Wouldn't it be fun if men and women connected consistently on a soul level in intimate relationships, with affection and respect level in friendships and with courtesy and clarity with acquaintances? Whoooeeee. I am FOR that.

  

Blessings!

 

Eileen

"What Men Want From Women" 

In a phrase: strong, self-confident women who are able to be vulnerable.                                         

Men love grounded women who are not coming to men with neediness and artificial dependence, sometimes disguised as softness.

 

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We are not always clear how to be strong without dominating others, however. This is a dance with subtle moves but I have found the dance steps are accessible. Every day I am aware of my growing sense of self as a strong woman who honors the men I encounter with awesome and surprising results.

 

Sister, how would you like to ask for what you want in a way that a man actually hears you and is able to respond?

 

Would you like to understand the different energy needs that men and women have (and they are VERY different)?

 

How about the idea that men can focus on one thing at a time while you focus on many? What is the gift of that different kind of focus and what are the pitfalls of not knowing about it?

 

Want to know why he isn't ever going to get "the hint" when you mention that the garbage is overflowing?

                                                           

What would it be like if you could resolve the perennial communication gaps between you and the men in your life? We need some information. Issues become problems become painful situations often totally unnecessarily because of our LACK OF INFORMATION about how to talk to each other across the gender gap.

 

 

I want to start having conversations with women about the incredible power we have AS WOMEN to source awesome relationships.

 

I will hold three 1-hour conference calls - maximum of 8 women on each call - in January. I will share with you basic insights about what makes men tick and how you can get WHAT YOU MOST DESIRE, e.g. you can have your man LISTEN to you and you can both bring more joy, spontaneity, humor and excitement to areas in your life together that have gotten a little tarnished. 

 

 

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I am committed to women and men seeing THE GIFTS THAT WE TRULY ARE for each other. Join me for this no-cost gathering with other sisters on 1, 2 or all 3 conversations in January.

 

To reserve your spot (8 women max on a call), EMAIL ME and we will sort out different times for the conference call:  womenandmencommunicating@gmail.com

 

NOTE: this is not my regular email address (but if you write to that one, I'll answer!)

 

 

As a new subscriber you will receive two articles a month for the first three months. Each month will feature one of the legs of the Fundamentals Tripod™ as well as that month's article. From the fourth month on, the current monthly article will be the only one you will receive.

 

 
If you would like to talk about the possibility of bringing more "workability" to your life, please contact me and we will chat about it - no charge, no expectations. 860-435-0288 or eppervesce@aol.com
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About Eileen Epperson

The Reverend Eileen L. Epperson has been a Presbyterian minister for 24 years. She is a trained spiritual director, retreat leader and bereavement group facilitator. She has had a private practice in spiritual coaching since 2000.

As a hospital and hospice chaplain and a pastor, Eileen has led many programs for people in life transitions. She is committed to turning disappointments and losses to our advantage, transforming our lives in the process. She created The Forgiveness ProcessŪ, a powerful one-on-one process to get freed from the past.