Do you remember when school started after Labor Day? Today the song "See You In September" rang through my head as I walked Hobbes and saw school buses.  Yes, times are changing. And change is difficult for some pets and people.

 

What is changing in your life and your pet's life?

• Are your schedules changing from being home during the summer to going back to school?
• Is your pet's best buddy going off to college or moving into an apartment?
• Did your work schedule change and you are working different times?
• Do you have new activities - sports, meetings, scouts - and won't be home for your pet?
• Other changes include new member of family (human or animal), death in family or a friend (human or animal), change in employment, moving, finances, etc.

Although these changes may not affect you, the changes may be confusing to your pet.

 

These tips will help you and your dog, cat, rabbit, (even horse) adjust to the changes.

• When you leave the house (or stable):
• Tell her where you are going, and when you will be back. For example, "Hobbes, I am going to a meeting and will be back after dinner
• Leave the house calmly. If you are excited and stressed, your dog will probably be upset too.
• You may want to give him a treat or a special toy to entertain him.
• If a family member is going to college, moving out, or going on a trip, please tell your pet why their buddy is leaving. Pets want to know what is going on. Imagine how you would feel if someone you love just walked out the door and never seemed to come home.
• The Bach® Flower Essence Walnut helps people and animals with the emotions caused by change. It is a very gentle homeopath that helps everyone with changes.  You can find it a natural food store, Whole Foods, or online. Questions? Ask Elaine for help.
• Clients say animal communications help their pets. One dog's fear of abandonment was helped. And I made a big mistake a few years ago and upset Hobbes.  
• When you get home, take 5 minutes to sit quietly with your pet. Exhale slowly. Slowly stroke your pet. Forget about all your "should" and "need to's." Now is the time to be with your best friend(s).

"See You in September" at the upcoming events listed below.

 

Take care,

Elaine