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 When Good People Do Bad Things :TV interview of Dr. Zimbardo on Dr. Phil. Orgasms: Art and Psyche an art book by Nikita Duncan with Dr. Zimbardo's intro & my preface.  

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Would Strangers Help You If You Needed Help? Would You Help a Stranger?

   

Human Generosity     

  

Greetings!

 

 

When Barbara Garcia's home was flattened by this month's tornado in Moore, Oklahoma, she was left homeless.  She didn't have homeowner's insurance, her daughter's house likewise had been destroyed, and the entire contents of her home had been devastated.

 

But Barbara Garcia was not so concerned about all her worldly possessions. Instead she just wanted to find the body of her best friend, Bowser. Waiting for the tornado's approach, Barbara had been sitting on the toilet in her bathroom holding her dog, Bowser, in her lap. But the force of the tornado not only ripped the toilet out of the floor heaving Barbara into the air, it also ripped Bowser from her embrace separating the two and burying Barbara under a pile of rubble. Scratched and shaken, Barbara managed to crawl out from under the rubble just as a camera crew arrived on the scene. While the cameras were rolling, Barbara recounted the story of how she was separated from her little dog. As if on cue, Bowser's little nose peaked from under the remains of their home and as Barbara bent down to retrieve her best friend, she paused to say "Thank you God."

 

As remarkable and heart-warming as this story is, that is not where it ends. Erin DeRuggiero, a total stranger living in another state, was so moved by Barbara and Bowser's story that she launched a Go Fund Me page to raise money for their new home. DeRuggiero explains: "Barbara could have been my mother, my grandmother, my neighbor or my friend. I was shattered upon seeing her home destroyed, her recounting her experience and her joy upon seeing that her dog had survived it all. My goal is to ease her recovery, raise enough money to help her start to rebuild or relocate her life, and above all else, to show her that 'life in the big city' also means helping one another, even from 1500 miles away."

 

You might think this is the end of this touching tale, but there is more. Not only did DeRuggiero exhibit empathy and generosity, but the many people donating money for Barbara and Bowser are illustrating that at least some strangers are motivated to help other strangers in need. In just ten days 1,313 people have donated over $54,000! 

 

Many of us have been told that it is a "dog eat dog" world based upon "natural selection" and "survival of the fittest." But is it possible that this view does not accurately reflect the diversity of human behavior?  Is it even an accurate assessment of dog behavior?  Rare is the dog, after all, that would ever eat another dog . . . 

 

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Evalena Rose Kelly Bryson Carol Queen

 

 Sex Peace: Tools for a Sexually Healthy New Culture 

 

Innovators in the world of Sex and Non-Violence Come Together for a Night of Sharing

 

 

 Friday, June 28, 2013

5:00PM for Potluck

7:00PM Program begins and goes to 11:00PM

  

Center for Sex and Culture

1349 Mission Street

 San Francisco, CA

(at Grace Alley between 9th and 10th Streets)

 

Suggested Donation $25-$100

No one turned away for lack of funds

 

  Interactive presentation by Kelly Bryson, MA, MFT  

Author of Don't be Nice, Be Real

 

 Emceed by Carol Queen, PhD

Chief Cultural Officer at Good Vibrations

 

 Heart Connections with Evalena Rose, MA

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra Coach

 

 Special appearance by Veronica Monet, ACS, CAM

Certified Sexologist & Sexual Empowerment Activist  

 

 

This is an opportunity to dress fun, dress up, dress sexy, lingerie is encouraged.    

 

 

Kelly's interactive presentation will focus on The New Freer Love and Building Sacred Matrix Community, through Tribal Technologies like:

  

* Nonviolent Communication (NVC)  * Raising F.R.E.D. (Frequency Resonation Energy Dynamic or the group 'field' energy)  * 7 min. connections  * The Zegg Forum Psychodrama Performance Process - * Liberating Love and Sexuality as the Theme  * Creating SexPeace - Ending the war between the sexes   * Next Culture Maps of Consciousness    

 


Veronica's special presentation will invite you to enter her 
Shame Free Zone and discover your Antidote to a Mean World by exploring how the "love hormone" and "anger management" techniques can create deeper orgasms and more fulfilling emotional intimacy in your romantic relationships. One lucky couple will be invited to role play a conflict into a heart connection! 

 

Evalena will lead us in a heart-centered Puja that allows us to experience the Alchemy of Love. She will guide us in individual exchanges that are fulfilling, pleasurable, and sacred. From movement to soul gazing, to honoring sensual contact, these Pujas fulfill many needs for intimacy and leave people happy and feeling loved. A sweet and delight-filled way to complete the evening.

 

    

To get your ticket & learn more, visit: http://languageofcompassion.com/sexpeace/

 

  This benefit is to help sexual empowerment and non-violent activist, Samantha Miller, who due to a prolonged illness and hip replacement surgery has run out of money and lost her apartment.  Proceeds will help Samantha get into a new apartment. For more information on Samantha's situation visit her Go Fund Me Page 

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What do I say about Sex Addiction and Sexual Shame in Christopher Kennedy Lawford's brand new book?  
 
More than 150 of the world's top experts, including yours truly, were interviewed by Lawford iRecover to Live. Together we share our perspectives on how you can determine if your bad habit is becoming a dependency. Many experts and thought leaders are praising this exhaustive resource on addiction and recovery including:
 
Dr. Patrick Carnes, the man who invented the term sex addiction, says this book "unmasks the variety of ways addiction is our number one public health problem."
 
Marianne Williamson, New York Times Bestselling Author, says "Recover to Live provides a helping hand to anyone whose life or loved one has been hurt by [addiction]."

 

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Brand New Podcast about the Evolution of Morality!


  

Check out the latest additions to my growing library of free educational podcasts on The Shame Free Zone and available at Sex Talk Radio Network as well as iTunes

 

The Myths and Realities of Sex Addiction and Sexual Shame
Rachel Wotton stars in The Scarlet Road

Sex Positive Parenting with Susie Bright

Deborah Anapol: The Mother of Modern Polyamory

The Divine Feminine with Caroline Muir

NY Times Bestselling Author, Christopher Ryan: Is Monogamy Dead?

One Woman's Story of Rape

 

And now you can enjoy Sex Talk Radio Network on Stitcher as well as iTunes. Check out The Shame Free Zone on both  iTunes and Sex Talk Radio Network.

 

 

Readers Respond

 

 

I was feeling alone, confused and in dire need of clarity about a sexual issue I was confronting.  Veronica did what I thought was impossible.  She quickly established trust, got to the heart of the matter, then lovingly provided hope, insight, laser-sharp wisdom and spot-on information.   After our telephone session, she followed up with a supportive email and some suggested reading.   I felt 1000% better immediately and now have the tools I need to successfully explore my sexuality in the future.  I will always be grateful to Veronica for dedicating her life to helping others to achieve maximum fulfillment in their intimate lives.   

Mark

  

 

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If you wish to share your perspectives and success stories, you can do so anonymously!  Have you realized inspiring progress in your relationship? Are you feeling less burdened by shame? Please consider sharing with others so they might benefit too. Email me with your story. Your privacy is assured.

 

As an Empathy Expert, I teach couples who don't communicate much or argue too much, to connect with understanding, compassion and erotic passion. Over time, most couples stop connecting at the heart level and this can make sex mediocre at best as well as contribute to frequent friction and feelings of irritation or disappointment. I reconnect couples at the heart level utilizing deep empathic and intuitive skills as well as powerful role plays and communication techniques. Most couples experience dramatic positive changes subsequent to their first hour long session in The Shame Free Zone.  

 

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