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This Week At Beth Or

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activities and news 

November 18, 2014
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In This Issue
 
 

Rabbi
Mark Kram   
 
 
 
 
D'Var Torah
  
  
November 22, 2014 
 
Toldot

Genesis 25:19 - 26:22 
(using the Triennial Year 2 calendar)
 
Haftarah

Malachi 1:1 - 2:7  
 
 
 
 
 
Beth Or Links

Our Website 

Board Of Directors 

Committees 



Other Links




Contact:

Kathy Fisler 
bethortemple@aol.com
 
305-235-1419
 
Office Hours:
Tuesday  10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
Wednesday: Noon - 3:00 pm.
Thursday: 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
Friday: 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
 
What's Happening This Week at Temple Beth Or
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Tuesday, November 18

Wednesday, November 19     
Chit Chat  10:00 a.m.      

Thursday, November 20    
Weight Watchers  10:00 a.m.

Friday, November  21   
Kabbalat Shabbat 8:00 p.m.
  
Saturday,  November 22
Global Day of Jewish Learning  9:30 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.
   (see the article below for specifics) 

Sunday,  November 23
Jews in the Woods Day Trip
  (see the article below for details)

Monday, November 24

Tuesday, November 25

Wednesday, November 26        
Chit Chat will not meet this Wednesday, just prior to Thanksgiving

Thursday, November 27
Thanksgiving Day
  
Friday, November 28
Kabbalat Shabbat  8:00 p.m. 
 
  
 
  
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 Events 
 
Save the Date!  

mark your calendar



December 1 
Book Discussion, Part 2:  My Promised Land,
by Ari Shavit 

December 6
Bazaar Setup volunteers needed!

December 7 
Holiday Bazaar

December 11 
Executive Committee and Board Meetings

January 13, 2015 
Positive Psychology 2 begins

January 31-February 2, 2015 
Jews in the Woods  I Camping Trip

March 21, 2015
Lighthouse Cafe with Ruth Wyand

March 28, 2015 
Jews in the Woods II  Day Trip




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Community Notices
  
Shabbat Shalomshabbat shalom

Friday, November 21


Join us this Friday evening at 8:00 for the Kabbalat Shabbat Service, with Rabbi Mark Kram on the bima.

The Oneg Shabbat will follow the service.

 
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Thank You, Thank You

to all who have generously contributed to Temple Beth Or...

Anita and Jay Meinbach, in memory of Jean Van Dam, and in
     memory of Arlene Harris
Gail and Norman Gelvan, in thanks for Beth Or activities
Marcy Prince, in memory of Arlene Harris
Greta Larrison-Malkin, in memory of Arlene Harris
Leah and Jose Laurel, for the High Holidays

Global Day of Jewish Learning, Beth Or Style
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Beth Or's participation in the Global Day of Jewish Learning program will take place on Saturday, November 22, from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.

This year's theme is "Heroes and Villains, Saints and Fools: The People in the Book." 

 

We'll have a lunch provided for $7.00 per person.  Please let us know in the Temple office if you will participate, and if you'll join us for lunch.   305-235-1419 or bethortemple@aol.com 

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Jews in the Woods --
times two!

Two chances to experience the marvel of this unique natural setting...


November 23: Easy Interpretive Walk - Explore Everglades Shark Valley with Volunteer Park Ranger Ellen Siegel

 

When: Sunday, November 23, 12:30 pm at the Everglades Shark Valley Visitor's Center, 11:45 am at the Dade carpool site, or 11:15 am at the Broward carpool site. We should be back at the Dade carpool site by about 5:00 pm.

 

What: Enjoy all the peace and solitude that Everglades National Park has to offer. We will begin by walking on the flat, easy terrain of the loop road that is paved right through the Everglades. This is the Everglades that we all imagine; vast sawgrass prairies, thick hardwood hammocks, and lots of alligators. There is no better way to experience the Everglades wildlife than to walk this loop road. There are two side trails that we will explore; The Otter Cave Trail and the Bobcat Trail.

 

This trip offers an incredible variety of birds, including the endangered wood storks, kites, limpkins, all varieties of wading birds; gators, otters, deer and hawks. Volunteer Everglades National Park ranger and Mosaic member Ellen Siegel will be leading this trip. She has extensive knowledge of the plant and animal life of the area, and she loves to share. Start with a picnic lunch near the visitor's center, with all the sights and sounds of nature, and meet your fellow explorers.

Where: Everglades Shark Valley Visitors Center, 305-221-8776

 

Directions: From the Broward carpool site, continue south on I-95, to SR 836 west (exit #3A), and continue 11 miles to the Florida Turnpike. Go south on the Turnpike to the first exit (Tamiami Trail, SW 8 St), and head west. This is where the Dade carpool site is, but there is no need to stop there. Continue west on the Tamiami Trail for about 22 miles and you will see the sign for Everglades National Park, Shark Valley on the left. If you pass the tall water tower on the left, you've gone too far. Meet near the visitor's center at the benchers for a picnic lunch at 12:30 PM.

 

Carpool:     Broward and Palm Beach meet at the Holiday Inn in Hollywood. Take I-95 to Sheridan Street (exit #21), go west on Sheridan to the first light (N. 29 Ave.), turn right (north) and make the first left into the Holiday Inn. Meet in the parking lot on the right side of the hotel as you=re facing the hotel. Meet at 11:15 pm. We will leave at 11:30 sharp!

 

Dade and West Broward members meet at the McDonalds on the Tamiami Trail (SW 8 St) and 119 Ave, just west of the Florida Turnpike. Meet at 11:45AM, and leave at 12:00 pm sharp!

 

Bring: Comfortable shoes, water bottle, a fanny pack or daypack, bug spray, hat, sunglasses, long-sleeve shirt, long pants, and a brown bag lunch. You may also want to bring a camera or binoculars. No need to wear the long pants and shirt; just have them in case of mosquitoes. There are no food facilities in the park.

 

 

 

Cost: $3 for members, $8 for non-members, plus park entrance fee of $10 per car. Carpooling is strongly encouraged, especially since the entrance fee is $10 per car.

 

Contact: Ellen Siegel at 305-305-332-5544 or email her at gladesgirl1@bellsouth.net 

 

for more information. No RSVP is required, just show up at the carpool site or the park.

 
 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, January 31 - Sunday, February 2, 2014

At the exotic, bayside Flamingo Campground in Everglades National Park

 

Activities (will be decided based on weather and wind conditions):

 

Friday evening, 8:00 PM: Kabbalat Shabbat under the stars.

Saturday morning, 10:30 AM: Sweet and simple Sabbath service.

Saturday and Sunday during the day: Cruise on a mangrove adventure canoe trip, brave a swamp tromp, see the feathered wildlife on a bird walk, and make plaster castings of animal footprints.

Saturday evening, 6:00 PM: Potluck and Havdalah under the stars. We will also have a patriotic flag burning ceremony just before bed after the s'mores!

 

Housing: TENTS ONLY!  You must make your own standard non-electric site reservation.  Reservations ($16 per might) can either be made at
http://www.recreation.gov/campsiteFilterAction.do?sitefilter=STANDARD+NONELECTRIC&startIdx=0&contractCode=NRSO&parkId=70976or by calling 1-877-444-6777.

Food: All food is bring your own. For Saturday evening we are having a potluck, so please have enough to share with others. Bring your own dishes and utensils. There is a convenience store and a modest food trailer in Flamingo so you can buy food, but the selection is very limited.

 

Fee: There is a $10 at the park entrance fee plus your $16 per night park service campsite fee - see Housing above.

 

Bring:

All food, tents, all cooking gear (pots, pans, stove, utensils), toiletries, towels, sleeping bags/pillows, sun protection, binoculars, cameras, folding tables and extra chairs, rain gear, jackets, bug repellent, bikes 

 

 

Email Ellen Siegel, gladesgirl1@bellsouth.net  with the number of campers and your contact information. You can also reach her at (305) 332-5544.




Beth Or Annual Holiday Bazaar
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Our annual bazaar is just one month away, Sunday December 7, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. 

 

We have wonderful new vendors and our favorites, Hudson Girl, Uniquely Stoned, The Chosen, Carlos Pereira,  Tesserot Pottery, Ellen's Treasures, and Dixie's Jewels, traveling all the way from Maryland, just to name a few.   

  

 

April and Rhoni are ready to  make their lists and check them twice!!!

 

We are still in need of a candle vendor and children's accessories.

 

Please e mail or call us if you can help set up for the bazaar Saturday  December 6, 1:00 p.m. Come on guys, we need your muscles!

 

On Sunday we need help with the raffle, trouble shooting  and then the breakdown of everything.

Promising to be the best bazaar EVER!!!

 
 

 

We need a raffle chairperson and a few people to work that day.

 

 

Save all your gelt and plan to do your holiday shopping with us, proceeds benefit TBO.

 

 

Flyers are available for you to post in condo or apartment bulletin boards, to give out to groups, or to ask the businesses you patronize to post in their windows.   

 

 

My Promised Land
by Ari Shavit

Part Two:

A Temple Beth Or Book Discussion, led by Rabbi Mark Kram, to meet on Monday, December 1.

Excerpt from the book's summary on Amazon.com:

"We meet Shavit's great-grandfather, a British Zionist who in 1897 visited the Holy Land on a Thomas Cook tour and understood that it was the way of the future for his people; the idealist young farmer who bought land from his Arab neighbor in the 1920s to grow the Jaffa oranges that would create Palestine's booming economy; the visionary youth group leader who, in the 1940s, transformed Masada from the neglected ruins of an extremist sect into a powerful symbol for Zionism; the Palestinian who as a young man in 1948 was driven with his family from his home during the expulsion from Lydda; the immigrant orphans of Europe's Holocaust, who took on menial work and focused on raising their children to become the leaders of the new state; the pragmatic engineer who was instrumental in developing Israel's nuclear program in the 1960s, in the only interview he ever gave; the zealous religious Zionists who started the settler movement in the 1970s; the dot-com entrepreneurs and young men and women behind Tel-Aviv's booming club scene; and today's architects of Israel's foreign policy with Iran, whose nuclear threat looms ominously over the tiny country.

 
As it examines the complexities and contradictions of the Israeli condition, My Promised Land asks difficult but important questions: Why did Israel come to be? How did it come to be? Can Israel survive? Culminating with an analysis of the issues and threats that Israel is currently facing, My Promised Land uses the defining events of the past to shed new light on the present. The result is a landmark portrait of a small, vibrant country living on the edge, whose identity and presence play a crucial role in today's global political landscape."

The book is available for purchase through Amazon and other sources and is also available at the Miami-Dade Public Library. 
 
Red Tent Women's Reading Group

The next Red Tent meeting will be on December 14 at the Temple, hosted by Marcy Prince.  Linda Faber will lead discussion of The Paris Architect, by Charles Belfoure.

Positive Psychology 2 Starts in January 

An 8-week open event facilitated by Dr. Nancy Kirsner.  All are welcome!

Positive Psychology has ushered in an
era of well being and happiness by focusing on what works and is strong in you.

Research and reality teaches us that we are at our best when we live in our strengths and in relationships.  Our Jewish fundamentals and Positive Psychology converge, creating a rich context of meaning, purpose and pleasure -- the main ingredients of Happiness and Wellbeing.

Class session dates:  Tuesday evenings
January 13 and 20,
February 3, 10, 17, and 24,
March 3 and 10.

To register, please email nancykirsner@gmail.com. 
For any questions, call Dr. Nancy Kirsner at 305-274-8283. 

Suggested donation of $10 per class or $60 for all 8 classes, if paid at the first session. 
 
 
gardening-bucket.jpg Green Stuff!

Beth Or's  ORGANIC  GARDEN 
ontinues to grow!

 

Put the 'Or' in 'Organic"

  

H&G thanks Glenn Patron for illuminating our monument sign with solar-powered spotlights.

 

 

Beth Or's
Minipark is the mulched area between the gravel parking lot and our main building.  Still under construction, it

provides safe passage walkways from parking lot to building on a mulch bed instead of rough terrain, tree roots and encroaching vegetation.

Watch for additional improvements as we add sitting area, etc.~ House & Grounds

 

 

 

Certified Florida Master Gardeners Wilfredo and Candy Candelaria will support

Beth Or's Organic Garden and Campus Edibles Program for 2014-15.

They will help train volunteers and provide education for Green Thumb congregants

who want to practice organic, sustainable vegetable, fruit and medicinal cultivation.

Watch for opportunities to cultivate your own plot at Beth Or or help our next communal crops of:  bananas, papayas, other edibles, herbs and medicianals!

 

We're also submitting a grant proposal to improve the irrigation for many edibles on campus!

  

Do's and Don'ts:

  • Don't step on a bed. Your weight compresses the soil, reducing "friability." 
  • If you don't know what to do, ASK!
  • Learn as much as you can about organic-veganic methods- Rodale's magazine is a good resource

Check out this site:  Derek Fellows Grows 

 

Kavanah by Rabbi Mark  "...to help build up our people, our institutions and our strength so that we continue to l'takein olam b'malchut Shaddai, 'repair the world under the kingdom of heaven.'  Let's get our hands deliciously "dirty" in this endeavor as we grow and sustain our beloved community."

 

 

Story:  We are Shomrei Adamah, Guardians of the Earth or Keepers of the Garden of Eden.  To start off we will be practical and do whatever works- but we aspire to the highest standards of earth ethics summarized by Organic/Veganic Gardening. We will carefully select the veggies and herbs to maximize output, balanced cultivatino, companion planting, insect control, etc. With today's high prices for quality veggies and herbs, a garden is economically desirable.  Plus it is part of a healthy lifestyle, good education, and a social communal experience.  All those with green (or any color) thumbs are welcome to cultivate with us.

 

 

Weight Watchers at Beth Or  

Weight Watchers continues its meeting series on Thursday mornings at 10:00 a.m. at Beth Or.

 
New members should arrive at about 9:45 and enter by the back door at the top of the ramp.


For more information, please contact Ilien Hechtman at ilienh@aol.com 

 

Chit Chat  
Chit Chat meets on Wednesday mornings at 10:00 at the Temple. 
 
              
 
Chit Chat will not meet Wednesday, November 26,
the day before Thanksgiving.
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We've picked up several interesting articles from reputable sources -- BBC News and the New York Times among them -- and we're ready to launch into topics of local, national and international interest with a distinctly Jewish approach.  We talk about cultural, legal, educational, social, political, religious and secular subjects, with a text usually from the media to start us off.
 
There's always room for more, so please don't hesitate.  If you're available, so are we.
If you want to be included on the Chit Chat email list, please contact Mike Leslie at hebrewnatl@aol.com.
   
TBO Members' Page

The following words are from Sara Hanson, and were read from the bima by her father, John Hanson, at Kabbalat Shabbat services this past Friday.   

 

 

 

First, I would like to say how honored I am to have been asked to speak to you this evening about my military service. When Ellen approached me about making some remarks in honor of Veteran's Day, I jumped at the chance. Even though I cannot be there in person because of a prior engagement, I am so happy to be able to contribute to tonight's service with a "sermon" of sorts.

 

For those of you who don't know me, my name is Sara Hanson. My parents are Ellen and John Hanson, and my family has been members of Beth Or for nearly twenty years. These days, I am more commonly known as "Captain Hanson", as I am currently serving on active duty with the U.S. Army Judge Advocate General's (or "JAG") Corps. Right now I am stationed at Fort Hood in Texas, where I work as a military prosecutor for the 13th Expeditionary Sustainment Command. I have previously worked as a legal assistance attorney, providing legal aid to servicemembers and their families, and last year I deployed to Afghanistan for ten months as an operational legal advisor.  

 

My experience in the military has been transformative in so many ways. In putting together this presentation for you, I have tried to touch on a few key areas that I hope you will find interesting.

 

Firstly, I would like to briefly touch on military families and the sacrifices they make. Although my deployment was a challenging experience, it was overall a very good experience and a time in my career that, in some ways, I miss. That being said, I would not want to deploy again - not because I don't want to go overseas, but because of the toll that it took on my family. In truth, I volunteered for my deployment without giving much thought to the impact it would have on my family. I know now that for nearly a year, they hung on every phone call and email I sent them; that every mention of Afghanistan on the television terrified them; and that as scared as I felt sometimes, they were just as frightened. Aside from the obvious daily challenges that many military families face, such as an absent parent, the fear and uncertainty of having a loved one deployed is excruciating. I think it is important for us all to put ourselves in military family members' shoes and imagine how we would feel if someone we dearly loved was so far away and potentially in harms' way; that is its own kind of battle to fight every day, and it too often goes unnoticed and unappreciated.

 

Talk of family brings me to my second topic - my Army "family". One of the most valuable things I have taken away from my time in the military, and especially from my deployment, is an incredible sense of comradery. I have never worked in a place where I felt so bolstered by the support of my colleagues and friends. Military service teaches you to value your teammates and instills a sense of loyalty and duty to your unit. You are encouraged to look out for your battle buddies all the time - to ensure that they are safe and squared away. A supportive network is built around each member of the team so that no one should ever feel alone or abandoned. An Army office is no ordinary office.

 

This sense of team unity is never more important than when you are deployed. When you are downrange, your team becomes your family, and that is certainly true of the 12-person legal team that I deployed with. We spent 10 months crammed into a 20x20 foot tin box: we laughed and cried and fought and complained, and came out the other side loving each other like brothers and sisters. These people will be my friends for the rest of my life. I could try to describe that experience for you, but they were there and went through it with me. They know what the whole thing looked like, smelled like, and tasted like. When I had to work the night shift, they stayed up late to keep me company. When one of us celebrated a birthday or suffered a personal loss, we celebrated and grieved as a unit. When our camp was attacked, we made sure each other were safe. I will never share those experiences with anyone else.

 

As a matter of fact, I am with my deployment team tonight; one of the team is getting married in Broward and we are all in town for his wedding. The rehearsal dinner, going on right now, is the first time we will all be together since we've been back in the states. The people on my team were from all different religious, racial, ethnic, and political backgrounds, but we came together to accomplish a mission and came out the other side a family. I can't think of a better testament to teamwork and service than that.

 

To wrap up my presentation, I would like to speak a bit about the nature of public service, and military service in particular. In the spirit of total honesty, I feel compelled to tell you all that I never gave any thought to joining the military until right before I applied. I am the child of progressive, intellectual parents and I myself was (and still am) a card-carrying ACLU member, yoga-loving, tree-hugging, bleeding-heart liberal. It simply wasn't part of my life's plan, until the economy fell off a cliff in 2008 and my plans had to change. The frank truth is that, had you told me five years ago that today I would be on active duty in the military, and that I would have just returned from a deployment to Afghanistan, I would have thought you were crazy.  

 

However, although the military hasn't always been my plan, I have always hoped to have a career in some type of public service. I was raised in a quietly patriotic home; we didn't wear "Proud to be an American" t-shirts, but we knew how to properly fold a flag. Justice, freedom, and equality - all fundamental American values - were taught, discussed, and debated in our home. Whether they meant to or not, my parents taught me to deeply and profoundly love my country; to be willing to die to defend her, if necessary. But I was not taught to love my country blindly. I was raised, like all good Jewish kids, to ask questions.   I was taught that dissent is patriotic; to stand up and make my voice count; that is it the responsibility of all Americans to criticize our own policies when we are wrong, and to take an active part in steering our country in the right direction. In our home, you could love America and disagree with her at the same time.  

 

I believe that both my sense of national pride as well as my impulse to constructively criticize the country that I love led me into being a military lawyer. I will frankly tell you that I don't always agree with the decisions that the military makes. But I can also tell you that when my unit asked for volunteers to go to Afghanistan, my hand shot into the air before I could even form a coherent thought. I jumped at the chance to contribute to the mission and to my team in the most direct way I could imagine - a combat deployment.

 

In every operational law briefing I give to my Soldiers, I share with them a John McCain quote about the Law of War: "It's not about them, it's about us." We choose to fight our wars by a set of rules and according to our principles, even if our enemies won't follow the same rules, and even if they turn our rules against us. This expression of our national values, even in the face of mortal risk, is the bravest and purest expression of patriotism that I have ever had the privilege to be a part of. It is what makes us the "good guys" and them the "bad guys".

 

One of the first things that you are required to learn when you enter the Army is the "Soldier's Creed." It is basically a statement of principles and doctrines that American Soldiers are supposed to live by. If you are unfamiliar with it, here it is:  

 

I am an American Soldier.

I am a warrior and a member of a team.

I serve the people of the United States, and live the Army Values.

I will always place the mission first.

I will never accept defeat.

I will never quit.

I will never leave a fallen comrade.

I am disciplined, physically and mentally tough, trained and proficient in my warrior tasks and drills.

I always maintain my arms, my equipment and myself.

I am an expert and I am a professional.

I stand ready to deploy, engage, and destroy, the enemies of the United States of America in close combat.

I am a guardian of freedom and the American way of life.

I am an American Soldier.

 

The creed gives me chills every time I read or say it. It encapsulates so perfectly the sense of duty and honor I feel at being allowed the privilege to wear my uniform and represent the United States of America each and every day. I don't know if I will still be in the military two years, ten years, or twenty years from now. But I do know that I will always be a Soldier, and I will always be proud to have served my country.

 

Thank you.

 

 

 

 

In and For Our Local Community

 
Mental Health Programs Open to the Public
...at Temple Beth Am, 7-9 p.m. as follows:


Wednesday, December 3: Honest Talk on Treatment Options: Discussions regarding psychiatry, psychology and the status of treatment in Miami-Dade County

Wednesday, December 10: Honest Talk: Innovative Approaches to Treatment: Groundbreaking new approaches to mental health

All events are free and open to the community.

For more information, visit www.tbam.org/mentalhealth