April 2014 3.4 This April, 2014 edition of the Unfolding Leadership Newsletter focuses on personal and organizational resilience. - Reflective Leadership Practice -- "On Resilience"
- Leadership Links -- a few related articles and links from across the web
- Leadership Edge -- links to recent posts from the Unfolding Leadership weblog
- Leadership Conversation -- Q & A with Shana Hormann, teacher, author, facilitator and consultant
- My Leadership Binder -- More resources to foster reflective learning
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REFLECTIVE LEADERSHIP PRACTICE On Resilience
In the traditional sense, resilience is about recovering quickly from difficulties, but this definition is not enough. Resilience is more than simply returning to a status quo after a temporary misfortune or crisis. It is also a learning process that touches into previously hidden or neglected resources. For a person or for an entire organization, resilience is testimony to the strength and character of people and the human spirit.
As the sociologist, Michael Meade, points out in an essay on human interaction, the third and most profound layer of human exchange is "the province of deep unity with all things...where healing mends the wounds of life" and "where peace is real and contagious." But this third layer, found only after breaking through the first layer's glossy surface of normality and passing through the second layer's turmoil is also, says Meade, "constantly moving its location." It is "mysterious, unpredictable, [and] leaves no forwarding address." So when the setback or catastrophe hits we have to mount a fresh search for that third layer again, a search for that source of universal values and the sense of shared humanity we need in order to recover.
Each time we touch that ground, I believe, we add something to the nature of our resilience, personally and collectively, and to what resilience really means to us. We gain something in the passage "from doom to hope" -- to use an operational definition of healing presented by Shana Hormann in this month's Leadership Conversation. Call it faith or inner strength and adaptation; call it healing or redemption or just a powerful life experience. By any name, as Meade says, we touch a mystery.
Most of us have it pretty good most of the time. Yet we live in a world into which are woven threads of real unpredictability. We hear the shocks around us daily on the news. So it is wise to study resilience. To do so is to study what can only be discovered from ourselves and others when what we thought we knew about how things would go is suddenly and unimaginably blown away.
LEADERSHIP LINKS Readings & Tools to Help You Lead
* A Good Place to Start Talking about Culture. From the Harvard Business Review's blog network, here is, "Building a Resilient Organizational Culture" by George S. Everly. Everly's 2011 article may not be complete, but it certainly could spark a useful conversation. See the comments for some stimulating back and forth on the value of the advice.
LEADERSHIP EDGE Personal Essays from the Unfolding Leadership Weblog The Ecology of Personal Growth The idea of ecology is that we are part of a constantly interconnected living system. As individuals, we evolve and transform together. Yet we commonly believe in our isolation, in lives uniquely separate from all others. We have our own thoughts and feelings, our own identities -- or at least we think and feel and believe it is so. And this is especially so in the realm of "leading".... Read More... An Old, Universal Idea Getting out of our own way is the biggest challenge. Whether we struggle with hubris or shame (or some of each), the challenge is waking up to what transcends our personal beliefs and mindsets, our collective conditioning, our inner and out cultures that like mist on a window obscure our view of what's real. Putting ego aside, we wipe clear a tiny corner of the glass and peak through, to be humbled, awakened and affirmed. Certainly to be humbled -- by a universe that up-ends all plans, and may do so in the blink of an eye.... Read More...
On Negative Ego An elderly man I once knew -- and now probably long dead -- used to complain bitterly about all the people with negative ego. I never really understood what he meant by the term, as it seemed to derive from some of the esoteric and cultish literature he frequently read. It felt far afield of the client-centered therapy I was studying at the time as part of Masters in counseling program. Yet the term has stuck with me, almost as the definition of a physical syndrome. Not long ago, an acquaintance posted a chart...Read More...
History of the Heart Recently, Louise Altman encouraged me to write about the notion that "we know what we were by what is showing up today," a throw-away line I left in a comment to one her beautiful posts on The Intentional Workplace blog. Her inspiring article, about living with permanent uncertainty, evokes the dilemmas we collectively and personally face in a world that seems more insecure than ever. To write about this topic takes me back to college days studying broad, cultural ideas and how they evolve over time... Read More...
Leadership Conversation
Shana Hormann Helps Restore the Soul of Traumatized Organizations
Still a teenager, Shana Hormann found herself working at a residential center for girls who had personally experienced violence and family violence. Having grown up in a family with deep spiritual and cultural beliefs about caring for others, it was not a stretch to find herself at such a group home -- but it was also, she says, a "profound and foundational" experience. As I sit taking notes across a small table in her office at Antioch University in Seattle, it's impossible not to feel Shana's combination of penetrating insight, reflectiveness and personal warmth. "We all have our own family dynamics and cultures," she says, "but just imagine me, two house-parents and six girls -- thirty girls in the course of a year -- each of whom had their own history of sexual assault." "That early experience," she continues, "was incredibly intense and immersive."
Building on this work, she attended the University of Washington, gaining a Masters in Social Work. She soon started working with Rev. Marie Fortune of the FaithTrust Institute, educating clergy in rural communities about sexual assault and domestic violence. By 2007 she had completed her Ph.D. in Leadership and Change from Antioch, having joined the faculty in 2000. Today she is an accomplished researcher, author, and presenter in areas of family violence, indigenous empowerment, collaboration and organizational trauma. She also maintains a private consulting practice.
Recently, she and colleague, Pat Vivian, published a groundbreaking manual for leaders, consultants, staff and funders, titled, Organizational Trauma and Healing. The book is focused primarily on non-profit organizations but has much broader applicability.
You can find out more about Shana's work on the website she shares with Pat Vivian, www.organizationaltraumaandhealing.com, and she can be reached directly via email.
Shana, how do you define organizational trauma?
Trauma is any injury to an organization that has long-term, lasting and collective psychic impact. It can result from external events, a clinic that is bombed or a shooter who walks in from the street, for instance, and it can also come from internal events, the suicide of a Director or discovery of some other great emotional harm to an organization, the embezzlement of funds by a trusted, long-time leader, for example. Trauma can also come from a cumulative impact that has to do with the nature of the organization's work - for instance, organizations whose mission puts staff constantly in touch with clients suffering their own forms of traumatization from social ills. Insidious patterns of cumulative trauma, including a long-term practice of staff harassment can destroy organizations, especially when staff blame themselves for events or patterns they cannot control.
Trauma is not the same as a "crisis." Crisis is sometimes characterized as a "dangerous opportunity," but there's no sense of opportunity in organizational trauma by those involved. Instead there is a sense of doom, feelings and language of grief and death, and the failure of hope. I would also separate trauma from discomfort and stress in organizations. Many organizations are stressed and people are unhappy, but that's different than trauma. Problem-solving and making tough decisions can resolve issues in stressed organizations. While problem-solving and decision making are important for containing trauma in traumatized organizations, healing and reclaiming hope are vital for resilience.
How can we minimize the effects of trauma even as terrible events are happening?
The recent response to the landslide in Oso, Washington where in seconds many homes and families were destroyed, may be a good example of what we can do. Like all traumatic events it threw people completely; they were overwhelmed. Yet in this case the community rapidly came together to search for survivors and then the careful, respectful search for bodies of anyone who was missing. There were immediate and spontaneous food and clothing drives. And there was also immediate concern for the physical safety of everyone, including the first responders, for whom debriefings of their experiences are a key strategy to protect them from psychological harm. There was structure right away to help people stay safe and come together. Moreover, there was no immediate media frenzy to sensationalize the event, to find a culprit and to blame. The media and the process on the ground have been very respectful. These are critical elements. How we and the community regard and hold this event in our minds will have an impact on the community's long-term traumatization or long-term healing. Not rationalizing, minimizing, denying or blaming but instead offering structure and a compassionate, respectful response are essential.
Your work emphasizes the existing culture of traumatized organizations and consciousness of organizational patterns. In addition to focusing on and responding to individuals, why is that so important?
The power of organizational culture is an important focus for my colleague, Pat Vivian, and me. Our separate streams of work -- organizational culture and organizational trauma -- challenged us to "stand on the balcony" with traumatized organizations and, eventually, to identify the patterns typically created when an organization is injured. When we searched the literature, we found almost nothing relevant on a systems perspective to organizational trauma. From experience, what became clear is that if you focus on interpersonal dynamics alone, you can easily be swamped by them. Moreover, in many organizations we could see how the focus on interpersonal interactions and on individuals needing to make changes left underlying patterns untouched. Patterns in the culture may continue the trauma, as evidenced by destructive conflicts and negative perceptions of specific individuals that are only symptoms of a deeper ongoing struggle with hopelessness. Consultants and leaders can help members surface underlying organizational patterns - for example, the expectation that overwork is desirable even to the detriment of organizational members or that every issue is urgent or a crisis - so that awareness and a new measure of conscious control and affirmation can be returned to people. Observing and intervening on destructive patterns is essential for building resilience and organizational health.
How do you define healing work in this context?
I encourage practitioners to begin with themselves. How we show up is what we have to offer. Pat and I encourage a non-judgmental response, one that focuses on expanding what we have to offer one another. If in my role as consultant or leader I'm here to fix you or your organization, that's a very narrow band. If I come to you and I'm judgmental, you'll feel it. But if I am not judgmental or here to fix you, not here to keep score or to make things your fault, then you and the system can begin to relax and expand. A "non-anxious presence" is an important skill to develop; a good place to start for healing work. Non-anxiety allows room for hope, and our collective leadership has a chance to raise up the organization in a transformational, consciousness enhancing way.
Healing is about moving from a place of despair and doom to one of hope and health. It's about offering life-affirming leadership and being champions for an organization's strengths. Maintaining a focus on the system and bringing people together allows for healing through story-telling. As leaders we have a chance to voice and advocate for the specific strengths we see in our organizations and members. This is the way we stop dying and begin the move toward hope.
To get this started sometimes takes an outsider -- or a shared spiritual experience of some kind. Sometimes spiritual experience happens because organizational members see that they are not alone, that they have each other. When the spiritual experience happens, you feel it as a definitive shift in the psychic space of the group.
What is your core advice to current leaders who find themselves facing trauma and needing to work with a potentially traumatized organization?
When faced with trauma there are many things we leaders can do on behalf of ourselves and our organizations. We need to acknowledge the suffering and name organizational trauma. We need to contain a traumatic event's impact - without minimizing - and offer optimism, confidence and energy. We can foster a process of collective understanding. We can personally champion strengths and personally model kindness, compassion, and what it means to have healthy boundaries. These all help lessen the impact of a traumatic event or cumulative trauma.
But if I had to narrow it down to one thing, I'd say, "Don't be afraid." Don't be afraid because when we are, we isolate ourselves. Our isolation, in turn, is what initiates the real hold trauma has on us as individuals and also on the organizations we lead. Whether or not we ascribe to the "expert" model of leadership, others in traumatized circumstances will look to us for what to do and how to be. Whether we are formal leaders in organizations or consultants coming to help, people see us as the models. Sometimes we're expected to be miracle workers - and of course we are not. But when we overcome our own fears enough to reach out we begin modeling for everyone else, and the more we begin to use one another as resources in our moments of greatest fear and pain, the more we start that astonishing process of healing, hope and resilience that characterizes the best of our humanity.
MY LEADERSHIP BINDER
More Resources to Foster Reflective Learning
* Who Cheats? In "The Honest Truth About Dishonesty," behavioral economist, Dan Ariely discusses how cheating in organizations may spread, appropriate leadership response, and codes of conduct. This is a 20 minute video interview by Wharton professor, Adam Grant, reposted on the Daily Good website, with a nicely edited transcript.
* What It Means to Change. Stanford coach, Ed Batista, creates another useful and inspiring post based on Martin Broadwell's four-stage process of learning. Ed's great analysis translates difficult territory into an understandable and human approach to change. With great respect for Ed's work, here is: "Riding the Wave (Conscious Competence)."
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