people lack the understanding of how (and why) we get what we get in life. Why does it often feel like all the things we desire are out of reach, or hard to get. And all the things we feel we don't want seem to keep showing up like uninvited guests. It's not our fault,
we were just taught backwards. One of the more erroneous beliefs that we have been taught is that life is merely circumstances that just happen to us. Some will chalk it up to
FATE. Or luck. If we were born into wealth, well that was a lucky break. If we were born poor, unless we deal with our scarcity mindset, struggle will be all that we know. We have been taught that getting anything would take hard work and a
great deal of doing. And then, if our luck holds out, we just might get something! (Fingers crossed)
We've been taught to be guarded and cautious, play it safe, to not take risks. We've become a defensive species to be sure.
But the greatest obstacle to living our potential started in our toddler days, when we were taught to always look for what is wrong - and we go through life wearing those glasses, seeing what is wrong with everything! Our selves, our bodies, our health, the government, other people. We zero in on the negative, and most of the world cannot agree on what is right and what is wrong, so we go to war, we go on strike, and we go to the therapist to straighten out what is wrong with our self!
Is this the best way to live this precious life that is a gift? Do we just "suck it up" and say, "Well we just have to take it as it is, the ups and the downs. It's just what it is". Work hard and hope for a lucky break.
Or is there another school of thought. One that puts
YOU in the drivers seat of your life. The truth is that everything in our life has been created by our own thoughts and feelings!!
It's The Law of Attraction. It's a
Law of the Universe, like the law of cause and effect. Believe in it or not, we are all living according to The Law of Attraction. Like begets like.We attract stuff (people, places and things) to us that matches the vibration that we send out day in and day out.
Understanding this power that we all have (and putting it into action) is the key to creating our lives, improving our relationships with people, money, careers, our health. Sadly, no one told us about this.
Physicists of today agree that
everything is energy. And energy and matter are actually the same. And since
energy is vibration, that means that everything on this planet and beyond vibrates!! That means you and that means me.
Even though there is one energy, it vibrates differently. Think about a musical instrument, the piano for example, the resonance, or frequency of the high notes vibrate faster and higher. The lower notes resonate slower and lower. We are kind of like musical instruments, more like radio signals, or tuning forks. However the WAY we vibrate has everything to do with thoughts to be sure, but it is
more than thoughts...
.it's the accompanying feeling, or emotion. It's one thing to say, I am grateful. There is a lot more bang to the buck to
feel positively grateful,
really feel it, charge it up nice and high, and
stick with that feeling for 16 seconds. Now you are learning how to use your magnetism to your advantage.
E-motions are Energy in Motion. Think of how you feel when you are resentful, frustrated, annoyed. How does that
feel in your body. The vibration is low and slow and will go ahead and find a match, causing you to stay in the state of feeling bad. Think of how you
feel when you are truly grateful, appreciative, compassionate. Now you are radiating out some powerful vibration that, like a heat seeking missile, will go out and find a match for more of the same. Sounds wacky, but I know this to be true. When I first learned about the Law of Attraction and started kicking it into high gear I was amazed at how stuff that I needed to create my holistic career path kept showing up. It kind of spooked me out. But that is how it works.
Positive thinking alone will not work to increase your vibration until you can juice it up with some awesome feeling. The Universe is not responding to anything else but our daily vibration. Sometimes we get into a rut of negativity that seems hard to break out of. That is where a tool like
EFT or tapping would be really effective, because it can quickly
MOVE that stuck energy of the negative emotion. That is why I am so passionate about EFT and I use it everyday, and I love to teach others about it as well. So everyone can feel better faster. Move that vibration up!
So if there is something you want or desire, instead of saying, I hope I get it, say
"I INTEND that Universe send this to me". Then wrap that intention up in some pretty paper made out of
joyful expectation, and top it off with the most beautiful bow make out of
gratitude. Send it off with a heartfelt feeling of
TRUST. Then
see it, feel it, act as if you already have it. Or just go out and have some good old fun!
However you get there, be the best magnet you can be!
