Greenwich Reform Synagogue Newsletter  

 

Yom Haatzmaut 65 2013
Community wide Yom Ha'atzmaut Celebration
(Israel's 65th birthday)
at Greenwich Civic Center on 4-21-13

April 24, 2013                              Iyar 14 5773     
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GRS Office Location

GRS' OFFICES ARE NOW LOCATED AT

1037 E. PUTNAM AVE.,  RIVERSIDE, CT

 

PLEASE CHECK OUR  CALENDAR FOR DETAILS

 

ALL RELIGIOUS AND HEBREW SCHOOL CLASSES

AND
SUNDAY ADULT ED CLASSES

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THE STANWICH ROAD LOCATION

 
In This Issue
Facebook
Online Payments
Office Location
Calendar
Torah Portion of the Week
Happy Birthday
Tree of Life
Caring Community
GRS Staff
Join Our List
Synagogue Survey
Shabbat Service
Message from Rabbi Sklarz
GRS Young Families Initiative
Sisterhood & Brotherhood Shabbat Oneg, April 26
Adult Ed Trip
Knit & Knosh
Family Shabbat Service & Dinner
Sabrina & Friends Concert
Tzedakah
B'nai Mitzvah Profile
Harvest Now Food Growing Project
Tour de Shuls
Give a Ride
Around the Community
Calendar
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Wednesday, April 24

4:15 pm - Hebrew School

7:30 pm - Board meeting

 

Friday, April 26

6:30 pm - Shabbat Service at Round Hill Community Church

 

Saturday, April 27

10:00 am - Alex Sklarz Bar Mitzvah (RHCC)

 

Sunday, April 28

9:30 am - Hebrew 102

9:30 am - Holiday Happenings

9:30 am - Religious School

10:30 am - Adult Ed Trip with Rabbi Rothman

 

Monday, April 29

7:00 pm - Knit & Knosh 

 

Tuesday, April 30

7:00 pm - Choir rehearsal 

  

 
Torah Portion
April 27, 2013

Emor

(Leviticus 21:1-24:23)

 

In Emor, God conveys to Moses the laws concerning the priests and safe-guarding the sacrifices.  The portion also includes the Levitical perspective of the festivals and holidays.
bday
Happy Birthday to...
Patricia Aser
Colby Goldstein
Joshua Kahn
Mark Schwarzman
Alexander Sklarz
Wendy Stober
Andrew Berkley
Sarah Buehler
Gerald Davis
Janice Romley
Jacqueline Shayer
George Handzo
Daniella Sklarz
Marc Abrams
Andrew Reid
Alexander Coburn
Zachary Coburn

Tree of Life
(Etz Chaim)
Tree of Life
Celebrate the birth of a child, the bar or bat mitzvah of a loved one, the wedding or anniversary of a cherished friend or family member, a graduation or a retirement through a permanent dedication on the GRS Tree of Life!  CLICK HERE for more information and to place an order.
Caring Community News
Committee members provide assistance to temple members in times of need and to celebrate with them in times of joy. If you know of an ill or hospitalized member, please contact the office at (203) 629-0018.

You can help us to help each other. We encourage the participation of volunteers to keep in touch with our members through telephone calls, visits, by sending cards, etc...If you would like to be a part of this committee, please contact Denise Cooper at denise@grs.org
GRS Staff

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE

  rabbisklarz@grs.org 

 

Cantor Sabrina Lipton

sabrinalipton@grs.org  

 

Stephanie Glaser

Executive Director

stephanieglaser@grs.org

 

Lisa Gittelman Udi

Director of Education

lisargudi@grs.org

 

Clarita Agulay

Bookkeeper

clarita@grs.org

 

Denise Cooper

Administrative Assistant

denise@grs.org

  

Laura Seltzer

Administrative Assistant

laura@grs.org 

 

Allie Zur

Youth Advisor

orlie414@aol.com  

 

Corinne Morrell

Relocation Assistant

relocation@grs.org

      

Peter Babivskiy

Caretaker


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Measuring Success Synagogue Survey
LAST CALL!  THIS IS THE LAST WEEK TO TAKE THE SURVEY!  

   

By now you should have received an email entitled:

Please take the Greenwich Reform Synagogue Survey Today!

 

The email was labeled as coming from Robert Birnbaum, but actually came from synagogues@measuring-success.com.  It's possible that your email system blocked that address. 

 

Most of you received the email with no problem-in fact, Measuring Success reports quite a few have already completed the survey-but for some, the email ended up in your "spam" or "junk mail" folders.

 

If you didn't receive or can't find the email, or are having any trouble accessing the survey, please contact me right away at stephanieglaser@grs.org.

 

And please, complete the survey as soon as you can-

every response matters!  

Shabbat Service
Friday, April 26, 2013, 6:30 pm
Round Hill Community Church , Greenwich 

Please join Rabbi Sklarz and Cantor Lipton for a Shabbat Service, followed by a festive Oneg Shabbat generously sponsored by the GRS Sisterhood and Brotherhood, in honor of Alex Sklarz becoming a Bar Mitzvah.

 

A note to all upcoming GRS B'nai Mitzvah families:  We encourage you to attend this week's Friday or Saturday service to view our temporary spiritual home.  The space is warm and welcoming and we know you will find it to be a beautiful place for your simcha. 

A Message from Rabbi Sklarz 

Rabbi USE THIS ONE!

How Beautiful Is The Journey   

Dear Friends,


During the past year, as we have been eagerly awaiting the construction of our new synagogue structure. In a rather tongue and cheek fashion, we have
compared ourselves to the ancient Israelites who wandered through the desert en route to the Promised Land. Of course our experience has been a far cry from that of our ancestors. In fact, on a host of levels, this has been a vacation year, as we have enjoyed some lovely venues.

While there are so many to thank for all  that has ensued thus far, I 
would like to extend a special "thank you"  to our

"Temporary" Sanctuary Design Committee, comprised of Nancy Korobkin, chair, Judy Rayner, Betty Stark and George Toper, who with artistic flair and sensitivity, have
transformed the sanctuary of Round Hill Community Church into a magnificent Jewish spiritual center for our upcoming B'nai Mitzvah services.

As all know, this Shabbat morning , April 27th, our son, Alexander Raphael Sklarz or "Alex,"  will be the first to become a Bar Mitzvah in this space. Our family is so delighted with the sense of spirituality which has been physically created by the committee.

On Erev Shabbat, this Friday evening at 6:30, we will have our first formal service at this sanctuary housed at Round Hill Community Church, 395 Round Hill Road in Greenwich, and our family hopes that you will join us for the service and Oneg Shabbat. On a personal note, Susan and I would like to extend our heartfelt appreciation to our entire congregation for all the love and support extended to our family. 

We look forward to sharing Shabbat with you and I am certain that you will delight in the magnificent temporary sanctuary which has been created,
as we move forward in our journey!

 

 

 

L'Shalom,

  
Rabbi Andy

 

Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, MA, MSW, RJE  

  
GRS Young Families Initiative  

GRS is pleased to announce a new initiative beginning on July 1, aimed at young families, offering special pricing and more affordable membership and school tuition for families with young children.

 

Any new (non member) family with at least one adult under age 40 (excluding adult children), or at least one child in the third grade or under, are eligible to participate in this program.

 

If you know of anyone who has been thinking about starting their children in religious school, this is a great time for them to get in touch.

 

For more information or to register, CLICK HERE

 

Friday, April 26, 2013, 6:30 pm
Round Hill Community Church 

Following Shabbat services on Friday April 26, the GRS Sisterhood and Brotherhood are sponsoring a hearty celebratory Oneg Shabbat, in honor of Alex Sklarz becoming a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, April 27.  Please let the office know if you plan on coming so that we can plan accordingly. 

 

CLICK HERE TO RSVP.  

Adult Ed Cultural Trip to New Square
Chassidic Community
Sunday, April 28, 2013,  9:15 am 

The Greenwich Reform Synagogue Adult Education committee is planning a trip to visit the New Square Chassidic Community on April 28, 2013.   The trip will be led by GRS' Scholar-in-Residence, Rabbi Rothman.

  • We will be met by a member of the community who will describe the community to us.  New Square was founded in Rockland County, NY after World War II by the Grand Rabbi of the Skver Hasidic community, a branch of Hasidim from the village of Skver which is now in Ukraine.  The members of the community adhere to a strictly orthodox way of life in a town of around 7,000 people living in a 225 acre enclave.
  • We will have a guided tour of the community, visit their Mikvah, and their boys' and girls' schools if possible.
  • The tour will be followed by lunch at a local restaurant a short drive from New Square.

Details - we will be meeting at the Religious School Parking lot (Stanwich School) at 9:15 am and caravanning up to New Square for arrival at 10:30 am.  We expect to return to GRS after lunch at approximately 2:00 - 2:30 pm.

 

Dress - out of respect to the Chassidic Community, appropriate dress is required.

 

Women (and girls) - Dresses or skirts below the knee (no pants); Arms covered below the elbow; Modest neck line; Closed Shoes.

 

Men (and boys) - No jeans, shirt with collar, Yarmulke (GRS will provide them in case you don't have one).

 

This event is open to Members, prospective members, friends of GRS and our children.  Because of the cultural nature of the trip, it will be considered an excused absence from religious school for children over 10 years old who make the trip with their parent(s).

 

There is no cost for this trip (aside from your lunch expenses at the restaurant).

 

 CLICK HERE TO RSVP.  We will accommodate walk-ups if we can but would appreciate your letting us know so we can make appropriate arrangements with the community.  Also, let us know if you have room in your car to take others or if you need a ride (we will do our best to accommodate  you based on the number of volunteer drivers we have).

Knit & Knosh
Monday, April 29, 2013,  7-9 pm 

Would you like to knit, crochet or sew over good food and drinks, in good company?

Then, the GRS Sisterhood invites you to come and join us.  We welcome knitters of any age, gender or ability!  We would love to see more new faces!

Everyone is welcome, even those who just want to nosh!

At the home of Marianne Tierney, 8 Pintail Lane, Greenwich.

 

Friday, May 3, 2013, 6:30 pm
Family Shabbat Service and Dinner
At the home of Rabbi & Susan Sklarz  

Family Shabbat Dinner As the first Shabbat of the month approaches, we would like to invite you to a Family Shabbat Service, followed by dinner.  The main course will be provided by the Congregational Life Task Force.

CLICK HERE if you would like to attend and bring an appetizer, side dish, or dessert.

*May birthdays will be given a special birthday blessing and B'nai Shir will be singing.

 

Sabrina & Friends Sing Broadway & Opera
Saturday, May 11, 2013
8:00 pm  

Sabrina concert invite 2013

SE2013 concert response card
SEATING IS LIMITED, SIGN UP NOW!

Tzedakah
Thank you for your generosity...

Rabbi's Discretionary Fund
  • Cyd & Josef Sieghart in honor of Alex Sklarz becoming a Bar Mitzvah
  • Linda Berliner in honor of Alex Sklarz becoming a Bar Mitzvah
  • Janice & Victor Romley in honor of Alex Sklarz becoming a Bar Mitzvah  

General Fund

  • Sandy & Stephen Soule in memory of Hermine Aborn  
Tree of Life
  • Rabbi Andrew & Susan Sklarz, a leaf in honor of their son, Alex, becoming a Bar Mitzvah
  • Kathy & Jon Savitz, an acorn in honor of their daughter, Sophia, becoming a Bat Mitzvah
Music Fund
  • Eliot Riskin
  • Sandy & Stephen Soule
  • Wayne & Lisa Cooper

A contribution to GRS is a wonderful way to celebrate joyous events and commemorate meaningful occasions.  If you would like to make a contribution, please send your check to GRS, 1037 E. Putnam Ave., Riverside, CT  096878 or pay ONLINE.  For details on the giving opportunities available, please call the GRS office.
B'nai Mitzvah Profile - Alexander Sklarz
Saturday, April 27, 2013 

Alex Sklarz Alexander Raphael Sklarz, the son of Rabbi Andrew and Susan, and brother of Daniella, will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, April 27.  Alex is a seventh grader at Eastern Middle School where he is a member of multiple musical groups and the Debate Team.

Alex is passionate about music.  He studies piano, clarinet and tenor saxophone and plays in both band and jazz band at Eastern.  He also sings in the seventh grade chorus as well as the all-boys vocal group, Eastmen. 

For his Mitzvah project, Alex visited local senior homes where he played music and spent time visiting with the residents. 

Judaism is central to Alex's life, and he has loved being a part of GRS since moving to Connecticut in third grade.  He looks forward to being a classroom aide, and to becoming more involved in Jewish youth experiences next year.

 

Harvest Now Food Growing Project

Harvest Now is a statewide food growing project, in need of volunteers to grow vegetable gardens in private gardens. The food is donated to the food pantry of your choice. This year Harvest Now fed 8200 people.

 

Four Hundred thousand people in Connecticut use food banks over the course of a year. This number increases 6% every year. If you are already growing food, perhaps you can donate a portion to your local food bank/soup kitchen

We need congregants who grow food to donate to the local food bank of their choice. For more information about this mission look at  www.harvest-now.net   You can contact Brooks Sumberg at bsumberg@earthlink.net, or call 203 293-4130.

Tour de Shuls
Sunday, June 23, 2013

 

The fourth annual Tour de Shuls CT will be held on Sunday, June23rd.  More than simply a bike ride, Tour de Shuls is a community event to support the Camp Ramah Tikvah program and Camp Eisner and Crane Lake Chazak program.  The Tikvah (Hope) and Chazak (Strength) programs serve Jewish children with developmental disabilities and other physical challenges. Participating in the Tour enables Tikvah and Chazak campers to experience the joys and
camaraderie of Jewish summer camp -- swimming, soccer, arts&crafts, 
singing around the campfire, celebrating Shabbat--by providing schlarships to defray the costs of attending camp.  

   

To sign up or for more information CLICK HERE.  

 

Give A Ride, Need A Ride

Are you in need of a ride to services? Or, would you be willing to give someone a ride to services?

 

If your answer to one of these questions is 'YES', please contact Laura Seltzer at 203-629-0018 or laura@grs.org.
Around the Community
Jewish Family Services of Greenwich is offering the following programs, support groups and volunteer opportunities (For more information or to register for any of the following, please visit www.jfsgreenwich.org or call 203-622-1881): JFS Support Groups: ($20 per session: Sliding Scale fees apply).
  

PARENTS OF LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, TRANSSEXUAL OR QUESTIONING (LGBTQ) CHILDREN: This group is for parents who are dealing with any stage of their family member's coming out process. Together, in a safe and confidential environment, we will explore the tumultuous process of accepting, understanding, and celebrating your children and their LGBTQ identities. 

Eight Wednesdays, beginning March 5th, 12:30pm - 1:45pm

JFS, One Holly Hill Lane, Greenwich, Facilitated by Lisa-Loraine Smith, LCSW, Executive Director of JFS

$160 for the Group  (Sliding scale fees will apply if necessary

CHILDREN OF DIVORCE GROUP (11 - 14 YEAR OLDS)

This 8-week support group is for young people in grades 6 - 8  whose lives have been impacted by divorce. These groups use age appropriate discussion, role-plays, games, and art to help teens cope with feelings of loss, anger, and sadness. Here at JFS, we encourage group members to discuss their feelings,  normalize divorce as a common occurrence, and help children better understand the process of divorce. Regardless of whether the child has reacted strongly or mildly from the changes in the family, they can benefit from this experience.

Facilitated by Jan Mittleman, LCSW.  

Wednesdays, 5:30pm - 6:45pm

  
ROSH HODESH: IT'S A GIRL THING!

For 7th grade girls

 

Mondays 7:00pm - 8:30pm

Nisan: April 29th  

Iyar: May 20th

Sivan: June 17th 

  

New and Ongoing Support Groups and Counseling:   

  • Divorce Support Group 
  • Bereavement Support Group
  • Parents of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transsexual or Questioning (LGBTQ) Children
  • Restarting Your Life
  • Empty Nesters
  • Counseling

JCC Greenwich Presents:

On the Chocolate Trail

With Rabbi Deborah Prinz

Sunday, June 9, 1 - 5:30 pm, $40

One Holly Hill Lane parking lot (luxury coach bus service)

Follow the chocolate trail to Brooklyn, home of kosher/organic Cacao Prieto Distillery and Chocolate Factory. En route, savor the remarkable story of Jews and chocolate as told by Rabbi Prinz, author of On the Chocolate Trail: A Delicious Adventure Connecting Jews, Religions, History, Travel, Rituals and Recipes to the Magic of Cacao. At the factory, take a guided tour, sample chocolaty treats and stock up at the Cacao Prieto store. Space is limited; registration required. Register at jccgreenwich.org or 203-552-1818.  

  

 

Jacob Burns Westchester Jewish Film Festival April 3-25

 
We're thrilled to introduce the 2013 edition of the Westchester Jewish Film Festival, with 35 programs that celebrate the diversity of the Jewish experience.

As we immersed ourselves in selecting this crop of first-rate documentaries and dramas, a theme arose: the Jewish influence on art, music, and the performing arts. So along with 14 lively discussions, this year we present six live performances- including singers, dancers, and the comedian David Steinberg, with his new stand-up show.

Many of these events sell out quickly, so get your tickets soon and don't get sold out!

Special Event Just Added! Author Eric Goldman joins us for a special evening of film clips and discussion of his book The American Jewish Story Through Cinema, Mon. April 22 at 7:30 pm.