You Can't Spoil Baby!
Babies need you to pay attention to them! Don't worry; it's not possible
to spoil your baby at this age. There is no such thing as too many snuggles and smiles or too much talking or holding them. Giving your baby the love and attention they need will not make them more demanding.
In fact, giving your baby lots of positive attention will help to build a trusting relationship between you and baby. It will also make them feel safe and secure. So go ahead and shower them with plenty of love and kisses...It's ok!!!
Giving baby attention during feeding, diaper changing, and moving around is great but don't stop there! Babies need lots and lots of attention and play time with you. This will help them learn and have a strong attachment with you!
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Brain Science for Your Baby
Have you ever heard of oxytocin? Some people have called it the "love hormone". What is love? That is an age-old question! But science is telling us that love is in the brain - and not really in the heart. Brain chemicals called hormones contribute to that thing we call "love". The hormones involved are those "feel good" hormones - including oxytocin and dopamine.
So what happens when your baby looks into your eyes, and you look back and the baby smiles? When you get that back and forth connection that scientists call "synchrony"? In your baby's brain - AND in your brain the reward centers are activated. It's like being "high" on your baby. Oxytocin decreases stress responses and stress hormones in you and your baby which is a very good thing for your baby's developing brain!
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