SURRENDER AND ACCEPTANCE

I believe surrender and acceptance starts with a little understanding that we really are not in control.
If we can look at our lives from an egoless place, we would be able to see how little control we really have, or better yet, how little "free will" we have. Let me explain.
In life, everyone is influenced by others. We are influenced to some degree on how to dress, how to think, what status in life would be nice, what type of car we should buy, what type of food we should eat, what baseball team to root for, etc, etc...we've all been influence directly or subconsciously about things. So, really where is this free will that God has supposedly given us?
Well its there. But that free will is mostly meant for our choice to love and acknowledge our love for God or not. As we all know, we cannot force someone to love us. Love does not work that way. Not Agape love. The other types of love can be influenced...Eros and Philos, but not Agape. I've talked about the different types of Love in the past, and want to stay focused on free will/control and how that relates to surrender and acceptance.
Depending on the different types of personalities we enter the world with, we will be influenced and swayed in different ways by how the "outside" world promotes itself. Some of those outside things will register for us. We will incorporate them into our lives and some of them will not.
Most importantly is that its ok to be ourselves. Those things in life that resonate with our way of thinking, go with it. Even if it's different then the way others feel. It's extremely important that we honor and accept ourselves and our differences. More to come about all this in another newsletter.
So in essence, do we have free will? Are we really in control? Yes and no. Do we have free will to love or not to love God? Yes. Are we really in control of how we feel about certain issues in life? Can we really control the outcome to everything in life? Yes and no. Depending on our personality we are born with, we will feel a certain way. Can we control things in our life? To a point and sometimes not at all.
And all of this brings us to then need to accept and surrender life. Please join me on my weekly blogs in the month of August for more on Surrender and Acceptance.
I look forward to hearing comments from you concerning the topics of the weekly blogs.
Namaste,
Michael
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