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Dealing with Grief During 
the Holidays & Anniversaries
When You Have Lost An Animal Loved One  

A
Two Hour Teleclass
    with Judy Tatelbaum, LCSW  author of The Courage To Grieve        

 
November 17th   11 am PT   
For your time zone visit here    
If you cannot make this date or time, you can take the class on demand.  
Just register for the class and you'll receive the full class audio  
 & handout package to listen to and read at your leisure.  
 
 
$25 includes audio recording & handout package for both live attendance and on demand purchase
Register Here

NOTE: For those working toward their certificate in the Animal Loss and Grief Support Professional Program of Study, this class serves as one of the 8 required elective credits.


Dear Clients, Friends and Colleagues,

The death of an animal loved one, for some of us, is one of the most painful experiences of our lives. As holidays, anniversaries or other special milestones approach it can trigger fears and concerns about how challenging it may be to experience these special days without them--even if our loss was a long time ago.

I am honored that author and therapist Judy Tatelbaum agreed to facilitate this class. I have known and respected Judy for many years: she has written a best selling book on healing grief that has inspired me, is a huge animal lover, knows the deep pain of losing a beloved animal from her own experiences, and supports others grieving from pet loss in her practice (scroll down for bio).
                                       
  This class is ideal for anyone with worries or dread about  
  how hard upcoming holidays and anniversaries might be.
  You will benefit from practical and emotional support to
  survive and find meaning during these times.

  If you have anxiety or concern about holidays or
  anniversaries, I hope you will join us November 17 or
  register for the class on demand for lifelong reference and
  support.

        With love and blessings to you and all of
                                                           your animal loved ones,
                                                                         Teresa 



For many of us our animals are our most important loved ones, and their loss is felt acutely especially at times of celebration. The loss of a beloved pet is as painful as losing any important member of the family. Because of the unconditional love we have with our animals, our grief may be all the more distressing. Holidays, birthdays and anniversaries are times when we are supposed to be happy, but these are also times when we are acutely aware of the absence of ones we have loved. 

This class will review some strategies to make these occasions somewhat easier.  These suggestions won't eliminate your grief, but they can help. The class will help you not only survive but to also find solace and meaning during these special seasons and days. You will receive practical help, hope, loving comfort and the knowledge that you are in the company of others who also walk this pathway in their healing.

The handouts include detailed lists and descriptions of ritual and
memorial ideas and links to many resources
.  

This two hour class covers the list of content issues below, and also includes exercises to help you:

* Identify and seek supportive people, animals, places and ideas to help you
     through the challenges of these times
* Plan meaningful ways to memorialize and honor your animal during holidays
     and anniversaries

There will also be time for questions and answers and an ending meditation that you can listen to again and again to fill you with courage and love to not only survive these special seasons and days but to find meaning and connection with the spirit of your animal loved one.

Issues that are addressed in the teleclass:
        The Three C's:  Choose, Communicate and Compromise
        Be Kind to Yourself
        Express Your Feelings
        Create Support for Yourself
        Ask for What You Need
        Appreciate Your Other Loved Ones
        Help Another Person in Need
        Don't Compare Your Life with Anyone Else's
        Making the Best of Tough Circumstances
        Modify Your Expectations
        How Not To Be A Victim of Your Pain
        Resolving How or Where to Spend the Holidays or Anniversaries
        Including Your Beloved Animal Who Has Died in Holiday Plans
        Avoiding the Holidays
        Doing Something New and Different
        Meditation for Solace and Connection





 
 Class Instructor Judy Tatelbaum

Judy Tatelbaum, M.S.W., Licensed Clinical Social Worker, psychotherapist, inspirational speaker, popular keynote speaker, workshop leader, and professional trainer. She grew up in Rochester, New York, and is a graduate of Syracuse University and Simmons College, School of Social Work. She worked at Massachusetts Mental Health Center, Boston, and Payne Whitney Clinic of the New York Cornell Medical Center in New York City before starting her private practice in California. She now lives in Carmel Valley, California, with her husband, Allan Marcus, and her dog, Honey.

She is the author of the best selling books, The Courage to Grieve and You Don't Have to Suffer. A foremost authority on overcoming grief and emotional suffering, Judy encourages people to face and recover from life's inevitable crises courageously. She has many years experience working with individuals in therapy facing issues of grief, loss and life transitions. A pet lover and owner, she also works with issue related to pet health concerns and pet loss. She works extensively with mental health professionals, hospitals, hospices, bereavement groups, funeral directors, and AIDS programs.

Judy appears on television and radio, and lectures
across the country. She recently produced the award winning DVD The Courage to Grieve, The Courage to Grow and audio tapes, The Caregiver Series: Caring for the Caregiver, Enhancing Self Esteem, The Power of Saying Good-bye, and The Special Grief of HIV and AIDS. Her most recent book is The Journey From the Land of Forever Flowers, A Fable About Afterlife.
She can be reached at jmiracle@comcast.net and www.judytatelbaum.com.

Related Classes & Grief Support Resources


The Animals' Perspectives of Death, The Other Side and Coming Back
 
click here for class details 

  

Available On Demand:  
4 hours digital audio recordings & handout package 
$25 
   

Legacies of Love,
A Gentle Guide to Healing From the Loss of Your Animal Loved One

click here for class details 
   
Available On Demand:  
8 hrs+ digital audio recordings &  
97 pages of handouts 
$48 
Purchase Here 


    Candles have long symbolized the light of hope, of love, of healing and of connection with our loved ones in Spirit. These candles were created to honor the souls of animals who have left the earth, and to comfort the hearts of all those who love and grieve them. Lighting candles can provide a focus of solace and comfort for us, to support our hearts' vigil in memory of a pet. Available with a lovely  
organza gift bag. 



Prayer Flags 
    In the Tibetan tradition of prayer flags, these were created specifically for animal companions who have died. They are beautiful hung either outside or inside the home, creating a sacred focus to honor our beloved animals who have gone before us. They also serve as an ideal pet condolence gift. 


CD: Connecting with The Soul of Your Animal After Death
    When the animals we love die, the sense of emptiness from their physical absence can be devastating. Yet the connection between souls is not severed at physical death. The connection of our souls, the love we exchange, does not end with death. It remains active, not just a treasured history from our time together on earth, but a continuing active exchange of love and communication. This CD explores how to prepare oneself for connecting telepathically with a beloved animal after death and includes a guided meditation to help make that connection. 
 
Banner Grace of Grief
If you are already on our mailing list you may have this. If you don't have it and would like it, or would like to send it to a friend, here is the link to the
one hour class for sharing.
http://www.animalcommunicatorforum.com/recordings/04-12-2010-TeresaWagner.mp3 




Contact:
Teresa Wagner, Animals in our Hearts
teresa@animalsinourhearts.com
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