Hello

Firstly Ingo and I wanted to wish you a very fantastic 2013 and that may all of your dreams come true. Many say that since the 21st Dec-12 we are in a new era, ascension to the Heart Centre.

My dream with Tantra4GayMen has always been to connect men with love through the practices of Tantra. And so in this year I wish for you that you may receive much love and blessings, that you may be love, be loved, make love, do love, in fact be every expression of love that you are able to be to raise the vibration of our planet to our heart centres.

I witness how humanity has evolved in the last 100 years, and how it continues to evolve. Many esoteric and mystics feel a change in the energy vibrations. For me, I see men that so much want to be loved, to share love and to connect with a love vibration. Welcome to my vocation, Welcome to Tantra4GayMen.

This year has seen Tantra4GayMen evolve and change from workshops into our Gay Tantra Festival and I pleased to announce we are already a group of 20 men. Tantra4GayMen is always a place where men love men regardless of anything. Just a place of pure love, healing, learning and nurturing.

This year I spent 3 days with Amma, some call her the hugging saint. Did you know that in her life she has hugged 34 million people in the name of love. Some people repute to receive a love vibration, a love transmission from here. People follow her from all over the world. In one documentary I watched about her, she was asked the question about whether she ever gets tired with hugging every day. Her reply was "when you love it is effortless". It made me reflect on the times that I have done things in the name of love, which is true, effortless. She for me is a true expression of love and its ability to sustain. I aspire to be as open hearted as her, and I aspire and feel energised to continue to create spaces of love. Come and join me in this quest, this space for love.

When I look at the world around me, when I hear the depressing statistics about what mankind is doing to its planet. We so so so need love. My personal view is that until humanity can learn to love itself, how can it begin to love its external environment. Is our external environment a reflection of mankinds shame, guilt and judgements and most above all fear? Sometimes the task seems too big. How can I influence big political decisions? How can I make the government do something different? The answer for me is that the answer starts inside. Inside your heart and in the foundation of love. Only from that place of love can we begin to make beautiful and lasting change in our world.

My hand is stretched out to you right now in the name of love. I don't pretend to be perfect; I don't pretend to know all of the answers. All I know in the very core of my being is a sense of love. We all have our good sides, our shadow sides. Instead of trying to hide our shadow sides, why not welcome them. We can learn from them and grow and evolve. From our shadow side it tells us so much about ourselves, our shadow sides is our best consultant showing us where we can grow. But this must be done without fear, without shame, without judgements of ourselves or others. Imagine nurturing yourself, nurturing others, seeing the whole of yourself and the wholeness in others. These are the answers for how we evolve.

In the last few weeks the Catholic Church has done much to discredit the union of love between men. I find it quite challenging because I do not believe in my very core that what I see represented or done in the name of Jesus is actually anything he would agree with. I think and feel he would me mortified by the very acts and rhetoric that comes out in his name. Jesus was about love, healing, acceptance and above all pure love.

I feel my particular calling in the space of where men love men. Running a Tantra School for men, I continue to see many and beautiful personal transformations of men that ascend into their heart centres. I also see the reverse where fear, shame, guilt and judgements can take hold. Where there is the shadow parts of ourselves. I myself don't profess to be perfect, or to have it all worked out. But the best I can do, is to love, to open my heart and try and be the love I want to see in the world.

That's the core of my message, to be the love you want to see in the world.

So in 2013, come and join in the dance, the ecstasy of love and below this is my suggestions on how I and my team at Tantra4GayMen can support you.

I look forward to seeing you in 2013.

With the deepest love from my heart to you, Jason xxx