Asia Programs Newsletter
AAI China & Thailand
JANUARY 2014
China: One to One Program

  

 

Chinese New Year is January 31, 2013; we would love to see how your family celebrates this joyous occasion! 2014 is the year of the Horse!

  

AAI continues to wait for the last approval for the One to One orphanage program. Although it was expected to be received in January, it now sounds like it may not be granted for another month or two. As soon as we receive any news on this program, we will update you. It is still believed the more families AAI has in process, the greater the chances are this final approval will be granted. If you or anyone you know may be interested in the China SN program, please have them contact me directly. The list of waiting children continues to grow and we still predict a 12-18 month adoption process for all families.

 

Recently a new family asked some general questions on the China program and orphanage status. We felt it may be useful to all families to hear the questions and answers:
 

How many orphanages does Mr. Li have relationships with where children could be placed with AAI families? Which provinces are they located in?

 

I believe hundreds since I started to work in adoption in 1991. They are located in all provinces except Tibet, Inner Mongolia, Ningxia, and Jilin. 

 

Approximately how many foster homes do you have relationships with? What provinces are they located in?

 

Many. Most of them are in Guangdong Province. There are some in Hunan, Guangxi, Guizhou, Beijing, Jiangxi, and Anhui, etc.

 

What kind of care do the orphanages have? What is the "philosophy" of Chinese orphanages Do they build relationships with one or two caregivers, or are there half a dozen to a dozen faces the kids see in their first few years?

 

The orphanages are usually called the Children's Welfare Institute or the Social Welfare Institute in China. They are government-funded, charitable institutions which are responsible for taking in orphan children whose relatives are unable to care for them as well as abandoned infants and children whose parents cannot be located by the police. Most of them are abandoned children with special needs. Children in the Welfare Institutes are entitled to State social benefits, and the care and protection of the Welfare Institutes.

 

Social Welfare Institutes focus on a combination of nurture, education, and medical treatment as guidance to provide the best care to these orphaned children and abandoned infants, which will allow them to receive the same loving care as a normal child. The care that children receive differ by orphanage, as do the philosophies of each institute. More and more orphanages have realized that it is in the best interest of the children that they grow up in a family setting, so now many divide the children to different "families" where one or two orphanage workers act as the parental figures in one "family" of 4-5 children. Some orphanages will hire outside foster families to care for the children. Because most new arrivals are children with special needs, and some of them quite serious, the orphanage ensures that they are physically stabilized before they are sent to their foster family.

 

Are the Chinese orphanage workers open to meeting emotional and social needs with lots of touch and facial interaction, or is it primarily basic physical caretaking like changing diapers, feeding, etc? I know some places resist making emotional connections with the children because then it is hard to say "goodbye."

 

The emotional and social needs are better met in family settings or foster families, but there are still some orphanages just providing basic physical care. It is not just because it is hard to say goodbye. It depends on who the director or the caregivers of the orphanage are. The emotional connection is something that just happens to the ones who do their jobs with love, and no one can stop it.

 

What are the transitions like once we arrive in China? Would we be able to visit the orphanage the child was in?

 

You will meet your child in the local adoption office the first day. You will have time to ask questions to your child's caregiver or foster parent. Some orphanages do a very good job preparing their kids for adoption, but no matter how well or how slowly, most of kids will understandably cry or scream when you take them from their former caregiver. It can last for minutes, hours, or even days. You will take your child back to hotel. You will come back to the same office for adoption registration and paperwork the next day. The adoption is final in China on that day. Some orphanages welcome you to visit while others do not.

 

What is the protocol for sending packages to your child during the wait to travel?

 

Families may send a "care package" to their child close to travel. We encourage families to prepare a welcome album which includes photos of your family, your home, pets, etc. to try and introduce the child into their new adoptive family and help with the transition while in country.

China Waiting Children

 

This little girl is almost 13 years old. She was diagnosed with epilepsy shortly after coming to the orphanage and now takes medication to keep it controlled. She is an active, outgoing girl who gets along well with her peers and enjoys participating in a variety of activities organized by the institute. Her self-care abilities have improved since being placed in a foster family setting. She is able to get herself ready for school each morning and can watch her younger siblings whenever her foster mother needs to leave the house. 

 

 


This happy little girl is about 7 years old. She is diagnosed with scoliosis and delayed development. When she first came to the orphanage, she was very fussy and would not listen to her caretakers. Now, after a lot of care and rehabilitation, she is much more calm, active, and independent. She listens well to her teachers and likes playing with puzzles. She cannot speak, but makes "ahh" sounds when she approaches her caretakers for attention.

 

 

 

 

This boy is about 12 years old and is healthy. He was found abandoned as a baby. He has always had a positive attitude and enjoys playing with other children and participating in activities. He does very well in school, earning good grades in a variety of subjects.

 

 

 

 

 

This handsome boy is about 12 years old and is healthy. He is very extroverted and social, and has no problem striking up conversations with anyone around him. He is a very curious boy and will keep asking questions about something that interests him until he understands it completely. He is often praised by his foster parents for his ability to quickly grasp new ideas and concepts. He is helpful around the house, able to take care of himself as well as help out with regular household chores.

 

 

 

This little girl is also about 12 years old and is healthy. She was found abandoned as a baby and has lived in the orphanage ever since. She enjoys spending time with her caretakers and other children and gets along well with them. She is a very sweet girl who likes playing with toys and watching cartoons.

 

 

 

For more information on any of these children, please contact me. Be sure to check out our online Waiting Children page to see more children currently waiting for their forever families!

Thailand: State of Emergency

As many of you already know, Thailand has been under political distress for a while now and has recently issued a state of emergency. A Google search yields many articles on the topic from most of the major news outlets, such as this current update from the BBC.


The protests are happening in and around the area of the Child Adoption Center. Non-essential government offices have been closed for the time being. The CAC continues to operate at least partially, with workers coming in as they are able. Processing times will likely be much slower until the country's state of affairs improves.
 
I will update you as I receive news. Families who are currently awaiting news specific to their case will be contacted directly as information is received.


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