the meetings of programs and activities in a religious community, there should always be an empty chair to symbolize that welcome, to symbolize that there is a place for the next person who walks into the room. And that welcome should be genuine.

     May that empty chair always be present, either in reality or metaphorically.

Alfa Radford
Music Notes from Alfa Radford

BOUQUETS to Chuck Claus & Davron Monroe for their thrilling Verdi duet on Sunday, October 12. And ROSES to our Nova and Sr Choirs whose fine, worshipful singing lifted our hearts and minds.

"BYE BYE BIRDIE" REHEARSALS:

MONDAYS: Cheerleaders Reh 5:30-6:30pm

MONDAYS: Jr Choir (K-Gr4) Reh 6:30-7:00

MONDAYS: Upper Cast Reh 7:00-8:30pm.

ATTENTION CAST & PARENTS:

ACT II is in progress - must be MEMORIZED by Oct 20.

Note to EVERYONE!

Please send or bring BBB Registration Fee.

TICKET ORDER FORMS available NOW. Send yours soon!

Forms were attached to last week's "Unitarian" newsletter.

Extra forms available in various places around the church.

3rd CALL: VOLUNTEERS for "BYE BYE BIRDIE:"

1. Greg Duckworth still needs a team of helpers to work on the magnificent set he has designed.

2. Guy Parsons & Jonathan Wolf seek people who may be interested in learning how to run our theatre lighting for future productions or events. "Have LIGHTS, will TRAIN!"

May we hear from YOU? Please contact Alfa, alfajoy@uubelmont.org

Wishing everyone a delightful Fall season. -Alfa

Youth Group
Bake Off
Order your holiday pies! 

Apple Pie & Cran-Apple Pie:  $25 each 

     Pies will be made with love by the youth, wrapped and frozen, so you can bake them at home. One less thing to make for Thanksgiving!

     Orders must be made in advance. To order visit the youth table by the kitchen at coffee hour or email Julie Ennis at jennis@uubelmont.org.

     Pick up during coffee hour on Sun, Nov 23 or Wed, Nov 19 6-7pm.

     Proceeds benefit the Youth Group's Service-Learning Trip to the Navajo Nation in Arizona this February. Thank you for your support!

Babysitting Fundraiser 

Due to popular demand -- 3 dates this year!

Babysitting

 Sat, Nov 15     Sat, Dec 6     Sat, March 14

 

Attention parents! The Youth Group is organizing a babysitting fundraiser. If you sign-up, 2 members of the YG will come to your house at 6pm to care for your children. 2-6 hours: you choose! $15/hr. 10 spots available per date. Proceeds benefit the Youth Group's Biennial Service-Learning Trip. This year the YG is headed to the Navajo Nation in Arizona! Sign-up during coffee hour or contact Julie Ennis, Director of Youth Programs at jennis@uubelmont.org.

Caring Connection  

The Caring Connection is a group of Church members and friends who provide support to members of our community who find themselves in some difficulty and need short-term help. Please let us know if you could use some assistance, or know of someone who would benefit from our support. You may fill out a Caring Connection card, available in the hymnal holders and drop it in the collection basket, or contact Laurie Graham at caring@uubelmont.org or Susan at the Church, 617.484.1054 x201.

Among Us
Our love and sympathy to Laurie Carter Noble and her family on the death of  Dick Noble on September 24. A memorial service will be planned at a later date.
  

Patricia, Mario and Eun-Su Garciacordially invite you to join Ha-Min Skyler's dedication this Sunday, October 19 during the 11am service. A small Korean first year celebration to follow in the Upper Hall. Refreshments will be served.

Lay Pastoral Care Team 

As members of the lay pastoral care team we are called to be present with you, members and friends, when you wish a compassionate listening ear during times of transition and stress whatever form it might take. We support those who are adjusting to change, loss, illness or death. We share in moments of celebration and happiness. We reach out to those who are unable to get out and who would like a visit. We share in situations that require a special touch of human kindness and an open ear. Please contact us if we might be of help or comfort. We count on the congregation to keep us in touch with pastoral needs of our community.   - Janet Amphlett, Devon Beckett, Nancy Davis, Steve Saar, Martha Spaulding, and Tom Neel

 
Upcoming Events:

TO ALL WOMEN OF FIRST CHURCH

Our 2015 retreat will take place in beautiful Essex, MA, from March 13 to 15. All women from the church are welcome. If you've been thinking about joining us, now is the time to act-we have only a few spaces left. The October 10 deadline for registration has been extended just for you. See the display at coffee hour or speak to Lillian Anderson (fcbadultprograms@gmail.com) for more information 

THE BELMONT ALLIANCE - Wed, Oct 15, 12 noon, Upper Hall

Looking for connection at lunchtime? If you are retired or are free at lunchtime, join the Alliance for our next program entitled "Art and how we look at it" with Nicole Bernstein. Bring your own sandwich and we will provide soup, beverage and dessert for a suggested donation of $1.00 per person. Contact Susan in the office, 617.484.1054 x201 and let her know you'll be attending.

SCIENCE AND SPIRITUALITY - Thur, Oct 16, 7:30pm, CR 

Bruce Dame will lead a discussion on Humanism. Humanism meets religion head-on, dispenses with God, and fashions a guide to living from a view about human nature itself. The reading combines Humanist Manifestos I and III with portions of the book "Humanism as the Next Step" by Lloyd and Mary Moran. Download the reading from http://eftaylor.com/sands

SECOND FRIDAY COFFEEHOUSE - Oct 17, 7:30pm, Parish Hall

Please mark your calendars for October 17 @ 7:30 pm for Diane Taraz's CD Release Party at the Second Friday Coffeehouse! Diane will be introducing her newly recorded CD-"Let's Do It!" The realization of her long-term dream, the CD includes 12 of Diane's most beloved jazz standards, interpreted in her inimitable style and dulcet tones-which one critic described as a "no-frills voice, ever so natural, yet so rich and vibrant!" (Amazon) Diane will be joined on the SFCH stage by 4 of the 5 other musicians who contributed to the CD-Mike Duke (guitar), Peter Tillotson (bass), Billy Novick (clarinet), and Eric Kilburn (mandolin)-along with Steve Rose on drums. Come this Friday and join the fun!

"THE DIGNITY AND INDIGNITIES OF AGING"

Sun, Oct 19, 12:30-2pm, Library - Jackie James with Edwin Taylor

Getting old can be a challenge. The body demands more of our time and attention than it did in earlier days, memory is slipping, and we worry about mental decline. On the other hand, research on aging suggests ways to age successfully. What can we learn that prepares us to live richly and contribute to society during old age?

THE FIRST CHURCH BOOK GROUP

Wed, October 22, 7:30pm, Library

We will discuss Isabel Wilkerson's The Warmth of Other Suns, a powerful book that tells the story of the Great Migration of southern blacks to northern cities during the first half of the twentieth century. Here is Booklist's review of The Warmth of Other Suns: From the early twentieth century through its midpoint, some six million black southerners relocated themselves, their labor, and their lives, to the North, changing the course of civil, social, and economic life in the U.S. Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Wilkerson offers a broad and penetrating look at the Great Migration, a movement without leaders or precedent. A sweeping and stunning look at a watershed event in U.S. history. 

     The book is highly readable, beautifully written, and haunting. We think it is one you will long remember. It is, however, quite lengthy. We encourage you to read as much as you can, and if you feel you cannot read it all, suggest that you focus on the story of Ida May Brandon Gladney. Please feel free to participate in the discussion on October 22, even if you have not yet finished reading the book.

     The Book Group is always open to new members and does not require a continuing commitment. Please contact Anne Stuart at astuart@uubelmont.org with questions and to confirm attendance. Looking ahead: for November we will read the poetry of Elizabeth Bishop and request that participants select a Bishop poem to share with the group on November 19.

CIRCLE DINNERS - Saturday, October 25

Will you be a host or a guest at one of this year's Circle Dinners? Circle Dinners are informal dinners held in various church members' homes. Often dinner is a potluck affair coordinated by the host. Please sign up at coffee hour to attend or host a dinner. You can enjoy an evening out while building more connections to your church community. Circle Dinners are sponsored by the Fellowship Committee. If you have questions, contact Deveaux Duckworth at fellowship@uubelmont.org or at 617.484.5365.

CAN YOU SPARE AN HOUR OR TWO?

NO EXPERIENCE NECESSARY! Volunteers are needed to cover the church office (answer phones & greet visitors) from October 20 through 24. If you have a free morning or afternoon, please contact Susan Street, sstreet@uubelmont.org or 617.484.1054 x201.