February 2014
Issue 38
Psalm 18:29

 

You, O Lord, are my lamp; 

my God, you make my darkness bright.

   

February Musings

The month of February recognizes a plethora of events. Did you know that this is National Embroidery Month, National Grapefruit Month and even National Wild Bird Feeding Month? We also recognize Ground Hog Day, President's Day and American Heart Association Month. Most notably, we celebrate Black History Month and Valentine's Day.  Does anyone know who was the first African American woman to join the Order of the Daughters of the King? Can our historians or archivists tell us? I can think of a few in my time I'd like to recognize and remember such as Barbara Banks from Province III . All who knew Barbara celebrate her and the love of our Lord that she has shared with others.  I think about  Geri Sweeting and the passion she shared with Junior Daughters.  It's all about passion and love.  Everything stems from love, doesn't it?  February celebrates valentines, or the month  of love.

 

The word "love" appears 310 times in the King James' version of the Bible. I can think of many scriptures, phrases, songs and movies that include love:  1 John 4:8, "God is love." Or this quote from Les Mis, "To love another person is to see the face of God." "Virginia is for Lovers" has been a tourism tag line for over 40 years.  "Love is in the air."  "Love makes the world go 'round."  "Love will keep us together."  The 1955 movie "Love is a Many-Splendored Thing!" We have songs and movies about love, but the greatest love is ... "Greater love has no one than this than, to lay down one's life for his friends" from John 15:13. Jesus laid down his life for us. That is the love we are to celebrate every day, not just in February! 

 

We need to remember every day the love that Jesus shared with us, and we need to share it with others. Forgive someone we need to forgive. Reach out to someone this month. Give them a call to say "hello". Write that note to let someone know you're thinking of her or are thankful for her.  Seek out a Daughter at Large and make her feel loved and included. Do random acts of kindness and make people smile. Reach out and encourage someone who is feeling down.  Pray. Shine the light of Christ to another person and help spread love and light in our dark and broken world.  Let February be the month of love, God's love. 

 

"Lord, we pray that we shine Your light and share your love every day with everyone we meet. It's in Your precious name we pray. Amen."

 

Chelsey Vohden

National DAL Chair 

What Is Prayer Walking?

The two on-going Triennial programs involve praying and walking.  So, why not do both at the same time?  In her "Prayer Walking" paper Sara Macdonald talks to us about developing a prayer-walking framework.

 

"We live in such a time where prayer may be the only work we can do to help heal and bring peace to a broken world. I'm finding that walking gives us a built-in intercession list and framework just by the route(s) we take. Walking also helps us find the necessary balance of body, mind, and spirit. Wellness is very important for us as Daughters of the King."  Read the entire article here.

In This Issue
February Musings
What Is Prayer Walking?
Prayer Partners
Self-Denial Fund
International Leader's Guide
Junior Chapter, Honduras
2012-2013 Audit
Holy Comforter
Why Give Up___?

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International Prayer Partners 
As Daughters we take our vow of prayer seriously.  Growth of chapters in the United States and internationally is a result of intentional prayer by many Daughters.  New forms were developed for chapters in the United States to pair with chapters based internationally.  Several chapters sent the contact forms, but we then came upon a road block:  The contacts of chapters based internationally have not sent back the information needed to match with the chapters based in the States.  Therefore, we are trying a new approach to making the plan work. 

 

The Prayer Partner form and information about being a Prayer Partner is on the website under Literature and Forms/International Chapters.  Complete the form and return as requested.  Partners will be matched only by countries until we get necessary contact information from country coordinators.  We do encourage you to pray for Daughters throughout the world and hope that this will work for your chapter.  I will be glad to address any questions you may have concerning Prayer Partners.

 

Marjorie Rogers

Prayer Partner Chair

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Self-Denial Fund Ingathering

The Presentation of Our Lord Jesus Christ in the Temple was celebrated in our churches Sunday, February 2, and is celebrated by our In-gathering Day for the Self-Denial Fund also February 2.  We hope that Daughters have remembered to send in their Self-Denial donations for our mission grants.  We are low on funds to support the many great mission projects and some grant requests have been on hold since August 2013.  While the "official" date for the In-gathering of the Self-Denial Fund has passed, the fruit of your self-denial (your collected monies) are welcome throughout the month of February, even throughout the year.  I am including a Wish List to spark an interest for your donations.

 

Wish List:  Afterschool Program outside Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania; Girls-at-Risk Program in Washington, D.C.; refurbishing facilities in The City of God, Rio de Janeiro, Brazil; school program in Ghana; missionaries working in Haiti; and St. George's Church missions in Baghdad, Iraq. 

 

I thank you for all the funds you have contributed for mission work and hope you will continue the valuable work we are doing to reach out to others with the love of Christ.


Marge Rogers
Self-Denial Fund Chair
The New International Leader's Guide

We now have a Leader's Guide specifically written for leaders of International Daughters in preparation for membership. International Daughters do not pay dues, fill out individual membership applications or pay membership fees. While they may purchase their crosses, often the crosses are paid for by the Order (scholarshipped). This new guide eliminates a lot of the confusion surrounding these issues. 

 

The appendix includes new sections on the trademark and logo, tips for leaders who have been in chapters in the United States, and a discussion of the differences between our Order and the Mothers' Union. 

 

The International Leader's Guide may be downloaded from the "Resource" section of the website under the "International Daughters" section in "Literature and Forms." Or you can use the quick link "Forms" at the bottom of the Home Page.

 

Emily Thrasher

International Chair

Revitalized Junior Chapter In Honduras
Candlelight Service, Junior Daughters, Our Little Roses Mission, Honduras.

 

I was blessed with the opportunity to visit Our Little Roses Mission (OLR) in San Pedro Sula, Honduras, in January 2014.  Their Junior Chapter had graduated out of the program and gone off to their new lives away from OLR, and their Directress had gone off to do something else. Not knowing what I would find, but trusting in the Lord, off I went.  Once there, we were able to find fairly easily a Daughter who was willing to be the Junior Directress, and we scheduled a meeting with girls interested in becoming Junior Daughters.  Fifteen girls showed up at our first meeting.  Several of the girls were quick to serve by acting as translators for me.  We met again a few days later for their Candlelight Service.  At the point in the service in which we gave each girl a candle, we also gave them a Spanish Bible. However, we discovered at that point that we did not have 15 girls, we had 17.  What an overflowing of blessings.  The service was done in both Spanish and English, but before the service, when I was telling the girls about the service and talking about Junior Daughters, I was again blessed with one girl who was quick to serve as my translator.  In addition to the blessings of restarting this Junior Chapter, the good Lord blessed us in many other ways.  On the Sunday we were there, nine girls at OLR were baptized and we, on the team, were given the opportunity to be Godparents to these girls. I am now blessed with a 3-year-old Goddaughter and feel like my cup just kept running over on this trip.

 

Susan Keith

National Junior Directress

Fiscal Year 2012-2013 Audit Published

We recently posted our Fiscal Year (FY) 2012-2013 audit report to the Order's website.  We are pleased to report that our financial position is in good standing.

 

Below is an excerpt from the Independent Auditor's Report:


Opinion

In our opinion, the financial statements referred to above present fairly, in all material respects, the financial position of The Order of the Daughters of the King, Inc. as of August 31, 2013, and 2012, and the changes in its net assets and its cash flows for the years then ended in accordance with accounting principles generally accepted in the United States of America.

Morrow, Georgia

January 28, 2014

 


The entire Audit Report is posted here.  

Thank you to the National Office Staff; our accountant, Karen Dobkin; the auditors, Fulton & Kozak CPAs; and others involved in preparing for and conducting the audit this past year.

 

Annemarie Delgado
National Treasurer

Holy Comforter

 

Sharing How Chapters Keep Our Vows for Prayer, Service, and Evangelism

 

In response to the terminal illness of a beloved member of our congregation in 2004, St. Gabriel Chapter of the Daughters of the King at St. Gabriel's in Cherry Hills Village, Colorado, has sponsored the Prayer Quilt Ministry.  This ministry has grown slowly but steadily.

 

The recipients of the quilts are experiencing difficult times in their lives and are on our prayer list. Before a quilt is presented, we ask the recipient if he or she would like a prayer quilt.

 

We rely on donations of fabric and other materials for all the quilts.  We sew with what we have been given. Recently we have received cash donations to cover the cost of batting.  We meet once a month to design quilts, add the batting and attach the backing to make a "quilt sandwich". Then we sew ties into the quilt to hold it in place. This forms the prayer part of these quilts.  The quilts are blessed at both services and the congregation is asked to tie a knot in the ties we've sewn, saying a prayer for the recipient so the whole congregation is invited to be part of this ministry. The quilt is then given either by a member of the clergy or by one of the Holy Comforters. 

 

Why is this a ministry and how does it fit into our service and evangelism?

  1. We are a physical extension of our prayer list.
  2. We gather as a group committed to the power of prayer in our lives.
  3. We welcome the gift of the Holy Spirit in providing for our needs. Somehow, the fabric we need or the hands to sew always seems to appear.
  4. We model for the congregation the many small ways we can support each other, especially in times of need.

In 2013 we blessed 22 quilts.  Two quilts were sent to victims of the Colorado Floods.  

Kimberly Winston's book, Fabric of Faith: A Guide to the Prayer Quilt Ministry has been our guide in this ministry.

 

Barbara Morrison, St. Gabriel's Chapter of the Order of the Daughters of the King, provided the information contained in this article about Holy Comforters.  

 

Why Do You Have To Give Up . . . ?

Have you ever declined a bit of cake or a bite of chocolate during Lent and had someone ask you why?  What did you reply?  Usually, I just reply that I have given up sweets for Lent.  Sometimes, the reply is one of incredulity!  "Why do you HAVE to_____", they ask as if no one could possibly do such a thing without extreme coercion.  I have decided to try to share some other reasons with these folks.

 

I am working to build my life as a Christian and that takes work.  It's not enough just to show up for church (I find that using the word worship is an attention getter).  I need to make more room in my life for God 24/7 and giving up things reminds me of that fact.  It's called fasting.

 

Fasting is an ancient practice long connected to times of turmoil, repentance, or times of seeking guidance.  One can fast in many different ways: giving up food for a day or, for some of us, giving up sweets for the period of Lent.  While giving up sugar may not appear as a major sacrifice, it is a small witness to our working to connect with our Lord. You might want to give up Facebook, television, or having your nails done, something important to you. You can also take on another discipline.

 

This is a personal decision, not dictated by a demanding church rule but a step on your journey to becoming Christ-like.  It comes under the category of Spiritual Practices.  A recent Advent Meditation by Mother Hilary, Order of Julian of Norwich, discussed how spiritual practices were "building materials" in creating a life, a "holy house" for our Lord. 

 

This is work for a lifetime and will involve more than just one Lenten Season.  However, giving up or taking on something as an offering to Him is to reach out towards God.  

 

"A space in my life opened up for you, Lord.  Help me to make even more space, to become that holy house - a life in which you can dwell."

 

Mariana Bauman

PR & Communications Chair

Strategic Planning Chair   

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