Choice Moms LLC
November 8, 2012
Relieving Stress, Building Support  
CCB sponsor reading at Austin event
California Cryobank representative Scott Brown reading to a Choice Kid at one of our 2012 events

The most important advice we hear at our Choice Mom networking events is the value of having a support network on this journey, from Thinking to Being stages. No matter how self-sufficient we are, the goal of Choice Motherhood is not to parent alone, but rather to consciously build a village around ourself and our child.

 

How to do that? If your network changes, or if your family doesn't support your choice, or if you simply are used to juggling everything alone -- what can you do to relieve the stress and add to your community?

 

The new Choice Mom E-guide to Relieving Stress, Building Support is a 17-page PDF compilation of the most popular stories from fellow Choice Moms, useful insights from experts, and commentaries about my Choice Mom life with two kids, now 13 and 8. The links, excerpts and stories were all created specifically for ChoiceMoms.org.

 

New on ChoiceMoms.org   

 

Numbers: How many Choice Moms are there?

 

Commentary: My concerns about egg freezing

 

Q&A: Should I stay or should I go? A Thinker asks for our input

 

IVF: improving the odds for success

 

Money: comparing IUI and IVF costs per success rates

 

Media: West Coast TV show needs Choice Moms

Research: Looking for insemination subjects

Fatherless: Creating Family Day 

 

 

Highlights: Choice Mom Resources

 

Directory: Choice Mom-friendly fertility clinics 

 

Five Myths About Choice Motherhood  

 

Recommended reading/stories for our kids

 

The Choice Chat podcast is a great tool for hearing from experts and fellow moms; this post will lead you to all of them 

 

Storybook for Children: "I Felt You Flutter in My Heart," illustrated by six Choice Kids, and the perfect size for young fingers. A simple and bright story about how much we love them. 

  

2012 Events Conclude; 2013 Cities Being Chosen

Thanks to long-time event sponsor California Cryobank, we had another great year of networking events (Chicago, New York, D.C., Austin, Long Beach), giving away free vials of sperm to 5 lucky women.

 

We're starting to discuss 2013 plans. We will expand the events to include special guest speakers, Choice Mom panel discussions and small group breakout sessions, for a larger community of women. Front-runners include: Arlington, Charlotte, Boston, Los Angeles and a full weekend retreat in northern San Francisco. Send an email to info @ choicemoms.org to express your interest.

 

Use the EVENTS tab at ChoiceMoms.org to find up-to-date information.

 

Talking Amongst Ourselves   
We are building our new discussion space for Choice Moms on Big Tent. We have a group for all women on this journey, as well as special forums for women who are Thinking, Trying to Conceive, Adopting, Parenting, and a space where women from localized regions can connect with each other. (I heard from a woman in Canada who had trouble accessing; if you are outside the U.S. and having issues, let me know at info @ choicemoms.org and I'll find a solution.)
 
You are able to choose the email options for any of the groups or 26 topic areas (per email, daily digest or website-only basis). If you'd like to help me develop this resource, as co-moderator or as someone who can write a simple how-to instruction for newcomers, please contact me.  
 
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(for the challenges of becoming or being an "older" mom)

 

 

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