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August 2013
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 When Good People Do Bad Things :TV interview of Dr. Zimbardo on Dr. Phil.  Orgasms: Art and Psyche an art book by Nikita Duncan with Dr. Zimbardo's intro & my preface.  

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FEM Talks 2013     

  

Greetings!

 

For all of us, but especially for women, sex can represent both pleasure and pain, positive and negative experiences, powerlessness and personal power. 

 

Sometimes this confusing cocktail of experiences and emotions can evoke a sense of embarrassment and even shame. We might find ourselves laughing at sexual humor when inside we are feeling a sense of revulsion. Or perhaps in our eagerness to experiment, we have encountered more frustration than satisfaction. And for many of us, our desire to please our partner can take us places which don't feel completely aligned with our preferences and desires.
 
How can we find our own truth when it comes to sex? And how can sex bring us more joy and enjoyment? If we choose to abstain from sexual interaction, can we still feel fully alive and engaged in the human journey? And if orgasms are eluding us, is it possible to find our way to fulfillment regardless of our partner's willingness or ability? 

 

Tomorrow, I will be providing very specific solutions to each of these concerns at the woman-only FEM Talks event in Oakland, California. Please join me and find out how easy it can be to eliminate sexual shame and embody your personal vision of the Divine Feminine.

 

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 Cultivating Sacred Sex:

 Embracing the Profane and Opening to the Profound  

 

"Experience the fun and self expression of a networking event, the learning and transformation of a seminar and the depth and connection of a women's circle." ~ Jessica Hadari, Founder of FEM Talks - Alliance of Women Leaders, Healers, & Educators

 

Monday, August 12th
from 6:30PM to 10PM

  

East Bay Philanthropic Community Conference Center

Oakland City Center
Frank H. Ogawa Plaza

Building 353 

@ 16th St. & San Pablo Ave. Oakland, CA 94612

 



"Explosive Sexual Healing: How to use G-Spot Orgasm to Attract Love, Prosperity, and Purpose"      
Jennifer Rode - Co-founder of Explosive Sexual Healing, Reiki Master Teacher, Author

"Yes Right Now! Better Sex Through Body Love" 
Virgie Tovar, MA Human Sexuality - Body Image Expert & Editor of Hot & Heavy: Fierce Fat Girls on Life, Love and Fashion

"Living in Deep Turn On and Sensation"
Shara Ogin - Somatic Therapist, Speaker, and Coach

"Healing the Divine Feminine: Moving from Sexual Shame to Sexual Freedom"

Veronica Monet, ACS, CAM - Sexologist, Anger Management Specialist and Radio Host 

 

 
During Veronica's talk we will:
* Identify the many ways The Whore/Madonna Dichotomy effects You and Your Life.
* Learn Three Ways to Create Safety and Empowerment.
* Discover Four Powerful Techniques for Supercharging Your Sexual Enjoyment.
 
Plus a FREE Raffle giveaway! 

(1) Free Copy of Orgasms for Life (PDF and Power Point with cutting edge information your doctor doesn't know! Contains diagrams and explicit video!)

(2) Free copy of my woman-produced explicit DVD: Erotic Diaries and 

(3) for this night only, 50% off your first hour in Veronica's Shame Free Zone! ($100 Value!)

  

 Register now!

 

  FEM Talks is a monthly salon for women!

Lawford book on addiction
What do I say about Sex Addiction and Sexual Shame in Christopher Kennedy Lawford's brand new book?  
 
More than 150 of the world's top experts, including yours truly, were interviewed by Lawford iRecover to Live. Together we share our perspectives on how you can determine if your bad habit is becoming a dependency. Many experts and thought leaders are praising this exhaustive resource on addiction and recovery including:
 
Dr. Patrick Carnes, the man who invented the term sex addiction, says this book "unmasks the variety of ways addiction is our number one public health problem."
 
Marianne Williamson, New York Times Bestselling Author, says "Recover to Live provides a helping hand to anyone whose life or loved one has been hurt by [addiction]."

 

Amazon Price: $17.79

 

 
Brand New Podcast about the Evolution of Morality!


  

Check out the latest additions to my growing library of free educational podcasts on The Shame Free Zone and available at Sex Talk Radio Network as well as iTunes

 

The Myths and Realities of Sex Addiction and Sexual Shame
Rachel Wotton stars in The Scarlet Road

Sex Positive Parenting with Susie Bright

Deborah Anapol: The Mother of Modern Polyamory

The Divine Feminine with Caroline Muir

NY Times Bestselling Author, Christopher Ryan: Is Monogamy Dead?

One Woman's Story of Rape

 

And now you can enjoy Sex Talk Radio Network on Stitcher as well as iTunes. Check out The Shame Free Zone on both  iTunes and Sex Talk Radio Network.

 

 

Readers Respond

 

 

Hi Veronica,

 

I was just reading your newsletter about the Suzy Hamilton story.  When I first saw the headline in the paper a few weeks ago about a famous athlete being outed as a former escort, I thought, "Jesus, here we go again.  Here's the latest high profile person who's going to suffer public humiliation for making a personal choice that doesn't fit into American culture's suffocatingly narrow version of normal.  Now the only thing to watch for is whether she's going to apologize for it."  Yup, shame wins out again.  We watch this again and again practically on a weekly basis.  

 

Occasionally, someone refuses to apologize and I can practically feel the focus and inner strength that person has to exert in order not to wither in the face of the collective judgment.  It's always very inspiring to me when I can witness that. 

So, thanks for keeping the discussion going on shame and its many faces, because if we don't talk about it, it just increases its ability to control our behavior without us even knowing it.

 

Take care,

James

 

 

Note To My Amazing Readers and Clients:

If you wish to share your perspectives and success stories, you can do so anonymously!  Have you realized inspiring progress in your relationship? Are you feeling less burdened by shame? Please consider sharing with others so they might benefit too. Email me with your story. Your privacy is assured.

 

As an Empathy Expert, I teach couples who don't communicate much or argue too much, to connect with understanding, compassion and erotic passion. Over time, most couples stop connecting at the heart level and this can make sex mediocre at best as well as contribute to frequent friction and feelings of irritation or disappointment. I reconnect couples at the heart level utilizing deep empathic and intuitive skills as well as powerful role plays and communication techniques. Most couples experience dramatic positive changes subsequent to their first hour long session in The Shame Free Zone.  

 

Email me or text 415.407.2932 to learn more. 

 


Sincerely,

Veronica Monet, ACS, CAM
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