April 2016
FENG SHUI TO THE RESCUE
A monthly e-magazine to help you rearrange your home, office, and business, shift energy, and transform your life with Feng Shui.

The View From My Feng Shui Window...
With my Aunt Lily.
I experienced two deaths within days of each other this month, first my beloved Aunt Lily and then my dear friend's mom, Sylvia. Both women were family matriarchs, and despite being in their 90s, their deaths are difficult for family and friends. As I sat in the house my aunt had lived in for more than 60 years, I realized I would never return, never see her unique wallpaper, or sit on the carefully-selected furniture, or admire the art objects she had collected on exciting trips around the world - several of which I shared with her.

A house is more than the sum total of the objects within, but I couldn't stop thinking about how I would miss these familiar objects and how complicated it would be for my cousins to deal with these. So I've included tips for dealing with sentimental clutter for this month's "Clutter Clinic."

Years ago I had to close up my father's apartment and deal with my parents' furniture and the objects they had collected. I donated a lot of things and had the rest shipped to a storage unit near my home in another state. Every few days I would go to the unit and bring home a box or two to unpack. I had expected that I would be adding to my collection with my mom's porcelain, silver, and art, because these were all a vivid part of my childhood. But, I found little in each box that I wanted to keep - each item had my mother's touch and related to my parent's life but didn't fit with my own decor or style. Things that seemed perfect to me as a child in reality had chips and cracks. I decided to keep a few representative items, like my mom's needlepoint piano bench, the few cups and saucers from her large collection that I had given to her as birthday gifts, two 1950s silk scarves from my parents' trip to Paris, the demitasse spoons engraved with the name of a famous hotel (your secret is safe with me, Mom). I selected a few of the doilies she had crocheted commuting on the train to see my father when he was in Army basic training. I cut the fabric flower off the dress she wore to my wedding. I donated the rest. In less than three months I could give up the storage unit because it was empty.

Feng Shui was developed in China to help locate family graves in the most auspicious location. The basic rule was "water in front of the grave, mountain behind, and luxuriant plants around," which was supposed to protect the offspring and bring them peace, health, fortune, good luck, and other positive qualities. My aunt joins my parents, uncle, and grandparents in the family plot in a location that comes pretty close to this Feng Shui rule. I'm honored that this location conveys protection and good fortune to the living members of our family.

Carol M. Olmstead, FSIA

Feng Shui Master Practitioner


New In This Issue

The Feng Shui of House Numbers
Is a specific house number really good or bad?
--Feng Shui For All Seasons section

7 Ways to Work Through Sentimental Clutter
It's hard to make choices about what to keep, and even harder when you involve emotions.
--Clutter Clinic section  

Starting A Clearing Ritual 
Pam started a clearing ritual that provided a lesson in humility for all who keep too much stuff.
--Success Story section  

Questions for April
Where to work when a guest occupies your guest room/office, do you always need to buy a red wallet, what to do about tree limbs overhanging your roof.
--Q&A section

Germ Hot Spots
Doormats and other unexpected sources of germs around your house.
--Beyond Feng Shui section 
Stay Connected
Feng Shui For All Seasons 
Feng Shui Tip For April - The Feng Shui of House Numbers
Spring is the season when I get questions from clients who are buying new homes and want to know the best house number to choose. In Feng Shui numerology, all numbers relate to traits and strengths. The origins of Feng Shui are Chinese, and the Chinese meaning of a number is often associated with its pronunciation. This means that Western culture sometimes misinterpret the meaning of numbers.

Is any particular house number especially good or bad? I don't think so. For example, Chinese Feng Shui considers the number 4 unlucky because it sounds like the word "death" in certain dialects. But, the word "four" doesn't have this association for Western cultures. So, if you have this number in your address and you're from a country other than China, try thinking of four as sounding like the word more instead of worrying whether it's unlucky.
 
In analyzing a house number, you first need to reduce the address down to a single digit. For example, in the address 9701 you would add 9+7+0+1 to get a total of 17. Then you would continue to reduce the number by adding 1+7 to get 8 as your final 1-digit number. Apartment dwellers use their unit number rather than the building number.

No matter what numbers are in your address, make sure they are clearly visible from the street so visitors - and positive chi - can find you.

Here are the common Feng Shui interpretations of specific house number, presented for information and fun only. But first, my disclaimer: Based on 18 years of working with clients, I believe that the Feng Shui adjustments to your home are more important than the house or apartment number in helping you attract wealth, harmony, and love.
 
1: Wholeness and Independence.
A house with the number 1 is great if you're starting a new home based business because the number relates to independence and self reliance. This is not the best house number for someone who prefers a crowd or needs to work in a team.  

2: Relationships and Cooperation.
This is a great house number for a newly married or partnered couple because it relates to sharing and cooperation and working as a pair. If you are single and want to stay that way, this number is not your best choice.
 
3: Family and Friends. This house number relates to mother, father, and child.
Number 3 houses attract friends and family and become the hub for gatherings of family and friends. This is not the best choice for people who like to be alone or who don't like excessive activity around them.
 
4: Stability and Grounding.
This number relates to the four seasons. It's a good choice if you like details and taking control. People in this house put their career above everything else and they like DIY projects. This is not the best choice for someone who likes to be around spontaneous people.
 
5: Change and Creativity.
This house is good for spontaneous people who like to make last-minute decisions, especially about travel. This is not the best choice for someone who likes to take time to research all the options before making a decision.
 
6: Emotions.
This house is about the range of emotions - love and joy, anger and sorrow - and the energy from helpful people. There's lots of harmony and balance in this house, and occupants tend to take a lot of care in decorating. This is another house where you won't be comfortable if you prefer to be alone.
 
7: Thoughtfulness and Self-Evaluation. In Chinese the word for 7 sounds like "for sure" and "certainty." This is the house for people who like peace, quiet, and solitude, or who prefer to be alone in their house to pursue creativity passions. This is not the best choice if you prefer to spend your time exploring the world away from your house.
 
8: Abundance and Business Success. The number 8 looks like the infinity symbol, and it's a popular number in Feng Shui because it sounds like the Chinese word for "prosperous growth." This house is for you if you prefer organization. It's also a good house for accumulating material wealth because it's financially and emotionally balanced. This house is usually impressive and others admire it. 

9: Wealth, Accomplishment, Personal Goals. The number 9 is an important number in Chinese Feng Shui because it signifies the fullness of heaven and earth. This is the house for people who like to help others. You'll be open minded if you live in this house, and do community work to help others. 

I live in a "9" house and the description fits. What about you, does your house number resonate with your life? Email me with your thoughts and I'll share them in a future ezine.

Click here to read my article "Numbers in Feng Shui" for more tips.
 
The Clutter Clinic
7 Ways to Work Through Sentimental Clutter
Photo by Christopher Baker
in Real Simple.
While making decisions about what to keep and what to toss is never easy, it can be especially complicated when you have an emotional attachment to the objects. The challenge is to work with the emotion of the process rather than letting it work against you, especially when clearing after the death of a relative or friend. Keeping in mind that in Feng Shui clutter represents "postponed decisions" and the "inability to move forward," here are seven steps to help you work through your sentimental clutter. 
  1. Box It Up. If you're grieving because of a death, downsizing, or in an empty-nest, put things you can't decide about in boxes labeled "Questions," hide them away somewhere, then wait six months before sorting through them. Toss any obvious junk and donate items without any sentimental attachment.
  2. Get Help. It's acceptable to admit you need help from a professional organizer or Feng Shui practitioner to decide what to keep, where to keep it, as well as how to get rid of the rest. Sometimes it's good to have another person in the room for company, especially if you're clearing after the death of a loved one.
  3. Work in Short Intervals. Limit your clearing sessions to several hours rather than one day-long blitz. A fresh, rested mind will help you make smart decisions and avoid "purger's regret." You can find a step-by-step clutter clearing process in the "Clutter Clinic" chapter of the Feng Shui Quick Guide For Home and Office: Secrets For Attracting Wealth, Harmony, and Love.
  4. Take Photos. Take digital images of sentimental things, both to save space and to minimize risk of fading or loss. You can make keepsake books at many online sites to preserve memories, which is especially important for children's artwork.
  5. Save the Best/Toss the Rest. When you have a bulk collection, like every greeting card your mother sent or every one of your child's art projects, try "keeping one to represent many." Pick a favorite and toss the rest.
  6. Give Things a New Home. It's easier to part with beloved objects if you can later see others using them. Ask your relatives and friends if they want your family heirloom items, but be careful when you distribute these. Often, one person's junk is, well, another person's junk.
  7. Know Your ABC's. Your relationship to sentimental items will probably change over time. It's important to Always Be Clearing and accept that it's okay to give yourself permission to let go of things you once cherished. Periodically take a look at what you've kept and toss or donate anything that's become more of a burden than a positive memory.
Click here to read more in the article by Marjorie Ingall in Real Simple magazine.
    
Success Story
Starting a Clearing Ritual
Pam's uplifting message taught me a lesson of humility. She started her clutter clearing to coincide with Lent, but you can choose any notable occasion or holiday to do the same thing.


Here's what Pam wrote: 
I was reading "Feng Shui To The Rescue" this morning, and thought I would share something new I've started just this year. I never really had a spring cleaning ritual, it just happened when it happened. This year I decided I would start during Lent. Even after "moving 27 things" SuccessStoryearlier in the year, I realized that I still had cleaning to do. I decided that each day I will take one item, like clothing, books, movies, jewelry, etc., and put it in a box. At the end of 40 days, I will take the box or boxes and donate them to a church or shelter. If I find more than one item a day, all the better. It's been enlightening to me to realize what I have and don't use or don't need, and how many people are just the opposite. I am in no way so well off that these things don't matter, but I'm so much more blessed than some. I've always donated and helped where I can, but sometimes it takes a change in circumstances to make you remember all those others. I normally don't do anything for Lent, but I felt this would be a good way for me to take a deeper look inward and help others out, and in the process, start my spring cleaning.  
 
I read Pam's email the same day the plumber came to fix the slow leak in my bathroom sink that was driving me nuts (not to mention the negative Feng Shui) and I had to move everything out from the cabinet. What a sobering lesson in accumulating too much - unopened lipstick in the wrong shade, mini-bottles of toiletries from hotels that I always planned to donate but never did, samples of dental floss from the hygienist that aren't the kind I like, and so much more. Sound familiar? I'm lucky to have these things, but reading Pam's story helped me realized that these items would serve a better purpose if I donated them. Nothing happens by accident, does it?

I would love to include YOUR success story in my next book.
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Ask the Feng Shui Maven
Q: Thanks for your ezine, which is very helpful and informative and fun to read. My question is what to do about my home office in the guest bedroom now that we have a guest coming for a 2-month stay? I'm thinking I want to move my laptop and current papers to the unused dining room temporarily. I'm feeling a bit dislocated so maybe there's a Feng Shui fix to help me feel settled in the DR. Also, will the desk and chair left in the guest room with other office stuff bother my guest?

A: The key words in your question are "unused dining room." Since you don't serve meals there that should give you more control over the space. Depending on how open the dining room is to the kitchen and/or family room where everyone gathers, you might need to screen off your work area with a floor screen or standing plants. That way you can symbolically open up your office in the morning by moving the screen and close down for the night by replacing it. It will also help to move as many work-related items as feasible from the office to the dining room to make you feel more settled and less temporary. Is there anyway to use your desk chair in the dining room? Or, considering that you'll be in there for two months, could you actually move the desk in there temporarily? Even if you don't move out the desk and chair, I hope your guest will be thankful for your generous offer of a room for two months and that would more than make up for any small inconvenience of extra furniture. 
 
Q: I wonder every year as I buy my new red wallet if another color in the red family will do the same trick, so this year I broke from the usual and I want to order a HOT pink wallet. I'm not sure how Feng Shui it is, any thoughts?

A: All shades of red are Fire Element colors, including pink, and the mere fact that you used all caps tells me that your pink is a fiery one. Sounds like you're setting the intention to bring in more abundance this year. The color for this Year of the Monkey is blue, which is a Water Element color, but I'm sticking with the Fire Element for mine because there's something about pulling out a red (or HOT pink) wallet that simply feels abundant to me. The fact that you buy a new wallet every year shows you are ready for new wealth. 
 
Q: We have a huge old tree in our backyard that provides wonderful shade, but some limbs are starting to hang over the house. I've heard that's not a good omen in Feng Shui. What do you think?

A: Heavy tree limbs hanging over your roof represent added "weight on your shoulders," so the Feng Shui recommendation is to remove those branches to "lighten your load." It's especially important that no limbs touch your house and that there is plenty of room between the branches and the house. You should consult a professional arborist who will be able to guide you on pruning to keep the tree healthy and your house safe.


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Beyond Feng Shui
The Worst Germ Hot Spots in Your Home
One of the first things I recommend to most clients is to replace their doormat on a regular basis. From a Feng Shui perspective, the doormat helps to attract positive chi to your home, and a faded and worn doormat repels that chi. So it made sense when I read that doormats are not only chi-chasers, but they can also become germ magnets. Check out these germy hot spots shared by www.Care2.com, starting with that dreaded old doormat:
 

Doormats
. According to a study at the University of Arizona and The Rockport Company, 96% of two-week-old shoes had E. coli on the exterior of the shoes, which can cause intestinal and urinary tract infections, high levels of Klebsiella pneumonia, a cause of wound blood infections and pneumonia, and Serratia ficaria, a cause of respiratory infections and wounds.
 
Kitchen Sink and Faucet. According to some estimates, there are over 500,000 bacteria in a typical kitchen sink, which is 1,000 times more than the bacteria in an average toilet. The damp aeration end of the faucet is particularly prone to bacterial buildup, which over time can form a wall of pathogens known as a biofilm that sticks to the screen and can become big enough to eventually break off into your food or dishes.
 
Dishcloths and Sponges. Dishcloths, dishtowels, and sponges are frequently contaminated with Staphylococcus aureus, which can cause life-threatening infections. You can microwave sponges to kill bacteria, and change dish towels frequently. 
 
Soap Dispensers. A study in the Journal of Food Protection reports finding norovirus on surprising surfaces including many soap dispensers. Sounds ironic, but it's true. 
 
Vacuum Cleaners. According to a study published in The Journal of the Royal Society for the Promotion of Health in England, vacuum cleaners can collect, harbor, and spread bacteria every time you vacuum, a possible source of gastrointestinal infection.
 
Reusable Shopping Bags. According to research by the Department of Soil, Water, and Environmental Science at the University of Arizona, reusable grocery bags are frequently contaminated by E. coli and other bacteria. Researchers recommend cleaning reusable bags weekly and separating raw foods from other food products in separate bags.

Click here to read the complete list, and then come up with a Feng Shui clutter clearing plan to combat these hot spots. 


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IFSGstead, FSIA, was certified by the Feng Shui Institute of America and earned Red Ribbon Professional Status from the International Feng Shui Guild.


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