February 22,  2015                                                                                  Issue 20

Adult Ed Presents: Rabbi Blumberg

LET'S HAVE THE CONVERSATION!

Most of us would prefer not to open the topic. It is a difficult subject to broach with elderly parents. Our children often deny that there will ever be a need.

 

But deep in our hearts we know that it is a necessary to think about our wishes for medical care if we or a loved one become gravely ill BEFORE there is a crisis.

 

To help us with the difficult task, our congregation -- with some guidance from our Rabbi Emeritus, Herman Blumberg, - is offerings a series of two interactive workshops:

 

STARTING THE CONVERSATION

Thursday, March 19, 7:30 p.m.

Sponsored by the Adult Learning Committee

Designed for all who want to begin or further their thinking about choices to be made if gravely ill - for themselves, for spouse or partner, for elderly parents.

  • Discerning my wishes.
  • What choices of medical intervention do I have?
  • How and when to open the subject with those near to me?
  • What's in a name: Health Care Proxy and Advanced Directives?

CONSIDERING THE HARD QUESTIONS

Sunday, March 29, 7:30 p.m.

Sponsored by Reyim

For those among us wanting to provide guidance to our family regarding the hardest life and death decisions.  

  • Finding the Tipping Point: When is more treatment futile?
  • How do I define "Quality of Life" ?
  • Heroic Measures: My choices and options.
  • Can Jewish Teachings guide us?

A case history of a patient with late stage Dementia will provide a concrete framework for our exploration.

 

Please let us know that you are coming........

 

Rabbi Blumberg will be pleased to tell you more about these workshops and their relevance for you: hermanblumberg@gmail.com

Regularly Scheduled Services

Simchat Shabbat, Friday, 6:15 p.m.

Early Shacharit, followed by Torah study, Sat. 8:30 a.m.

Late Shacharit, Saturday, 10:45 a.m. - 1 p.m.
 
Shabbat Yeladim (Tot Shabbat) - 1st  Saturday of each month, 9:30 a.m.

 

Shabbat Mishpacha (Family Shabbat) - 3rd Saturday of each month, 9:00 a.m.   

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Family Promise

We are excited to announce that Temple Shir Tikva has agreed to host Family Promise families from March 29-April 3. Family Promise needed a congregation to step in and fill in a hole in the schedule. Since Passover begins on April 3, we will be hosting for a shortened week. We are also scheduled to host another week, May 31-June 7. The positive interest and response to this special mitzvah has been fantastic.

 

To Sign Up: The calendar of volunteer opportunities for March/April is available at https://www.lotsahelpinghands.com/c/722086/ . Please contact Debbie Pullen, website coordinator, at dmpullenfamily@yahoo.com or 978-460-0197 if you have any questions or run into any problems signing up. 

 

Family Promise Volunteer Training: If you have not attended a volunteer training yet, there will be one held at the Islamic Center of Boston (ICB) on Sunday, February 22, 11:15- 12:45. RSVP to Kim Ho at kim@kimberlyho.net if you would like to attend. Complete training schedule can be found here.


Reel Abilities:  Fixed: The Science/Fiction of Human Enhancement
Temple Shir Tikva with Reel Abilities Films present:
Fixed: The Science/Fiction of Human Enhancement.

   

 

Screening followed by an interfaith, community dialogue with local clergy.

Dessert reception to follow.
Reform Judaism Needs Your Vote
STAND FOR A BETTER ISRAEL BY CASTING YOUR VOTE FOR ARZA, REPRESENTING REFORM JUDAISM, IN THE 2015 WORLD ZIONIST ORGANIZATION ELECTIONS.   
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Kallah 2015:  Kumzitz

Sunday, March 15, 4 p.m.

 

Women's Kallah: Can you (and your sewing machine) join us?

This week, your personal invitation to join us for the Women's Kallah!

 

Registration is easy at www.shirtikva.org/kallah2015.

 

Our theme this year is "Kumzitz" - the Yiddish word for singing around the summer camp-fire. It reflects joy and connection, music and friendship. Workshop offerings this year include a hands-on craft, yoga and chanting, Yiddish women's poetry, and will conclude with a camp song-session and s'mores!

 

Click here for more information
Adult Ed Presents: Jacob Meskin

Sunday, March 15, 9 a.m.

 

Professor Jacob Meskin will provide an overview and a "Taste" of "Understanding Antisemitism", the course he will be offering this coming Fall at TST.

 

Meskin (see brief bio here), a veteran Me'ah teacher and teacher-trainer, is noted for blending high-level intellectual and spiritual content with an open, engaging, and humorous teaching style that encourages conversation and interaction. 

 

Scheduled to meet every other week and designed specifically for sophisticated adult learners, "Understanding Antisemitism"  aims 1) to acquaint students with the ancient and medieval roots of AntiJudaism in both the Christian and the Islamic traditions, and 2) to describe clearly how, in more recent times and in particular in the nineteenth century, various developments and individuals helped to transform these inherited antiJudaic roots into the modern phenomena of political and racial Antisemitism.   With this historical and conceptual framework in place, it becomes possible to understand the contemporary outbreak of various kinds of Antisemitism, whether they stem from fanatical forms of nationalism or of religion.

Adult Ed Presents: Breast Cancer: What Families Need to Know

Sunday, March 22, 9 a.m. - Noon

 

Dr. Donald Bachman, Radiologist, Metrowest Medical Center presents:

What Families Need To Know About Breast Cancer

 

Breast cancer is the most common malignancy affecting women and has and will occur in many families in our community. A panel discussion will explore what we currently know and hope to discover and a subsequent panel will address the critical areas of psychological and social support for patients and their families.

 

Also participating in the discussion, moderated by Dr. Bachman, will be Dr. Timothy Ernst, Medical Oncologist, Charles River Medical Associates; Dr. Jami Rubens, Diagnostic Radiologist, Newton Wellesley Hospital; Dr. Gayle Tillman, Radiation Oncologist, Newton Wellesley Hospital; Dr. Rita Sadowski, Plastic and Reconstructive Surgeon, Metrowest and Newton Wellesley Hospitals.

Save the Date:  Spirituals on Broadway

Saturday May 9, 8:00 p.m.

 

The Temple Shir Tikva Choir in Concert presents:  "Spirituals on Broadway"

 

From "Sit Down You're Rocking the Boat" and "Blow, Gabriel, Blow" to "Seasons of Love" and "Sabbath Prayer", our incredible choir will be performing top Broadway hits and hidden gems.  Join us in raising our Sanctuary roof with musical theater's greatest spiritual songs of love, hope and praise!


 

More details to follow in Vats Nu and Hineni.

Mitzvah Project for Justin and Jared Lista

Please help Justin & Jared Lista with their Bar Mitzvah project to support displaced and homeless families of Natick and Framingham in need of assistance

Family Services Coalition is an all-volunteer coalition that provides a wide range of services to meet the needs of homeless families placed in local motels.

Due to recent cuts in state and federal housing there has been a substantial increase in homelessness in Massachusetts. Currently, an average of nearly 2,100 homeless families each night is housed by the state in motel rooms. We are asking for your help to assist 60 families residing in local Natick and Framingham hotels.

During February and March we will be organizing a collection campaign to assist these families in our community. Working with Family Services Coalition our goal is to collect toiletries * for distribution to these families who are in need of our assistance.

 

Our hope is for you to help these families with your donation of toiletries * . * Body Soap, deodorant, body lotion, shampoo, conditioner, tooth-brush, toothpaste, floss.

There will be a box located in the TST lobby during February and March to collect your donations.

Hope and Comfort

Help low income and homeless adults and families improve their health and self-esteem. Hope and Comfort (www.hopeandcomfort.org) is looking for new, full size SOAP, SHAMPOO, DEODORANT, TOOTHPASTE, and TOOTHBRUSHES.  Hope and Comfort (H&C), a non-profit 501(c)(3) organization started by TST member Jeff Feingold and his family in 2011, distributes personal care products to adults and children in need.   

 

Please join us in improving the health and self-esteem of adults and children in need by donating new, full size SOAP, SHAMPOO, DEODORANT, TOOTHPASTE, and TOOTHBRUSHES.

 

Donated items can be placed in the Hope and Comfort bin located outside the main office at TST.

In Our Congregation
R'fuah Sh'lema...
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with those that are ill:

 

Aron ben Batya Lea 

Batya Chana bat Rut   

Charlotte Beck 

Ben Boverman

Chana bat Miriam

Chava bat Sarah

Chaya Ruchel bat Kraindyl 

Janet Decker

Chet Dlugokinsky

Aliza Dorfman 

Robert Friedman   

Mary Lee Goguen

Minnie Goldenberg

Irma Hill

 

 

 

 

 

Richard Hill

Fred Hopengarten

Ethan Kadish 

Vivienne Kalman

Edith Kaye

Cheryl Kirton

Wanda Kolofoff

Lenore Larkin

Joseph Levine

Jamie Levy  

Rachel Marker

Mendel Peretz ben Ita Chana  

Christopher Montgomery 

Nachama bat Trayna Raizel

Jeremy Pivor  

 

   

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

Sherri Pilskin 

Rachel Shira bat Lishka 

Milton Rothstein

Trudie Rockoff

Sarah Faiga bat Malka 

Bernice Slater 

Nancy Tharler 

Yehuda ben Raizel  

Yehuda Eliyahu ben Batya Yussel ben Fanny 

Merle Zabusky

David Zeff

 

 

Mazel Tov...  
  • Bruce and Debbie Tofias, on the birth of their granddaughter, Shoshana Joy Tofias, daughter of Levi Tofias and Rosemary Park
  • Harry and Rowena Abadi, on the birth of their grandson, Isaac, son of Daniel and Yael Abadi
  • Donald Schuler and Joan Blair, on the engagement of their son, Steven Schuler to Serena Shulman
  • Peter and Nancy Gossels, on the engagement of their son, Daniel Gossels to Jackie Chae
Condolences...  
  • Jonathan Mishara, on the death of his mother, Gertrude Mishara
  • Bill Miller, on the death of his wifeand Hannah, Spencer, Kyle and Marley Miller, on the death of their mother, Dana Miller
  • Lauren Rikleen, on the death of her mother Elaine Stiller
  • Joan Blair, on the death of her brother, Roger Blair
In Our Community
Hoops for Hope

March 29, 12 - 4 p.m., Wayland Middle School 

 

Join Jeff's Place for a 3v3 Basketball Tournament and help spread awareness of our mission and services. Teams that raise $99* by March 13 will be entered to compete. Cost includes a T-Shirt!

*financial assistance available upon request

 

TOP TEAM DONOR GETS 4 TICKETS TO RED SOX BEHIND HOME PLATE!

 

SIGN UP ONLINE: www.goo.gl/RMM5k3

 

Questions:

Email alex@jeffsplacemetrowest.org

Or call (508) 879-2800)

JCC Interfaith Connections

The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: A Book Discussion Group 

 

For parents of children under the age of 8

Participants will receive a complimentary copy of the book and the first reading assignment upon registration.

 

Cost includes appetizers and dessert.

 

Join other parents for a facilitated discussion based on the popular book by Wendy Mogel, PhD. Using Jewish teaching and values as a starting point, the discussion focuses on the issues that arise in families of Jewish or interfaith partnerships who share goals of raising self-reliant, responsible and compassionate children.

 

For more information, contact ifhappenings@jccgb.org or 617-558-6414.

Offered in two locations:   

 

Metro North - A Three Part Series, Arlington, MA

Wednesday, March 4, 11, 18, 7:30 p.m. 

 

Click here to register  

Metrowest - A Four Part Series, Framingham, MA 

Click here to register 

Celebrate Israel Boston!

SAVE THE DATE!

Sunday, May 31, 2015, noon- 7 p.m.

Prowse Farm, 5 Blue Hill River Road, Canton

 

Bringing the Community Together for Israel

Join us for a festive afternoon filled with music, art, dance, fun, food and activities for all ages.  

 

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