December 2014
Issue 48

 

Stir up your power, O Lord, and with great might come among us; and, because we are sorely hindered by our sins, let your bountiful grace and mercy speedily help and deliver us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory, now and forever.  Amen.
 
(Collect for the Third Sunday in Advent, page 212, BCP)
The Angels Don't Even Know!

 

It's Advent!  "Advent" from the Latin adventus means coming, and it is with this season that the church calendar begins a new church year.  It's a reflective time, and it is also a hope-filled time, as we prepare to celebrate both the first and second comings of Jesus. 

In Advent, we prepare for the feast of Christmas -- the first coming of Jesus at his birth, as had been promised by the prophets of ages past.  And we also prepare for the return of the Lord Jesus Christ as He promised - that is, the second coming, when "He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and his kingdom will have no end."  And just as the prophets did not pinpoint a day that the Messiah would appear the first time, neither do we know the day that the Lord will return. 

"About that day or hour no one knows, neither the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father"
(Mark 13:32)

The early church had anticipated that Jesus was coming again in great power in their lifetime.  It didn't happen as they had thought it would, but indeed the Kingdom of God reigned in their time just as it does in ours.  There is a glimpse of it every time we show compassion to those around us.  We participate in it every time we feed the hungry or give drink to the thirsty, or visit those who are sick or in prison, or clothe the naked or welcome the stranger.  We experience it when we come to the altar week after week to share in the heavenly banquet.

In some ways, our faith story is shaped by our waiting and hoping.  So, while we wait and hope this Advent, it might be a good time to examine ourselves and consider the ways that God's presence is known to us right now.  In the words of biblical scholar Pheme Perkins: "Faithful servants do not need to know when the master will return."  There is no need to be anxious about Christ's return, instead focus on being faithful in the here-and-now.

Advent is a time to slow down and take stock of our lives.  In the midst of all of the busyness during this time of year... slow down.  Step out of the race and tend to the preparation of our hearts and minds for eternity. 

Prepare.  Wait.  Love one another.  The Lord has come, and the Lord will come again.  And remember, the angels don't even know exactly when Christ will return!  And, if the angels don't know, you and I surely don't know!  So always be prepared.  Live as if the last judgment could occur at any moment, and that would be okay, because you are ready!

Advent blessings to you,
Mother Deborah+
National Junior Daughters Chaplain
In This Issue
The Angels Don't Even Know!
Looking forward to Triennial
Spirited Walking
Master's Fund Recipients
New Trademark Policy and Procedure
A New Look!
An International Quiet Day
A Letter from Jesus About Christmas
Advent Season

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Looking forward to Triennial . . . . Come, meet the resident Bear! 

      

 

National Council met at Zermatt/Homestead Resort and Conference Center for their annual meeting November 6-10, 2014. After approving budgets, recommending amendments to the Bylaws, praying, listening to reports, discussing necessary actions arising from those reports, praying and creating three new chair positions, we stopped to take a breath and enjoy the sunshine of the day, which the Bear was happy to share.  We then continued planning and preparations to welcome you all to Triennial 2015.  If you haven't already, call soon to reserve your hotel room and plan to register after January 1, 2015.  The Bear, dressed in his own blue bandana in honor of Daughters, is waiting to meet you. 

Spirited Walking Meditation

 

Our theme this month is Expectation.


This month, let's consider our expectations for the end of our walk. The stores prepare for seasons far in advance - swim suits in January, wool sweaters in August, always expecting what lies ahead. We also are making plans for how we will spend the times of our lives after the walk. Those of us participating in this project have been moving toward Midway, Utah, as a preparation for Triennial. As you walk this month, think about your expectations for where God might lead you in the days to come.  

 

"I will lead my blind people by roads they have never traveled. I will turn their darkness into light and make rough places smooth before them."
(Isaiah 42:16)

 

Click here to read the rest of this month's meditation about managing expectations while focusing on Christ and not being so busy that we miss Jesus. Participate in the on-going discussion centered on these articles on the Spirited Walking page of the website.

Master's Fund Recipients, Old and New 

 

During 2014, the Master's Fund has helped 48 women achieve their educational goals.  Most of these women are unknown to the Master's Fund Committee and to the members of National Council.  This past November, as the Council met in Utah for our annual meeting, we were blessed to have a past recipient join us.  The Reverend Doctor Deborah Jackson, the new JDOK National Chaplain, served as our acting Council Chaplain (in Bishop Romero's absence abroad) and expressed her gratitude for the help she received from the Daughters of the King while she was in seminary. 

An additional blessing came our way when a current recipient, Aimee Altizer, now serving her field placement at the Cathedral in Salt Lake City joined us for dinner.  Aimee had expressed her appreciation in written notes before, but she made the drive to the Zermatt Resort, home of our Triennial Meeting in 2015, to thank the Council in person for the financial support and, most especially, for the prayer support she has received. 

Aimee, who will finish her studies this spring, is a delightful, Holy-Spirit filled person who is an asset to the church and to the Daughters.  Utah currently has only a few chapters of the Daughters of the King but Aimee is hoping to be instrumental in beginning more.  The Council members were very happy to meet her and to accept her appreciation on behalf of all Daughters and to pray for her continued success as she moves toward ordination to the priesthood.  Our involvement in this process is possible through your generous donations to the Master's Fund.  But all Daughters of the King can commit to pray for all recipients, and especially for those from your province as well as those attending schools in your province.  Aimee was quick to say that the money she received was a confirmation to her that she was on the right path and our prayers have sustained her whenever things have been difficult.  Please continue to lift Aimee and all our recipients in prayer and remember to give whatever you can to the Master's Fund -- all For His Sake.

Patsy Thomson
Master's Fund Chair
New Trademark Policy and Procedure for the Order!

 

In an effort to streamline how we handle the registered trademarks of the Order, we now have in place The Trademark Policies and Procedures of The Order of the Daughters of the King®.

 

This document is designed to establish the policies and procedures that govern the use of the Order's registered name and trademarks.  It has been reviewed by our trademark attorney and approved by the National Council.

The purpose of the policy is to:
  • Designate a Trademark Chair and describe her responsibilities.
  • Define the procedure by which TLAs are obtained.
  • Provide information and guidelines regarding the use of The Order's trademarks by members and non-members.
  • Provide information and guidelines regarding the use of the trademarks within the United States and in other countries.
Please see the entire document found here or on our website under the Resources section. Here are a few highlights:
  • No more TLAs for printed materials and banners!
  • No more contacting your Diocesan Assembly or Provincial President for TLAs!
Again, please read the entire Policy, as all members of the Order must abide by it.  If you have any questions please contact Jen Mariano.

Jen Mariano
First Vice-President 
A New Look!

   

The new membership-based web site is now LIVE! Weeks of testing and the roll-out to members have been completed. Now it's your turn!

On December 8th, unique credentials were emailed to each member with a valid email.  Included with the email were instructions about how to log on to the member site and how to begin using other member features, all in the privacy of our secure members-only web site. Of course, if you have any challenges logging in the first time, our National Office staff is well-versed in the how-to and is ready to help you (during office hours). There is also online documentation to assist you in discovering everything the new site has to offer.


While the implementation team is continuing to make improvements to the web site and the related processing procedures, please feel free to explore the new look and features at www.doknational.org.  There you will have access to everything you need: literature, forms, information, and your member profile.  You can also pay your dues, make donations, or purchase DOK literature and replacement crosses through our secure online transaction processing.


If you have questions or comments about the website, please use the "Contact Us" link at the top of the web site page to let us know.


Wishing you Happy Surfing in December on the new Daughters of the King web site!

An International Quiet Day 

Prospective Daughters gather for Quiet Day, November 14, 2014; Led by Father Miguel, rector at El Buen Pastor in Piedras Negras, Mexico, and assisted by Father Tommy Bye, Rector of St. Luke' Cypress Mill, Diocese of West Texas, Texas.
 
Women at a small Episcopal church, El Buen Pastor, in Piedras Negras will be the first chapter of Daughters of the King chartered in Mexico, with the institution to be on January 4, 2015.  Daughters across the United States are probably not familiar with Father Miguel and the women of El Buen Pastor who assist him in his ministry, but all people of the city are.  Their mission is to "minister to the poorest of the poor," whom they feel are women and children.  


St. Luke's, Cypress Mill, Diocese of West Texas, has been doing mission work at El Buen Pastor for seven years. In October 2014, the missioners were there on the night of the DOK training session, and Father Miguel asked two Daughters who were on the mission team to stay for the meeting and share their experiences as Daughters.   The two women had only been Daughters for a year at that time but shared how God called them and prepared them after He had called them as Daughters, as only He can do.  The Daughters also talked about the commitment and apprehensions they had before becoming Daughters, about keeping the Rule of Life, daily prayers, etc. Afterwards, the women at El Buen Pastor training to be Daughters spoke about their callings to DOK, their apprehensions, and their hopes.  Unsurprisingly, we all had similar feelings and thoughts. 

 



At the completion of their training to become Daughters of the King, Father Miguel scheduled a Quiet Day and invited Daughters from St. Luke's, Cypress Mill, to participate.  The chapter President, Carolyn Davis; Vivian Young, from the National DOK Board; Sally Smith; Linda Appleton; and Connie Bye attended the Quiet Day, with Father Bye assisting.  Father Miguel gave the women scripture readings and asked "Daughter" to be inserted where "Mary" was in the scripture.  The questions to ponder while reading were: "How am I available? Do I make it possible for the Holy Spirit to do through me the Father's work?  Do I listen like Mary and internalize it, make it in my life, and do I know love like Mary?  What do I do to enhance the lives of my brothers and sisters?"  With quiet time and music between discussions, the Holy Spirit was almost palpable among the women.  Through an exercise with the group holding a blanket with a cross on it offering prayers, women from two nations became one group of handmaidens of the Lord in mysterious and wondrous ways.  


The institution of the DOK is scheduled for January 9, 2015.   Women from El Buen Pastor will add so much to the world-wide community of the Daughters of the King and inspire other chapters in Mexico to form. Praise our Lord for the way he brings International Daughters together!                                                                                                                                                            
Connie Bye
St. Luke's Episcopal Church
Cypress Mill, Texas        

A Letter from Jesus About Christmas

 

It has come to my attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking My name out of the season.

 

How I personally feel about this celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have been blessed with children of your own.  I don't care what you call the day.  If you want to celebrate My birth, just GET ALONG AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER.

 

Now, having said that let Me go on.  If it bothers you that the town in which you live doesn't allow a scene depicting My birth, then just get rid of a couple of Santas and snowmen and put in a small Nativity Scene on your own front lawn.  If all My followers did that, there wouldn't be any need for such a scene on the town square because there would be many of them all around town.

 

Stop worrying about the fact that people are calling the tree a holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree.  It was I who made all trees.  You can remember Me anytime you see any tree.  Decorate a grape vine if you wish: I actually spoke of that one in a teaching, explaining who I am in relation to you and what each of our tasks were.  If you have forgotten that one, look up John 15:1-8.

If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth, here is my wish list.  Choose something from it.                                                                          
  1. Instead of writing protest letters objecting to the way My birthday is being celebrated, write letters of love and hope to soldiers away from home.  They are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year.  I know, they tell Me all the time.
  2. Visit someone in a nursing home.  You don't have to know them personally.  They just need to know that someone cares about them.
  3. Instead of writing the President complaining about the wording on the cards his staff sent out this year, why don't you write and tell him that you'll be praying for him and his family this year.  Then follow up.  It will be nice hearing from you again.
  4. Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can't afford and they don't need, spend time with them.  Tell them the story of My birth, and why I came to live with you down here.  Hold them in your arms and remind them that I love them.
  5. Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive him or her.
  6. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless?  Since you don't know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm smile; it could make the difference.
  7. Instead of nit picking about what the retailer in your town calls the holiday, be patient with the people who work there.  Give them a warm smile and a kind word. Even if they aren't allowed to wish you a "Merry Christmas," that doesn't keep you from wishing them one.  Then stop shopping there on Sunday.  If the store didn't make so much money on that day, they'd close and let their employees spend the day at home with their families.
  8. If you really want to make a difference, support a missionary-especially one who takes My love and Good News to those who have never heard My name.
  9. Here's a good one.  There are individuals and whole families in your town who not only will have no Christmas tree, but neither will they have any presents to give or receive.  If you don't know them, buy some food and a few gifts and give them to the Salvation Army or some other charity which believes in Me and they will make the delivery for you.
  10. Finally, if you want to make a statement about your belief in and loyalty to Me, then behave like a Christian.  Don't do things in secret that you wouldn't do in My presence.  Let people know by your actions that you are one of mine.
Don't forget; I am God and can take care of Myself.  Just love Me and do what I have told you to do.  I'll take care of all the rest.  Check out the list above and get to work; time is short.  I'll help you, but the ball is now in your court.  And do have a most blessed Christmas with all those whom you love and remember

I LOVE YOU,
JESUS

Permission has been given to reprint the above letter which appeared in the December, 2014 issue of "The Herald" which is a newsletter published by The Episcopal Church of the Nativity in Port St. Lucie, Florida.
Advent Season

 

I read the newspaper this morning.

 

I turned on the morning news.

 

I opened my email to see the news
of people I know in the Mid-East.
It all looks very dark.

Yet, as I begin this Advent season,
I see a dim light.
I hear the news of mass slaughter in Jerusalem
Then I read Isaiah and the Revelation of John.
 
I know that my Lord will come in Glory.
I know that my Lord will bring a new Jerusalem.

As I look about me
I see people coming together to feed others;
I see people helping others have safe housing,
And the light becomes brighter.

I could look on the murder and rioting in this country
And despair of the darkness.
But, this Advent season,
I choose to look on the Incarnation
And rejoice in the coming of the Light.

I choose to carry the Light of Christ
Into the world about me.
I choose to reach out to my neighbor
Sharing the love of Christ.

I pray that as I hold my candle high
That its light will encourage others;
That each person I encounter
Will choose to also share that light.

This Advent season I look to the Incarnation;
The love that Jesus taught us,
And to the New Jerusalem to come.
I look for the Light of Christ
to overcome the darkness of the world.

© Susan Keith November 30, 2014
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