The Blossom
December, 2012 Edition

Greetings!

The holidays are in full swing! At Sunshine Gardens we had delightful Thanksgiving celebrations and now we are moving on and putting up our Christmas trees and holiday decorations.  Don't be surprised if you stop in and find a group of residents and staff baking cookies or decorating ginger bread.  Grab a cup of hot chocolate and join us by the fire.  We're all hoping for a white Christmas, and in the mean time, we sure have been enjoying the opportunities to be outside in this beautiful sunny weather.  The crisp air reminds us though that snow could arrive any day, and though most of us are ready, it sure is nice to be able to move around outside without any icy or wet hazards!

From our family to yours we wish everyone a very happy holiday!


Caregiver's Corner

By:
Lou Gans 

Born in Huntsville, Alabama, Kaycee Jo Mollenkamp, one of our newer caregivers, claims she was an Army brat until she was about 3 years old, migrating to Fort Benning, Georgia, then Colorado Springs, and finally to Fruita, CO where she spent most of her time.  Now in Durango going to school at Fort Lewis College, she is pleasant & willing to learn.  Kaycee has been a waitress and a caregiver.  Wes, her dad is a truck driver & her mom Stacie is a stay at home mom.  Her siblings Courtney and Rory live in Colorado as well.  She is unmarried, but may be soon.  Her aspirations include becoming a pediatric surgeon and possibly joining the army as a medic.  Kaycee wants to go east for medical school.  Don't give up - all the luck in the world to you!  

Editorial Thoughts

By:
Lou Gans

Approximately 6 years ago I initiated what is called a Conversation Hour inviting known outside persons here to speak to our residents.  It has been quite successful.  Four Durango mayors, the Publisher of the Durango Herald, two Presidents of Fort Lewis College, a County Commissioner, the Chief of Police, and many more have spoken.  However, I have exhausted my thoughts on whom else to invite

Henceforth, I call upon you to make suggestions for speaker for the Conversation Hour.  I need your help.  Please contact me or the front desk with your thoughts.  I would appreciate it!

A Bunch of BS (or Bill's Stories!)  

"The Christmas Coffee Pot"

By: Bill Steinberg


Smells, I think, have a large influence on each of our lives.  I know they do mine.  Some of my favorites are: the soft scent of a tender perfume on a loved one's neck, a puppies breath, the odor of a new car, and last but not least, that of coffee brewing early in the morning.

I always set up my brewer the night before so all I have to do in the a.m. is to push that silver button.  My coffee maker has one of those automatic dealies to turn itself on, but I've never been able to get it to work so I just press the button.

It was Christmas morning and I was home alone.  My wife had been called away due to her mother's illness and besides it wasn't the first time in my seventy odd years that I'd spent that day alone.  I awoke early looking forward to one of those special aromas: "coffee."  I pushed that silver button and absolutely nothing happened.  I mean nothing!  Okay, what had I done wrong?  I started my investigation and couldn't find the source of the problem.  It was beginning to look as though that first all-important cup of coffee and the smell that goes with it were Christmas gifts I was not to have that day.

I got desperate. So desperate I even considered a cup of tea, but I'm just not a tea kinda guy.  Well, as they say, "desperate times call for desperate measures."  So... I called Wal-Mart.  After all, it was a holiday morning and I certainly wasn't expecting very much in the way of help.

A young lady answered the phone and listened courteously to my story before asking the inevitable question, "sir, do you have a sales slip?"  Confessing that I didn't, I said to myself, "this is it, it's all over!"  Instead of the all too familiar, "there's no way we can help you at this time," she transferred me to a supervisor.  I was put on hold while she made the connection and it seemed like it took forever.  I almost hung up at one point, but I stuck with it.  The supervisor came on the line. 

(I must explain that I wrote this story some years ago and have forgotten some of the details, such as names, etc.  I was living in Cortez at the time and it was published in the Journal there at one time.  I called over there hoping my purchase was still in their computer system, but they couldn't find it.  I'll just have to do the best I can with details from a shaky memory.) 

Well, when the supervisor finally came on the line I could tell instantly she was from my home state of "Texas."  Things were starting to look up although I realized there was only so much she could do.  She too listened intently to my story and when I finished she quietly said, "Mr. Steinberg, I'm going to have to think about this and get back to you.  Can you give me some time to work on it and I'll do what I can for you."

I waited and I waited and I waited, but nothing happened.  Over an hour went by and I was beginning to think my fellow Texan had let me down.

Suddenly, there was a knock on my door.  It took me a few minutes to get there as I had to transfer from one chair to the other and pull my britches up. 

When I finally got to the door, I was surprised to find a pleasant looking couple.  She introduced herself and her husband (their names are one of the things I have forgotten.)  "I'm from Wal-Mart, I believe we spoke on the phone.  We're here to rescue your coffee maker, if we can, and make your Christmas a little brighter.  Everybody should have a cup of coffee on Christmas morning."

I was stunned!  They got straight to work but they couldn't get the darn thing to work either.  The husband went out to their car and returned with a box plainly marked "Mr. Coffee."  It was becoming more and more unbelievable but it was happening.  They set the new coffee maker up and ran a pot of water through it to make sure it was working.  Then they brewed a pot of coffee, and "Ah, that aroma!"

After we all had a beautiful cup of coffee together they took their leave.  I thanked them profusely and it hardly seemed enough no matter how often or how much I did it! 

I must wonder if those folks were sent by something more than just Wal-Mart.  After all, it was Christmas.

Merry Christmas everyone.

 

The Gardens at Sunshine Gardens 

 

A Thank You 

By: Bettie Wittevrongel 

 

Myself and my family would like to thank all our wonderful friends here at Sunshine Gardens for their beautiful cards and flowers.  Your thoughts and prayers helped so very much with the passing of my dear Paul.  As his friends say, "he was one of a kind."  Thanks again to you all for your thoughtfulness.

Lovingly,

Bettie       

 

 

 

Conversations with Charlie

 

A New Series For the Blossom 

By: Charlie Mitz & Christie Schler

 

When I began working on the Blossom, it was rumored to me that Charlie might be a good candidate for contributions to the newsletter.  What proceeded from that rumor, and my approaching Charlie, was what we call, "Conversations with Charlie."  The conversations began with discussions of how if we were to collaborate together, there might be much greater success of creating an article, than if Charlie struggled alone with attempting to construct a contribution.  Since that initial talk, we have explored many topics, far and wide, and the following article is a product of the conversations we've had.

 

 

Upon sitting down with Charlie, one must prepare themselves if they are going to keep up. The conversation usually begins with the topic at hand, whatever that may be. What proceeds then circles and grows, stops and returns to the beginning, shifts side to side and moves around; and from time to time jumbles and then concludes with an ending point or a vast open space or a hanging in-between. Ultimately though, there are always treasures found along the way if one is able to focus and pay attention.

 

Recently, our topic has been on brain health... literally, as we've discussed - and be taken off track by - Charlie's aphasia.  Aphasia is partial or total loss of the ability to articulate ideas or comprehend spoken or written language, resulting from damage to the brain caused by injury or disease.   

 

Charlie has created what he calls "The Layman's First Aid Kit For..."    for...  and that's where we get a little off track.  He has said it is a first aid kit for "brain quakes" but then changes it to "stress" and reverts back to the more generalized: any issue that might be threatening the brain.  So, basically we're talking about brain first aid.    

First Aid begins with: a piece of dark chocolate, of which is the quickest way to produce natural endorphins, the most important part according to Charlie.   Then the kit might include a little ear massage, concentration on one's breathing, and what Charlie calls "toning" for 3-5 minutes... all of which continue the building of endorphins in the brain.

 

Toning is actually where the conversation started.  Toning is generating certain tones within and from you.  This is not chanting or repeating a mantra.  Charlie learned it from a PhD Anthropologist previously with National Geographic and with assignments in China and the Aborigines in Australia.  He and Charlie worked together when Charlie was on a one-year consulting assignment at a national laboratory...

 

(This leads Charlie into his past and his military service which led to exposure to hazardous materials and a stay at Walter Reed hospital and his lifelong study of brain injury and rehabilitation... my best attempt at a quick synopsis minus great detail). 

 

But toning, toning is done by humming or singing a very positive, light-hearted song to oneself, like the Disney song that plays at Disney World, "It's a small world after all...", or "Do, Re, Mi..." from Sound of Music, or the theme song to Sesame Street...


 

The point: toning can produce endorphins.  This method of producing endorphins is natural and does not require the ingestion of chemicals for results and it can be done anywhere under almost any conditions...

 

Try it.  During a moment of stress would be ideal and notice the result... Charlie & I will continue on at our next meeting... and as Charlie says to me when we part, "try not to think of me!" 

 

 

 

 

Reminders:

 

Senior Programs Advisory Committee Meetings

Would you like to be a voice for Senior issues in La Plata County?  

The Senior Program Advisory Committee (SPAC)  

is seeking new members!

The group meets on the 3rd Wednesday of the month at 10 AM.  

Most meetings are held at the  

La Plata County Fairgrounds Extension building.  

This year's focus is Senior dental resources and the Nurse Navigator program.

Call 382-6429 for more information.

  

 

Every Thursday Evening:  

Fort Lewis College holds FREE Life-Long Learning Lectures  

starting at 7pm in Noble Hall Room 130

visit: http://www.fortlewis.edu/professionalassociates for more information 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Upcoming Events:     

 

13th:  Women's Prerogative will sing Christmas carols at 11:15am   

 

16th:  Hand-bell performance at 4pm    

 

24th:  Christmas Eve Performance by Dave Barron at 3pm   

 

25th:  Christmas Day Performance by the Joyful Noise Band  

at 11am  

 

 

 

  

Thank you to everyone for contributing to the newsletter this month! 

  

Take care & lots of love!! 

  

Sincerely,

  

Christie Schler 
Marketing Director
Sunshine Gardens Senior Community
970.385.4090 | ext. 4
schlerc@sgwseniors.com 

 Independence, Dignity and Happiness 

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Our mission is to create a forum about senior living topics,
as well as other adult assisted living news that matters most to you
(you being: the residents, staff, family & friends of Sunshine Gardens).

-Editor: Christie Schler
-Assistant to Editor: Lou Gans
-Monthly Writers: Bill Steinberg, Laddie John
-Freelance Writers: Charlie Mitz, Bobbie Ledgerwood
*Other residents wishing to contribute, please contact Christie Schler

  

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