Greenwich Reform Synagogue Newsletter 

October 9, 2013                             Cheshvan 5, 5774
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Check back as we enhance this service in the coming weeks to include donations to more GRS funds.

GRS Office Location

GRS' OFFICES ARE NOW LOCATED AT

1037 E. PUTNAM AVE.,  RIVERSIDE, CT

 

PLEASE CHECK OUR  CALENDAR FOR DETAILS

 

SUNDAY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL AND ADULT ED CLASSES

WILL REMAIN AT

THE STANWICH ROAD LOCATION

 

HEBREW WILL BE TAUGHT AT OUR OFFICE LOCATION TUESDAY THROUGH THURSDAY AFTERNOONS 

 
In This Issue
Facebook
Online Payments
Office Location
Calendar
Torah Portion of the Week
Happy Birthday
Tree of Life
Caring Community
GRS Staff
Join Our List
October 11 Special Family Service
Message from the Rabbi
Generation J Religious School Registration
Holiday Happenings
Knit & Knosh
Annual GRS Sisterhood Membership Dinner
Adult Ed
Our Temple Family
Tzedakah
Around the Community
Calendar
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Wednesday, October 9
3:30 pm - Hebrew School
@GRS office

Thursday, October 10

3:30 pm - Hebrew School
@GRS office

Friday, October 11
6:30 pm - Family Shabbat Service & Dinner @ home of Rabbi & Susan Sklarz

Sunday, October 13
NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL
NO ADULT ED

Monday, October 14
GRS OFFICES CLOSED IN OBSERVANCE OF COLUMBUS DAY

Tuesday, October 15 
3:30 pm - Hebrew School 
@GRS office
7:00 pm - Choir Rehearsal @ GRS office

Wednesday, October 16

3:30 pm - Hebrew School
@GRS office

Thursday, October 17 
3:30 pm - Hebrew School
@GRS office
7:30 pm - Executive Board Mtg.

Friday, October 18
6:30 pm - Choir Shabbat Service featuring GRS House Band
First Congregational Church

Sunday, October 20

9:00 am - Breakfast
9:30 am - Religious School
9:45 am - Advanced Beginner Hebrew
10:30 am - Adult Ed with Rabbi Rothman

Tuesday, October 22

3:30 pm - Hebrew School
@GRS office
7:00 pm - Choir Rehearsal @ GRS office

Wednesday, October 23
3:30 pm - Hebrew School 
@GRS office
7:30 pm - Board Mtg.

Thursday, October 24
3:30 pm - Hebrew School
@GRS office


Friday, October 25
6:30 pm - Shabbat Service
GRS Office

Sunday, October 27 
9:00 am - Breakfast
9:30 am - Religious School
9:45 am - Advanced Beginner Hebrew
10:30 am - Adult Ed with Rabbi Rothman
 
Monday, October 28 
7:00 pm - Knit and Knosh @ home of Ann Greenberg

Tuesday, October 29 
3:30 pm - Hebrew School@GRS office
7:00 pm - Choir Rehearsal @ GRS office
 
Wednesday, October 30 
3:30 pm - Hebrew School@GRS office
 
Thursday, October 31 
3:30 pm - Hebrew School@GRS office 
 
Torah Portion
October 12, 2013

Lech-Lecha

(Genesis 12:1-17:27)

 

Abraham receives his awesome call.  God instructs our forefather to embark on his journey to Canaan and create a great nation.  Bypassing Canaan, Abram and Sarai (Sarah) sojourn to Egypt, where they have their first encounter with Pharoah.  Also within the portion, Ishmael is born to Hagar.  Lech-Lecha concludes with God changing Abram's and Sarai's names to Abraham and Sarah and making an eternal covenant with Abraham and his descendents.  

 

 

bday
Happy Birthday to...
Lisa Cooper
Donna Heller
Caryn Rosenbaum
Julia Goldstein
Robin Bartholomew
Tree of Life
(Etz Chaim)
Tree of Life
Celebrate the birth of a child, the bar or bat mitzvah of a loved one, the wedding or anniversary of a cherished friend or family member, a graduation or a retirement through a permanent dedication on the GRS Tree of Life!  CLICK HERE for more information and to place an order.
Caring Community News
Committee members provide assistance to temple members in times of need and to celebrate with them in times of joy. If you know of an ill or hospitalized member, please contact the office at (203) 629-0018.

You can help us to help each other. We encourage the participation of volunteers to keep in touch with our members through telephone calls, visits, by sending cards, etc...If you would like to be a part of this committee, please contact Laura Seltzer at laura@grs.org. 
GRS Staff

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE

  rabbisklarz@grs.org 

 

Cantor Sabrina Lipton

sabrinalipton@grs.org  

 

Stephanie Glaser

Executive Director

stephanieglaser@grs.org

 

Eliana Hall 

Director of Education

eliana@grs.org

 

Clarita Agulay

Bookkeeper

clarita@grs.org

   

Laura Seltzer

Administrative Assistant

laura@grs.org    

 

Peter Babivskiy

Caretaker


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A VERY SPECIAL FAMILY SERVICE & DINNER
National Observance of Children's Sabbath Celebration

Friday, October 11, 2013, 6:30 pm
at the home of Rabbi & Susan Sklarz

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Join thousands of churches, synagogues, mosques, temples and other faith communities across the country in this celebration as we hold a very special family service.
While the themes of this cross religious initiative are quite serious, Rabbi Sklarz, will offer a
a child friendly service focusing on Creating Peace & Sharing.  

We would like to invite you to this Family Shabbat Service, led by Rabbi Sklarz and Cantor Lipton, along with B'nai Shir, our Junior Choir.

The service will be followed by dinner, the main course will be provided by GRS.

CLICK HERE if you would like to attend and bring an appetizer, side dish, or dessert.

*October birthdays will be given a special birthday blessing.

Message from the Rabbi  

Rabbi USE THIS ONE!

JOIN US FOR A SPECIAL FAMILY SERVICE

 

Dear Friends,

 

This Shabbat, Friday, October 11, Susan and I welcome you to our home as GRS joins with thousands of synagogues, churches, mosques and faith communities across the country for the  National Observance of Children's Sabbaths.  In honor of this important day, our family friendly service will focus on the themes of Creating Peace and Sharing with Others.

 

Sponsored by the Children's Defense Fund, the National Observance of Children's Sabbaths "is a way for faith communities to celebrate children as sacred gifts of the Divine, and provides the opportunity for houses of worship to renew and live out their moral responsibility to care, protect and advocate for children." This celebration is a part of a broader children's movement to unite faith communities in a shared effort for improving the lives of all children and working for justice on their behalf.

 

Indeed our children are our most sacred of possessions. Let us plant the seeds today, so our future will truly be a bountiful harvest.

 

I look forward to our sharing our Shabbat worship and dinner together.

 

Rabbi Andy
 
Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MSW

 

Generation J - Exploring Judaism Together
Registration is Still Open
Stanwich School Campus, 257 Stanwich Rd.

Generation J, our exciting new Religious School Program got off to a terrific start last month! Everyone was excited to see familiar faces and make new friends as we embarked on our journey through the mitzvot.

All of our students are currently immersed in the mitzvah of Talmud Torah, the study of Torah, but we're already excited about the mitzvot to come, from guarding the earth to tzedakah!

Enrollment is still open, so join us! For your convenience, you may download the registration forms right here.  If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact Eliana Hall, Director of Education, at 
eliana@grs.org .
Holiday Happenings

2013 Holiday Happenings

  

Knit & Knosh
Monday, October 28, 2013, 7-9 pm

Would you like to knit, crochet or sew over good food and drinks, in good company?

Then, the GRS Sisterhood invites you to come and join us.  We welcome knitters of any age, gender or ability!  We would love to see more new faces!

Everyone is welcome, even those who just want to nosh!

At the home of Ann Greenberg, 15 Sachem Road.
SAVE THE DATE!
Annual GRS Sisterhood Membership Dinner

Thursday, November 7, 2013, 6:30pm
at the home of Marie Kimmel

sisterhood dinner
All members of the GRS Sisterhood* are invited to attend a fun, delightful dinner at the home of Marie Kimmel, at 6:30 pm on Thursday, November 7, 2013. 

You'll enjoy good food and wine, plus great conversations with new friends and old.

More information will be sent out soon!

*Not sure if you're already a GRS Sisterhood member or not? You can check with the office to be sure. You probably are, but if not, the annual dues are only $36. 
Adult Ed - Fall 2013

Rabbi Sklarz' Advanced Beginner's Hebrew class will begin on Sunday, October 27, at 9:45.  Those who would like to register for Advanced Beginner's Hebrew, or interested in Beginner's Hebrew with Rabbi Sklarz, please contact Laura at the GRS office.
  
Rabbi Robert Rothman, our Scholar in Residence, will continue his exposition of the history of anti-Semitism in the 20th and 21st century.  In addition, throughout the year, we will also discuss current issues impacting on Judaism, the holidays, and other subjects of interest to the group.  Rabbi Rothman, D.H.L., D.D., Ph.D., is the Rabbi Emeritus of Rye Community Synagogue. He is widely published and has been our Scholar in Residence for many years.  He is a retired Navy Chaplain with the rank of Commander.

The Sunday Study Group meets during the second hour of Religious School throughout the year (10:30).  While we generally have a topic for the year, each class is designed to be a stand-alone session, so come to as many as you wish.  During the first few sessions we will also discuss with Rabbi Rothman what we want to take up next. All are welcome.
Our Temple Family

GRS would like to welcome its newest members:
  • Denise Cooper and Marc Grossman
  • Calvin and Lenore Kramer
  • Adam and Robin Leader and their sons, Zack and Jamie
  • Bernard Simpkin

We extend our condolences to Robin Edelston on the loss of her father-in-law, Martin Edelston, who passed away on Wednesday, October 2.  

 

Tzedakah

Thank you for your generosity...

Annual Circle of Giving

  • Sandi Klein

General Fund

  • Jon and Kathy Savitz

Ritual Fund

  • Harold and Ruth Newman in loving memory of Lillian Bogoslaw
A contribution to GRS is a wonderful way to celebrate joyous events and commemorate meaningful occasions.  If you would like to make a contribution, please send your check to GRS, 1037 E. Putnam Ave., Riverside, CT  06878 or pay ONLINE.  For details on the giving opportunities available, please call the GRS office.
Around the Community

ADL to Honor Nancy and Bill Zisson and Judith Altmann

at 2013 Daniel R. Ginsberg Humanitarian Award Reception. The Anti-Defamation League will present its prestigious Daniel R. Ginsberg Humanitarian Award to

Nancy and Bill Zisson and Judith Altman at ADL's 2013 Daniel R. Ginsberg Humanitarian Award Reception and Centennial Gala on Sunday, October 20, in Greenwich. 
  
For more information, please contact Janet Magid, Associate Development Director at (203) 288-6500 ext. 313 or jmagid@adl.org. You can also CLICK HERE to view and print an evite. 
  
The Support Group Center of Jewish Family Service of Greenwich is offering the following support groups this summer. For more information or to register for any of the following, please visit www.jfsgreenwich.org or call Lisa Smith, LCSW, Executive Director, at 203-622-1881.
 

All groups take place at JFS, One Holly Hill Lane

Please contact Lisa Smith, LCSW, Executive Director,  at llsmith@jfsgreenwich.org or call  203-622-1881 for more information and to register.

 

Shining a Light on Human Trafficking in Connecticut 

LWVCT Education Fund Fall Conference 2013

Saturday, October 26, 2013 from 9:00am-12:30pm at the Connecticut Center for Arts and Technology (4 Science Park, New Haven, CT 06511).

 

Connecticut is not exempt from the modern scourge of human trafficking, which generates an estimated $32 billion per year worldwide.

How do people fall victim to trafficking?  How is our government working to identify and respond to trafficking?  Are our laws adequate to combat this modern form of slavery?  What can we do in our communities-meet a wonderful group of high school students who have taken direct action!  

 

The League of Women Voters of Connecticut's Education Fund 's annual Fall Conference will explore this important crime that is largely hidden from society.  

 

Click here for more information, to register or RSVP.

 

 

NEW!

CHAPTER 2: FOR EMPTY NESTERS

After the last child leaves for college the house will be "empty" for the first time in many, many years.  Mothers often find themselves with a unique opportunity to reinvent themselves. But it is not always a smooth or easy road. It can be challenging to find other ways to occupy their newly free time.  It's sometimes difficult to reconnect with a spouse, or develop a new kind of relationship with their child.  Often the most problematic issue can be the lack of sympathy from people who believe that parents should be celebrating when their children leave home.  Get and give ideas on how to transition happily into this new chapter of your life in a confidential supportive environment facilitated by Linda Schlapfer, LMFT, 5 Wednesdays, 12:00pm - 1:15pm, beginning September 25th.

 

Bereavement Support Group

Adults who have lost a family member, spouse or companion, any time within the last five years can gain support, strength and friendship from this ongoing bereavement support group. 

The sessions take place on Tuesdays, 10:30am - 11:30am, and are co-facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW, Executive Director of JFS, and a member of the Greenwich Jewish clergy.    

 

JFS Rosh Hodesh It's a Girl Thing 7thGrade Program
Begins in October!Once a month, 7th grade girls get together to talk, be heard, think, discover, eat, listen, create - and hang out with other Jewish girls their own age.  Through creative mediums like art, drama, cooking and small discussions, Rosh Hodesh:  It's a Girl Thing provides a forum for girls to come together and learn about themselves, Judaism and discuss topics most relevant to them today. This enormously successful program was created to build self-esteem, Jewish identity, leadership skills and friendships by using core Jewish values to navigate our world and the dangerous messages that affect a young girl's perception of body image, friendship, competition and family.

The groups are held monthly on Mondays from 7:00- 8:30pm at Temple Sholom in Greenwich and are led by Belana Warmflash, MSW.  Fee: $180, sliding scale available upon request.  Save these Dates: October 7, November 4, December 9, January 6, February 3, March 3, April 7, May 5, and June 2.

 

To register please email Lisa Goldberg at   lmgoldberg@jfsgreenwich.org or call 203 622 1881.

  

NEW!
REVERSAL OF FORTUNE  

Financial challenges bring with them stressors that can affect everything in your life  -  your relationships, your self-esteem, your outlook, and even your marriage. In these tough economic times, you are not alone. Talk with others facing similar situations in a confidential environment.  Come and share your thoughts, get some ideas, tips and real life strategies to cope with the practical as well as the emotional issues associated with reversals of fortune.   Facilitated by Mary Karlan, LMSW,  6 Tuesdays beginning October 8th, from 5:30pm - 6:30pm. NO CHARGE! Please call Mary at JFS 203-622-1881 or email her at mkarlan@jfsgreenwich.org.

 

Interfaith Conversations with author Naomi Schaefer Riley,
How Interfaith Marriage is Transforming America Tuesday, October 22, 7 pm. For more information call Tatiana at 203-622-1881 or email her at tn@jfsgreenwich.org.