August 29, 2015.

Greetings Clients and Friends of Intuitive Living!



I'm excited to let you know about a new service I'm offering for those of you who are or may be considering online dating.

You've known me as a medical/emotional intuitive and energy healer since 2002. This new service evolved as I heard clients' intimidation at the prospect of going online to meet people, though they were very interested in finding a loving relationship.

As some of you know, my husband of 20 years died without warning in the summer of 2011. What followed was a haze of grief, self-pity, longing, even rage....and a desire to follow him on in my worst days.
 
It's a very different experience from divorce, which I've also experienced. But what they have in common is that sooner or later, if you're a person who values the experience of long-term commitment and sharing your life with someone, you realize that you don't want to be single anymore. You've been through the dark night of the soul, given yourself time to heal, and emerged stronger and ready to emerge from your cocoon of pain.
 
Some of you have been single until now and want to explore what it means to share your life. 
 
1 relationship in 4 now begins on-line, so I heard myself encouraging my clients to give it a try as I had. I told them that in time I found the relationship I wanted.  
 
What was I thinking?! 
 
 
Talk about a blind spot! I'd completely neglected to mention to them that I used my intuitive gift to check out every single person I met and the power of intention to eventually manifest the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I couldn't have done it without both.
  
I want you to have that experience, too! And I admit that I would be delighted to help you to have it. Especially after I came across a new statistic: 28% of men on dating sites today are actually in committed relationships, even married. No wonder you're intimidated! There's so much to know about a complete stranger and intuition is the best way I know to get your questions answered without having to go through the experience.
 
What you may want to know 
 
Here are some of the questions that you may want answered: how compatible might we be emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually? What is his emotional age (which may be vastly different from his chronological age) What is MY emotional age? How honest has he been in his profile? How honest have I been in mine? Is he available emotionally? (He may be single, but still very attached emotionally to someone else, even if he isn't aware of it.) How healthy is he physically, emotionally, financially? Am I the person I want him to be? (We will attract what we are, not what want.) How capable is he of intimacy? Of commitment? How ready am I for commitment? If there are children involved, there is another whole set of issues that need clarification. And these are only a few of the things you should know before you take the time to meet.
 
I've always offered Relationship Readings on my site, but this reading is specific to knowing as much as possible about a complete stranger that you may be considering meeting as a potential relationship partner
 
A New Web Site 
 
I'm setting up a new web site devoted specifically to this new reading. If you just can't wait, you may go to my present website (www.susanshadburne.com) and sign up for a Relationship Reading, letting me know that you are specifically requesting an On-line Dating reading. I'd suggest that you choose a half hour reading if you want information on no more than 2-3 potential prospects, and an hour for more.
 
If you aren't dating online but know someone who is or may be, please pass this on. No one has to do it alone! To thank you for your trust in me, I'm offering a 15 minute free reading to you for anyone who has a reading because of your suggestion.
 
From Psychology Today:
Vivan Diller, PhD.
 
Online sites offer a mode of communicating that until now required stepping into public arenas -- bars, parties and other settings where singles gathered -- which create anxiety and inhibition for some. From a computer or smartphone, there are now opportunities to interact privately, right from one's home and with people who span the globe. Many singles report that online dating is simply easier than face-to-face connections. It feels less personal -- and as a result, makes its users feel less vulnerable . . .For example, a virtual "wink" that expresses interest in someone's profile can be less anxiety-provoking than real-life flirtation. Often, there is less emotional risk or investment involved and therefore a lower likelihood of feeling hurt or rejected.
 
As soon as my new site - isheyourmatch.com - is up and running, I'll drop you a note. Only you can create love in your life, but I can help!
 
P.S. As this new service sounds gender specific, I want to be clear that I welcome questions from people of all sexual orientations. Love... is love.

 
True love has the power to to heal and transform any  
situation and bring deep meaning to our lives.

                                             ~Thich Nhat Hahn
 
         
                       
 
                           Vibrant health, a Light Spirit, and Love to you all,
 
     
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