Greenwich Reform Synagogue Newsletter

      

May 7, 2014      Iyar 7, 5774

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Check back as we enhance this service in the coming weeks to include donations to more GRS funds.

GRS Office Location

GRS' OFFICES ARE NOW LOCATED AT

1037 E. PUTNAM AVE.,  RIVERSIDE, CT

 

PLEASE CHECK OUR  CALENDAR FOR DETAILS

 

SUNDAY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL AND ADULT ED CLASSES

WILL REMAIN AT

THE STANWICH ROAD LOCATION

 

HEBREW WILL BE TAUGHT AT OUR OFFICE LOCATION TUESDAY THROUGH THURSDAY AFTERNOONS 

 
In This Issue
Facebook
Online Payments
Office Location
Calendar
Torah Portion of the Week
Happy Birthday
Tree of Life
Caring Community
GRS Staff
Join Our List
Yom Ha'atzmaut Family Shabbat Service
Rabbi's Message
Generation J
Special Adult Ed Program
Annual Meeting
Exploring the Torah
Sounds of the Shabbat Blessings
Social Action
Tzedakah
Shabbat Service Locations
Adult Ed
Around the Community

Calendar

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Wednesday, May 7

3:30 pm - Hebrew School at GRS office

 

Thursday, May 8

3:30 pm - Hebrew School at GRS office

7:00 pm - Rabbi Torah Study Class

 

Friday, May 9

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service in GRS office

 

Sunday, May 11

9:00 am - breakfast

9:30 am - Religious School

9:45 am - Rabbi Sklarz's Advanced Hebrew Class (last class)

10:30 am - Rabbi Rothman's Adult Ed Class

Confirmation Class Trip to NYC

 

Tuesday, May 13

3:30 pm - Hebrew School at GRS office

 

Wednesday, May 14

3:30 pm - Hebrew School at GRS office

 

Thursday, May 15

3:30 pm - Hebrew School at GRS office

7:00 pm - Rabbi Torah Study Class

 

Friday, May 16

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service @ Round Hill Community Church

 

Saturday, May 17

3:00 pm - Spencer Pierce Bar Mitzvah

Round Hill Community Church

 

Sunday, May 18

9:00 am - breakfast

9:30 am - Religious School

10:30 am - Adult Ed Seminar led by Marvin Berenblum

Tzedakah Fair

 

Thursday, May 22

7:30 pm - Executive Board Meeting 

 

Friday, May 23

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service in GRS office

 

Monday, May 26

Memorial Day, GRS office closed

 

Wednesday, May 28

7:30 pm - Board Mtg.

 

Thursday, May 29

7:00 pm - Rabbi Torah Study Class

 

Friday, May 30

6:30 pm - Shavuot/ Confirmation Service at First Congregational Church, Old Greenwich

 

Saturday, May 31

10:00 am - Bar Mitzvah Rafer Friedman 

Torah Portion
May 10, 2014

Behar

(Jeremiah 32.6-22)

 

This week's torah portion discusses the purchase of a field by Jeremiah.

 

Jeremiah was confined in King Zedekiah's royal compound for having prophesied the destruction of Jerusalem and the exile of the Jewish people. There, G-d revealed Himself to the prophet and informs him that he will be approached by his cousin Hanamel with an offer to purchase his ancestral lands. G-d instructs Jeremiah to accept this offer.

 

Indeed, Hanamel arrived in the compound with the offer, and Jeremiah accepted. Money was transferred and a document of purchase was penned in the presence of witnesses. The prophet then gavs the deed to his disciple Baruch son of Neriah for safekeeping, and instructed him to store it in an earthenware vessel where it will remain for many years.

Jeremiah then conveys G-d's message, the symbolism inherent in this transaction: "So says the L-rd of Hosts, the G-d of Israel: 'Houses and fields and vineyards shall be purchased again in this land.'" Thus conveying a message of hope even on the eve of destruction and exile. Yes the Jews would be exiled, but they would also eventually be returned to their land.


bday
Happy Birthday to...
Michael Loebelson
Mark Rieder
Margaret Schaftel
Joan Popper
Cyd Sieghart
Rabbi Andrew Sklarz
Monica Goldstein

Tree of Life
(Etz Chaim)
Tree of Life
Celebrate the birth of a child, the Bar or Bat mitzvah ceremony of a loved one, the wedding or anniversary of a cherished friend or family member, a graduation or a retirement through a permanent dedication on the GRS Tree of Life!  CLICK HERE for more information and to place an order.
Caring Community News
Committee members provide assistance to temple members in times of need and to celebrate with them in times of joy. If you know of an ill or hospitalized member, please contact the office at (203) 629-0018.

You can help us to help each other. We encourage the participation of volunteers to keep in touch with our members through telephone calls, visits, by sending cards, etc...If you would like to be a part of this committee, please contact Laura Seltzer at laura@grs.org. 
GRS Staff

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE

  rabbisklarz@grs.org 

 

Cantor Sabrina Lipton

sabrinalipton@grs.org  

 

Stephanie Glaser

Executive Director

stephanieglaser@grs.org

 

Eliana Hall 

Director of Education

eliana@grs.org

 

Clarita Agulay

Bookkeeper

clarita@grs.org

   

Laura Seltzer

Administrative Assistant

laura@grs.org    

 

Peter Babivskiy

Custodian


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Shabbat Service
Friday, May 9, 2014, 6:30 pm
GRS Office

Please join Rabbi Sklarz and Cantor Lipton for a Shabbat Service, followed by an Oneg Shabbat sponsored by Ken & Ann Greenberg in loving memory of their fathers Stephen Greenberg & David Core. 

 

Message from the Rabbi

Our Promised Land

 

Dear Friends,

 

In recent months there has been much discussion over the publication of My Promised Land by Israeli journalist,

Ari Shavit.  While it is questionable if anyone can ever be truly objective, Shavit does a fine job of weaving together a variety of historical accounts and personal stories surrounding the founding of the State of Israel. 

I encourage all to read My Promised Land, as Shavit makes a valiant effort to provide both sides of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

 

I am most supportive of my colleagues who have put themselves in the trenches of Rabbis for Human Rights, the rabbinic organization dedicated to protecting individual Palestinians who, through no fault of their own, are caught in the middle of the conflict.  At the same time, I am an ardent Zionist, ever passionate to see the Jewish people thrive in our beloved Eretz Yis'ra'el, the Land of Israel.

 

One of my primary goals for Greenwich Reform Synagogue is to raise the level of consciousness and commitment to Medinat Yisra'el - the State of Israel.   Last Shabbat, during our interactive GRS Yom Ha'Atz'ma'ut - Israel Independence Day Family Service, written in the spirit of the narrative of the Pesach Haggadah, we journeyed through our history in Eretz Yis'ra'el, from the days of Abraham and Sarah to the present.  The focus was of course on the developments which led to Israeli statehood in 1948.

 

This coming week, we will continue our celebration of Israeli independence within the context of a more adult approach to our liturgy, but as with all GRS services, those of all ages are most welcome.

 

As is underscored in Ari Shavit's My Promised Land, the Palestinian-Israeli conflict is far from black or white.  As committed Reform Jews, we must sensitively address the myriad issues.  Let us work to broaden our knowledge and commitment to see progress on every level within our beloved Jewish homeland, so that Israel shall truly be a beacon of peace and a "light unto the nations."

 

L'Shalom,

 

 

Rabbi Andy

 

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MSW

  

Generation J

The year school year is almost over and this past Sunday found each class spending quality time with their teachers, learning about the things that were near and dear to their hearts. Mr. Hariton turned the class discussion toward personal responsibility. Mrs. Slade spoke to her class about what it means to be both American and Jewish. In Mrs. Ochoa's class students delved into the joy of Shabbat, and in Miss Minkin's class they talked about tzedakah and caring for others. In our preschool class, our youngest students celebrated their love of Israel with artistic flair. It was truly inspiring to see all of our teachers bring such passion to their classrooms, and I loved hearing the amazing questions that our students asked! 
Special Adult Education Program
Sunday, May 18, 2014, 9:30-11:30 am
at the GRS Religious School (Stanwich School)

 
Greenwich Reform Synagogue's Adult Education Program is excited to announce a VERY SPECIAL EVENT in light of the growing extremist threats. Ahmad El Assaad and Abir El Assaad, the founders of "Saving the Next Generation" Mostapha Gharib (an SNG scholarship student in the US) and Marv Berenblum will be making a presentation:

Fighting Extremism in the Middle East Region - How Saving the Next Generation is Inculcating Human Values and Respect for People Regardless of Religion, Nationality, Ethnicity or Gender

 

The Presentation will be followed by a Q&A session. 

A light breakfast will be served.  The El Assaads are founders of Saving the Next Generation, a secular, non-sectarian foundation which works with underserved young people in the Middle East between the ages of 10 and 22, regardless of religious affiliation, gender, ethnicity or nationality, to eliminate extremism. SNG promotes a culture of life, liberty, peace and opportunity by encouraging and fostering young people through education, diversity and human values while inspiring acceptance of and respect for each other's differences. SNG achieves this transformation through a series of fun-packed co-educational weekend camps, instructive day trips and by providing scholarships for talented students to leading universities, both regionally and internationally.You can learn more about SNG and its mission by visiting their website,  

http://savingnextgeneration.org/home.html

   

The Seminar is open to the GRS Community and to the General Public.  It is especially appropriate for families with children ages 10 and over.
Save the Date: 
Wednesday, June 18, 7:30 pm
GRS Annual Meeting

TO ALL GRS CONGREGANTS:  On behalf of the Board of Trustees, you are invited to attend the 2014 Annual Meeting of the Congregation of Greenwich Reform Synagogue.  Location to be determined.

 

Exploring the Torah
Thursday evenings at 7:00 PM
at the GRS Office

Whether you are brand new to Jewish text or have studied it from childhood, the Torah always has something powerful, compelling, and new to say to each one of us at every juncture of our lives.

 

Regardless of your background, journey with us into the "classic of classics," as we explore the teachings and traditions which have been passed down from Sinai to the present day.

 

As a rabbi and clinical social worker, Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, spiritual leader of GRS, brings a unique and engaging approach to text study.

 

No previous Jewish study experience required for this free program. Weekly walk-ins are always welcome!

 

Please contact Laura to register.

Enjoy the Sounds of the Shabbat
blessings and melodies on www.grs.org

Have you ever wanted to learn the Shabbat blessings and melodies, so that you can join us in the celebration of Shabbat?  It's as easy as clicking here to listen to Cantor Sabrina, accompanied by GRS pianist and choir director David Johnson, as recorded by congregant and videographer, Michael Chait.   

Be Part of GRS' New and Important Social Action Committee Initiative!

The caring members of our GRS Social Action Committee continually take on projects in order to help those in need, both within our larger community and around the globe.  For years GRS has been collecting and cooking food which the members of the Social Action Committee, and more recently, the students of Gen J, have been serving each month at Inspirica. However, our relationship has recently expanded...

 

GRS is now "in partnership with Inspirica." Inspirica provides a host of services for those who are, as the motto expresses, journeying from "homelessness to home."  Inspirica's beautiful, modern facility is located on nearby Franklin Street in Stamford, close to the Greenwich border. We are seeking volunteers, adults and mature teens, who can lend their skills in the following areas, including:

  • tutoring
  • babysitting
  • offering children's recreational activities
  • helping prepare those who endeavor to enter the job market
  • in other various realms, including resume writing and interview skills.
We warmly welcome those willing to share their unique ideas and talents in ways not aforementioned, to support those adults and children currently living at Inspirica.  Our GRS Social Action Committee invites you to be a part of this important mitzvah. Please let us know your interest by contacting Laura in the GRS office.
 
Items below can be utilized in each of the ongoing donation programs:
  • New twin bed sheet sets, twin blankets, bath towels, washcloths
  • Personal hygiene items for men, women and children-Full size shampoos, soaps, conditioners, razors and deodorant
  • Frangrance free liquid laundy detergent
  • Disposable diapers - all sizes (newborn to training pants)
  • Baby wipes
  • Non-Perishable food

Additionally, we are looking for volunteers to donate and serve food the first Saturday of each month to Inspirica's Women's Shelter. To find out what is needed, you can contact the GRS Office or sign up at Shabbat Services. Forms will be on the Oneg Shabbat table or on each chair.   

Tzedakah

Thank you for your generosity...

General Fund
  • Nancy & Tom Brandon, in memory of Vera Toper
  • Tom Heagney, in memory of Vera Toper
  • Donna & Norman Heller, in memory of Vera Toper
  • Linda & William Young, in memory of Vera Toper 
  • Dorik & Tamara Rozanski, in memory of Vera Toper
  • Richard Brauer, in memory of Vera Toper

A contribution to GRS is a wonderful way to celebrate joyous events and commemorate meaningful occasions.  If you would like to make a contribution, please send your check to GRS, 1037 E. Putnam Ave., Riverside, CT  06878 or pay ONLINE.  For details on the giving opportunities available, please call the GRS office. 

 

 

2014 Shabbat Service Locations
All services begin at 6:30 pm unless otherwise noted

We want to thank you for your patience during this time of transition.  To make things more convenient, CLICK HERE for the location of our upcoming services.

However, as our calendar is always subject to last minute changes, it's always best to check the website or the newsletter.
Adult Ed - Spring 2014

Those who would like to register for Advanced Beginner's Hebrew, (or interested in Beginner's Hebrew) with Rabbi Sklarz Sundays at 9:45am , please contact Laura at the GRS office.

 
Rabbi Robert Rothman, our Scholar in Residence, be leading a seminar on the Study of Jewish Contributions to Daughter Religions: Christianity and Islam.  In addition, throughout the year, we will also discuss current issues impacting on Judaism, the holidays, and other subjects of interest to the group.  
 
Rabbi Rothman, D.H.L., D.D., Ph.D., is the Rabbi Emeritus of Rye Community Synagogue.  He is widely published and has been our GRS Scholar in Residence for many years.  He is a retired Navy Chaplain with the rank of commander.  The Sunday Study Group meets during the second hour of Religious School throughout the year (10:30).  While we generally have a topic for the year, each class is designed to be a stand-alone session, so come to as many as you are able.   All are welcome.
Around the Community

Exciting News: Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is bringing its support group counseling program straight into your home via the Online Support Group Project (OSGP).  Whether in person or online, support groups help participants gain sustenance and strength, feel less lonely and isolated, reduce distress, and improve coping skills.  

 

Four different online support groups are being offered: bereavement, caregivers, new mothers, and for those who are chronically ill. JFS will provide confidential and secure video-conferencing services through its exclusive partnership with Vidyo, Inc.. As always, JFS support groups are facilitated by licensed, experienced social workers and confidentiality is strictly maintained. After an initial private assessment, participants will be given explicit instructions on how to enter the online support group. All one needs is access to the internet. 

 

Surviving and Succeeding as a Stepmother

Facilitated by Linda Schlapfer, LMFT

WHEN:   Six Wednesdays-beginning April 30

TIME:     12:15pm - 1:15pm

WHERE:  JFS of Greenwich, One Holly Hill Lane

FEE: $120 for the group, sliding scale fees available

Contact Tatiana for more information.

  

For more information about JFS, please visit the Support Group page on the new JFS website www.jfsgreenwich.org, or call 203-622-1881.   

 
The UJA of Greenwich will be celebrating Yom Ha'Atzmaut, Israel Independence Day on Sunday, May 4 at 11:30 AM at the Town Hall (101 Field Point Road) with "Top Hummus." Come taste and vote for your favorite chickpea dip, visit the PJ Library I <3 Israel activity booth, and help write letters to Israeli soldiers. There will be a community flag raising at 12 PM with the Israeli Emissaries. This event is free and open to the community.

UJA Greenwich Women's Philanthropy

Annual Spring Brunch at The Millbrook Club 

Wednesday, May 14, 2014, 9:30 a.m. 

Guest Speaker: Prof. Joyce Antler, Brandeis University

Honoree: Eve Goldberg

Thank You Tribute:  Sheila L. Romanowitz

Event Chairs: Rebecca Cooper, Veronica Calderon,  

Susan Coburn

Vice President:  Carolyn Surgent

Call 203 552 1818 for further details or visit www.ujafedgreenwich.org 

 


Other events:
Babies and Bagels A New Program For Moms and Their Babies 
Date:Saturday, May 17, 2013, 10:00am - 11:00am 
Location : Classic Kids Photography, 54 Greenwich Avenue

Meet moms and babies for a nosh one Friday a month. Chat informally and compare notes over bagels and schmear before hearing the latest from experts in pediatric medicine, dentistry, yoga, music and nutrition. Pre-school age siblings will be invited for playtime and activities to selected sessions which will be announced in advance. A touch of Jewish tradition will enrich your whole family.

May 17

June 21st

July 19th

August TBD