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Volume III, Issue 12                                                         December 2014
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Welcome to December's career newsletter! 


ALERT: Read this if You Don't Want to Ruin Your Reputation at the Office Party this Year

 

party-blowers.jpg It's that time of the year again! Parties and gatherings everywhere, which means another Holiday party at the office.

 

Don't think of this as a perfect opportunity to wine and dine, or flirt with that cute guy from accounting. It's not your family or friends holiday reunion after all.  

 

Office Party Etiquette Guide 101

 

Don't Bring a 'Plus One,' Unless the Invitation CLEARLY Says So

 

Don't bring a date unless the invitation specifically states "YOUR NAME and Guest." More importantly, 'guest' doesn't translate to 'anyone,' as children and babies aren't ideal guests in such gatherings no matter how adorable or well-behaved they are.

 

Bring your kids only if the invitation includes their name or states "and family."

 

Don't Wear Out Your Welcome

 

Arrive early enough that a few people are already there, but not so early that you're the first one in the room. Don't be the last to leave, either.

 

Stay long enough to eat and talk to a few people, including your boss and some folks from other departments. If you're really in a hurry, try and stay at least an hour so your attendance doesn't look obligatory.

 

Don't 'eat and run,' unless you want to give the impression that you only attended for the free dinner.

 

Speaking of Eating

 

You don't need a 16th century monarch's etiquette, but do refrain from piling your plate with too much food. If you really want a second helping, wait until everyone has been served.

 

Have a light meal before the event, so you don't look ravenous when it's time to eat. Remember, you're there to have fun and get to know other people.

 

Resist the Lure of the "Free Bar"

 

Many office parties have free flowing wine and beer. But please, do not take this as a personal challenge to beat your college drinking record.

 

Drink according to the party's atmosphere. If it's a formal party, stick to wine, champagne or perhaps a martini. Ordering a margarita, when everybody else is enjoying a bottle of red will make you look out of place. 

 

When the Party Gets Hot...

 

Sure, office parties can get wild with all the dancing and singing. Even so, the only acceptable items to remove are your scarf, gloves (if any) and coat. The same goes with formal events.

Ladies, if your foot is starting to hurt because of your high heels, please don't go barefoot. Pack a pair of flats or comfy sandals and switch into these instead.

 

Lastly, Don't Leave without Thanking Your Host(s)

 

In this case, I'm referring to the emcee and your boss. Thank the emcee for a wonderful party and wish your boss a happy holiday before taking off. No need to be overly formal. 

 

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4 Top Job Options for Employees 50 and Over
by Michelle A. Riklan, ACRW, CPRW, CEIC, CJSS

pensieve-work-man.jpg The times are changing. The unemployment rate for workers 50 and up is higher than it was in the last Great Recession.

While the unemployment rate is going down, albeit slowly, many older workers remain unemployed six months to a year, way longer than young employees with less work experience.

It's as if older workers are past their 'sell-by' date.

 

Unemployment is not the main problem though; it's just a part of the big picture. According to AARP, about 1.6 million unemployed workers over 55+ want to go back to work. That's a 67% increase since 2007.

 

These people want to go back to work for many reasons, to build their retirement funds, find a more meaningful job, pay debts, cover medical bills, or to just keep active and avoid boredom.

 

Bridge Jobs and the Time it Takes to be Successful in a New Career

 

If you want to move into a new career, do it now. Because, "it takes at least 3 years to make a successful career change," says Kerry Hannon, national best-selling author of "Great Jobs for Everyone 50" and resident job expert at AARP. So you need to start working on what you want to do at 55, if you want to get that new job by 58.

 

Alternatively, a bridge job can help you phase into retirement. You can work with your current employer on a part-time capacity or adapt a flexible schedule, until you're ready to retire.


Not sure what you want to do yet?

 

I've looked up the top job options for employees 50 and over.

 

Bookkeeper or Secretary

 

The typical bookkeeper is responsible for balancing accounts, creating financial reports, handle invoices and monitor a business's budget and bank accounts. A secretary's job description, however, varies from industry to industry, but you can expect the typical paper handling, scheduling, and admin support.

 

While not really an office job, a virtual assistant's work is somewhat similar to that of a secretary. The median pay according to Indeed.com is $35,000, however, virtual assistants work at home, and many of them have a flexible schedule. Their job description varies but it usually includes admin support, customer service, online errands (such as purchasing movie tickets or making dinner reservations), scheduling and virtually anything that could be done online.

 

Tutor

 

Median pay for this job is $52,000 while the highest pay tops at $73,000, according to Indeed.com. Private tutors have flexible schedules, most of them working around their student's class schedule. You can also join a school's tutoring center or apply at a private tutoring company.

 

Tutoring jobs could be seasonal, depending on what you teach. For instance, SAT tutors and college admission test tutors are usually in demand a few months before the respective tests. Science and Math tutors, however, are pretty much in demand the whole school year.

 

A technical degree, a master's degree or even a couple of education units will go a long way in bolstering your qualifications.

 

Instructor for Pilates and Yoga

 

Yes, you can get paid while keeping fit and having fun! Yoga and Pilates instructors guide group classes or individuals through 60- and 90-minute muscle stretching, deep breathing, exercise sessions. They guide participants through each pose, randomly making rounds to check participants for proper posture and breathing.

 

Aspiring instructors need to be physically fit, well versed in their chosen exercise, fully trained and most importantly, certified by an accredited institution.

 

Like the other jobs, instructors enjoy a flexible schedule. Unlike bookkeepers and secretaries, however, you won't be tied to your desk. Aside from teaching in gyms, you can also work in fitness camps or spas.

 

Technical Writer

 

Have you ever wondered who wrote the manual for your MacBook Air? A technical writer wrote that. They compile technical and complicated information, and then transform it into lay language even your grandpa can understand.

 

They're mostly responsible for writing product manuals and instruction guides, but their work isn't limited to that. Many tech writer jobs are in the Science, IT and Engineering industry but the job itself has applications in many fields. The typical writer works hourly or per project, but part-time and full-time positions are also available.

 

To score this job, you'll need good writing skills and the ability to distill complicated information into easy to understand concepts. A degree or working background in a technical subject also helps.

 

Do I really have to switch careers?

 

No, not really. You can find the same job in a different industry, if you're creative enough.

Here's an interesting story from Hannon:

 

Don Covington used to be a Navy pilot. When he retired, he could have worked for a defense contractor or even flown commercial jets. Instead, he went on to join the circus.

 

He's now working as the Company Manager for Big Apple Circus, a moving troupe of about 150. Yes, it sounds like a huge career jump. But really, he's just using the same leadership, management and organizational skills he learned working in the Navy. The circus is a different playing field, but Covington didn't need to learn extra skills to get that job.

 

You don't have to reinvent yourself. Try looking at your skills from a different angle - a different industry, a different position, a different location.

 

 

Staying Motivated and Avoiding Depression When You're Unemployed During the Holidays

By Michelle A. Riklan with excerpts from an interview with David Kaplan, Chief Professional Officer of American Counseling Association. If you are interested in hearing the full interview and 31 other career experts, go to http://riklanresources.com/products/national-career-summit/national-career-summit-gold/
 

You've been unemployed for a few months now, perhaps 

longer. Your savings account is shrinking by the minute, and so is your self-confidence.

 

It's hard enough to get out of bed in the morning, and now you have to face your relatives. Questioning faces, pity stares and lots of 'helpful' advice - things you don't need right now. However well-meaning they are, sometimes you can't help but feel down.

 

Unemployment makes people vulnerable to depression, even if they weren't susceptible before. The risk is even greater during the holidays, exacerbated by the expenses and all the merriment around.

 

So for now, we won't cover things like how to write a good resume or how to excel in an interview. Those who read this aren't in that stage yet. Instead, I'll help you escape the negative feelings weighing you down, so you can move on with your life and career.

 

Still Unemployed? Here's How NOT to be the Family Grinch this Holiday

 

Relax, You're on Extended Holiday

 

Okay, you may not like the sound of this, but in reality you've just been given a vacation - a long one. Use this time to reconnect with your family and yourself. There's a good chance you actually needed it, especially if you've been over stressed with your previous job.

You'll be back in the workforce soon enough. For now, just enjoy the days when you can have a nice quiet meal without constantly rushing out the door.

 

Remember What You Hate

 

Still not feeling good about this holiday vacation? Make a list of everything you hated about your old job. Your grumpy boss, the old coffee machine, the small cubicles, the never-ending OT  - remember it. Savor the fact that you're free from all of the things that have annoyed you for years.

 

You are Not Your Job

 

Americans, mostly, get their sense of self esteem from their jobs. The ability to answer the ubiquitous conversation starter, "What do you do?" with a simple "I'm a doctor/accountant/programmer/whatever occupation" brings a certain sense of pride in many of us. That's why prolonged unemployment gravely affects many people. They feel as if a part of them is gone.

 

When your self-esteem is tied to your job title, it's conditional. It's there while you have a job, and gone without it. In the book 10 Days to Self-Esteem, David Burns explains that we should work toward liberating our self-esteem from over-attachment to single sources like our work.

 

Pull your confidence, instead, from many different aspects of your life - your family, your education, your community, your accomplishments. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

 

Build a Mental Defense for Your Own Negative Thoughts

 

Support groups are not pity parties.

 

Being in the company of unemployed people will help you reverse the 'I'm a failure' script that keeps playing back in your head.

 

"Like them, you'll realize that you're not a failure and you were laid off through no fault of your own. You were a good employee, who happened to have been downsized," says David Kaplan, Chief Professional Officer of American Counseling Association and a nationally certified counselor.

 

Members of support groups also trade job leads, do mock interviews and give feedback to each member's job efforts. If nothing else, joining a group will make you accountable in your job search instead of binging in front of the TV with a tub of Ben & Jerry's.

 

Prepare for a Challenging Comeback to the Workforce

 

Not to be a pessimist, but I suggest you prepare yourself for a rocky start when you come back to work. Research suggests that some people, especially those who have been unemployed for an extended period, are prone to stress and anxiety - even after securing a job.

 

One reason is they're pressured to start paying their creditors, another is they're worried about getting fired again. This is just your brain getting paranoid. Being aware of this will greatly diminish the anxiety. So in case you feel pressured or stressed on your first month back at work, know that it's okay. You're not the only one feeling this way. 

 

 

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