Greenwich Reform Synagogue Newsletter

 

June 18, 2014      Sivan 20, 5774

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Online Payments
Office Location
Calendar
Torah Portion of the Week
Happy Birthday
Tree of Life
Caring Community
GRS Staff
Join Our List
Annual Meeting
Shabbat Service
Rabbi's Message
Bar Mitzvah Profile
Music for Aardvark's
Social Action Shabbat Service
Bring Back Our Boys
Condolences
Generation J Registration
Sounds of the Shabbat Blessings
Social Action
Tzedakah
Shabbat Service Locations
Around the Community
Online Payments

authorize.net GRS is pleased to offer our membership the option of making secure payments (via Authorize.net) of their membership dues, fees and school tuition. To begin CLICK HERE

 

Check back as we enhance this service in the coming weeks to include donations to more GRS funds.

GRS Office Location

GRS' OFFICES ARE NOW LOCATED AT

1037 E. PUTNAM AVE.,  RIVERSIDE, CT

 

PLEASE CHECK OUR  CALENDAR FOR DETAILS

 

SUNDAY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL AND ADULT ED CLASSES

WILL REMAIN AT

THE STANWICH ROAD LOCATION

 

HEBREW WILL BE TAUGHT AT OUR OFFICE LOCATION TUESDAY THROUGH THURSDAY AFTERNOONS 

 

Calendar

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Wednesday, June 18

7:00 pm - Annual Meeting

 

Friday, June 20

6:30 pm - Choir Shabbat service at Round Hill Community Church, Anniversary blessings

 

Saturday, June 21

9:00 am - Bar Mitzvah:

Benjamin Wolff

 

Friday, June 27

6:30 pm - Social Action Shabbat Service at the home of Bob & Helen Stark

 

Tuesday, July 1

11:00 am - Music For Aardvarks Free Trial Class

 

Friday, July 4

GRS Office closed for Independence Day

 

Saturday, July 5

5:00 pm - Inspirica Dinner

 

Tuesday, July 8

11:00 am - Music For Aardvarks 

 

Friday, July 11

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service at the Sanctuary in the GRS Office

 

Tuesday, July 15

11:00 am - Music For Aardvarks

 

Friday, July 18

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service at the Sanctuary in the GRS Office

 
Tuesday, July 22

11:00 am - Music For Aardvarks

 

Friday, July 25

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service at the Sanctuary in the GRS Office

 

Tuesday, July 29

11:00 am - Music For Aardvarks

Torah Portion
June 21, 2014

Korach
(Numbers 16:1-18:32)

This portion tells the story of the rebellion of Korach, a Levite, and cousin of Moses and Aaron.  Korach rebels against the centralized power structure by suggesting to Moses, "Are we not all holy people?"  Dathan and Abiram, descendants of Rueben, rebel against Moses due to their fear of dying in the wilderness.  In one instant, God punishes all the rebels with death.


bday
Happy Birthday to...
Kimberly Morgenbesser
Frances Weisman
Linda Berliner
Michele Ronis

Tree of Life
(Etz Chaim)
Tree of Life
Celebrate the birth of a child, the Bar or Bat mitzvah ceremony of a loved one, the wedding or anniversary of a cherished friend or family member, a graduation or a retirement through a permanent dedication on the GRS Tree of Life!  CLICK HERE for more information and to place an order.
Caring Community News
Committee members provide assistance to temple members in times of need and to celebrate with them in times of joy. If you know of an ill or hospitalized member, please contact the office at (203) 629-0018.

You can help us to help each other. We encourage the participation of volunteers to keep in touch with our members through telephone calls, visits, by sending cards, etc...If you would like to be a part of this committee, please contact Laura Seltzer at laura@grs.org. 
GRS Staff

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE

  rabbisklarz@grs.org 

 

Cantor Sabrina Lipton

sabrinalipton@grs.org  

 

Stephanie Glaser

Executive Director

stephanieglaser@grs.org

 

Eliana Hall 

Director of Education

eliana@grs.org

 

Clarita Agulay

Bookkeeper

clarita@grs.org

   

Laura Seltzer

Administrative Assistant

laura@grs.org    

 

Peter Babivskiy

Custodian


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GRS Annual Meeting
7 PM at St. Catherine of Siena Church,
Classroom 104-105, Riverside, CT

TO ALL GRS CONGREGANTS:  On behalf of the Board of Trustees, you are invited to attend the 2014 Annual Meeting of the Congregation of Greenwich Reform Synagogue.  The meeting will take place at St. Catherine of Siena Church, Classroom 104-105, Riverside, CT.

If you did not receive a proxy, contact laura at laura@grs.org.
Choir Shabbat Service
Friday, June 20, 6:30 pm
at Round Hill Community Church
395 Round Hill Road, Greenwich, CT

Join us this Friday, June 20th at 6:30 pm at Round Hill Community Church for a Choir Shabbat service.  The service will be followed by an Oneg Shabbat, sponsored by Glenn Wolff and Caryn Rosenbaum in honor of Benjamin becoming a Bar Mitzvah.
Message from the Rabbi

Kudos To Our Kids!

 

Dear Friends,

 

While each Shabbat brings its own special flavor, last Shabbat was a particular delight as the teens of our youth group so beautifully shared their gifts and expressions with the congregation.  Focusing on the theme of "Moving Forward," our youth group provided words and songs reflecting the challenges and excitement of the teen years, while providing an optimistic message towards entering their next chapter in life. The musical talents of our youth were offered both through their voices and instruments.

 

Our GRS Youth Group elections recently took place, and we are delighted to report our incoming officers. In accordance with the positions established by the National Federation of Temple Youth, (NFTY) the 2014-2015 our leaders are:

 

President, Matt Kramer;

Vice President of Social Action, Josh Ford;

Vice President of Programing, Noah Freeman;

Vice President Communications, Alexander Sklarz;

Secretary, Rafer Friedman, and Secretary, Daniel Kramer

  

While summer provides a hiatus for our kids, Educational Director/Youth Advisor, Eliana Hall and I are mapping out our youth activities for next year, which of course will be cemented when our kids return in the fall.  We look forward to another wonderful and productive year for the youth of GRS, including the installation service in the fall of 2014 and the creative service in the spring of 2015.

Of course, there will be plenty of meaningful  (and fun) activities throughout the year. All teens from grade 8-12 are invited to participate.

 

L'Shalom,

 

Rabbi Andy

 

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MSW

  


Bar Mitzvah Profile - Benjamin Wolff

Benjamin Wolff is the son of Caryn Rosenbaum and Glenn Wolff and brother of Hannah (8).  Benjamin is a 7th grader at Eastern Middle School.  For his Tikun Olam project, Benjamin prepared and served dinner to parents enrolled in St. Joseph Parenting Center, a preventative program that provides education and support, including food, for at risk families throughout Fairfield County, Connecticut.  His interests include karate, playing piano and listening to music. Benjamin's major achievement is obtaining a brown belt in karate.

 

Music for Aardvarks comes to GRS!
Free trial class:
Tuesday, July 1 at 11 AM
Classes:
begin Tuesday, July 8 at 11 AM

Music for Aardvarks and Other Mammals, the innovative music program for toddlers is coming to Greenwich Reform Synagogue this summer!  These informal, spirited classes are geared toward children 3 months to 5 years old.  With influences of rock, blues, jazz and pop, Music for Aardvarks is a refreshing alternative to the traditional music class for kids.  Their critically acclaimed songs uniquely reflect and celebrate the lives of children growing up today and have been featured on Nick, Jr.    

 

Fairfield County Music for Aardvarks classes are taught by Jay Pharr and Ray Bryant.  Both Jay and Ray are professional musicians and dads.  Their classes incorporate singing, dancing, musical storytelling, and instrumental jam sessions and are rooted in play-based learning.  It is innovative, intelligent music that everyone can enjoy.

 

Music for Aardvarks is currently accepting registration for classes beginning July 8.  Classes will be held at the Greenwich Reform Synagogue offices, 1037 E. Putnam Avenue, Riverside, on Tuesdays at 11 AM.  A free, trial class will be held on Tuesday, July 1 at 11 AM.  For more information, or to register, go to www.frogrockmusic.com.

Social Action Shabbat Service
Friday, June 27, 6:30
at the home of Helen & Bob Stark

On Friday June 27, GRS will be honoring our Social Action chairs, Joy Davis and Shelly Kaplan, and also celebrating the good deeds done by many of you in providing the monthly dinners at Insprica /St. Luke's.

 

We would also like to celebrate and give a shout out to the social action efforts that congregants perform in a myriad of other ways, and use the evening as a time to share the opportunities and experiences you may have had in the community.  If you aren't already engaged, it may be a great time to learn about what others are doing, and become involved yourself.

 

Please join us for a Shabbat service followed by a cooperative dinner at the the home of Helen and Bob Stark. 

 

We invite you to kindly bring non-perishable food items which will be collected and donated to Neighbor-to-Neighbor.

 

CLICK HERE to let us know what side dish or dessert you would like to bring, and please also let us know if there is a volunteer activity that you would like to broadcast!

Bring Back Our Boys

 

We are all overwhelmed by concern for the three kidnapped teenagers - Eyal, Gilad, and Naftali.  On behalf of Federations throughout North America, a letter was sent to Prime Minister Netanyahu, expressing support and solidarity with the families. 

 

We have heard that our communities are looking for a way to express themselves and share their thoughts as well. Jewish Federations of North America has created a "virtual letter" - a web page to enable them to do so.  We hope that this effort will offer the families of the boys some comfort in knowing that the Jewish community throughout North America stands with them at this difficult time. 

 

To see the web page, you can click here bringbackourboys.net. The page is integrated with Facebook so once you post a comment on the webpage, you can share it through Facebook and leverage your Facebook network.  Feel free to share the link. 

Condolences
Our heartfelt condolences go out to the family of Pete Barker, former member of GRS and husband of the late Gail Barker.  The funeral will be held graveside 10 am on Friday at Putnam Cemetery located at 35 Parsonage Road in Greenwich.
Generation J Registration is Now Open

As this school year closes, another opens - or at least registration does! CLICK HERE to access the online school registration forms for 2014-15. Feel free to use the form to register up to five children for Generation J. You can pay either by check or credit card; we are happy to announce that religious school fees will not increase this year! For your convenience, CLICK HERE to view the fee schedule. 

When filling out the registration forms, please take the time to share with us information about your children as learners, as well as any medical information that might affect their experiences here at Generation J. This is critical to help us make religious school the best possible experience for each of our students, so we appreciate all the information you share, and we pledge to only share that information with staff as is necessary. Please know that we value your family's privacy, and feel free to contact us if you have any concerns.

For incoming 4th-7th grade students, weekday Hebrew is an integral part of their Generation J experience, so please be sure to fill out your first and second choices for Hebrew instruction time. Hebrew is optional for 3rd graders, as is a second weekday of Hebrew. If you are interested in a second day of Hebrew or you have multiple students to register for Hebrew, please contact us in the office so that we can be sure to accommodate your family's needs.

For incoming 8th -12th grade students, we have a number of opportunities available. We applaud their decision to continue to be an active young member at GRS, and we know they will have a great time. Families of post B'nai Mitzvah students should also use this form to register, and will receive a separate email soon about our new Confirmation Academy, as well as opportunities to be one of our madrichim (classroom aides) or join our Youth Group.

For pre-K students, our monthly Holiday Happening program will continue once per month. Tentative dates will be released soon. 

 

Enjoy the Sounds of the Shabbat
blessings and melodies on www.grs.org

Have you ever wanted to learn the Shabbat blessings and melodies, so that you can join us in the celebration of Shabbat?  It's as easy as clicking here to listen to Cantor Sabrina, accompanied by GRS pianist and choir director David Johnson, as recorded by congregant and videographer, Michael Chait.   

Be Part of GRS' New and Important Social Action Committee Initiative!

The caring members of our GRS Social Action Committee continually take on projects in order to help those in need, both within our larger community and around the globe.  For years GRS has been collecting and cooking food which the members of the Social Action Committee, and more recently, the students of Gen J, have been serving each month at Inspirica. However, our relationship has recently expanded...

 

GRS is now "in partnership with Inspirica." Inspirica provides a host of services for those who are, as the motto expresses, journeying from "homelessness to home."  Inspirica's beautiful, modern facility is located on nearby Franklin Street in Stamford, close to the Greenwich border. We are seeking volunteers, adults and mature teens, who can lend their skills in the following areas, including:

  • tutoring
  • babysitting
  • offering children's recreational activities
  • helping prepare those who endeavor to enter the job market
  • in other various realms, including resume writing and interview skills.
We warmly welcome those willing to share their unique ideas and talents in ways not aforementioned, to support those adults and children currently living at Inspirica.  Our GRS Social Action Committee invites you to be a part of this important mitzvah. Please let us know your interest by contacting Laura in the GRS office.
 
Items below can be utilized in each of the ongoing donation programs:
  • New twin bed sheet sets, twin blankets, bath towels, washcloths
  • Personal hygiene items for men, women and children-Full size shampoos, soaps, conditioners, razors and deodorant
  • Frangrance free liquid laundy detergent
  • Disposable diapers - all sizes (newborn to training pants)
  • Baby wipes
  • Non-Perishable food

Additionally, we are looking for volunteers to donate and serve food the first Saturday of each month to Inspirica's Women's Shelter. To find out what is needed, you can contact the GRS Office or sign up at Shabbat Services. Forms will be on the Oneg Shabbat table or on each chair.   

Tzedakah

Thank you for your generous donation...
 
Annual Circle of Giving
  • Eric & Karen Beiley
  • Juan Meyer
  • James A. Bonheur
General Fund
  • Susan Malitz, in memory of Vera Toper
A contribution to GRS is a wonderful way to celebrate joyous events and commemorate meaningful occasions.  If you would like to make a contribution, please send your check to GRS, 1037 E. Putnam Ave., Riverside, CT  06878 or pay ONLINE.  For details on the giving opportunities available, please call the GRS office. 
2014 Shabbat Service Locations
All services begin at 6:30 pm unless otherwise noted

We want to thank you for your patience during this time of transition.  To make things more convenient, CLICK HERE for the location of our upcoming services.

However, as our calendar is always subject to last minute changes, it's always best to check the website or the newsletter.
Around the Community

UJA Presents Two Exciting Events with educator, David Solomon on Thursday, June 26:

 

Lunch & Learn, 12:30 PM

All of Jewish Philosophy in one hour with complimentary lunch.

 

Women Who Have Changed the Jewish World, 7:30 PM

Throughout Jewish history, there have been women who have made significant contributions to the Jewish World, but many of them remain relatively unknown today. David will discuss these remarkable women and their achievements and the impact they have made on our world today.

 

Both events are free and open to the community. RSVP Requested. For more information email Nancy or call 203-552-1818.

 

UJA is offering a sample one hour Melton class on Thursday, July 17 at 10 AM. For adults of all Jewish educational levels. No homework, grades or exams. 2-hour weekly classes on Tuesday mornings. Classes begin on September 23. For more information or to register, contact Pam or call 203-552-1818.

 

Exciting News: Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is bringing its support group counseling program straight into your home via the Online Support Group Project (OSGP).  Whether in person or online, support groups help participants gain sustenance and strength, feel less lonely and isolated, reduce distress, and improve coping skills.

 

New! Online: Caregivers Support Group

Begins June 18th, Wednesdays 4-5 PM

Caring for a loved one can be rewarding, challenging, and emotionally draining. Join this safe, secure online support group where we address all issues in a non-judgmental environment and discuss the opportunities and challenges of caring for a loved one. We understand how hard it is for you to leave the house, so take advantage of the JFS Online Support Group Project so we can come to you.

Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW, Executive Director 

 

Bereavement Support Group

Thursdays, 10:30-11:30 AM at JFS

Adults who have lost a family member, spouse or companion, any time within the last two years can gain sustenance from Jewish tradition; comfort from community; support from psychological insight; coping strategies from shared experience; and friendship from this support group.

Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW, Executive Director, with a member of the Greenwich Jewish clergy

 

Support Group for Separated and Divorcing Individuals

Wednesdays, 5:30-6:45 PM at JFS

Whether or not you wanted the divorce, the transition from living with your spouse to living without him/her, can be very difficult. We will discuss issues such as mourning the loss of your relationship, rebuilding self-esteem, navigating family complications, and dating again. This group will use discussion, literature, each other's experience, and laughter to aid the process of emotional healing. Gain support, strength and friendship from this ongoing group. Men welcome!

Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW, Executive Director

 

For more information about JFS, please visit the Support Group page on the new JFS website www.jfsgreenwich.org, or call 203-622-1881.